第一篇:敏感话题
Internet and Privacy
Internet has penetrated into all the aspects of our life and work.We can study and work by it.We can find a job by it.We can communicate by it.We can entertain by it.We can buy and sell by it.We can do almost everything on Internet, and almost anywhere, anytime.However, at the same time Internet provides services for us, it is inevitably invading our privacy to some degree.The services on most websites require our registry.If we want to enjoy these services, we have to provide much private information, including our names, genre, address, telephone number and sometimes bank accounts.Due to the poor Internet administration and weak network security, our information might be open, stolen or sold.Even sometimes the information will be misused by the criminals.Considering the above mentioned, we must enhance the alertness when using the Internet.First, when we need Internet service, we should always log on those big legal websites.Second, if the service requires important private information, you should think twice before you type in it.Learn to Be Grateful
Nowadays, quite a few college students lack consciousness of being grateful.They turn to take such things for granted, as parents supporting them, teachers helping them, and waiters serving them.They are even mean to say “Thank you” to others.This phenomenon has caused great attention from the whole society.The following reasons can account for the lack of gratefulness consciousness.First of all, unsound
family education plays an important role.Many parents turn to pay too much attention to children's academic performance, but ignore their value orientation.Moreover, schools don't input enough time and money in
moral education.Besides, nowadays, college students get so much love that they are insensitive to others' care and help.Considering the seriousness of the problem, it is high time to take effective measures to strengthen college students consciousness of being grateful.First, parents should improve self-quality and influence children by their own behaviors.Second, our society and schools must increase input in moral education, and try to build the atmosphere of being grateful.Finally, we college students should learn to express our gratefulness to people around us, just beginning from the simple “Thank you”.How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?
Currently,many parents,if not most,care too much about their children,which makes their kids not as independent as we desire.Undoubtedly,the growth of each kid,exerts a profound impact for the entire family.Time after time newspapers carry articles pertaining to the educational style,and thus the media and officials are supposed to strive for a healthy way to educate our children.The present situation being so serious,it is imperative for us to take drastic measures and do not keep turning a blind eye to them.The first and key point is that parents themselves,rather than anybody else,have the responsibility to provide their children with a more independent living atmosphere.Another method,similarly indispensable,is that it is high time that children enhance their awareness of being independent.With these measures taken,it is reasonable for us to believe that the problem will be addressed in the near future.It is true that children need delicate care.Nonetheless,children will one day grow up and face the cruel world on their own.In order to make our children adapt to the fierce competition when they become mature,the whole society,especially parents are bound to give our children a more independent surrounding.环保
In recent years, extravagance and waste have become increasingly serious in some of the university campus.We can see that papers, bottles and cans are thrown away after use;food is wasted just because of its poor taste;clothes are discarded simply owing to their old fashion.As a consequence, people in mounting numbers put great emphasis on creating a green campus.There are at least two criteria to distinguish what is green campus.On the one hand, natural resources must be conserved and made full use of, for example, we, as college students, should take the wise use of papers and second-hand textbooks into account.On the other hand, education to build up thrift habits must be promoted by relevant departments and professionals at various levels.Accordingly, it is necessary for us to take effective steps.For one thing, university authorities should respond with the demand for more rigid conservation of our natural resources, such as water, electricity, and so on.For another, we should enhance the awareness of college students that creating a green campus is of utmost significance to both our society and ourselves.“There is only one failure:that is giving up.” Don’t waste your time on reading those so-called ways ofbecoming successful books any more.The only thing you need to do is hold on.Just follow you heart, adhere to your goal, and never say die.You will get success at last.About Examination
