【美联英语】双语阅读：一位改变了我生活的女孩

第一篇：【美联英语】双语阅读：一位改变了我生活的女孩

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My childhood and adolescence were a joyous outpouring of energy, a ceaseless quest for expression, skill, and experience.School was only a background to the supreme delight of lessons in music, dance, and dramatics, and the thrill of sojourns in the country, theaters, concerts.我在童年和少年时代激情四溢，无时无刻不追求展现自我、磨砺才艺和体味生活。学校里的音乐、舞蹈和戏剧课让我欢欣不已，而剧院和音乐会更让我身心为之震颤，乡间流连的时光也同样美妙。

And books, big Braille books that came with me on streetcars, to the table, and to bed.Then one night at a high school dance, a remark, not intended for my ears, stabbed my youthful bliss: “That girl, what a pity she is blind.” Blind!That ugly word that implied everything dark, blank, rigid, and helpless.Quickly I turned and called out, Please don’t feel sorry for me, I’m having lots of fun.But the fun was not to last.还有我的书，那些厚重的盲文书籍无论在我乘车、用餐还是睡觉时都与我形影不离。然而，一天晚上，在高中的一次舞会上，一句我无意中听到的话霎那间将我年少的幸福击碎——“那女孩是个瞎子，真可惜!”瞎子——这个刺耳的字眼隐含着一个阴暗、漆黑、僵硬和无助的世界。我立刻转过身，大声喊道：“请不要为我叹惜，我很快乐!”——但我的快

乐自此不复存在。

With the advent of college, I was brought to grips with the problem of earning a living.Part-time teaching of piano and harmony and, upon graduation, occasional concerts and lectures, proved only partial sources of livelihood.In terms of time and effort involved, the financial remuneration was disheartening.This induced within me searing self-doubt and dark moods of despondency.Adding to my dismal sense of inadequacy was the repeated experience of seeing my sisters and friends go off to exciting dates.How grateful I was for my piano, where—through Chopin, Brahms, and Beethoven—I could mingle my longing and seething energy with theirs.And where I could dissolve my frustration in the beauty and grandeur of their conceptions.升入大学之后，我开始为生计而奔波。课余时间我教授钢琴及和声，临近毕业时还偶尔参加几次演奏会，做了几次讲座，可要维持生计光靠这些还是不够，与投入的时间和精力相比，它们在经济上的回报让人沮丧。这让我失去了自信和勇气，内心郁闷苦恼。眼看我的姐妹和伙伴们一次次兴高采烈地与人约会，我更觉消沉空虚。所幸的是，还有钢琴陪我。我沸腾的渴望和激情在肖邦、贝多芬、勃拉姆斯那里得到了共鸣。我的挫败感在他们美妙壮丽的音乐构想中消散。

Then one day, I met a girl, a wonderful girl, an army nurse, whose faith and stability were to change my whole life.As our acquaintance ripened into friendship, she discerned, behind a shell of gaiety, my recurring plateaus of depression.She said, “Stop knocking on closed doors.Keep up your beautiful music.I know your opportunity will come.You’re trying too hard.Why don’t you relax, and have

you ever tried praying?”

直到有一天，我遇见一位女孩，一位出色的女孩，这名随军护士的信念和执著将改变我的一生。我们日益熟稔，成为好友，她也慢慢察觉出我的快乐的外表之下内心却时常愁云密布。她对我说，“门已紧锁，敲有何用?坚持你的音乐梦想，我相信机会终将来临。你太辛苦了，何不放松一下——试试祷告如何?”

The idea was strange to me.It sounded too simple.Somehow, I had always operated on the premise that, if you wanted something in this world, you had to go out and get it for yourself.Yet, sincerity and hard work had yielded only meager returns, and I was willing to try anything.Experimentally, self-consciously, I cultivated the daily practice of prayer.I said: God, show me the purpose for which You sent me to this world.Help me to be of use to myself and to humanity.祷告?我从未想到过，听起来太天真了。一直以来，我的行事准则都是，无论想得到什么都必须靠自己去努力争取。不过既然从前的热诚和辛劳回报甚微，我什么都愿意尝试一番。虽然有些不自在，我尝试着每天都祷告——“上帝啊，你将我送到世上，请告诉我你赐予我的使命。帮帮我，让我于人于己都有用处。”

