凡事发生皆有利于我(冠军演讲稿)

第一篇：凡事发生皆有利于我(冠军演讲稿)

凡事发生皆有利于我（冠军演讲稿）

2007年3月17日一早我来到了中央电视台发射塔大楼下，在大厅的电梯外焦虑地徘徊，失望、委屈、悲伤、焦灼、郁闷各种心情涌上心头。因为前一天知道自己被挡在了“赢在中国”的108强之外了。当时我认为这太不公平了。为了准备比赛我写大量的文章，准备了详细的商业计划书。然后就几分钟，几分钟，几个评委就决定了我的命运。得到消息那一瞬间，我几乎绝望了。

那个时候我创办的大酒店已经关门近一年，之前积累的所有财富化为乌有，我个人负债超过300万元。北漂也有大半年的时间了，为了比赛我辞去了北京一个文化公司营销总监的职位，把参加“赢在中国”创业大赛当作我唯一的救命稻草，我就是冲着前五名500万元创业风险基金来的。我调动了我所有的激情，做了自己当时能够做到的所有努力，然而前进的步伐却嘎然而止。我想到了死，我想步入电梯，升到电视塔的最顶端，然后跳下。我想血祭“赢在中国”。但是，这一恐怖的想法涌上心头的那一瞬间，我忽然看到了妈妈充满泪水的双眼，我看到了我的儿子我的妻子孤苦活在世上的场景。我惊呆了，我怎么会有这样的想法，太自私了，我狠狠地煽了自己一耳光。不行，我绝对不能放弃，我决定冲场，比赛还没有结束，于是我成了第二届“赢在中国”108强唯一获得两次面试机会的人。当时的主考官就是新浪的总裁王志东。第二次面试我仍然没有入围，因为冲场，我成了这个节目论坛上的新闻。我近距离见到了史玉柱、马云、牛根生、熊晓鸽等大佬，我明白了自己应该成为什么样的人。也就是从那时起，我开始懂得了“凡事发生皆有利于我”真正含义，因为正是“赢在中国”的失利，让我回归理性，开始出去打工养活家人和自己，开始重新创业。我在本地的一家酒店做了营销经理，曾经的市委副书记秘书、曾经本地知名大酒店的老板为您服务，您是不是很有面子？曾经有一桌客人充满恶意，一口气灌了我10杯酒，还恶言相加，因为酒精严重过敏，我的脸都变形了，在厕所里，我的眼泪喷涌而出，这是怎样一种屈辱，我擦干眼泪，告诉自己，凡事发生皆有利于我。2008年，我去到越南，为湖北一家烟草公司开拓市场，没有越南人知道你过去做过什么，在这样腐败初现的国家，与政府部门打交道，做什么你都得低三下气，受尽委屈，我告诉自己凡事发生皆有利于我，结果我在越南躲过了汶川大地震，好多朋友却离开了世界；两年后我在一家房产公司作西南区总经理，挣得60万年薪，即便是我帮助这家企业在一个项目上多赚1个亿，但不需要你的时候，你就被扫地出门。然而我没有任何报怨，因为我懂得：凡事发生皆有利于我。这已经成为我的信念，对照自己曾经走过的人生，每一次的跌落，都成为我下一次腾飞开始。亲爱的伙伴，好事情的发生固然对我们有利，而坏事情的发生一定可以让我们成长，不是吗？现在，大家可以用五秒钟让曾经的不快经历闪过头脑，告诉自己：凡事发生皆有利于我。2011年我再一次完成了人生的积累，开始了新的创业，成立自己的林业公司、农业公司，创建近2000亩的园林苗木基地。再接下来，更大的意外出现，我仍然平静面对，因为我懂得，凡事发生皆有利于我。当我以积极的心态面对的时候，在我最需要帮助的时候，所有该出现的人都出现了！巨海集团董事长成杰老师出现了，他十年神奇的蜕变让我惊讶，他让我明白了自己生命的意义，也让我知道自己将会成为什么样的人。成杰老师带来了我生命的贵人，他的一个杰出的弟子莫总，在他的帮助下并在家人、朋友、同学的共同努力下，我安然度过了人生最大的困难。成杰老师说，大困难带来大成就，站在5年乃至10年后看现在，今天所有的问题都已经不是问题。在这里，我要衷心感谢成杰老师，感谢巨海杰出的家人莫总。凡事发生皆有利于我，与巨海结缘，让我真正知道了自己的优势，知道了人生就是成就彼此，彼此成就，并开始了在教育行业的全情投入。最后以一首最喜爱的小诗中的几句话结束今天的演讲。我懂得，世界上最好的学校在智者的脚下。我懂得，有时候，拥有善良比拥有真理更重要。我懂得，是那些生活的琐碎小事累积起来使生活变得如此精彩。我懂得，是爱，而不是时间，能治愈所有的创伤。我懂得，让一个人成长的最快捷的方式是在他身边有许多更智慧的人。我懂得，生活是艰难的，但你需要更坚强。我懂得，每个人都希望站在峰顶，但所有的幸福都发生在你和我攀登的时候。

