第一篇：两分钟的英语演讲稿
两分钟的英语演讲稿
i'lltellyouanexperienceofmyselfhappenedlastweek.lastthursdayourschoolwastacklingsomethingaboutwokingfoustudy.iwantedtohaveatryeventhoughiknewthesalarywassolowandihadlittlechance,becausethestudentswhohadthecertificatewerealwaysthoughttohaveprioritytogetthejob.fortunatelyiwascalledatnoonandateachersaidtomethatshewantedmetoworkforherandaskedificouldchangemymind.atthatmomentiwassoexcitedthatimmediatelyiacceptedheridea.butlateron,shefoundmethati'mnotastudent,soihadlittlechanceandsuggestmetogetone.thenanideaoccurredtomethaticouldcallmyfatherandaskhimtosendmetheletter.atthesametimeiwastoldthatiwasadmittedtothejobanddon'tneedthecertificate.thattimeiforgottoremindmyfather,untilthenextdayhecalledmethathehadposteditanditwouldarriveinjustoneday.atthatmomentiwasmoved,andevenmovedintotears,becauseiknewmyfatherwasinjurednotlongbefore,theprocessofhelpingmewiththeaffairswasnotsoconvenientforhim.buthetriedhisbesttohelpme.sometimeswemaycomplainaboutunsatisfyingthingsaroundus,andblamethemonourparents,sometimesthey'llbeangrywithus,andsometimeswecan'tquiteunderstandwhattheyarethinkingabout.butonbalance,almosteveryparentisselflesstohisorherchild.theyarereadytooffereverythingtouswhenweareinbadsituation.weusedtosharingsorrowwiththem,butdonotforgettoshareourhappinesswiththem,perhapstheywillbemuchhappierthanweare.sofromnowon,let'scaremoreaboutourparentsanddonotleavepitytothem.that'swhatiwanttotellyoutoday.thankyou!
第二篇：学生两分钟英语演讲稿
学生两分钟英语演讲稿
Good morning everyone, today is my turn to the speech.First of all, I would like to say that a quick test, we hope that the good preparation, good test for all, is the only way home for a good year.My English is not high, I wish I could within the next two years to learn English well.I hope you will be able to learn English after graduation to have a good future.Finally, I wish the students and teachers a happy new year, further study and work.Well!I finished the speech.Thank you for listening。
大家早上好，今天是轮到我讲话。首先，我要说的是，快速测试，我们希望很好的准备，良好的测试的所有，是唯一回家的路上有一个良好的一年。我的英语水平不高，我希望我能在未来两年内学好英语。我希望，你将能够学习英语毕业后有一个美好的未来。最后，我祝愿学生和教师的快乐新的一年里，进一步研究和工作。好!我完成了讲话。谢谢你听。
第三篇：两分钟英语演讲稿
两分钟英语演讲稿
演讲稿一：两分钟英语演讲稿
Ladies and Gentlemen, Good morning!I’m very glad to stand here and give you a short speech.Man’s life is a process of growing up, actually I’m standing here is a growth.If a person’s life must constituted by various choices, then I grow up along with these choices.Once I hope I can study in a college in future, however that’s passed, as you know I come here, now I wonder what the future holds for me.When I come to this school, I told to myself: this my near future, all starts here.Following I will learn to become a man, a integrated man, who has a fine body, can take on important task, has independent thought, an open mind, intensive thought, has the ability to judge right and wrong, has a perfect job.??
Once my teacher said :” you are not sewing, you are stylist;never forget which you should lay out to people is your thought, not craft.” I will put my personality with my interest and ability into my study, during these process I will combine learning with doing.If I can achieve this “future”, I think that I really grow up.And I deeply believe kindred, good-fellowship and love will perfection and happy in the future.??