I don't remember how many examinations I've taken since I began my schooling.To tell the truth,I don't like examinations at all.I dare say that,in fact,no student likes examinations.We often hear people say “Examinations are teachers' magic weapon”,so most of us may think it is our teachers who give us students so many examinations.But I don't think so.Almost all of them have once been students before they became teachers.We don't like examinations,and neither do our teachers,which may be reasonably concluded.What's more,the more examinations we take,the more time will be taken from our teachers and the more trouble our teachers have to take.It is the system in our country,I think,that gives us students so many examinations.If there were no entrance examinations,and all the students could go up to the higher grades without competition,there would not be so many examinations in primary and middle schools.So it is important and necessary to reform the test system.Only in this way can examinations be greatly reduced,and then all the students will be happier.Advantages and Disadvantages of Electronic Dictionary
The discussion about electronic dictionaries has never stopped in the past few years.Let's have a look at its advantages and disadvantages before drawing the final conclusion.The biggest advantage of an electronic dictionary is its convenience.Whenever you meet new words or expressions, you can know the meaning quickly.What's more, with the development of science and
technology, electronic dictionaries are becoming more and more advanced: they can pronounce the words clearly, provide sample sentences to illustrate word usage and store difficult words for special memorization.Last but by no means the least, electronic dictionaries are becoming cheaper and cheaper, nd more and more students can afford them.However, the negative effects are also obvious.To begin with, some students rely too much on the electronic dictionary—they never put their heart into learning new words and expressions.In the second place, some explanations are neither complete nor accurate, which are quite misleading.Finally, new technical inventions do not necessarily lead to progress in learning.Diligence is always the decisive factor, because “there is no royal road to learning”.Up until now, we can see it clearly that an electronic dictionary is not beneficial or harmful in itself.The key lies in the user—so long as we can make proper use of it, it can be most helpful to us in many aspects.Teenagers' Studying Abroad
Recently it seems that among the students who choose to study abroad, there are more and more-teenagers who study in high schools or even elementary schools.Many people, especially the parents, think it will certainly do good to their chidren because the independent life will make them learn confidence and perseverance.Moreover, the quality of overseas education is often higher, thus the child stands a better chance of entering a better university and getting a better job in the future.After careful consideration, I have to say the above view is more than biased.On the one hand, early independent life is not necessarily good, if the child cannot receive proper guidance and tender care from both teachers and parents.On the other hand, the educational quality is also a question—too many foreign schools aim at earning money.When the children come back, who can guarantee that they can adapt to the fierce competition here?
We can see clearly that although teenagers' studying abroad may bring favorable results, there are still a lot to worry about.It seems necessary for young students to make a careful investigation before going abroad.
第二篇:入境美国留学生应谨慎谈论敏感话题
入境美国留学生应谨慎谈论敏感话题
7月6日,美国《侨报》报道,近日,美国海关与边境保护局(USCBP)发布一份“收集出入美国人员社交媒体信息”的提案:要求抵达和离开美国的人员,在填写出入境单(I-94)时,需附上个人的社交媒体账号以便官方查验。该提案于6月23日在官网上发布,目前正处在公示期,公示期截止日为8月22日。
这一提案针对所有非美国公民,也就是说,除了中国游客、留学生,拥有美国长期或永久居留身份的华侨也在范围之内。而在微信、微博、QQ等社交媒体所发布的内容都可能成为能否入境美国的检查标准之一。
美国国土安全部门工作人员在接受媒体采访时表示,收集社交账户信息是为了更好地进行入关检查,以便及时发现可能与恐怖主义组织存在联系的人员。
查微信微博真的管用吗?
从目前公布的信息看来,填写社交媒体账户的新要求并不是强制的:
* 社交媒体账号一栏并非必填项
* 没有规定必须填写哪些社交媒体
* 不会要求提供账户的密码
对于担心隐私遭到泄露的人们来说,看到这里应该会放心不少。但是,这也引发了一个问题:如果有人刻意隐藏了一部分社交媒体信息,这种“可选填”的信息审核机制真的管用吗?
不过,美国国土安全部却认为,收集社交媒体信息的做法的确有助于鉴别“是否与不法行为存在潜在联系。”
哪些敏感话题可能导致被遣返?