第二篇：冠军演讲稿（本站推荐）

第八届全国英语演讲比赛全国冠军演讲稿

（顾秋蓓）

下午好，各位先生女士们

今天，我想首先用一个小故事。曾经有一个物理治疗师谁亲赴从美国到非洲做一个关于山地大猩猩普查。这些大猩猩是对游客的吸引力，主要来自世界各地，这使他们严重不足的偷猎威胁，目前到动物园付诸表决。她去了好奇，但她看见她的决心，增强她的一生奉献为这些美丽的生物战斗。她亲眼目睹的场景，场景带我们到一个地方，我们从来没有影像，我们经历过的，其中在非洲热带雨林的深处，树木，花卉，蝴蝶，大猩猩包围的母亲拥抱自己的婴儿。

是的，在我最喜欢的电影之一难忘的场景，呼吁在薄雾大猩猩的基础上，戴安娜弗西夫人，谁在此度过了一生中最卢旺达保护，直到她生命的最后的生态环境有真实的故事。

对我来说，电影，不仅提供了一个难忘的场景，而且也是一个永恒提醒我们，我们不应该在发展我们的生态成本，环境，旅游业行为。

今天，我们生活在一个繁荣的世界，但仍这么多的新问题的威胁。一方面，旅游业作为21世纪最有前途的产业之一，为我们提供了极好的机会都没有看到人都会看到，并前往任何地方有去。这已成为一些人的生活方式，并已被证明是在国内生产总值增长的推动力。它的神奇，把一个繁荣仙境1落后的小城。但在另一方面，可能会出现很多问题-自然景观不自然了。砍伐森林的热小屋是毁灭性的尼泊尔。旅游船油泄漏污染是南极。部落的人丧失了本土音乐和服饰，听取他们对随身听U2和穿耐克和锐步。

所有这些令人震惊的事实使我们认识到，我们不能再袖手旁观，什么都不做，因为它认为非常侵蚀了我们的资源。令人鼓舞的是，全球旅游的爆炸性增长已经把旅游业再次在聚光灯下，这就是为什么联合国2002年提出的生态旅游首次提请全世界注意旅游业的好处，但也其能力，破坏我们的生态环境。

现在每年有很多地方ecoenvironmental保护组织接受捐赠-大笔记，笔记，甚至小硬币-从家庭主妇，管道工，救护车司机，售货员，教师，儿童和残疾人。其中一些人可没有钱给的钱，但他们这样做。这是谁驾驶的出租车，谁在医院护士，谁从他们所在地区的生态破坏的痛苦。为什么？因为他们的照顾。因为他们仍然希望他们回到大自然。因为他们知道它仍然属于他们。

