第一篇:一家人晚餐最好的五个话题
高品质的晚餐,是一次家庭的分享盛会,即使只有清汤一碗,也可以分享汤勺相撞的欢愉、热气蒸腾的氤氲、舌尖烫到的唏嘘以及遥想当年的豪情。这样的分享,是家庭心灵账户中的巨额财产,可以帮助家庭中的每位成员,在漫长而充满试炼和考验的人生路上,健康成长,抵御压力与伤害、抵挡现代人常有的各种“时髦的”心理疾病。
一起晚餐,是许多老人们一年里唯一的渴盼,虽然年轻的时候,他们可能因为过度操劳而在晚餐桌上抱怨连连,恨不得子女见风就长、早日独立。等到子女真的独立、餐桌上的人越来越少时,渐渐老去的父母们陷入了空巢期的恐慌,一系列的心身疾病不断袭来,而这时,最好的解药之一便是为子女们操持一顿晚餐,像从前他们还年轻、子女还需要他们那样。所以,陪父母共进晚餐,某种程度上是帮助他们确认自己在家庭系统中的价值所在,增强他们的联结感、化解孤独与寂寞,抵御对衰老和丧失的恐慌。
一起晚餐,也是许多伴侣们一周里唯一的渴盼,虽然“爱人不在身边心痛,爱人在身边头痛”,虽然那一位总是答应他们说:我要挣更多的钱,带你去巴黎最浪漫的餐厅就餐。事实上,寂寞的伴侣们不需要巴黎,他们更想要在自家的厨房里一起忙碌聊天,在自家的餐桌上粗茶淡饭。因为,爱情和婚姻,不仅是一个结果,更是彼此在过程中的相伴。
一起晚餐,是许许多多孩子们每一天的渴盼。爸爸妈妈是名人,爸爸妈妈很有钱,这些都与他们的快乐和幸福无关,只要快乐幸福的爸爸妈妈一同坐在餐桌前,那个现代人极度缺乏的叫做“安全感”的东西,就会在他们心头点点滋生,支撑他们面对成长中的风风雨雨。餐桌,其实也是他们人生课堂中的课桌,让他们学到的,是参与,是相处和亲密,是有人倾听和尽情倾诉,是不同观点碰撞的和谐与冲突,也是在他们日后为人父母时,一份懂得与家人分享和共同担当的智慧与深情。
所以,能够常常和谐愉快地共进晚餐的家庭,老人们不易衰老,夫妻间情意稳定,而孩子们,则更能够健康地成长为一个完整的人。
共进晚餐的过程,家人之间可以充分交流感受和想法,可以将各自一天的喜怒哀乐在家庭的“心情火锅”里涮出不同凡响的滋味。因为,家庭是每个人最重要的社会支持系统。
很多话题可以在家庭晚餐上分享,但有一件事情却一定要牢记:分享必须带着开放、尊重和不否定的心态。用餐时间,绝不是教育和批评孩子的时机,否则,可能会制造一大堆后患无穷的心理问题。话题1:今天最让我感到快乐的事情
家庭成员分享自己一天的快乐,是提升家庭幸福指数最有效的方法之一。聊快乐的事情,可以营造良好的用餐气氛,让身心放松愉悦、得到滋养。同时,聊每个人不同的快乐体验,有助于启发其他成员用积极健康的心态面对身边平凡细小的事件,学会从日常生活中寻找乐趣。话题2:爸爸妈妈的小时候
以前的父母聊起自己的小时候,总是一副教训人的口吻,总希望通过自己的当年勇或不容易来贬抑孩子们现在的状态。可是事实上,这样的教训不但无效,反而还会引发冲突和不满,尤其是当你的家庭时值“青春期PK更年期”时。聊爷爷奶奶或者爸爸妈妈的童年,更好的方式是跟孩子们分享自己的体验和观点,讲自己遇到的困惑和后来的解决,然后让孩子们自己咀嚼与思考。这样的分享,对改善亲子关系有很大帮助,可以让孩子们了解:原来大人们也是这样长大的,原来自己不孤独,是可以被大人理解的。话题3:社会热点
适当地讨论社会热点话题,可以帮助一个关系亲密的家庭保持对外的开放性,积极健康地融入社会、关注他人,并且学习和储备对外交往的知识与能力。一个与世隔绝的家庭,会因为缺乏活力和社会适应力而制造出一个个神经症的成员,并且,这样的家庭模式可能代代复制下去,越来越离群索居。话题4:我最近值得骄傲的事情/我最近的困难和挑战
家庭是心灵最重要的港湾,也是各种力量的源泉。每个家庭成员学会分享自己的成绩和进步,同时也学会共同分担困难面对挑战,将会令一个人终生受益,产生无穷的勇气去面对各种人生的突变。话题5:我最近想要做的事情
每个人每天,都会有些大大小小的“白日梦”,想象自己可以做一些有趣的事情。晚餐时分讨论某个成员个人的梦想,或者家庭集体的计划,将会使整个家庭充满生机和行动力,充满希望感。餐桌上讨论的计划,很可能就是下一个家庭快乐的来源。
你可以聊的话题有很多,只要记得原则:不评判、不指责、不教训,你的家庭将会如你所愿,成为亲子关系的伊甸园。特别提示
也许你碰巧有时间看完这些的文字,但却不一定“有时间”陪伴家人真的共进今天的晚餐。所以,创造性地发挥你的想象力吧,当你真的无法经常陪伴家人时,请记得:你可以在晚餐时分打电话回家;可以常常添置些家庭成员喜欢的食品放在冰箱里;可以在餐桌上你的位置上留一张卡片写些风趣逗乐的话语;可以确保一年里至少两个重要节日和纪念日跟全家人相聚„„共进晚餐,其实是生活给每个家庭的恩赐,也是职场人士减压的重要途径,如何享用它,取决于你。
第二篇:人际交往 话题4:晚餐(上)
人际交往 话题4:晚餐(上)
1.Please eat at pleasure.请随意用餐。
2.Life is a banquet.生活是一场晚宴。
3.Dinner pry is too formal.晚宴太正式了。
4.The order of seating is rigid and unbreakable.座次是固定的,不可变动。
5.You will be told where to sit.有人会告诉你坐哪儿。
6.All my relatives will come.我所有的亲戚都会来。
7.Fhe food at the banquet sounds fatty.晚宴的食品油腻腻的。