目前,美国“收集出入境人员社交媒体信息”的举措还只是提案阶段,一旦在审议中获得通过,未来在入境时要求提供微信朋友圈、QQ空间等相关信息将成为海关检查入境人员的手段之一。而在今年,因在微信等社交媒体上谈论敏感话题而导致遣返的新闻报道也越来越多。
因微信表情包太黄被遣返:据加拿大家园网在今年年初的消息,一名中国留学生在入境加拿大时,被海关查出手机微信中存有“疑似未成年人淫秽视频”,随即被遣返回中国。据悉,这名被遣留学生在温哥华当地就读已有15个月,他再次进入温哥华机场准备入境时,却被CBSA(加拿大边境服务局)叫进了小黑屋,理由就是,在他手机微信群聊中发现了疑似未成年人淫秽视频。虽然加拿大警方最后认定未构成犯罪,但CBSA人员还是坚持撤销他的签证,并且在温哥华机场直接遣返他回中国了。
开玩笑说“枪杀”教授被遣返:据美国爱荷华大学(The University of Iowa)校报The Daily Iowan2月10日报道,该校一名名叫Hangxiang Ni的22岁中国留学生,于2月2日被学校开除,2天后乘坐飞机返回中国上海。该中国留学生认为这是因为他在instagram上开玩笑说要“枪杀”教授,结果被学校开除,最后被移民局强制遣返回国。
微信聊天谈论挂靠学校被遣返:在2月中旬,一名留学生因其离境时间不在学校法定假期,被美国海关质疑她的学校不正规,怀疑她有移民倾向,请她进了“小黑屋”。随后美国海关官员在检查该留学生的手机时发现,她曾在和一位朋友的微信聊天中表示对目前的学校“只是临时挂一下身份”。美国海关因此认定她隐瞒了来美国的真实目的,学生身份不实,拒绝她入境美国。此后美国海关及边境保卫局(U.S.Customs and Border Protection)的公共事务专家尤兰达(Yolanda Choates)证实,近日确有中国留学生遭检查手机后被怀疑有“挂靠学校获得虚假学生身份”的嫌疑,而后遣返回国。
美国移民律师黄唯表示,近几年美国的入境检查比之前更严,因为机场海关是归反恐部门管理的,而且海关和移民局有很紧密的联系,怕来美国的访客非法移民、非法打工、非法结婚等等。因此留学生在社交媒体上谈论到相关敏感话题时候,需持谨慎态度,最好是能不涉及就不涉及,避免不必要的麻烦。
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第三篇:关于中学生恋爱的敏感话题__一篇很好的博文
亲爱的General朋友,你好!
感谢你一直关注我的博客。
从你的名字看,你似乎是一个有点霸气但情感可能比较丰富细腻的的男孩,呵呵,对吧?
很荣幸能有机会和你交流关于中学生恋爱的话题。
在传统教育中,学生异性间(尤其是中学阶段)的情感是一个敏感的话题,不过,我从来不觉得那什么洪水猛兽,也不值得大惊小怪,很正常啊!因为正处于青少年时期的中学生是长知识,求上进的时候。这个阶段的心理特点是要求被人理解,要求摆脱被支配而谋求人格独立。在学习与生活中,有欢乐,有苦恼,成功与失败,斗争与冲突。他们需要倾诉,需要理解,需要帮助。所以渴求寻求友谊,成为一种自然现象,这有错吗?