这种感觉，我有，女士们，先生们，是当它的感觉，喜欢这种气味，而且看来，这一切都从一个场景来记住，一个场景回顾和珍惜。

有一天晚上，我看见月亮徘徊在土地和前被送进了无形的，心里却充满了歌曲。我发现自己轻轻哼唱，而不是音乐，而是别的东西，别的地方，一个地方记住，一个地方不动，一个草地，再没有人似乎除了鹿被。

和那些难忘的情景更增强了的感觉，现在需要我们做一些事情，为我们自己和我们的未来一代。

再次，我所认为的夫人戴安娜弗西，因为它与她的精神，热情，勇气和强烈的生态环境，我们的感觉是，我们正在进入世界的下一个步骤。

不管我们是谁，我们做什么，而且我们去，在我们的脑海，总有一个场景要记住，一个值得努力保护，并争取的场景。

非常感谢。第八届“21世纪杯”全国英语演讲比赛冠军——顾秋蓓

A Scene to RememberGu

Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen.Today I would like to begin with a story.There was once a physical 1)therapist（临床医学家）who traveled all the way from America to Africa to do a 2)census（普查）about mountain 3)gorillas.These gorillas are a main attraction to tourists from all over the world;this put them severely under threat of 4)poaching and being put into the zoo.She went there out of curiosity, but what she saw strengthened her determination to devote her whole life to fighting for those beautiful creatures.She witnessed a scene, a scene taking us to a place we never imaged we've ever been, where in the very depth of the African rainforest, surrounded by trees, flowers and butterflies, the mother gorillas 5)cuddled拥抱 their babies.Yes, that's a memorable scene in one of my favorite movies, called Gorillas in the Mist, based on a true story of Mrs.Dian Fossey, who spent most of bet lifetime in Rwanda（卢旺达）to protect the ecoenvironment there until the very end of her life.To me, the movie not only presents an unforgettable scene but also acts as a 6)timeless reminder that we should not develop the tourist industry at the cost of our ecoenvironment.Today, we live in a world of prosperity but still threatened by so many new problems.On the one hand, tourism, as one of the most promising industries in the 21st century, provides people with the great opportunity to see everything there is to see and to go any place there is to go.It has become a lifestyle for some people, and has turned out to be the driving force in GDP growth.It has the magic to turn a backward town into a wonderland of prosperity.But on the other hand, many problems can occur---natural scenes aren't natural anymore.Deforestation to heat lodges is devastating Nepal.Oil spills from tourist boats are polluting Antarctica.Tribal people are forsaking their native music and dress to listen to U2 on Walkman and wear Nike and Reeboks.All these 7)appalling(令人震惊的)facts have brought us to the realization that we can no longer stand by and do nothing, because the very thought of it has been 8)eroding(侵蚀)our resources.Encouragingly, the explosive growth of global travel has put tourism again in the spotlight, which is why the United Nations has made 2002 the year of ecotourism, for the first time to bring to the world's attention the benefits of tourism, but also its capacity to destroy our ecoenvironment.Now every year, many local ecoenvironmental protection organizations an: receiving donations--big notes, small notes or even coins--from

housewives, 9)plumbers(水管工人), ambulance drivers, salesmen, teachers, children and 10)invalids(残疾人), Some of them can not afford to send the money but they do.These are the ones who drive the cabs, who nurse in hospitals, who are suffering from ecological damage in their

neighborhood.Why? Because they care.Because they still want their Mother Nature back.Because they know it still belongs to them.This kind of feeling that I have, ladies and gentlemen, is when it feels like it, smells like it, and looks like it, it's all coming from a scene to remember, a scene to recall and to cherish.The other night, as l saw the moon linger over the land and before it was sent into the invisible, my mind was filled with songs.I found myself humming softly, not to the music, but to some-thing else, someplace else.a place remembered, a place untouched, a field of grass where no one seem to have been except the deer.And all those unforgettable scenes strengthened the feeling that it's lime for us to do something, for our own and our coming generation.Once again, I have come to think of Mrs.Dian Fossey be-cause it's with her spirit, passion, courage and strong sense of our ecoenvironment that we are taking our next step into the world.And no matter who we are, what we do and where we go, in our mind, there's always a scene to remember, a scene worth our effort to protect it and fight for it.Thank you very much.94