In the years to follow, the answers began to arrive, clear and satisfying beyond my most optimistic anticipation.One of the answers was Enchanted Hills, where my nurse friend and I have the privilege of seeing blind children come alive in God’s out-of-doors.Others are the never-ending sources of pleasure and comfort I have found in friendship, in great music, and, most important of all, in my growing belief that as I attune my life to divine revelation, I draw closer to God and, through Him, to immortality.在接下来的几年里，我得到了明确而满意的回答，超出了我最乐观的期望值。其中一个回答就是魔山盲人休闲营区。在那里，我和我的护士朋友每年都有幸看到失明 的孩子们在大自然的怀抱中是多么生气勃勃。除此之外，朋友们真挚的友谊以及美妙的音乐都给我带来无穷无尽的欢乐和慰藉。最重要的是，我越来越意识到，在我日复一日的祷告中，当我聆听上帝的启示之时，我正日益与他靠近，并通过他接近永恒。

第二篇：一位改变了我生活的女孩（推荐）

My childhood and adolescence were a joyous outpouring of energy, a ceaseless quest for expression, skill, and experience.School was only a background to the supreme delight of lessons in music, dance, and dramatics, and the thrill of sojourns in the country, theaters, concerts.我在童年和少年时代激情四溢，无时无刻不追求展现自我、磨砺才艺和体味生活。学校里的音乐、舞蹈和戏剧课让我欢欣不已，而剧院和音乐会更让我身心为之震颤，乡间流连的时光也同样美妙。

And books, big Braille books that came with me on streetcars, to the table, and to bed.Then one night at a high school dance, a remark, not intended for my ears, stabbed my youthful bliss: “That girl, what a pity she is blind.” Blind!That ugly word that implied everything dark, blank, rigid, and helpless.Quickly I turned and called out, Please don’t feel sorry for me, I’m having lots of fun.But the fun was not to last.还有我的书，那些厚重的盲文书籍无论在我乘车、用餐还是睡觉时都与我形影不离。然而，一天晚上，在高中的一次舞会上，一句我无意中听到的话霎那间将我年少的幸福击碎——“那女孩是个瞎子，真可惜！”瞎子——这个刺耳的字眼隐含着一个阴暗、漆黑、僵硬和无助的世界。我立刻转过身，大声喊道：“请不要为我叹惜，我很快乐！”——但我的快乐自此不复存在。

With the advent of college, I was brought to grips with the problem of earning a living.Part-time teaching of piano and harmony and, upon graduation, occasional concerts and lectures, proved only partial sources of livelihood.In terms of time and effort involved, the financial remuneration was disheartening.This induced within me searing self-doubt and dark moods of despondency.Adding to my dismal sense of inadequacy was the repeated experience of seeing my sisters and friends go off to exciting dates.How grateful I was for my piano, where—through Chopin, Brahms, and Beethoven—I could mingle my longing and seething energy with theirs.And where I could dissolve my frustration in the beauty and grandeur of their conceptions.升入大学之后，我开始为生计而奔波。课余时间我教授钢琴及和声，临近毕业时还偶尔参加几次演奏会，做了几次讲座，可要维持生计光靠这些还是不够，与投入的时间和精力相比，它们在经济上的回报让人沮丧。这让我失去了自信和勇气，内心郁闷苦恼。眼看我的姐妹和伙伴们一次次兴高采烈地与人约会，我更觉消沉空虚。所幸的是，还有钢琴陪我。我沸腾的渴望和激情在肖邦、贝多芬、勃拉姆斯那里得到了共鸣。我的挫败感在他们美妙壮丽的音乐构想中消散。

Then one day, I met a girl, a wonderful girl, an army nurse, whose faith and stability were to change my whole life.As our acquaintance ripened into friendship, she discerned, behind a shell of gaiety, my recurring plateaus of depression.She said, “Stop knocking on closed doors.Keep up your beautiful music.I know your opportunity will come.You’re trying too hard.Why don’t you relax, and have you ever tried praying?”