8.I'd like some dessert.我想吃点甜点。
9.He prefers desserts Iow in fat.他喜欢低脂的点心。
IO.I don't have any room for more food.我吃不下了。
11.A beautiful lady was invited for banquet.一位美丽女子受邀参加晚宴。
12.When would you like your banquet?
你想让你的宴会订在什么时候?
13.What should l wear to attend banquet?
我该穿什么衣服出席晚宴?
14.I am the banquet manager.我是宴会经理。
15.I will give a banquet in your honor.我将为你们举办宴会。
16.I'll toast to all the here.我向在座的各位敬酒。
17.There's a banquet with a dance followed
晚宴后还有舞会。
18.Wine flowed like water at the banquet.晚宴上大家开怀畅饮。
19.Can you join us for dinncr tonight?
今晚你能参加我们的晚宴吗?
20.There's much fonnalitv at this banquet.这个宴会上有很多礼节。
21.We also love French food
我们也喜欢法国食物。
22.Now let's invite Mr.Zhou to give us a speech.现在让我们邀请周先生致辞。
23.Host a banquet in honor of my boss.为我们的老板举行宴会。
24.Have you ever been invited to attend any formal banquets?
你是否曾被邀请参加过一些正式的晚宴?
25.It was an incredibly boring banquet,and I couldn't stick it.这晚宴无聊至极,我都受不了了。
终极加油站:
rigid(严格的)fatty(多脂肪的)toast to(为某人干杯)followe(跟随)formal(正式的)in honor of(为庆祝)incredibly(难以置信的)
第三篇:英语口语考试汇总(五个话题)
A:况达
B:温颖颀
C:翁玲玲
D:钟春华
Aging 1.What does aging mean? At what age are people considered elderly? A: As we grow up, our parents are becoming older and older.B: Yeah, I noticed many wrinkles appear on my parents' face when I went home last time.C: What you said is aging.What do you think aging means except wrinkles? D: In my oppinion, the typical signs of aging are forgetfulness, decline in vision and hearing and weakening of muscle strength.A: I can't agree more with you.Take my mother as an example, she is always forgetting what she wants to do.I think her memory is poorer and poorer.B: What's more, most of the body organs perform less effectively with advancing age.C: All of you are right.But we have to admit that aging is the natural process of growing old, isn't it? D: Yeah, every one has to face aging.By the way, in our society, at what age are people considered elderly? A: In general, people over 65 years old are considered elderly.B: No wonder people have to retire when they are 65 years old.C: But with our life standard improved, people have a longer lifespan, so I think people over 70 years old are considered elderly.D: Well, no matter at what age people are considered elderly, what we should do is to treat them with respect and affection.2.the right attitude toward aging?
