婚礼上的传统誓言

第一篇：婚礼上的传统誓言

牧师宣布婚姻的意义是在于在上帝面前的圣约（the

holy

convenant

in

the

presence

of

god），并先后依次问:

will

you

love

her/him,comfort

her/him,honor

and

keep

her/him,in

sickness

and

in

health;

and

forsaking

all

others

keep

only

to

her/him

so

long

as

you

both

shall

live?

是否爱她／他，安慰她／他，荣耀保守她／他，无论疾病还是健康；

并只守候在她／他身旁，不再寻找别人

只要一息尚存？

依次回答

i

will

（i

do）后，就彼此宣誓:

i,(name),take

you,(name),我，（名字），愿以你，（名字），to

be

my

wedded

wife/husband,作我婚姻的妻子／丈夫，to

have

and

to

hold,相互拥有扶持，from

this

day

forward,而今而后，for

better,for

worse,不论境遇好坏，for

richer,for

poorer,家境贫富，in

sickness

and

in

health,生病与否，to

love

and

to

cherish,誓言相亲相爱，till

death

us

do

part,至死不分离。

according

to

god’s

holy

ordinance;

正如上帝之神圣命定；

and

there

to

i

pledge

you

my

faith.此我以信为誓

然后交换“那内在而属灵恩典的外在而可见之记号”

（the

outward

and

visible

sign

of

an

inward

and

spiritual

grace）的戒指。接下来是点同心蜡烛，象征二人成为一体，一个家

庭。点完同心蜡烛以后，牧师“奉父子圣灵的名”（in

the

name

of

the

father,and

of

the

son,and

of

the

holy

spirit）宣布成为夫妻。仪式最后以祝福和主祷文结束。

第二篇：传统婚礼誓言

聆听爱的誓言到苏州

苏州木渎古镇

上的严家花园里这几天一直洋溢着浓浓的喜气，因为这里为新人们举办着一场又一场传统民俗婚礼。木渎旅游公司说要用最原汁原味的传统民俗婚礼为结缘的朋友们送上一份祝福，也希望有更多的有缘人来到这个中国园林古镇山盟海誓，真情告白，用他们的深情一拜，拥有相守一生浪漫。

据苏州民俗博物馆的副书记高强介绍，木渎婚礼展示的是古代金榜题名的状元郎奉旨衣锦还乡完婚的宏大场面，考虑到现代人的欣赏眼光和实际操作可能，他们特意作了些微调，一定要使整场婚礼热闹而不杂乱，新鲜而又喜庆。

记者在有幸应邀参加了一场古典婚礼，感受到了古典婚礼即庄严又喜庆的气氛，并深切领会到了中华传统文化的博大精深。

婚礼开锣

在鸣锣开道声中，四位迎宾仪仗手上持着“龙凤呈祥”、“花好月圆”、“状元及第”、“奉旨完婚”这四块行牌紧随其后，后面是六位乐师，手里拿着唢呐、笛子、笙等民族乐器，婚礼的喜庆气氛主要得靠他们营造埃再后面是四位穿着紫色长衫的抬轿人，还有一位穿着金黄色古装的掌礼跑前跑后张罗着……迎亲的一群人在掌礼的带领下站在永安桥下，“仪式开始!”掌礼一声令下，伴随着音乐声和鞭炮声，浩浩荡荡一群人踏过象征着永久平安的永安桥，向严家花园出发，接新娘去!

接新娘

新郎头戴官帽，身穿大红喜服，气宇轩昂地走在队列中。刚到严家花园门口，新郎就忍不住朝门里张望起来。头盖喜帕的新娘在喜娘的陪伴下，缓缓走了出来。在亲朋好友的欢呼声中，喜娘搀扶着新娘上轿，迎亲队伍又敲锣打鼓向喜堂--虹饮山房走去。