直到有一天，我遇见一位女孩，一位出色的女孩，这名随军护士的信念和执著将改变我的一生。我们日益熟稔，成为好友，她也慢慢察觉出我的快乐的外表之下内心却时常愁云密布。她对我说，“门已紧锁，敲有何用？坚持你的音乐梦想，我相信机会终将来临。你太辛苦了，何不放松一下——试试祷告如何？”

The idea was strange to me.It sounded too simple.Somehow, I had always operated on the premise that, if you wanted something in this world, you had to go out and get it for yourself.Yet, sincerity and hard work had yielded only meager returns, and I was willing to try anything.Experimentally, self-consciously, I cultivated the daily practice of prayer.I said: God, show me the purpose for which You sent me to this world.Help me to be of use to myself and to humanity.祷告？我从未想到过，听起来太天真了。一直以来，我的行事准则都是，无论想得到什么都必须靠自己去努力争取。不过既然从前的热诚和辛劳回报甚微，我什么都愿意尝试一番。虽然有些不自在，我尝试着每天都祷告——“上帝啊，你将我送到世上，请告诉我你赐予我的使命。帮帮我，让我于人于己都有用处。”

In the years to follow, the answers began to arrive, clear and satisfying beyond my most optimistic anticipation.One of the answers was Enchanted Hills, where my nurse friend and I have the privilege of seeing blind children come alive in God’s out-of-doors.Others are the never-ending sources of pleasure and comfort I have found in friendship, in great music, and, most important of all, in my growing belief that as I attune my life to divine revelation, I draw closer to God and, through Him, to immortality.在接下来的几年里，我得到了明确而满意的回答，超出了我最乐观的期望值。其中一个回答就是魔山盲人休闲营区。在那里，我和我的护士朋友每年都有幸看到失明 的孩子们在大自然的怀抱中是多么生气勃勃。除此之外，朋友们真挚的友谊以及美妙的音乐都给我带来无穷无尽的欢乐和慰藉。最重要的是，我越来越意识到，在我日复一日的祷告中，当我聆听上帝的启示之时，我正日益与他靠近，并通过他接近永恒。附注：

作者：罗丝·雷斯尼克，于1934年毕业于亨特学院，之后又获得了加州大学的硕士学位，现为三藩市盲人康乐协会的执行主任。

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第三篇：英文美文 一位改变了我生活的女孩

一位改变了我生活的女孩

My childhood and adolescence were a joyous outpouring of energy, a ceaseless quest for expression, skill, and experience.School was only a background to the supreme delight of lessons in music, dance, and dramatics, and the thrill of sojourns in the country, theaters, concerts.我在童年和少年时代激情四溢，无时无刻不追求展现自我、磨砺才艺和体味生活。学校里的音乐、舞蹈和戏剧课让我欢欣不已，而剧院和音乐会更让我身心为之震颤，乡间流连的时光也同样美妙。

And books, big Braille books that came with me on streetcars, to the table, and to bed.Then one night at a high school dance, a remark, not intended for my ears, stabbed my youthful bliss: “That girl, what a pity she is blind.” Blind!That ugly word that implied everything dark, blank, rigid, and helpless.Quickly I turned and called out, Please don’t feel sorry for me, I’m having lots of fun.But the fun was not to last.还有我的书，那些厚重的盲文书籍无论在我乘车、用餐还是睡觉时都与我形影不离。然而，一天晚上，在高中的一次舞会上，一句我无意中听到的话霎那间将我年少的幸福击碎——“那女孩是个瞎子，真可惜！”瞎子——这个刺耳的字眼隐含着一个阴暗、漆黑、僵硬和无助的世界。我立刻转过身，大声喊道：“请不要为我叹惜，我很快乐！”——但我的快乐自此不复存在。

With the advent of college, I was brought to grips with the problem of earning a living.Part-time teaching of piano and harmony and, upon graduation, occasional concerts and lectures, proved only partial sources of livelihood.In terms of time and effort involved, the financial remuneration was disheartening.This induced within me searing self-doubt and dark moods of despondency.Adding to my dismal sense of inadequacy was the repeated experience of seeing my sisters and friends go off to exciting dates.How grateful I was for my piano, where—through Chopin, Brahms, and Beethoven—I could mingle my longing and seething energy with theirs.And where I could dissolve my frustration in the beauty and grandeur of their conceptions.升入大学之后，我开始为生计而奔波。课余时间我教授钢琴及和声，临近毕业时还偶尔参加几次演奏会，做了几次讲座，可要维持生计光靠这些还是不够，与投入的时间和精力相比，它们在经济上的回报让人沮丧。这让我失去了自信和勇气，内心郁闷苦恼。眼看我的姐妹和伙伴们一次次兴高采烈地与人约会，我更觉消沉空虚。所幸的是，还有钢琴陪我。我沸腾的渴望和激情在肖邦、贝多芬、勃拉姆斯那里得到了共鸣。我的挫败感在他们美妙壮丽的音乐构想中消散。

Then one day, I met a girl, a wonderful girl, an army nurse, whose faith and stability were to change my whole life.As our acquaintance ripened into friendship, she discerned, behind a shell of gaiety, my recurring plateaus of depression.She said, “Stop knocking on closed doors.Keep up your beautiful music.I know your opportunity will come.You’re trying too hard.Why don’t you relax, and have you ever tried praying?”