How to say future? Maybe it’s a nice wish.Lets make up our minds, stick to it and surely well enjoy our life.演讲稿二：两分钟英语演讲稿
Good morning, my dear teachers and friends!My name is Li Binge, from class four O five.Today, I am very happy to be here.My topic is “Our School”.My dear friends, welcome to our school!My school is very beautiful!It has a big playground.We can play and do some sports there.Near the playground, there is a garden.Many trees and flowers are there.So the air is very clean and we can hear birds singing in the trees.It is so wonderful.Our teaching buildings are around the garden and look like our teachers’ arms to welcome us.We can draw pictures in the art room on the first floor and read story-books in the library on the second floor.My classroom is on the third floor.It is clean and bright.We like to study in it.The computer room is on the fifth floor.We can sing and dance in the music room on the sixth floor.What a lot of fun!We can have lunch in the canteen near Defang Teaching Building.In our school, our teachers work hard and help us with our lessons.We study hard and listen to teachers carefully.After class, our teachers play with us and we feel very happy.Our school is so nice and our teachers are so kind.We all love them.Dear friends, do you like them?That's all.Thanks!演讲稿三：两分钟英语演讲稿
The environment of the world has been damaged by the human beings for so many years without much recent years,however,more and more nations have begun to preserve the environment as they have realized the importance of it.The nature has given us so much,but look at what we have done in return for its upon thousands of trees have been cut down,including some precious species.Numerous rivers and lakes have been drained only to set up modern buildings.Priceless wildlife has turned into delicious dishes on the air is being befouled by the smoke from the chimneys of the plants...All this irritates the nature ,which results in the shortage
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resources,air lands
becoming pollution,countless deserts，many countries have got to know the seriousness of the problem and take active measures to preserve the sincerely hope that all the peo;le in the world willtake part in the campaign and join hands to protect the nature.演讲稿四：两分钟英语演讲稿
There was a man who had seven sons, but he had no daughter, greatly though he longed for one.At last his wife told him that they could again expect a child and, sure enough, when it was born it was a baby girl.There was great rejoicing, but the child was weak and puny, so weak that it had to be christened at once.The father told one of the boys to go quickly to the spring and fetch christening water;the other six ran along with him, and because each of them wanted to be the first to dip the jug into the well, it fell in and sank.So there they stood and didn't know what to do, and none of them dared go home.When they didn't come back their father got impatient and said:“ I'll wager they've been playing some game again and forgotten all about it, the godless brats.” He was afraid the little girl would have to die unbaptized, and in his rage he cried out:“ I wish those boys would all turn into ravens.” He'd scarcely spoken the words when he heard a whirring of wings in the air overhead, looked up and saw seven coal-black ravens flying away.
第四篇：励志英语演讲稿两分钟
2分钟励志英语演讲稿
演讲稿一：2分钟励志英语演讲稿 ladies and gentlemen , good afternoon!im very glad to stand here and give you a short speech.today my topic is youth.i hope you will like it , and found the importance in your youth so that more cherish it.first i want to ask you some questions:
1、do you know what is youth?
2、how do you master your youth? youth youth is not a time of life, it is a state of mind;it is not rosy cheeks , red lips and supple knees, it is a matter of the emotions : it is the freshness;it is the freshness of the deep springs of life.youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity of the appetite , for adventure over the love of ease.this often exists in a man of 60 more than a boy of 20.nobody grows old merely by a number of years.we grow old by deserting our ideals.years wrinkle the skin , but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.worry , fear , self –distrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.whether 60 of 16 , there is in every human being s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of whats next and the joy of the game of living.in the center of your heart and my heart theres a wireless station : so long as it receives messages of beauty , hope ,cheer, courage and power from men and from the infinite, so long as you are young.when the aerials are down , and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you are grown old ,even at 20 , but as long as your aerials are up ,to catch waves of optimism , there is hope you may die young at 80.thank you!演讲稿二：2分钟励志英语演讲稿 years.its very happy and significant.then i have a dream.i want to join the university student volunteers go west programe.i think i can be a teacher in the west.i want to try my best to help them and help me.i want to see the world cearly.now i cant reach its demand and its very diffcult,but 演讲稿三：2分钟励志英语演讲稿 saying goodbye to childhood,we step into another important time in the pace of young,facing new situations,dealing with different problems.....everyone has his ownunderstanding of young,it is a period of time of beauty and wonders,only after you have having a view on these great men in the history of hunmanbeing,they all made full use of their youth time ,to do things that are useful to society,to the whole mankind,and as a cosquence ,they are remembered by later generations,admired by everyone.so do something in the time of young,although you may not get achievements as these greatmen did ,though not for the whole word,just for youeself,for those around!the young is just like blooming flowers,they are so beautiful when blooming,they make people feel happy,but with time passing by,after they withers ,moet people think they are ugly.and so it is the same with young,we are enthusiastic when we are young,then we may lose our passion when getting older and older.so we must treasure it ,dont let the limitted time pass by ,leaving nothing of significance.篇二：三分钟英语励志演讲稿