刚下过雨的小巷，路上有点滑，四位轿夫踏出每一步都小心翼翼，轿子里的新娘子可受不得惊埃听到喜气洋洋的鼓乐声，不少游客和附近的居民都跑过来看热闹，不少游客举起相机，都想拍下这难得一见的喜庆场面。几个小孩子看到只有在电视里才能见到的“古代人”，兴奋得又叫又蹦，不顾父母的阻拦，跟着迎亲队伍亦步亦趋，就想看看接下来还有什么稀奇事。苏州民俗博物馆的副书记高强告诉记者，民俗婚礼的规矩可多了，就说这抬轿子的四位壮汉吧，全部都得是育有儿子的青壮年，这寓意今后新人家香火兴旺，而且他们在路途中还不能歇脚。

拜堂

迎亲队伍行至虹饮山房大门口停轿，喜堂早已布置好，新郎和喜娘细心地搀扶新娘下轿。要进入喜堂，新娘先得跨过一个火盆。踏上长长的红地毯，新郎新娘相依着走进喜堂。花生、红枣、桂圆等摆在高堂的桌上，这些全都是讨口采的果品，希望新人能早生贵子、百年好合。红色香烛的火苗跳跃着，公公婆婆正襟危坐，看样子已经等待多时啦。掌礼高喊一声：“吉时已到!”一对新人开始拜堂，“一拜天地”，“二拜高堂”，“夫妻对拜”，在掌礼洪亮的喊声中，喜娘指点着新郎新娘一一行了礼。看起来之前他们一定排练过了，新娘的万福礼行得像模像样，颇有古代大家闺秀的风范呢。

随后是向父母敬茶的环节，作为晚辈最重要的就是感谢父母的养育之恩，端端正正地敬上一杯茶，看着乖巧懂事的新媳妇，公公婆婆相当开心，一口茶喝得眉开眼笑，同时递上了早就准备好的红包。

第三篇：西方传统婚礼上牧师的证言

西方传统婚礼上牧师的证言

Minister: We are gathered here today in the sight of God, and in the face of this company, to join together(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name)in holy matrimony;which is an honorable estate, instituted of God, since the first man and the first woman walked on the earth.Therefore;it is not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently and soberly.Into this holy estate these two persons present come now to be joined.If any one can show just cause why they may not be lawfully joined together, let them speak now or forever hold their peace.Who gives this woman to be married to this man?

Father: My wife and I do.(Then the bride is given away)

Minister: I require and charge you both that if either of you know any impediment why you may not be lawfully joined together in matrimony, you confess it now.Be assured that if any persons are joined together otherwise than as God’s word allows, their marriage is not lawful.(Minister: addressing the groom)

(Groom’s Name), do you take(Bride’s Name)for your lawful wedded wife, to live together after God’s ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony? Will you love, honor, comfort, and cherish her from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto her for as long as you both shall live?

Groom: I do.(Minster: addressing the bride):

(Bride’s Name), do you take(Groom’s Name)for your lawful wedded husband, to live together after God’s ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony? Will you love, honor, comfort, and cherish him from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto him for as long as you both shall live?

Bride: I do.(At this point the couple may improvise by playing a favorite song, reading a scripture, etc.suggested scriptures might be genesis 2:21-25, mark 10:6-8 and 1 cor 13:4-7)

Reader 1: A reading from the book of Genesis, chapter 2, versus 21 through 25:

So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep;and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh.Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.The man said,“this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called’woman,’for she was taken out of man.“for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.Reader 2: A reading from the gospel of Mark, chapter 10, versus 6 through 8:

But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female.For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.So they are no longer two, but one.Reader 3: A reading from the Apostle Paul, the first letter to the Corinthians, chapter 13, verses 4 through 7:

Love is patient, love is kind.It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It alwaysprotects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Minister: Let us pray for this man and woman as they make their marriage vows.Father, as(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name)have chosen each other, help them and bless them that their love may be pure, and their vows may be true.Through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.(Minister: addressing the groom who repeats the marriage vows):

I(Groom’s Name)take thee(Bride’s Name)to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor, and cherish,’til death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance;and thereto I plight thee my troth.(Minister: then to the bride who repeats the marriage vows):

I(Bride’s Name)take thee(Groom’s Name)to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor, and cherish,’til death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance;and thereto I plight thee my troth.(The Minister then gets the brides ring from the best man)

Minister:(praying over brides ring): Lord, bless this ring that he who gives it and she who wears it may abide in your peace, and continue in your favor until life’s end, through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.(Groom: placing ring on bride’s finger):

With this ring I thee wed.Wear it as a symbol of our love and commitment.Minister:(praying over groom’s ring): Lord, bless this ring that she who gives it and he who wears it may abide in your peace, and continue in your favor until life’s end, through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.(Bride: placing ring on groom’s finger):

With this ring I thee wed.Wear it as a symbol of our love and commitment.(Music may be inserted here.)

