第一篇:观《傲慢与偏见》读后感
观《傲慢与偏见》读后感
最近看了《傲慢与偏见》这部电影,我感觉有些话不得不说,所以就写了一些自己的浅见。
这本书主要是通过贝内特一家几个女儿的婚姻描写,反映了几种不同的婚姻观念。在爱情中,究竟是应该把美貌、金钱、地位还是爱情本身放在第一位呢?作者并没有死板地采用说理的方法来阐明自己的观点,而是通过几桩不同的婚姻描写,让观众自己去琢磨…….“凡是有财产的单身汉,必定需要娶位太太,这已经成了一条举世公认的真理。”以这样一句话作为本书的开头,让人不由想到这会是一部清喜剧,来讲一个皆大欢喜的爱情故事。可是如若只为了消遣而读,那么这部《傲慢与偏见》就不会有如此长久的生命力。往往,伟大出自于平凡,奥斯丁就是将她的哲理通过爱情这一人人司空见惯的事物来表达的。乍一看,她讲的是伊丽莎白。班纳特与达西的爱情,但寻遍全书,却丝毫不见热情澎湃的只言词组。
我看这部电影时,总有一种心灵上的激荡,让我激动万分,那个时候的社会还不算太平等,尤其是男女关系的平等和等级上的差距,横亘在班特纳和达西这两个人面前,有身份上的差距,这种等级的差距让两个人产生了重重的误会,最终只能强忍住心中的爱意,让偏见和傲慢破坏对方在其心里的形象,可是班纳特在最后知道真相后,又面临了达西的姑母狠狠地羞辱,这时候的班纳特的心里的滋味可想而知,苦闷难以形容其万分之一。
就在她在凌晨去散步时,碰见了正要去找她的达西,两人就在这初升的太阳下相拥,这个场景简直太唯美了,我的心灵仿佛也飘了起来,那金色的日光下,两位从相厌到相爱的青年在这日光下准备延续自己的爱情,淡淡的日光寓意着这对恋人会突破一切世俗的偏见,最终走在一起,初升的太阳则说明他们的爱情会随着太阳的不断升起而愈发热烈,像一团不停翻滚的火焰一样,燃烧着这两个人,同时又燃烧着我的心。泰戈尔曾经说道:“世上最遥远的距离不是生与死的距离,而是我站在你面前,你却不知道我爱你!”这句话用来形容班纳特和达西的爱情实在是太贴切了。
我最喜欢的人物形象是达西,可能是由于我与性格与他有些相似的缘故吧。一开始,他给人的形象并不是那么的好,有一种瞧不起人的傲气,这可能与他看透了人与人的虚伪,所以觉得真正值得他欣赏的人实在是太少太少。可是从小说中其他的一些人物来看,他的感觉又不尝不是正确的呢?贝内特夫人及小说中的好几个人物形象都有势利卑微的毛病,而像贝内特家中的几个小姐妹粗俗放荡。
正因为他善良真诚的品性,所以对于他所认识的人的品性有很高的要求。他很少说话,他说话时也总是带着评论家的语气,贝内特一家的几个姐妹在他眼中是没有高贵可言的,所以他的性格有一些偏激。非常自信的他在受到伊丽沙白的数落之后,逐渐明白了自己性格的弱点,所以后来也变很随和,而且说话做事彬彬有礼。他的性格的突变是爱的结果,爱的力量是巨大的,正是由于他对伊丽沙白的爱,爱的挫折使他认识到自己的弱点,从而实现了质的飞跃。他对爱情的观念由柯斯林变成了彬格莱。在生活中,有许多男子他们不也是有着许多这样或那样的缺点吗,可是他们总是固执己见,即使有了失败的爱情也不去分析自己的性格弱点,让爱情一次又一次地擦肩而过,这是多么的令人惋惜啊!