三分钟英语励志演讲稿
演讲稿一：三分钟英语励志演讲稿 good afternoon，ladies and gentlemen！im very honored to stand here and give you a short speech!to begin with ,i want to ask a question.does everybody dream a good dream last night? actually ,today i want to talk about dream with you.of course, what i want to talk is not a dream you have last night,but a dream—— about life.everyone has dreams about life, different dreams at different life stage,and we need dreams to support us.dreams are like the stars we never reach in the sky,but like most mariners（水手）,we can chart our course by them.with the dream,we have a direction,with a direction, we were no longer confused.with the dream, there is hope,with hope, we have the strength to fight.my breath swallows the sky and make the yellow river overflow, my sword is famous in kyushu and it can collapse the five sacred mountains.at some time in the past i also had am bitious words and i had some achievements.each achievement results from my hard work.i always believe that if you want to have more achievements than others, you must work harder.hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly.hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow.so my dear friends, think of your old and maybe dead dreams.whatever it is, pick it up and make it alive from today.lets---move----out!thank you for your listening!演讲稿二：三分钟英语励志演讲稿——catch the star catch the star that holds your destiny, the one that forever twinkles w ithin your heart.accept the fact that not ev eryone is going to approve of the choices youve made.have faith in your judgment.catch the star that twinkles in your heart and it will lead you t o your destinys path.value your capabilities and talents for they are what make you truly unique.the greatest gifts in life are not purchased, but acquired through hard work and determination.演讲稿三：三分钟英语励志演讲稿——we are the world ,we are the future someone said we are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a book, whose pages are infinite.i dont know who wrote these words, but ive always liked them as a reminder that the future can be anything we want it to be.we are all in the position of the farmers.if we plant a good seed ,we reap a good harvest.if we plant nothing at all, we harvest nothing at all.we are young.how to spend the youth? it is a meaningful question.to answer it, first i have to ask what do you understand by the word youth? youth is not a time of life, its a state of mind.its not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips or supple knees.its the matter of the will.its the freshness of the deep spring of life.a poet said to see a world in a grain of sand, and a heaven in a wild flower, hold infinity in the palm of your hand, and eternity in an hour.several days ago, i had a chance to listen to a lecture.i learnt a lot there.id like to share it with all of you.lets show our right palms.we can see three lines that show how our love.career and life is.i have a short line of life.what about yours? i wondered whether we could see our future in this way.well, lets make a fist.where is our future? where is our love, career, and life? tell me.yeah, it is in our hands.it is held in ourselves.we all want the future to be better than the past.but the future can go better itself.dont cry because it is over, smile because it happened.from the past, weve learnt that the life is tough, but we are tougher.weve learnt that we cant choose how we feel, but we can choose what about it.failure doesnt mean you dont have it, it does mean you should do it in a different way.failure doesnt mean you should give up, it does mean you must try harder.as what i said at the beginning, we are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a book, whose pages are infinite.the past has gone.nothing we do will change it.but the future is in front of us.believe that what we give to the world, the world will give to us.and from today on, lets be the owners of ourselves, and speak out we are the world, we are the future.篇三：英语演讲稿(带翻译)_励志·哲理 3分钟
we are the world ,we are the future someone said “we are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a book, whose pages are infinite”.i don?t know who wrote these words, but i?ve always liked them as a reminder that the future can be anything we want it to be.we are all in the position of the farmers.if we plant a good seed ,we reap a good harvest.if we plant nothing at all, we harvest nothing at all.we are young.“how to spend the youth?” it is a meaningful question.to answer it, first i have to ask “what do you understand by the word youth?” youth is not a time of life, it?s a state of mind.it?s not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips or supple knees.it?s the matter of the will.it?s the freshness of the deep spring of life.youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity of the appetite , for adventure over the love of ease.this often exists in a man of 60 more than a boy of 20.nobody grows old merely by a number of years.we grow old by deserting our ideals.years wrinkle the skin , but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.worry , fear , self –distrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.whether 60 of 16 , there is in every human being ?s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what?s next and the joy of the game of living.in the center of your heart and my heart there?s a wireless station : so long as it receives messages of beauty , hope ,cheer, courage and power from men and from the infinite, so long as you are young.a poet said “to see a world in a grain of sand, and a heaven in a wild flower, hold infinity in the palm of your hand, and eternity in an hour.several days ago, i had a chance to listen to a lecture.i learnt a lot there.i?d