(The wedding song)

Minister: Let us pray

Father, we pray for all married persons, that they may continue to give, be able to forgive, and experience more and more of the joy of the Lord with each passing day.And especially for(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name), now beginning their married life together, that they may have divine assistance, the constant support of friends, and a long life with good health.May your fullest blessing come upon(Bride’s Name)and her husband(Groom’s Name), from this day forward, for ever and ever, Amen.May Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, always be at the center of the new lives you are now starting to build together, that you may know the ways of true love and kindness.May the Lord bless you both all the days of your lives and fill you with his joy.Amen.(The minister now joins their right hands together and says):

Those, whom God has joined together, let no man put asunder.In so much as(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name)have consented together in holy wedlock, and have witnessed the same before God and this company, having given and pledged their troth, each to the other, and having declared same by the giving and receiving of a ring, I pronounce that they are husband and wife.Minister:(to the couple): Seal the promises you have made with each other with a kiss.(The couple kisses.)

Minister: Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you Mr.and Mrs._________________.Now let us pray as Jesus has taught us:

Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name.Thy kingdom come.Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.Give us this day our daily bread.And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil:

for thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever and ever.Amen.

第四篇：传统婚礼上的礼仪和忌讳

传统婚礼上的礼仪和忌讳

新郎，新娘是婚礼上理所当然的主角，是来宾们目光的焦点，整个婚礼是否能够顺利，圆满地完成，取决于客人对新郎，新娘的印象，因此新郎，新娘在婚礼上的礼节是否周全、适当非常重要，一般来说，应注意以下几点：

仪表着装：新婚喜庆，新郎、新娘要格外注意仪表，可适当化妆，作好发型，保持容光焕发。新郎一般穿西装系领带，新娘一般穿婚纱，并适当佩带项链，耳环等饰物，但不可多，以免俗气。

迎宾等客：新郎、新娘应手持鲜花双双立于大门口迎接客人，不可来回走动；客人到来时应热情地表示欢迎和感谢，并适时地把客人介绍给家中的长辈或其他来宾，然后依长辈或辈份按次序让座，对于客人此时送上的红包，不论礼轻礼重，新郎、新娘都要一视同仁地致以谢意。敬烟、敬茶时要用双手送上，并为吸烟的长辈或平辈客人点火。

谈话说笑：与长辈交谈要诚恳谦逊，不可高谈阔论，信口开河；与平辈讲话要热情礼貌，注意谦恭；不可无休止地纵声大笑，或沉默寡言；对晚辈要热情友好。

坐立行走：不可歪歪斜斜地坐在沙发上，更不要高跷二郎腿，站立讲话时，要腰板挺直，不要全身抖动或前后左右经常挪动；行走时不要慢慢吞吞，状似散步，但也不要跑来跑去。可快步疾走，但要注意走姿和节奏。

相互配合：新郎、新娘在婚礼上双出双入，最好不要分开单独行动，并且在相互配合方面，应注意礼节，例如：应相互向对方介绍各自的长辈或平辈亲戚，朋友；相伴而行时，双方不要离得太远，但也不要过于亲昵；如有宾客取闹，应相互为对方解围，入座时，应让新娘先坐。

婚宴开始：新郎、新娘要按主次，依次到客席向各位客人敬酒，敬酒时要亲手为客人将酒杯倒满并双手为客人端起，但不要一律强求客人一饮而尽，等客人放下酒杯后，新郎、新娘要说声“谢谢”，并再次为客人将酒杯添满，方可再向下一位客人敬酒。新郎、新娘在婚礼宴席上应多照顾客人，让亲朋好友吃好喝好，高兴而来，满意而去。不要自己大吃大喝，甚至饮酒过度，当场醉倒，那就过于失礼，对于客人敬酒，即使酒量有限，也要略加表示，至少要举起酒杯向客人致以谢意，并说明不能多喝的理由。