对于作品中的女主人公伊丽沙白也是让人爱慕的。她是一个极其有主见的人,因此她不受常人的束缚,他一开始喜欢的并不是达西,而是对风度翩翩、行为恶劣的威克汉姆产生了爱慕。然而她不断地成长,她从对客观世界的观察和自己的理智中不断成熟。达西的信是这篇小说的重点,它使她改变了对达西的看法,从而渐渐地喜欢上了她曾经坚决拒绝的达西。不过好在最后两人最终有情人终成眷属,这两个人并没有因为偏见和傲慢而让爱情无疾而终,所以这个故事皆大欢喜,让人欢笑的同时也有一种酸楚。
有一个很特别的现象,那就是伊丽莎白的母亲,在女儿出嫁前后的态度,没出嫁前,百般想把自己的女儿嫁出去,甚至为此伤神,不过看着女儿一个个的出嫁,最终还是有些舍不
得,因为不舍,所以她只能去祝福,祝福她的女儿幸福快乐,这个有点世俗的母亲形象给我一个很逼真的感觉,电影中对她是很客观的描写,不贬低,不褒扬,这样的效果会让观众产生一个念头,好像这个人好像在哪里见过,无比的真实感。
在本书中,女性的社会角色是很明显的,即便是有钱的太太、小姐们,充当的角色也只是家庭主妇而已。社会中男尊女卑的现象十分严重。如班纳特家中有6个小姐,可是没有男嗣,因而,班纳特家的财产不得不由班纳特先生的侄子继承。这样致使6位班家小姐的嫁妆只有从其母亲当年的嫁妆中分得,嫁妆的卑微常常使的年轻的小姐们不得不选择一条像夏绿蒂那样的路,通过婚姻来为自己将来的温饱作打算,自然会将婚姻视为金钱至上的买卖。如书中所描写的,每一位太太在后半生最大的愿望便是嫁女儿,让她们未来在丈夫的资产庇护下得以生存。
因而难怪郡里一旦来了一位有钱的绅士,母亲们便认定他为自己的准女婿。所以当班纳特太太得知伊丽莎白拒绝柯林斯的求婚后十分气愤,责怪女儿不明智。以柯林斯在金钱方面的条件而言,可以保证伊丽莎白将来有安定、温饱的生活,在其母亲看来,放弃这样一棵“摇钱树”是一种无理取闹。在她年轻的时候,也是通过婚姻来衣食无忧,现在她更有义务要求女儿们以此获得“幸福”,没有原因,这只是一种规律,是英国社会当时的婚姻法则。
《傲慢与偏见》通篇是伊丽莎白幽默的俏皮话,可是这种强颜欢笑下,隐藏的却是那一时代人们无尽的苦恼、不满、遗恨和酸楚。或许不幸太多了,变成了麻木。可是令人羡慕、认可的“幸福”背后,堆砌着的又是什么呢?是金钱、麻木、泪水、悔恨、遗憾,或许更多更多,但唯一没有的便是真爱,弥足的真爱……
而这部电影却是一部寻找真爱的主题。
就我而言,我认为一个完美的爱情,不应该屈服于社会这个大环境之下,应该有它本身生存的营养所在,就爱情而言,若相爱,请深爱!!不过我一直有这么个疑问:“爱情究竟将什么放在第一位?”
------计科 丁书祥
第二篇:傲慢与偏见读后感
我喜欢里面的达西,在人们眼里,他可能不讨人喜欢,但是宽大的胸怀,对别人怀疑的那种镇静,对自己所爱的执着,对粗俗人的包容,对朋友的真诚,甚至对某些人的不屑,才华、睿智,我都欣赏!
我喜欢里面的人物描写,对那种傲慢者,对那种拜金主义者,对那种萌动的爱意,对那种对爱的期盼,对低俗之辈的赤裸裸讽刺,都是那么的逼真。
小说中,每个人都用他们的方式来诠释自己的爱情观、价值观、人生观。
当时的西方社会,贵族社会和底层平民有严重的区别,社会阶级化明显。上帝创造人类的本意是赋予了每个人平等的地位、平等的权利。但是出生的差别、环境的影响,各人追逐的东西都是不同的,有人天生就爱金钱,有人天生就热恋权利,有人天生就沉迷于虚荣华贵,有人天生就是名誉的奴隶,有人天生就是纯真善良的守护者,有人天生就是真爱的追随者。当然,有些人并不是天生的,所谓近朱者赤,近墨者黑,当然也有出淤泥而不染,濯清涟而不妖。我没有权利将自己的爱情观、价值观、人生观强加给任何人,任何人都没有,如果他们是出于本意的,就如出生那样,赤裸裸地、坦诚的去追逐这些,是无可非议的,并且值得尊重,毕竟人各有志;但是那些耍些伎俩、损人利己之人、卑鄙之人、非出于真心想法和做法的人,我们绝对可以用以傲慢和偏见来看他们。社会的丰富多彩,世界的可贵之处,就是有了这么多独一无二的人类。
第三篇:《傲慢与偏见》读后感
Book Reading
Jane Austen(1775-1817)
“Pride and Prejudice”Foreign Language Teaching and Research Press(April 2010)
Information about the writer: An English writer, who first gave the novel its modern character through the treatment of everyday life.Although Austen was widely read in her lifetime, she published her works anonymously.The most urgent preoccupation of her bright, young heroines is courtship and finally marriage.Austen herself never married.Her best-known books include PRIDE AND PREJUDICE(1813)and EMMA(1816).Virginia Woolf called Austen “the most perfect artist among women.”