昨天,我收到今年刚考上大学的一位学生的一则短信,内容是:妈(他一直把我看成是妈),我喜欢我们班的一位女生,她说也喜欢我,但我担心我们不可能永远在一起的,因为我们还太年轻,那个女生很好的,但我又不想错过她,我该怎么办啊?我思考了片刻,回了他一条短信:感情的事不必操之过急,关系好,未必一定就是恋爱关系。弄清楚自己喜欢对方什么,对方又喜欢自己什么很要紧。这种“喜欢”也许未必就是恋爱。如果真到了恋爱的地步,那也是顺其自然,绝不牵强或一厢情愿,否则,最终连好朋友也做不成。这个孩子收到我的短信后回到:妈,我知道了,我会处理好的。我知道,他不会那么快就完全领会我的意思的,但他一定会慢慢体会和感知的。其实对于这个孩子,我很了解他,他是一个很多情的小男生,感情丰富细腻,也很单纯幼稚。在过去的高中三年同样也在不同的阶段喜欢上不同的女生,甚至对我们的一个年轻的女老师有过好感,也曾有过分心。在那时,我曾和他聊过类似的话题,我从来没有责备过他,我曾说过:“喜欢”的感觉是一种美好的感觉。人在人生的任何阶段都希望拥有美好的感情,有一个“人”“在心中”是很温暖的。不过,年纪太轻,在没有弄清楚自己到底喜欢什么的时候,不要轻易下定义,不要对自己过早地提出“恋爱”这个要求,你做不到,因为你的能力还不够,爱是需要能力的,还需要有责任心,你现在一无所有,无经济基础,无稳定工作和收入,无固定的场所,无时间,无适当的环境,无一定的目的,无经验与心理准备,连自己都无法养活,你拿什么去爱别人呢?
人是有感情的动物。中学时代,是最纯真的时候,任何感觉都是最纯洁的,“爱情”这个词语对于十来岁的学生来说真的太朦胧太神秘了,也就是因为很神秘吧,孩子们才会想去探究。记得自己在像你们这般年龄的时候,也有朦朦胧胧的“喜欢”一个人的感觉,看见那人的背影,或者和那人说一句话都觉得很开心,有时也觉得羞涩,有时还故意装着不想和他说话的样子,其实那就是“喜欢”,幼稚的“喜欢”,纯粹的“喜欢”,也就是这种模模糊糊的喜欢,许多时候给自己带来了动力:只要是那种想要在一起的感觉就够了——天天可以看得到,一起学习,一起努力,尽情享受那种“在一起”的感觉!这样就好。觉得很幸福,觉得生活真美好,觉得该好好努力,做出成绩,不让“喜欢的人”失望。等到有一天,真正长大了,再回头看看这份所谓的“爱情”,觉得非常幼稚非常美好而单纯„„
为什么家长老师们不愿意让孩子们过早涉足恋爱呢?不一定是他们封建或专制,也不是他们缺少情商,他们的担心和忧虑也并非完全没有道理。
中学阶段是中学生成长、掌握知识的最关键的时期,生理的逐渐成熟与心理的不成熟发展不同步,他们的世界观,审美观,价值观还没有完全形成,他们缺乏事物判断力、驾驭力、自我克制力,因此,他们所谓的“爱”也必然不成熟,经不住时间和空间的考验。他们处在矛盾的交织中,心理上压力巨大,还怕同学讥笑,怕家长发现,怕老师批评,怕失去“爱情”„„因而使自己的行动诡秘起来,时刻提防别人知道一切,时刻防别人拆自己信件„„,导致精神紧张,烦躁不安,心神不宁,甚至有脱离集体的心理倾向。在这样的情况下,你想要专心,想要不耽误学习都难。对这样一个其实是伤害自己也会可能伤害他人的做法,父母和老师会熟视无睹吗?当然不会的!