婚宴结束：客人离去时，新郎、新娘要双双立于门口，一一同客人握手再见，并说些“谢谢光临”、“请慢走”之类的话。

结 婚--典 礼 仪 式:（对新郎新娘、音响师、摄影师、录像师、鞭炮手、献花人、结婚证书、信物、交杯酒具做好安排；主婚人、证婚人、新郎新娘双方单位领导、亲友和嘉宾代表，佩戴喜花，到婚礼主席台上就座）

（1）、结婚庆典开始，奏乐，鸣放鞭炮；

（2）、向新郎新娘献花；（3）、证婚人为新郎新娘颁发结婚证书并作证婚讲话；（新郎新娘向证婚人鞠躬，证婚人向新郎、新娘颁发结婚证书）（4）、举行拜堂仪式：（一拜高堂；二拜来宾； 三夫妻对拜）

（5）、交换信物；

（6）、喝交杯酒；

（7）、致贺词、答谢词 ：

主婚人（新娘父母）作主婚讲话；

致贺词：新郎新娘双方单位领导、双方亲友代表、来宾代表讲话；

主婚人（新郎父母）作主婚讲话并致答谢词；

新郎新娘讲话；（8）、闹花堂。

举行喜宴

结婚庆典仪式结束，喜庆宴会开始。新亲专有新亲席，新亲席摆在正位。此时新亲上开账礼。席间，乐队演奏，宾朋献歌助兴，厨师给新亲加菜，新亲赏厨师。

喜宴进行期间，新郎新娘在主持人和伴郎伴娘陪同下给宾客敬酒、点烟。敬酒时，新郎新娘按长幼顺序先给新亲席敬酒，点烟。给其他宾客敬酒时，如来宾较多，主持人则要求每桌各选一、二个代表，由新郎新娘敬酒、点烟。新亲和宾客散席后，男方家人在饭店门口送客。

吃团圆饭

宾客走后，新郎一家人团团围住，新娘给公婆敬酒，男方一家人吃团圆饭。

晚上，洞房里要把从新娘娘家带回的喜蜡点燃，大葱摆上。新郎新娘要吃饺子和面条。饺子叫子孙饺子、面条叫长寿面（也有叫宽心面的）。然后开始闹洞房。闹洞房传统习俗是由新郎的嫂子、婶子等人给新人铺被褥，同时往新郎新娘床上扔枣、栗子（意为早生贵子），扔花生（意为姑娘儿子插花生），还有扔大豆（意为孩子多、象金豆），扔木墩（意为孩子长得结实）。现在，新婚之夜，青年人嬉戏新郎新娘节目很多，而且花样翻新，妙趣横生。往往闹到深夜，直到新郎新娘再三告饶为止。

婚 礼 注 意 事 项:

1、迎亲人员和迎亲车辆，去时为单数，返回时迎送亲人员和迎送亲车辆为双数（意在成双成对），到女方家和返回新房时，行车往里拐（意在不往外去）、不走重复路线（意在结婚值此一次）。

2、四彩礼挂红包装，斧子、秤砣用红布包好。

3、新郎新娘互扎红腰带时切忌不打结（意在夫妻感情和顺，不结疙瘩）。

4、典礼前，新郎新娘下喜车后喜车花立即拆除（意在结婚坐喜车就这一次）。

5、喜蜡要对灭不要吹灭（意在一生到老，生生死死都在一起，不被吹散）。

6、新娘抓福时尽量多抓，但不要抓净（意在把福根给留下）。

7、喜车返回遇喜车、过路口或过桥时，新娘对窗外飞红手帕（意在喜上加喜）。

8、新房附近井盖用红纸遮盖（意在把井盖上了，不能掉井里）。

第五篇：英文西方传统婚礼上牧师的证言

西方传统婚礼上牧师的证言－西方风情,西方传统婚

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Minister: We are gathered here today in the sight of God, and in the face of this company, to join together(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name)in holy matrimony;which is an honorable estate, instituted of God, since the first man and the first woman walked on the earth.Therefore;it is not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently and soberly.Into this holy estate these two persons present come now to be joined.If any one can show just cause why they may not be lawfully joined together, let them speak now or forever hold their peace.Who gives this woman to be married to this man?