like to share it with all of you.let?s show our right palms.we can see three lines that show how our love.career and life is.i have a short line of life.what about yours? i wondered whether we could see our future in this way.well, let?s make a fist.where is our future? where is our love, career, and life? tell me.yeah, it is in our hands.it is held in ourselves.we all want the future to be better than the past.but the future can go better itself.don?t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.from the past, we?ve learnt that the life is tough, but we are tougher.we?ve learnt that we can?t choose how we feel, but we can choose what about it.failure doesn?t mean you don?t have it, it does mean you should do it in a different way.failure doesn?t mean you should give up, it does mean you must try harder.as what i said at the beginning, “we are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a book, whose pages are infinite”.the past has gone.nothing we do will change it.but the future is in front of us.believe that what we give to the world, the world will give to us.and from today on, let?s be the owners of ourselves, and speak out “we are the world, we are the future.”篇四：3分钟励志英语演讲稿 3分钟励志英语演讲稿
演讲稿一：3分钟励志英语演讲稿 you will no longer fear making new sounds, showing new facial expressions, using your body in new ways,approaching new people, and asking new questions.you will live every single day of your life with absolute passion, and you will show your passion through the words you speak and the actions you take.you will focus all your time and effort on the most important goals of your life.you will never succumb to challenges of hardships.you will never waver in your pursuit of excellence.after all,you are the best, and you deserve the best!as your coach and friend, i can assure you the door to all the best things in the world will open to you, but the key to that door is in your hand.you must do your part, you must faithfully follow the plans you make and take the actions you plan, you must never quit, you must never fear.i know you must do it, you can do it, you will do it, and you will succeed!now stand firm and tall, make a fist, get excited, and yell it out: i must do it!i can do it!i will do it!i will succeed!i must do it!i can do it!i will do it!i will succeed!i must do it!i can do it!i will do it!i will succeed!演讲稿二：3分钟励志英语演讲稿 english is a useful language all over the world.why are we began to learn english when we were little children? beacause it is very important for us to learn it.in the world, if you cannot speak english you will lose half a chance to success.i began to learn english when i was 8 years old.at that moment,i do not like english.i connot remember all the words which i have learnt.i think it is very difficult for me to learn it well.so i cannot read english loudly and i never answer the questions in the english classes.now, i like english very well and i still use the ways he tells me.i know i must learn english even hard.演讲稿三：3分钟励志英语演讲稿 we should learn to stick to our life no matter how difficult the life is and we should learn to love others.it is the flim tellsx me.it is a story talks about a black girl named precious.precious isx fat and not beautiful.her bad temped mother never workx, always cheated others to relieve her ,and atex while watching tv all day.what is worse ,precious was only 16,but she had pregnant for twice.out of assumption ,her child is her farther s child.living in this life ,she alawys imagine to avoid facing her life.fortunately,with the help and careneof the teacher and doctor ,her life became not so bad.precious has a tough life ,and if she gives up her life and does not join the adult education ,she will not meet the teacher and her life may not be changed.when we xfaced with the difficulty x,avoidingx is not a good way for us.it can not solve the problems.what we need to do is that analying the cause and trying to changed our place.so we should be brave and face the trap directly.the film also teachs us to love others.precious is someone who may exit near us.if precious own a good family and some friends,she may not fell so despaired.in spite of the development of our world ,there still many people suject misfortune.love and help can make them fell better ,so we should not scant our love.演讲稿四：3分钟励志英语演讲稿 international trade.if we can speak english well，we will have more chance to succeed.because more and more people have taken notice of it，the number of the people who go to learn english has increased at a high speed.but for myself，i learn english not only because of its importance and its usefulness，but also because of my love for it.when i learn english，i can feel a different way of thinking which gives me more room to touch the world.when i read english novels，i can feel the pleasure from the book which is different from reading the translation.when i speak english，i can feel the confident from my words.when i write english，i can see the beauty which is not the same as our chinese...i love english，it gives me a colorful dream.i hope i can travel around the world one day.with my good english，i can make friends with many people from different contries.i can see many places of great intrests.i dream that i can go to london，because it is the birth place of english.i also want to use my good english to introduce our great places to the english spoken people，i hope that they can love our country like us.i know，rome was not built in a day.i believe that after continuous hard study，one day i can speak english very well.if you want to be loved，you should learn to love and be lovable.so i believe as i love english everyday，it will love me too.i am sure that i will realize my dream one day!篇五：英语励志演讲稿范文 英语励志演讲稿范文(一)ladies and gentlemen , good afternoon!i‘m very glad to stand here and give you a short speech.today my topic is ―youth‖.i hope you will like it , and found the importance in your youth so that more cherish it.first i want to ask you some questions:
1、do you know what is youth?