有人就对中学生的“爱情”作了诠释:时尚——为时尚早;浪漫——慢慢地把自己的青春浪费掉;享受——自己想着受罪;投入——把头伸入,失去理智。当然,这样说有种受伤的感觉,但事实上,仔细想想还真很形象。明明预知了一种徒劳和未果的结局,却还要在在一路上那么风餐露宿,艰难跋涉,不惜牺牲亲情的呼唤以及师长的教诲、甚至牺牲本应该是很美好的友情,我总觉得不值得。
不过,话说回来,如果有那么一对人,能做到彼此关心,互相督促,取长补短,相互勉励,共同进步,未必不是一件好事啊!我记得我所带过的一个班级中,曾有一对同学,男生很优秀,女生成绩一般,高三时他们彼此喜欢上了对方,作为班主任的我,其实早已了解此情,我观察他们,哈!两情相悦,互通有无:男生帮助女生补习化学,很卖力,女生英语阅读做得好,常帮助男生检查阅读题。临近高考,他们甚至将座位都挪到一起,我并没有“惊动”他们,佯装一无所知。只感觉到女生的成绩在进步,学习主动性比过去强多了,男生原来是一个很内向的孩子,自“恋爱”后似乎也开朗很多,脸上常浮现幸福安详的孩子般笑容„„高考结束那天,我和男生做了一次真诚的沟通,以教师的眼光,我知道这孩子将来志向远大,前途光明;以成人的眼光,我知道中学的这段恋情即将结束,因为他们都将走向不同的学校,进入新的环境。我第一次和他正面地谈到爱的问题,谈到“男人”的责任感的问题,告诉他:爱,意味一个人对另一个人的尊重、关心、理解、帮助和责任。和他谈到许许多多关于未来的假设和遐想。我希望他认真对待自己美好的感情,能承担多少,就付出多少,绝不要提前预支。他明白我的话,后来在一次信中说:老师的这番话,让他收益终身。这孩子考上了西安交大,一年后就考到新加坡留学。而女生也考到天津的一所大学,他们的故事当然就结束了。由此看来,中学阶段的“爱”是如何不现实。但我相信,这两位学生至今回忆起自己的中学时代,一定仍怀有美好而纯真的感情!
你说过,你在初二时曾因感情问题而耽误了学习,没有考上理想的高中。现在高二了,你同样也受相同问题所困,心不由己。我觉得,作为男孩子,应该逐渐培养理智,你一定知道这种说法:在正确的时候遇上了正确的人,你就拥有最珍贵的幸福;同样,在正确的时间做正确的事情,你就拥有更好的效果。既然曾有过前车之鉴,那就更没有理由重蹈覆辙。中学生渴望得到理解,得到关心甚至是爱,这没有错,恋爱是神圣而美好的,人们穷极一生去寻找真正的爱情,说明爱情之伟大,爱情之珍贵。而你却能很容易在中学阶段就找到了所谓的爱情,是不是觉得的来太容易了呢?我觉得中学阶段显然没有能力去做这件“大事”。与其浪费时间和精力倒不如先放弃不切实际的念头,发奋学习,掌握本领,成就未来。高二在高中阶段是一个关键时期,是一个在知识上承上启下的阶段,但学生们往往容易忽略这段时间。认为高一是高中阶段的起始时期,往往踌躇满志,雄心勃勃,并对高中充满憧憬和神往,有一种想要证明自己的决心。高二后,学生们熟悉了高中规律,也逐渐没有了新鲜感,特别遭遇学习上的挫折打击后,可能会寻找其他的精神支撑。再加上觉得离高考还很遥远,不免逐渐生出空虚和茫然。真正进入高三后又会重新振奋,朝一个目标去努力,因此,高二是最容易走偏的一个阶段,就像初二一样,在这个时候,学生们容易出现心理上的问题,上网多,恋爱多,看课外书多,打架多,等等。
我不知道自己的观点对否,也不知道能否说服你,作为一个老师,作为一个有了孩子的母亲,更重要的是作为一个成熟的人,我总以为中学时代谈恋爱是一种较为幼稚的做法,并且涉足越深,可能受伤越深。希望你好好把握自己的情感,如果“喜欢”,请将其转化成一种动力,推动彼此朝良性循环。当将来回首往事不至于因虚度而遗憾,反而会觉得一切是那么美好和美丽!
心存一份幸福,不要轻易谈情,不要轻易许诺。
心存一份神往,不要轻易说爱,不要轻易伤害!
祝你快乐!健康!进步!