A: Nowadays, the development of china surprised many people ,we can’t ignore some social problem in the process of it, such as aging population.B:Yes,aging problem is becoming more serious.It says that elderly proportion of the population increased from 13.3% to 16%, making huge demand pressure on social insurance and pension services.C: As for this situation, some elderly people are likely to be treated as burden by society and their family.Instead, they may cost a lot of money on food, clothing, medical care and medication, etc.D: In my eyes, elderly people should not be seen as burden on the family and society.At first, when older people are young, they made great contributions to their families in their golden times.A:Yeah, Without their care, their children can’t make any achievement.without their hard work, we can’t see Chinese situation now.Return is the gift of pay.So, it is reasonable foe elderly people to get care from society and families.B: china is a ritual of ceremony, always focusing on filial piety.As a child, it is their responsible to take good care of their parents.C:Like Meng Peijie ?She looked after her adoptive mother for 12 years when her adoptive mother couldn’t move any more.D:I think so.She set a good example for us.Millions of people’s actions tell us elderly people is not burden.It is our duty and obligation to care the elderly.It is the basic criteria in being a human.3.what are the common ailments of the elderly?
1.每个人讲一下身边老人的身体健康状况,有什么疾病
A:Today,we are going to talk about what the common ailments of the elderly are.So,guys in your daily life,did you ever find some ailments of the elderly around you? B:There is an old man living beside my home.Every day,I can hear his coughing.(咳嗽)
C:My dear grandpa’s legs are too weak to walk.He has to move on by stick(腿脚不便)
D:My grandma has high blood pressure and heart disease.In most time of a day,she just lies in the bed.(高血压和心脏病)2.每个人对自己身边老年人的看法,如何帮助他们
A”: The majority of the elderly have some ailments.Obviously, the ailments get the elderly into trouble.B Yeah,every time I heard of the coughing,I feel very sad about the old man.(伤心)
C:When my grandpa want to fetch something,I would try my best to help him.(帮忙取东西)
D:I will talk with my grandma about the happy thing I met to make her happy too.(讲开心的事)3.每个人谈一下老人们对年轻人的劝告
A:That’s right.The elderly need our comprehension and care.They can also give us some good advice on how to avoid the ailments.B:Yes, my grandparents often ask me not to stay up late for playing computer games.(熬夜)
C:My grandparents too.They also tell me not to eat junk food or other dishes cooked with much pepper and salt.(垃圾食品,含辣椒和盐多食品)
D:The elder living around my home often remind me of the significance of exercise.(运动)
A:I think when we get old we will appreciate those advice.Best wishes to the elderly.That’s our discussion.Thanks for listening.Animal,pets 1.Do you or your family keep pets? Why or why not? 2.Is it right to cage birds, chain dogs and keep cats locked inside the house? 3.What is the negative side of keeping animals as pets?
A: With the increasing improvement of our life,many people have developed the fever of keeping pets.I keep pets,too.I think pets give us a sense of being important and needed because they depend on us for home,food and drink.B: My family doesn’t have pets.But I know as the increasing number of people suffer from loneliness and alienation due to fast-paced lifestyle and high-pressured work.Pets are the ones they can talk to or play with after work or at home, especially for those who live alone and are far away from home.C: You are right.But is it right to deprive pets of freedom? Locked in the house,the pets may become anxious and easy to be angry,even bite the people,as they are wild animals at all.D: I can’t agree more.What’s more, it is not healthy to raise pets in home,they might transmit many kinds of diseases to our family,especially children and pregnent women easily fall victims A: What you say makes sense.In addition,the same as humans, pets will also feel hungry and need to be fed, which requires a certain cost, therefore, keeping pets should be on the basic of economy level of our own.B: Besides,as many rare birds and animals are kept as pets,they will surely be hunted on a large scale,which means a threat to the balance of the ecosystem.C:Well,everything has two coins.For myself, I still like to keep pets.Keeping pets helps mankind understand animals’ world and develop positive feelings toward them D:As for me,I am inclined to agree with the opposition.Anyway,we can lessen our loneliness and express our love toward animals in other ways.And it is my belief that only by placing man and other species on an equal basis can we expect to have a lively and colorful world.cultural differences
A: Today our topic is cultural differences, so, have you heard about cultural differences? What do cultural differences mean in your opinion? B: Cultural difference? Maybe it refers to people speak different languages, just like we speak Chinese while Englishmen use English.C: You said it!It is well known that people in different countries behave in different ways, such as their way of life and thinking and so on.It’s a kind of cultural differences.D: I can’t agree more.But how do you think people keep different value systems? Can it be cultural differences? A: Sure.To sum up, people speak different languages, keep different value systems, and have different way of looking at things.These differences are generally called cultural differences.Moreover, it’s embarrassing of failing to recognize cultural differences.B: That’s right.Failure to recognize cultural differences hinder communication.C: Yeah, those who are uninformed about cultural differences may have difficulty in communicating with their partners from other cultures.D: You are right.Inability to recognize cultural differences can make mutual understanding difficulty.A: So, it’s important to cope with cultural differences.Most importantly, before we enter a new country or get close to a new culture, we are supposed to respect the new culture, learn about it and prepare ourselves for it.B: Except that, we should maintain a open attitude towards people and things.And it couldn’t be better if you can do your best to adjust to the new lifestyle.C: By doing in Roman as the Romans do, you will be appreciated by the local people and considered to be a person who understand the local customs.D: If you show your respect to the different culture you will have a better chance of being accepted as one of them instead of being treated as a outsider.A: You are all right.If you have the opportunity to go abroad to get reach to a new culture, remember to do what we talked just now.B、C、D: We will!