直到有一天，我遇见一位女孩，一位出色的女孩，这名随军护士的信念和执著将改变我的一生。我们日益熟稔，成为好友，她也慢慢察觉出我的快乐的外表之下内心却时常愁云密布。她对我说，“门已紧锁，敲有何用？坚持你的音乐梦想，我相信机会终将来临。你太辛苦了，何不放松一下——试试祷告如何？”

The idea was strange to me.It sounded too simple.Somehow, I had always operated on the premise that, if you wanted something in this world, you had to go out and get it for yourself.Yet, sincerity and hard work had yielded only meager returns, and I was willing to try anything.Experimentally, self-consciously, I cultivated the daily practice of prayer.I said: God, show me the purpose for which You sent me to this world.Help me to be of use to myself and to humanity.祷告？我从未想到过，听起来太天真了。一直以来，我的行事准则都是，无论想得到什么都必须靠自己去努力争取。不过既然从前的热诚和辛劳回报甚微，我什么都愿意尝试一番。虽然有些不自在，我尝试着每天都祷告——“上帝啊，你将我送到世上，请告诉我你赐予我的使命。帮帮我，让我于人于己都有用处。”

In the years to follow, the answers began to arrive, clear and satisfying beyond my most optimistic anticipation.One of the answers was Enchanted Hills, where my nurse friend and I have the privilege of seeing blind children come alive in God’s out-of-doors.Others are the never-ending sources of pleasure and comfort I have found in friendship, in great music, and, most important of all, in my growing belief that as I attune my life to divine revelation, I draw closer to God and, through Him, to immortality.在接下来的几年里，我得到了明确而满意的回答，超出了我最乐观的期望值。其中一个回答就是魔山盲人休闲营区。在那里，我和我的护士朋友每年都有幸看到失明 的孩子们在大自然的怀抱中是多么生气勃勃。除此之外，朋友们真挚的友谊以及美妙的音乐都给我带来无穷无尽的欢乐和慰藉。最重要的是，我越来越意识到，在我日复一日的祷告中，当我聆听上帝的启示之时，我正日益与他靠近，并通过他接近永恒。

第四篇：【美联英语】双语阅读：青春

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Let's take steps to banish some of the most common negative thoughts many of us repeat to ourselves.Being in a negative space is harmful to our overall well-being, because what you dwell on can easily become self fulfilling if you don't change your mindset.让我们一起行动起来，消灭那些我们经常告诉自己的消极想法吧!如果你不改变想法，而是一味地沉浸在消极的念头中，那么，我们的整个身心就会受到影响，因为“噩梦”也会成真。

1.I'm not good enough.我不够好。

This type of negative thought that can apply to many categories.Maybe you don't think you're a good enough mother or good at a sport.Even if you find yourself lacking in something, there's no need to keep repeating it to yourself.The human brain is an incredible thing.Be inspired by Dr.Jill Bolte Taylor, Harvard-trained neuroscientist who suffered a stroke that left her unable to walk, read, write, talk, or remember her previous life.Dr.Taylor took eight years to recover and has since then written a best-selling book about her experience and appeared on Oprah.Keep on working toward something, and watch the leaps and

bounds you'll make.这种消极想法有很多类型。比如你认为自己不是个称职的妈妈或不擅长运动。即使你真的发现了自己的弱点，也没必要对自己不断复述。人脑是神奇的。吉尔泰勒就是个激励的好典型，她是哈佛大学的神经系统学专家，中风后她就失去了行走、阅读、书写、交谈的能力了，甚至还失忆了。她花了八年的时间复原，用自己的经历写了畅销书，还上了奥普拉的节目。坚持做一件事，亲眼见证自己的变化。

2.No one cares about me.没人关心我。

To accurately say that your family and friends don't care about you would be a very rare situation.Maybe you're being too negative and overlooking the gestures of love they show you.They don't even have to be big gestures, but it's the little things they do for you that count.And people may be reacting to the energy you're putting out;perhaps you think they don't care about you so you don't make any effort in your relationships.Start showing people you care, so they can show you back in kind.And if you don't have good relationships with the people you know, what's stopping you from making new friends?