2、how do you master your youth? youth youth is not a time of life, it is a state of mind;it is not rosy cheeks , red lips and supple knees, it is a matter of the emotions : it is the freshness;it is the freshness of the deep springs of life.youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity of the appetite , for adventure over the love of ease.this often exists in a man of 60 more than a boy of 20.nobody grows old merely by a number of years.we grow old by deserting our ideals.years wrinkle the skin , but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.worry , fear , self –distrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust.whether 60 of 16 , there is in every human being ?s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what‘s next and the joy of the game of living.in the center of your heart and my heart there‘s a wireless station : so long as it receives messages of beauty , hope ,cheer, courage and power from men and from the infinite, so long as you are young.when the aerials are down , and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you are grown old ,even at 20 , but as long as your aerials are up ,to catch waves of optimism , there is hope you may die young at 80.thank you!英语励志演讲稿范文(二)good evening , ladies and gentlemen.i am joy and glad to give you a speech about stress , yes , just the topic you see on the screen.psychologist tell us that stress is a state of worry caused by the problem of living , such as too much work or study , heavy responsibilities , and quickened pace of life.英语演讲稿开头
尊敬的评委，尊贵的来宾，女士们，先生们，大家晚上好!能够站在这里进行演说，我感到十分荣幸。今天我将和大家一起分享??honorable judges,distinguished guests,ladies and gentlemen,good evening!i feel really honored to stand here and make a speech.today im going to look together with you into this question:?? ：good morning everybody!its my honor to speak here,and i am very glad to share my topic with you.then today id like to talk something about......(大家早上好!能在这里做此次演讲我十分荣幸，也很高兴能跟大家一起分享我的主题，今天我想演讲的是......)(译文：女士们，先生们，大家晚上好!欢迎来到05级英语演讲比赛的现常首先，请允许我来个自我介绍。我是今晚的主持人—来自05级6班的典典。)(译文：角逐今晚比赛的有26名选手,他们均来自外院05级的同学。此次比赛我们邀请到了五名评委，五名评委中有两名是“提问员”，这两名“提问员”将对每位选手进行提问。好的，我很荣幸地向大家介绍一下我们的五位评委。微笑状~)(译文：女士们，先生们，她们是刘老师，欢迎!骆老师，欢迎!?好的，介绍完我们的评委之后，让我们来看看今天的比赛规则吧。微笑状~)each of the contestants has 3 minutes to present a prepared speech and 2 minutes to answer questions raised by the judges.(译文：每位选手要进行3分钟的命题演讲和2分钟的回答。)during the prepared speech, a staff member will raise a yellow board as a signal that there is half a minute left.then, at the end of 3minutes, a red board will be raised to let the speaker know that the time has run out.so, please raise the red board.thank you!(译文：在命题演讲环节，在选手的演讲时间还剩下半分钟的时候，我们的工作人员将会举一块黄颜色的牌子示意。当3分钟时间一到，我们的工作人员会举一块红色的牌子示意时间已到。现在，工作人员示意一下下。谢谢!微笑状~)now the topic for today’s prepared speech is “olympic games, beijing 2008”.(译文：今天的命题演讲的题目是：北京2008奥运会。)ladies and gentlemen, the top four winners today will be able to attend the college final to be held on november 3rd.(译文：女士们，先生们，今晚比赛的前四名选手将可以参加11月3号晚上的院里的决赛。)(译文：现在，让我们有请1号选手。微笑状~)(译文：谢谢1号选手的演讲。接下来，让我们有请我们的2号选手。微笑状~)(译文：谢谢我们的2号选手。女士们，先生们，下面我宣布1号选手的最后得分是：86.6分。恭喜!接下来，让我们有请我们的3号选手。微笑状~)(译文：现在，让我们稍作休息等待比赛的最终结果。在这段时间里，让我们有请刘老师来给本次比赛作个点评。欢迎!微笑状~)(译文：女士们，先生们，欢迎回来。您现在看到的是外院2005级英语演讲比赛。经过我们评委老师的讨论之后，激动人心的时刻到了。兴奋状~)(译文：首先，我要宣布的是本次比赛的第一名。女士们，先生们，本次比赛的第一名就是我们的9号选手。让我们以热烈的掌声欢迎她上台领奖。微笑状~)but for myself,i learn english not only because of its importance and its usefulness,but also because of my love for it.when i learn english, i can feel a different way of thinking which gives me more room to touch the world.when i read english novels,i can feel the pleasure from the book which is different from reading the translation.when i speak english, i can feel the confident from my words.when i write english,i can see the beauty which is not the same as our chinese...i love english,it gives me a colorful dream.i hope i can travel around the world one day.with my good english, i can make friends with many people from different contries.i can see many places of great intrests.i dream that i can go to london,because it is the birth place of english.i also want to use my good english to introduce our great places to the english spoken people,i hope that they can love our country like us.i know, rome was not built in a day.i believe that after continuous hard study, one day i can speak english very well.if you want to be loved, you should learn to love and be lovable.so i believe as i love english everyday , it will love me too.i am sure that i will realize my dream one day!thank you!亲爱的老师，同学们：