第三篇：21世纪英语演讲冠军演讲稿

21世纪・爱立信杯“全国英语演讲比赛冠军得主的演讲稿:

To me March 28th was a lucky day.It was on that particular evening that I found myself at central stage, in the spotlight.Winning the ”21st Century・Ericsson Cup“ Seventh National English Speaking Competition is a memory that I shall treasure and on that will surely stay.More important than winning the Cup is the friendship that has been established and developed among the contestants, and the chance to communicate offstage in addition to competing onstage.Also the competition helps boost public speaking in China, a skill hitherto undervalued.For me, though, the competition is a more personal experience.Habitually shy, I had been reluctant to take part in any such activities.Encouraged by my friends, however, I made a last-minute decision to give it a try.In the course of preparation I somehow rediscovered myself, a truer me.I found that, after all, I like communicating with other people;that exchanging views can be so much fun―and so much rewarding, both emotionally and intellectually;that public speaking is most effective when you are least guarded;and that it is essential to success in every walk of life.At a more practical level, I realized knowing what you are going to say and how you are going to say it are equally important.To take the original ideas out of your head and transplant them, so to speak, to that of others, you need to have an organized mind.This ability improves with training.Yet there should not be any loss or addition or distortion in the process.Those ideas that finally find their ways in to s another head need to be recognizably yours.Language is a means to transmit information, not a means to obstruct communication.It should be lucid to be penetrating.In China, certain public speaking skills have been unduly emphasized.Will it really help, we are compelled to ask, to bang at the podium or yell at the top of your lungs, if you have come with a poorly organized speech, a muddled mind, and unwillingness to truly share your views Above all, the single most important thing I learnt was that as a public speaker, you need to pay attention, first and foremost, to the content of your speech.And second, the structure of your speech: how one idea relates and progresses to another.Only after these come delivery and non-verbal communication: speed control, platform manner, and so on.Pronunciation is important, yet of greater importance is this: Is your language competent enough to express your ideas exactly the way you intend them to be understood I was informed afterwards that I was chosen to be the winner for my ”appropriately worded speech, excellent presence and quick-witted response“.In so remarking, the judges clearly showed their preference: they come to listen for meaningful ideas, not for loose judgments, nor easy laughers.Some contestants failed to address their questions head on.Some were able to, but did not knows where s to stop the dragging on betrayed their lack of confidence.The root cause was that they did not listen attentively to the questions.Or they were thinking of what they had prepared.As I said in my speech, ”It is vitally important that we young people do more serious thinking...to take them [issues like globalization] on and give them honest thinking is the first step to be prepared for both opportunities and challenges coming our way“.We need to respond honestly.A competition like this draws talented students from all over the country.And of course, I learnt more things than just about public speaking.Since in the final analysis, public speaking is all about effective communication.And this goes true for all communications, whatever their setting.And the following is the final version of my speech: GLOBALIZATION:

OPPORTUNITIES AND CHALLENGES FOR CHINA'S YOUNGER GENERATION Thirty years ago, American President Richard Nixon made an epoch-making visit to China, a country still isolated at that time.Premier Zhou Enlai said to him, ”Your handshake came over the vastest ocean in the world twenty-five years of no communication“.Thirty years since, China and America have exchanged many handshakes.The fundamental implication of this example is that the need to communicate across differences in culture and ideology is not only felt by the two countries but by many other nations as well.As we can see today, environmentalists from different countries are making joint efforts to address the issue of global warming, economists are seeking solutions to financial crises that rage in a particular region but nonetheless cripple the world economy, and politicians and diplomats are getting together to discuss the issue of combating terrorism.Peace and prosperity has become a common goal that we are striving for all over the world.Underlying this mighty trend of global communication is the echo of E.M.Forster's words ”Only connect!" With the IT revolution, traditional boundaries of human society fall away.Our culture, politics, society and commerce are being sloshedsinto s one large melting pot of humanity.In this interlinked world, there are no outsiders, for a disturbance in one place is likely to impact other parts of the globe.We have begun to realize that a world divided cannot endure.China is now actively integrating in to s the world.Our recent entry to the WTO is a good example.For decades, we have taken pride in being self-reliant, but now we realize the importance of participating in and contributing to a broader economic order.From a precarious role in the world arena to our present WTO membership, we have come a long way.But what does the way ahead look like In some parts of the world people are demonstrating against globalization.Are they justified, then, in criticizing the globalizing world Instead of narrowing the gap between the rich and the poor, they say, globalization enables the developed nations to swallow the developing nations' wealth in debts and interest.Globalization, they argue, should be about a common interest in every other nation's economic health.We are reminded by Karl Marx that capital goes beyond national borders and eludes control from any other entity.This has become a reality.Multinational corporations are seeking the lowest cost, the largest market, and the most favorable policy.They are often powerful lobbyists in government decision-making, ruthless expansionists in the global market and a devastating presence to local businesses.For China, still more challenges exist.How are we going to ensure a smooth transition from the planned economy to a market-based one How to construct a legal system that is sound enough and broad enough to respond to the needs of a dynamic society How to maintain our cultural identity in an increasingly homogeneous world And how to define greatness in our rise as a peace-loving nation Globalization entails questions that concern us all.Like many young people my age in China, I want to see my country get prosperous and enjoy respect in the international community.But it seems to me that mere patriotism is not just enough.It is vitally important that we young people do more serious thinking and broaden our mind to bigger issues.There might never be easy answers to those issues such as globalization, but to take them on and give them honest thinking is the first step to be prepared for both opportunities and challenges coming our way.This is also one of the thoughts that came to me while preparing this speech.

第四篇：外研社杯2010冠军演讲稿

下面附上我的演讲稿供大家参考：

Good morning/afternoon, ladies and gentlemen: The Restriction to Creativity Is My Top Concern Have you ever wondered how many plastic bags our nation uses a day? Would you believe it if I said that total could fill an entire three-story building? Yes, sadly that’s right.In China, more than 20 billion plastic bags are consumed everyday, making our country’s plastic pollution unbearable.Nowadays, plastics have been considered as the worst invention the 20th century while back in the 1890s it was regarded as a groundbreaking creation.From the case of plastic bags, we can see that creativity should be guided, cultivated and well adapted.From steam engines to space ships, from abacus to computers, each major invention brought human beings into a new era, providing us with comforts and fortune.But when pulled away from the spotlight, we can realize that creativity has also brought us into the shadows of environmental pollution, nuclear wars, and unethical scientific experiments.Shouldn’t industrial creativity be restricted to save the Amazon forests? Shouldn’t military creativity be constrained to avoid nuclear Genocide? And would it be better if scientific creativity were supervised to save us the trouble figuring out whether a cloned human should call its genetic provider daddy or what? In the mean time, the power to dream also has a major impact on social ethos.There’s no denying that anti-racism, human rights and what gave me the chance to stand here today—women’s liberation have engaged us into a more civilized world.However, that does not mean social ideas do not have the power to produce alarming effects.During the WWII racial ideology resulted in the massacre of 6 million Jews and in China, our population policies before the 1980s gave us more than 500 million people in just 30 years, putting heavy burden on both the environment and economy.From all these examples above, we can conclude that what creativity can offer us should be a concern.So, today when everyone is stressing the importance of bringing creativity into our lives, I stress on putting restriction on creativity.Because with no restriction, there’s no order!Therefore, ladies and gentlemen, let us have a little restriction to creativity and it will benefit us and the generations to come!