Media A:Do you read newspapers? What do you think of them?
B:yes.It includes lots of information or news from many aspects of our life, such as entertainment, gym and politics.C:Yes,Newspapers can help us understand a lot of news, and can enrich our knowledge
D:I read it,but just a few times,i think it full of latest and useful Information,but it is a little out of fashion compared with other media such as internet C:what’s your opion? A: nowadays we prefer using cell phone to read newspapers rather than reading newspaper, but it still has many advantages.Newspaper can prevent our eyes from being hurt and usually has higher quality.D: in fact,now i rarely watch tv,and most of our schoolmates are not watching tv,even listening radio.Can you imagine a life without TV or radio?
B:Nowadays, TV have became a part of our life, and we get most information from them.If we live a life without it, we would miss a main channel to attatch outside world and lost a entertainment way.A:I can’t imagine a life without TV since I enjoy watching TV so much.It really plays an very important role in my life.Whenever I feel distressed, I will turn on the television to help relax myself.But watching TV takes up too much time.C:It's hard to believe that our life without TV and radio, And if that we will be become very block,and lack of understanding of information B:What is the negative side of video games? C.If we are addicted to it, it would bring bad influence to us.It can distract us from study, and make us get away from friends and family, which is unbenefit for our growth.D.it's harmful to our health,especially eyes。also it make us difficult to focus on studying A.video games have many negative sides in our life,especially for students.When we pay much attention on it,it will hurt our eyes.Many students are addicted to it and they can’t focus on their study.B.If we are addicted to it, it would bring bad influence to us.It can distract us from study, and make us get away from friends and family, which is unbenefit for our growth.Parents A:the summer vacation is on the way and I can’t wait to go home B:Me too.For the most important thing is that my mother’s birthday is coming soon.I want to make a surprise to her.Do you have some good idea.C:In my parents’ birthday,I always make a gift to him or her with a handmade greeting card.Every time they feel happy just like children and proud of me.D:It’s impressd me that I cook a fancy dinner by myself to celebrate my mother’s birthday last year.It’s incredible for my parents that their son can do it so well.A:For me ,maybe it seem a bit strange to write a letter to my parents in their birthday to convey my gratitude for bringing me up.B:Not at all.it is really a good habit.C:A,I can feel you love your parents very much.Why do you love and respect your parents ? D:I love my parents because they have sacrificed a lot in bringing me up and are always there for me whenever I need them.A:I respect my parents because they they are role models for me and have devoted all their energy to our growing.B:Do you think parents‘ love for their children is the greatest love in the world?If you do,please explain why.C: Certainly.From my point of view,no bond is stronger than that between parent and child.D:I think so.And I really hope we can take care of our parents just as they do when we are young.A: Do you think parents’ love for their children is the greatest love in the world? B:Yes,I think there is no other kinds of love that can be compared to parents’ love.C: en en , parents give us too much.We can see, Life、knowledge、happiness and so on.Even , it is still a big problem for us to get our living expenses without them.D: Yeah, parents’ love for their child is selfless and never changing.They always give their best things to us without second thoughts.There is no doubt that parents’ love is the greatest love in the world.A:And there are too much things that can confirm it.We can find a lot of examples to explain it easily.B:So, I want to give a question to you and me too.Explain why you think your parents love you more than other kinds of love or give you idea.I will say it firstly, I think I respect my parents because they are role models for me.C:I love my parents because they are always there for me whenever I need them.D:No bond is stronger than that between parent and child.And The Dragon Boat Festival is coming, I can’t wait to go back home quickly.