家人朋友都不关心你，这种情况其实不太常见。可能你过于消极的想法使你忽略了他们对你表达的爱。他们甚至并不需要为你做什么惊天动地的大事，正是一些小事才真正打动人心。或者你觉得没人关心你，所以无需再经营人际关系，但其实也许人们只有在感知到你的付出后，才会对你进行回报;关心别人，别人才会关心你。如果你和周围人的关系处理不好，为何不结交些新朋友?

3.I really dislike this person.我真的不喜欢这个人。

If you dislike a person in your work or personal life, focusing on her bad qualities is not going to make things better.You need to let go of your assumptions about her and know that she is human too, which means she makes mistakes.Either you move on and stop thinking and talking about her, or learn to approach her or think about her in a positive manner.Focus on her good qualities, and repeat them to yourself instead of honing in on the unpleasant things.如果工作或生活中有你讨厌的人，只关注她的缺点有害无益。你需要放下对她的所有成见，告诉自己她也是个人，也有犯错的时候。要么就不再谈论她和想着她，要么学着去接近她，或想想她好的一面。多想想她的优点，不要再专注于让你不开心的事情。

4.Why is she better off?

为什么她比我好?

Comparing yourself to someone else is never productive or positive.There's always going to be someone who is younger, prettier, smarter, or richer than you.If you keep coveting what someone else has, then this may cause you to be resentful of them, which will open a whole other negative can of worms.Remember, what they don't have is your whole package.Be appreciative of what you have, because if you want to play the comparison game, remember that there are people who are also worse off than you are.和别人比较永远不是有效率和积极的表现。总有比你年轻，漂亮，聪明，富有的人。如果你始终关注别人拥有什么，会带来你对他们的恨意，随即带来更多消极的想法。记住，你所拥有的也是他们所没有的。珍惜你所拥有的东西，如果真的想和别人比较，也别忘了总有

比你差的人。

5.I'll never reach my goal.我永远无法达到目标。

If you think you're not going to be able “get there,” think again.There are many people who are worse off and have overcome bigger obstacles than what you are facing.Take, for example, Olympic sprinter Oscar Pistorius, an amputee who overcame his handicap to compete in the Olympics against his able-bodied peers.Everything is within your reach as long as you work hard and have a a positive attitude.如果你认为自己达不到，再想想。比你差的人比比皆是，他们遇到的困难也比你的更大。比如，奥运会短跑选手刀锋战士奥斯卡·皮斯托利斯，一个被截肢的运动员，战胜了自己的阻碍，在其他健壮的对手中脱颖而出赢得了奥运会的冠军。只要你努力付出，有着积极的信念，任何事都能够做到。

第五篇：【美联英语】双语阅读：我的大学规划

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Inadvertently, my university has quietly flowed away a quarter.From the beginning of the freshman will become a new class of seniors.From the beginning of the University of everything are filled with novelty and feel good now calm calm state of mind.From high school when the bitter, shackles, depressed life to the present free and independent open leisurely way of life.From the free distribution of time to now have too much time but I do not know how to allocate.From high school quietly buried the seeds of love in that no one can see the heart to the present all over the world can not find to my heart to tell my heart.From then on the single pressure to the present multi-directional pressure.From the college entrance examination and not too much to see some extracurricular books to the present great to see all the good books arrogant......After a year of baptism, we really changed a lot, mature a lot, we gradually adapt to the habit of living with the present.And in these changes, our college life and learning situation is really as we would like to enrich, really for our future to lay the foundation for success.I think this is also a very important starting point for this planning!

Yes, most of the achievements of people in the University spent their life to lay the capital, to find their foothold in the community of the core competitiveness of the exercise of the ability to expand the field of vision, increased knowledge, and even harvested love The

However, in the past few years, I have to make those things to be worthy of a conscience, and how to design and arrange the combination of these things in order to make the university is full of good and no lack of fun and power.Here's my opinion and opinion:

I want to enter the university is to be at a higher level to recognize myself growing up to shape yourself.The most valuable of a kind of spirit is to know ourselves to be friends.University of four years, even if what other things are not dry, as long as you can really understand their own, clearly know their differences with others, positioning their future development direction of life.That is, by understanding their own real discovery of their core competitiveness and accordingly selected in line with their own direction of life.This is from the philosophical level of speaking, is a person's world outlook on the concept of life can really be formed.I think it is most important to do this.And how should we do it?