第五篇：CCTV冠军演讲稿

cctv杯中学生英语演讲冠军演讲稿 let my speech be an overture to the grand symphony of man and anture good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen: when the topic “people and nature” first caught my eye, i was reminded of a story about myself and my violin.i began learning to play the violin when i was eight years old.at first, it was a very hard thing for me.after my continued efforts, i was able to play a lot of musical pieces very soon.i felt so proud of myself that i began to behave arrogantly.my violin teacher noticed this and told me: “to be a good violin player, you should first of all love and respect your violin.you should obey the rules of playing it so as to make harmonious melodies.remember, play the violin not only with your hands, but also with your heart and soul.” ladies and gentlemen, i believe that nature is to people what my violin is to me.isn’t it true that people deal with nature just as i play the violin? isn’t it true that we have been so arrogant that we take liberties with nature, which brings about the discord between nature and ourselves? since my violin and i have finally reached harmony, why can’t people and nature head toward the same direction? ladies and gentlemen, we cannot wait.nor can we afford to wait until the day when we find no city, no hilton hotel, no lecture hall to hold any speech contests in.let us love and respect nature, nature that is the violin people have played for thousands of years.let us treasure it, and play it with our heart and soul.let us observe its rules while developing our industry, modernizing our traffic system, and improving our living conditions, so that one day, people and nature will together produce the most beautiful and peaceful music.on that day, i am sure to be there with my violin, to join the world orchestra, in playing the ode to harmony, the eternal harmony between people and nature.let my speech today be an overture to that grand symphony.thank you.篇二：cctv杯中学生英语演讲冠军演讲稿 cctv杯中学生英语演讲冠军演讲稿 let my speech be an overture to the grand symphony of man and anture good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen: when the topic “people and nature” first caught my eye, i was reminded of a story about myself and my violin.i began learning to play the violin when i was eight years old.at first, it was a very hard thing for me.after my continued efforts, i was able to play a lot of musical pieces very soon.i felt so proud of myself that i began to behave arrogantly.my violin teacher noticed this and told me: “to be a good violin player, you should first of all love and respect your violin.you should obey the rules of playing it so as to make harmonious melodies.remember, play the violin not only with your hands, but also with your heart and soul.” ladies and gentlemen, i believe that nature is to people what my violin is to me.isn’t it true that people deal with nature just as i play the violin? isn’t it true that we have been so arrogant that we take liberties with nature, which brings about the discord between nature and ourselves? since my violin and i have finally reached harmony, why can’t people and nature head toward the same direction? ladies and gentlemen, we cannot wait.nor can we afford to wait until the day when we find no city, no hilton hotel, no lecture hall to hold any speech contests in.let us love and respect nature, nature that is the violin people have played for thousands of years.let us treasure it, and play it with our heart and soul.let us observe its rules while developing our industry, modernizing our traffic system, and improving our living conditions, so that one day, people and nature will together produce the most beautiful and peaceful music.on that day, i am sure to be there with my violin, to join the world orchestra, in playing the ode to harmony, the eternal harmony between people and nature.let my speech today be an overture to that grand symphony.thank you.篇三：cctv杯中学生英语演讲冠军演讲稿(1)cctv杯中学生英语演讲冠军演讲稿 let my speech be an overture to the grand symphony of man and anture good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen: when the topic “people and nature” first caught my eye, i was reminded of a story about myself and my violin.i began learning to play the violin when i was eight years old.at first, it was a very hard thing for me.after my continued efforts, i was able to play a lot of musical pieces very soon.i felt so proud of myself that i began to behave arrogantly.my violin teacher noticed this and told me: “to be a good violin player, you should first of all love and respect your violin.you should obey the rules of playing it so as to make harmonious melodies.remember, play the violin not only with your hands, but also with your heart and soul.” ladies and gentlemen, i believe that nature is to people what my violin is to me.isn’t it true that people deal with nature just as i play the violin? isn’t it true that we have been so arrogant that we take liberties with nature, which brings about the discord between nature and ourselves? since my violin and i have finally reached harmony, why can’t people and nature head toward the same direction? ladies and gentlemen, we cannot wait.nor can we afford to wait until the day when we find no city, no hilton hotel, no lecture hall to hold any speech contests in.let us love and respect nature, nature that is the violin people have played for thousands of years.let us treasure it, and play it with our heart and soul.let us observe its rules while developing our industry, modernizing our traffic system, and improving our living conditions, so that one day, people and nature will together produce the most beautiful and peaceful music.on that day, i am sure to be there with my violin, to join the world orchestra, in playing the ode to harmony, the eternal harmony between people and nature.let my speech today be an overture to that grand symphony.thank you.篇四：cctv演讲稿 08英语2班 张璐 hello everyone, today my key word is tv, because i do believe visual effects brought by tv has already impacted our lives, views and values.indeed, television has opened windows in everybody’s life.no newspaper has ever reached so many people and shown so clearly what was happening right now in their own country and anywhere else.tv not only gives the news instantly, it also shows it in pictures more powerful than words.it can be said that, tv has brought reality to public.millions of people now have seen the effects of a battle, a flood, a fire, a crime and disasters of every sort on the screen.advertising industry of course, thanks to tv, is prospering with as anything else in the world, television has both good sides and bad sides.the influence of tv has been extremely harmful to the young.children don’t have enough ability to judge whether what tv shows them are real or not.if they deem that any behaviors on tv are normal and acceptable to real society, they will blindly imitate what they see.it resulted in more crimes of the young in today’s world.from what i mentioned above, it is certain that tv has deeply transformed our lives and society.it is not only a word, but also an epoch-making product.it is something that has changed the world.篇五：超级演说家冠军演讲稿