第四篇:一家人住在一起才是最好的日记
8月5日星期日天气:晴
前一段时间,爸爸妈妈带我去二姑家住一段时间,说是和二姑多住在一起,促进促进感情。爸爸就是这样一个重感情的人。其实爸爸不这样说,我也想去二姑家住了。二姑对我很好,对我说话总是柔柔的,仿佛我就是一个大人一样,凡事都和我商量。所以当爸爸提出要去二姑家住一段时间时,我内心高兴得比喝了蜂蜜还要甜。
果然,在二姑家住得特别开心,二姑总是非常迁就我。但二姑总是二姑,她家是她家,我得回家了。总觉得欢乐的时间快得特别地快。要回家了,我闷闷不乐。爸爸妈妈知道我的情绪,也就不打扰我,任我去翘嘴巴了。
回到家,总感觉怪怪地。在哪里怪,说不清。我一直思考着。对了,二姑的家比较大,我这边的房间好像要小一些。其实何止房间啊!包括厕所啊!客厅啊!阳台啊都小好多。哎呀,连床都感觉小了许多。唯独电视比他们家大得多,我们的电视是32寸的,而二姑家的的电视只是25寸的。但二姑家虽然只有一层却有院子,我们家是一小栋的,但一小栋之外就没有了,没有院子,没有围墙。有的是铁门和防盗窗。
我的家是有三层,但是家再大又怎么样,只有一家人在一起才是最好的。我就开始想念二姑了。
第五篇:写好话题作文_应注意的五个方面
写好话题作文应注意的五个方面
随着中考语文改革的不断深化,作文考题不仅在形式上发生了深刻的变化,而且在考查的内容上也体现出强烈的创新意识。命题者为了让考生在作文卷上有话可说,有事可写,有“文”可做,命题时往往不再在审题上设置障碍,而注重考题的“开放性”。其“开放性”特点主要表现在自选角度,自定文体,自拟题目等方面。而最符合这种“开放性”特点的主要题型就是话题作文。那么,话题作文如何写?需要注意以下五个方面的问题:
一求“准”。由于话题作文不在审题上设置障碍,结果导致了一些同学放松审题而偏离题意。我们认为,任何题目都需要仔细审读,对话题作文而言,写作前更需要明确话题中心词的含义,准确把握其写作范围。
二求“活”。文章是思维的载体,良好的构思源于活跃的有效思维途径。如围绕话题“钱”,可以自问“谁在用钱?”“他是怎样用钱的?”还可以自问:“钱在作用有多大?”“钱是不是万能的?”“学生在花钱问题上有哪些不同的表现?”“未来世界里钱还会不会存在?”如此这般,从多个角度解读话题,写作思路放开了,不愁没有好的构思。
三求“小”。开口大小,拟题可知,许多同学常常简单地以话题作为自己文章的题目。殊不知,话题本身范围宽泛,用作题目容易出现题大文小,文题不一的毛病。文章题目定得窄小一些,切入口小一些,有利于走出空泛肤浅和文题不一的误区,也有利于写深写透,写出个性。如以“幸福”为题目,显然不及“幸福人家”“知足者常有幸福”“我生活在幸福之中”“奉献带出的幸福”等题目更容易下笔,更容易写出个性特色。
四求“新”。话题作文极有利于选材、构思、出新出奇,可事实上同学们的应试作文依旧是选材陈旧,构思平庸之作盛行。要知道,选材新颖是写出创新佳作的关键。在话题作文的选材中,不妨变换角度,从话题的反面找到别具一格的材料。也可将想象中的事物纳入平常的话题之中,找到新颖的材料,还可放眼生活,从小处切入,将鲜活的社会和时代话题写进作文里。
五求“美”。一篇文章里,肯定会有大量的叙述、交代、说明性语言存在,要使文章“出彩”,可以使用片段性、局部性的生动形象语言来“点亮”读者的眼睛,展示自己的语言功底。可以是形象生动的比喻、拟人句,可以是气势磅礴的排比句,还可以是风趣幽默的仿用句,深邃含蓄的哲理句等等。这些句子点缀、穿插于文章之中,将会有亮人耳目、怡人心扉之功效。因话题作文的审题立意难度不大,所以,对一篇作文质量好坏的评价往往重在语言表达的优势上。考生如想写出佳作,平时就一定要注意对“作文语言”的强化训练。好的语言可以为文章的立意添色,构思增光。语言通顺、条理清楚、描述生动,这些常是话题作文是否出色的决定性因素。