According to my point of view is to calm down alone to really spread out a good idea that they are willing to read really can help you understand the world and their own good books and their souls exchange.And do those activities that really make you involved and be able to temper your personality and perseverance.On this basis, when we have a basic understanding of ourselves and establish the general direction, we need to consider the real problem:

Is to choose to continue to a higher level to shape themselves, or to another new world to exercise to shape themselves.Of course, any road must go through hardships and hardships to take to go, which requires you to listen to your call to your heart, in the end that one is more suitable for you.I think that if you can believe in yourself and have enough capital and are well prepared, then the second road is more suitable for you.Love the most flood of the season, I just want to say to keep it beautiful, sacred pure noble longing, can not be met, not for loneliness and loneliness or for the public and not cherish love.Of course, I also hope to have a confidante to be able to build a good love, yes, confidant is a how can not meet the people ah!

Time is valuable, and to make their own reasonable and orderly and

coordinated manner to arrange these three things, it is not easy to do.But I believe that the strongest of life is the kind of people who do not retreat in life but the courage to challenge and grasp their own people.I believe that there is such an extraordinary pursuit!

不经意间，我的大学已悄然流走了四分之一。

从最初的大一新生将要成为新一界的学长了。

从最初的对大学的一切都充盈着新奇和好感到现在平淡从容的心态。

从高中时的苦涩，束缚，压抑的生活到现在的自由自主开放悠闲的生活方式。

从不能自主自由的分配时间到现在的拥有太多的时间却不知怎么样分配。

从高中时悄悄的把爱情的种子掩埋在那谁也看不到的心中到现在遍野尘世中不能寻觅到与我心心相通知我心者。

从那时的单重压力到现在的多向压力。

从因高考而不敢过多的看一些课外书到现在大有想览尽一切好书的狂妄……

经过大一这一年的洗礼，我们真的改变了不少，成熟了不少，我们也渐渐的适应着习惯着现在的生活。

而在这些改变中，我们的大学生活和学习的处境是否真正如我们所愿的那样充实，真正的能够为我们的未来打下成功的基奠。

我想，这也是做这次规划的一个比较重要的出发点吧！

是的，大多有所成就的人在大学里度过了奠定他们成功资本的生活，寻找到了他们在社会上立足的核心竞争力，锻炼了能力，扩大了视野，增长了见识，甚至收获了爱情。

然而，我在大学这几年里要做成做到那些事情才能够问心无愧，而怎样设计和安排这些事情的组合才能让大学过得既充实美好又不乏趣味和动力。

下面是我的看法和观点：

我想进入大学是要在一个更高的层次来认识自己成长自己塑造自己的。

人最可贵的一种精神便是能知己要知己。

大学四年里既便什麽其它事情都没有干成，只要你能够真正的了解了自己，清楚的知道自己与别人的不同之处，定位好自己的未来人生的发展方向。

也就是通过了解自己真正的发现自己的核心竞争力并依此选定合乎自己的人生方向。

这从哲学层面上来谈，便是一个人的世界观人生观价值观的真正能够形成。

我觉得做到这点最重要。而我们又该怎样去做呢？

依我的观点是独自一人静下心来真正的摊开一本自己认为不错的愿意读的真正能够帮助你认识当下世界和自己好书与彼心灵相汇。和去做那些真正能够让你参与其中并能够磨炼你人格和毅力的活动。

在这个基础上，当我们对自己有一个基本的认识和确立大致方向后，我们需要考虑现实问题了：

是选择继续到更高的层次上塑造自己，还是到另外一个新天地里去锻炼塑造自己。

当然任何一条道路都要历经艰辛坎坷才能迈出去，这就需要听从你的心灵对你的呼唤，到底那一个更加适合你。

我以为如果你能足够的相信自己并拥有足够的资本和做好了充分的准备的话，那麽第二条道路更适合你。

爱情这个最为泛滥的季节，我只想对自己说要保持着对它美好，神圣纯洁高尚的向往，可遇不可求，不要为了寂寞和孤独抑或为了从众而不珍惜爱情。

当然，我也希望能够拥有一位红颜知己能够共铸爱情的美好，是的，知己红颜是一个多麽可遇而不可求的人啊！

时间是可贵的，而要让自己能够合理有序平衡协调地安排好这三大要事，的确是挺不容易的事。

但我相信，生活的强者是那种在人生前进中不退缩而是勇于挑战并把握住自己的人。

相信自己有这样的不凡追求！