超级演说家冠军演讲稿《寒门贵子》

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在演讲开始之前，我先问现场的各位一个问题，你们当中有谁觉得自己家境普通甚至出身贫寒想要出人头地就得靠自己？你们当中又有谁觉得自己是有钱人家的小孩？（此处有包袱，到了现场再抖）。有一个在银行做了10年的资深hr在天涯上发了帖子说，寒门再难出贵子，说在当下这个人情社会里，穷人家的孩子比我们的父辈更难翻身了，这个帖子引起了广泛的讨论。你们觉得有道理吗？ 我们家就是寒门，不，我们家都没有门。现在想想都不知道我爸妈是怎么把我跟我两个哥哥从农村供出来上大学，甚至读研究生的。记忆中爸妈好像永远在为学费担心，在我考高中的那一年，二哥考大学，大哥考研，他们简直要崩溃了，他们不是担心我们考不上，而是担心考不好，考不到公费，考到三本这样就需要很多很多钱，现在看起来不过几万块钱，但是对于一个农村家庭来说几万块太多了。因为有这样肯砸锅卖铁让我们读书的爸妈我一直觉得幸运死了，很少拿自己跟家庭富裕的孩子作比较，也不会觉得我们有什么不平等。我人生中第一次感受到贫富差距带来的不公平是在高考的时候，那时候班上的同学都复习的昏天黑地的，忽然有几个同学不来上学了，他们被父母通过各种手段送去北京或者天津考试了，高考完了之后就发现，大家考一样的分数甚至他们考得更低，但是他们可以上清华北大南开这些好学校，而我们就只能去普通一本二本甚至三本。人生中第二次有这种不公平的感受是我大哥研究生毕业找工作的时候，他去了一家事业单位，通过层层筛选到了最后一关，有个亲戚指点我们说这时候如果有关系就要找关系，没关系就要送礼。我们家根本没能力去做这些，后来我哥到底没去成这个单位，然后他就直接南下一个人去深圳打拼了。我想现实大概就是如此，王侯将相宁有种乎？当王侯将相是需要有种的，谁都可以当政治局常委吗？寒门最难出贵子的领域就是政治领域。我们必须这社会上存在穷富两个阶层，而且他们之间是不平等的，寒门难出贵子的原因在这儿，不同阶层出身的孩子在竞争规则面前是不平等的。当我们每天为了考个好大学埋头苦读的时候，有些人他们读完高中就轻松被父母花钱送到了国外。当我们为了留在一个单位实力的时候努力表现不辞劳苦的时候，有些人领导一个电话就敲定工作了根本不用担心前程。当我们加班加点的工作晚上还要一个人回到 出租屋里，有些人房子有好几套什么都不用做只需要享受就行。