Father: My wife and I do.(Then the bride is given away)

Minister: I require and charge you both that if either of you know any impediment why you may not be lawfully joined together in matrimony, you confess it now.Be assured that if any persons are joined together otherwise than as God’s word allows, their marriage is not lawful.(Minister: addressing the groom)

(Groom’s Name), do you take(Bride’s Name)for your lawful wedded wife, to live together after God’s ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony? Will you love, honor, comfort, and cherish her from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto her for as long as you both shall live?

Groom: I do.(Minster: addressing the bride):

(Bride’s Name), do you take(Groom’s Name)for your lawful wedded husband, to live together after God’s ordinance, in the holy estate of matrimony? Will you love, honor, comfort, and cherish him from this day forward, forsaking all others, keeping only unto him for as long as you both shall live?

Bride: I do.(At this point the couple may improvise by playing a favorite song, reading a scripture, etc.suggested scriptures might be genesis 2:21-25, mark 10:6-8 and 1 cor 13:4-7)

Reader 1: A reading from the book of Genesis, chapter 2, versus 21 through 25:

So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep;and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh.Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.The man said, “this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh;she shall be called ’woman, ’ for she was taken out of man.“ for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.Reader 2: A reading from the gospel of Mark, chapter 10, versus 6 through 8:

But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female.For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.So they are no longer two, but one.Reader 3: A reading from the Apostle Paul, the first letter to the Corinthians, chapter 13, verses 4 through 7:

Love is patient, love is kind.It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It alwaysprotects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Minister: Let us pray for this man and woman as they make their marriage vows.Father, as(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name)have chosen each other, help them and bless them that their love may be pure, and their vows may be true.Through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.(Minister: addressing the groom who repeats the marriage vows):

I(Groom’s Name)take thee(Bride’s Name)to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor, and cherish, ’til death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance;and thereto I plight thee my troth.(Minister: then to the bride who repeats the marriage vows):

I(Bride’s Name)take thee(Groom’s Name)to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, honor, and cherish, ’til death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance;and thereto I plight thee my troth.(The Minister then gets the brides ring from the best man)

Minister:(praying over brides ring): Lord, bless this ring that he who gives it and she who wears it may abide in your peace, and continue in your favor until life’s end, through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.(Groom: placing ring on bride’s finger):

With this ring I thee wed.Wear it as a symbol of our love and commitment.Minister:(praying over groom’s ring): Lord, bless this ring that she who gives it and he who wears it may abide in your peace, and continue in your favor until life’s end, through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.(Bride: placing ring on groom’s finger):

ith this ring I thee wed.Wear it as a symbol of our love and commitment.(Music may be inserted here.)

(The wedding song)Minister: Let us pray

Father, we pray for all married persons, that they may continue to give, be able to forgive, and experience more and more of the joy of the Lord with each passing day.And especially for(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name), now beginning their married life together, that they may have divine assistance, the constant support of friends, and a long life with good health.May your fullest blessing come upon(Bride’s Name)and her husband(Groom’s Name), from this day forward, for ever and ever, Amen.May Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, always be at the center of the new lives you are now starting to build together, that you may know the ways of true love and kindness.May the Lord bless you both all the days of your lives and fill you with his joy.Amen.(The minister now joins their right hands together and says):

Those, whom God has joined together, let no man put asunder.In so much as(Groom’s Name)and(Bride’s Name)have consented together in holy wedlock, and have witnessed the same before God and this company, having given and pledged their troth, each to the other, and having declared same by the giving and receiving of a ring, I pronounce that they are husband and wife.Minister:(to the couple): Seal the promises you have made with each other with a kiss.(The couple kisses.)

Minister: Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you Mr.and Mrs._________________.Now let us pray as Jesus has taught us:

Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name.Thy kingdom come.Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.Give us this day our daily bread.And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil:

for thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever and ever.Amen.西方传统婚礼上牧师的证言