the ideas about what success is（xiexiebang推荐）

第一篇：the ideas about what success is（xiexiebang推荐）

Different people have different ideas about what success is.There are lots of very different ways to measure success.Each person has their own unique idea of the meaning of success in their lives and it is up to you to decide what success means to you.The clichéd idea of success is having lots of money, designer clothes, a flashy car and a big house.That's fine if that is what you really want.But you may have very different ideas that define success for you.Success is completely subjective.If you feel successful then you are.What other people think is irrelevant.All that matters is that you feel that you have achieved success.Ralph Fiennes says it well with his take on success.He sees it as “… a quiet, daily thing.I call people successful not because they have money or their business is doing well but because, as human beings, they have a fully developed sense of being alive and engaged.”

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Success is all about your perception of it.One person's success may be another person's idea of failure.The essence of being successful is to define what success means to you and then live out that idea.Don’t allow anyone to steal your dreams.Decide what you truly want in life and then take the action to manifest it.Your dreams are the core of who

you are.Become your own dream maker.My greatest wish and passion is for everyone to achieve lives of joy, wealth, good health, filled with lots of laughter.No one can promise miracles, however, I believe that miracles can happen.Find your courage, focus on “your definition” of success and let your brilliance shine

Most people want to be successful.The problem is that unless they have an idea of what success is they will probably never become successful.If they do become successful, they may not even realise.It sounds silly but sometimes people are successful without realising it until they lose what they have.If you want to make the most of your life, you should have a plan.Work out what you mean by success.It is different for everyone.One man may feel success is a yacht, a big house and a high-powered job in the city.Another man may think of success

as a modest home with a happy family.Decide what you feel is important to you.Do not be swayed by the opinions of others.It is your life not theirs.Once you have an idea of what is success for you, then you need to flesh it out.Give it solidity.Picture it in your mind, in great detail.What colour car, what make, model, and style.The clearer the picture in your mind, the more likely you are to attain your success.If you can define your idea of success, you can then focus on the path to achieving it.You may be surprised to find you have already achieved many things on your way to your success.You may be shocked to find you are working to someone else's idea of success and you will find you are unsatisfied because the goal is not yours.At least by defining your idea of success you will be able to choose whether to continue on the path you are travelling, or to go your own way.