不过要说不平等我觉得最大的不平等就是出生地的不平等，有些人生在北上广从小享受好资源，有些人生在青藏高原他们生存条件恶劣到活不活不下去，你可能觉得这就是命啊投胎是个技术活，但是你知道吗？中国是全世界唯一一个有户籍制度的国家，唯一一个没有迁徙自由的国家，生在安徽就要在安徽，去了北京也没办法享受他们的资源因为你没有户口，生在农村就要在农村，去了城市里也没办法享受他们的福利因为你没有户口，可是安徽人北京人农村人城里人大家都是中国人啊，为什么有些人在自己国家的国土上，要被政策限制在一个贫穷落后的地方不能动，他们的孩子也要被限制在这个地方接受劣质教育，想要出人头地改变命运的格局，就要跟那些大都市的孩子，家里有关系有背景的孩子在社会上竞争，你说这是不是不公平，是。这种不公平还有很多，但是我们不能把自己宝贵的人生浪费在抱怨不公平这件事情上，要知道并不是每个寒门子弟都没有获得成功。社会上寒门子弟逆袭的故事数不胜数，那些勤奋努力不屈服命运的人，你就是给他一个路边摊，他也能开成全国连锁店。所以我们不能一失败了就埋怨出身，甚至埋怨自己的父母不如别人的父母，家境不好也没有斩断所有成功的可能。每当我看到别人凭借的关系上位的时候我就想，如果这个社会上一共有10个位置，七个都因为不公平不公开的手段被拿走了，那我就要去争取剩下的三个位置，只是需要更努力而已。每当我看到别人拿钱解决问题的时候，我就去看看，有没有一个没钱的人他把这件事情做到了，如果有，那就证明这件事情是不用钱也可以做到的，那我只要够努力就一定能做到。这社会上的所谓成功人士并非都是富人阶层出身，可能在你悲观、抱怨、堕落的时候，那些跟你一样出身的人，他们已经成功了。寒门也是能出贵子的，只是需要更努力而已。努力奋斗这四个字很简单，但是很多人都做不到，他每天都在抱怨贫富差距，每天都觉得不公平，每天都在问凭什么，不要再问凭什么了，那些官二代富二代，他们一出生能凭的东西就有很多，但是我们凭的只有自己。每次我遇到无法解决的困难的时候，我就会到北京的大街上走一走，看着人来人往我就想，刘媛媛，在这个城市里你真是一无所依，你除了自己什么也没有，那就单枪匹马的杀出一条血路来吧。别人靠爹靠妈靠全家做到的事情，你要是一个人就能做到，你就太牛了。演讲的最后我想说，亲爱的朋友，其实我们大部分人都不是出身豪门，都是要靠自己的。你要相信命运给你一个比别人低的起点，是希望你用你的一生去奋斗出一个绝地反击的故事，这故事不是一个水到渠成的童话没有一点人间疾苦，这故事是有志者，事竟成，破釜沉舟，百二秦关终属楚；这故事是苦心人天不负，卧薪尝胆，三千越甲可吞吴。