我很高兴可以在这个课堂上做一次演讲。这一次，我想谈谈英语。我的话题是我爱英语。
正如每个人所知，英语在今天十分重要。它已经被应用到世界的各个角落。它已经成为商业上最为通用的一门语言并广泛的用于国际贸易。如果我们能说好英语，我们就有更多的机会成功。因为越来越多的人注意到这一点，学英语的人数正在已很高的速度增长。但是对我而言，我学英语不仅仅因为它的重要性以及它的实用性，更是因为我喜爱英语。当我学英语时，我可以体会到一种不同的思维方式，它可以给我更多接触世界的空间。当我读英语小说时，我能感受到不同于阅读翻译文的快乐。当我说英语时，我可以感到自信。当我写英语时，我能够感到不同于汉语的那种美?? 我爱英语，它给了我一个色彩斑斓的梦。我希望有朝一日我可以畅游世界，用我流利的英语，我可以和世界各地的人交友。我能看到许多的名胜。我希望我能够到伦敦去，因为那里是英语的故乡。
我也希望用我流利的英语来将我们的名胜介绍给说英语的朋友，我希望他们可以像我们一样的爱我们的国家。
我知道，罗马不是一天筑成的。（成功需要日积月累。）我相信在持续不断的努力学习下，总有一天我可以拥有一口流利的英语。如果你想被爱，你就应该学着去爱他人。所以我相信我对英语的爱定将换来它对我的爱。
第五篇：两分钟英语演讲稿（最终版）
To accept your mate---The foundationof successful marriage Good morning everyone!It is pleasant to share a lesson with you.I heard it from a marriage cource.The topic is the foundation of successful marriage: to accept your mate.Hearing the topic, you may have question, “since we love each other and get married, how we don’t accept each other?”I’d like to say, love is not equal to acceptance.So what is acceptance? It is accepting what he/she is no matter the strength or even the weakness you dislike.A lady with happy marriage asked her husband “Is there any pleasant surprise in our marriage that you never expected?”“yes,” her husband said”I never thought I can be so easy in front of a woman.” He can be himself and no need to pretend or worry about his wife may deny him, despise him or reject him.He can be totally relaxed and dare to tell wife the thoughts in his deep heart.Because of his wife’s acceptance to him, he feels home is safe and tolerant with mistake.Her husband told the lady,”I never expected marriage can be so good!”
Many women do many things for their husband.They cook, wash, take care kids and old parents.But that cannotcertainly lead to a successful wife.Their husbands still feel unsatisfied.But some other women are very “lucky”.They don’t do so much housework and so many things for their husband while they gain husbands’satisfaction.Why? Those “lucky wives” must do one thing that those unlucky ones never did.It is acceptance to their husbands.Many women wait on their husbands face to face while complain face about”He never show gratitude to me!” or “He is not as diligent as my friend’s husband Mr.x” or even talk with kids, ”You see, how bad is your father.Never follow him!” Just like a sentence in bible:” You build up before and tear down later” Those women tear down what they did for husbands much quicker than build up.How can their husbands feel gratitude to them? Do you know whatthe killer for marriage is? It is comparison.In China, people really like to compare, especially comparing mate and kid.But I need to tell you the truth.Comparison can not arouse their emulation and make them better but worse.Just imaging, your husband comes back home and talks to you,”Honey, I just visit the new neighbor who family name is wang.I found Ms Wang does good work in house clearing.Do you like to learn from her?” I believe few of you will say,” Thank God!I have a good model now and I will visit her and learn how to clear house!” Will you? If it is me,I will think,”Well ,do you mean Ido bad work with house clearing? You feel unsatisfied with me.If so, why did you marry me? You can marry with the Ms Wang!” Then I will lose my passion in house work and do worse.Many people try to use this way to change their mate or kids.I’m afraid they will be disappointed.Acceptance is not based on their performance.True love is accepting your matewholly.It is the key to a successful marriage.
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