Extract1.Elizabeth’s astonishment was beyond expression.She stared, coloured, doubted, and was silent.This he considered sufficient encouragement;and the avowal of all that he felt, and had long felt for her, immediately followed.He spoke well;but there were feelings besides those of the heart to be detailed;and he was not more eloquent on the subject of tenderness than of pride.His sense of her inferiority— of its being a degradation—of the family obstacles which had always opposed to inclination, were dwelt on with a warmth which seemed due to the consequence he was wounding, but was very unlikely to recommend his suit.2.In spite of her deeply-rooted dislike, she could not be insensible to the compliment of such a man’s affection, and though her intentions did not vary for an instant, she was at first sorry for the pain he was to receive;till, roused to resentment by his subsequent language, she lost all compassion in anger.She tried, however, to compose herself to answer him with patience, when he should have done.My comments: Mrs.Bennet is a vain person, and she has five daughters, all of whom with obvious personality.Mrs.Bennet has no other wish but marring off her daughters with someone wealthy and has high social status, but she never gives a lot of care to her daughters’ improperly behavior.Mr.Bennent is an old gentleman who take good care of his family, but he would like to let his wife’s improper behavior go unchecked, and he prefer hiding himself into library to find a piece of peace.Their oldest daughter, Jane Bennet, has a good appearance, gentle despotism, and always be quiet.Second daughter, Elizabeth, a vivid, wisdom, pretty, independent girl.Third daughter, Mary Bennet, maybe she is not as beautiful as her sisters ,but she is delinquent in pursuing knowledge to make up the common of her appearance ,so she is also a pride girl.Forth girl, Catherine “Kitty” Bennet ,who has a impetuous character , is fond of dancing, her manner is always improper, but she was never aware of this point.The youngest daughter , Lydia Bennet , is also a vain person , interested in dancing and making fun with officers ,it seems that such thing is her own life’s aim.One day, Bingley, a single man of a large fortune came to live near their home.He was a gentle, honest, tolerant and rich young man.He fell in love with Jane in a dance and had an affinity for each other.But Bingley’s friend
Darcy was serious and not good at communicating with others, which left a proud impression on others.Gradually, he fell in love with Elizabeth.However, the family of Bennet was not a decent family itself, which hindered their love from developing smoothly.Elizabeth had a prejudice against Darcy from the first.The problem between Elizabeth and Darcy was just a representative.Once one’s parentage, property, status and cultivation are related to upper class, he will be proud and look down on poor, humble and vulgar people.In turn, people with low status and little property, out of the self-esteem, will defend the proud with prejudice, which turns out to be another pride.Elizabeth was a clever girl;she did not accept that kind of marriage, either.When Darcy, a rich man proposed to her, she rejected.Because she did not like Darcy.Darcy was proud.Elizabeth had prejudice with him.Obviously, the pride and prejudice;two bad guys obstructed Darcy and Elizabeth's marriage.Fortunately, Darcy and Elizabeth rediscovered
themselves.Gradually, Elizabeth fell in love with Darcy, too.Finally, they married.By the way, in the end, Jane married Bingley.Love is really a wonderful thing.On the way of seeking love, as long as we stick to our principle and don’t be afraid of misunderstanding, I believe one day happiness will come true.
第四篇:傲慢与偏见读后感
Marriages in Pride and Prejudice
The novel Pride and Prejudice,written by Jane Austen in 1813, tells the love story of four couples.The first one is Jane and Bingly.Although they fall in love with each other somehow influenced by wealth and beauty,their marriage is mainlybased on love.The second is about Elizabeth.Elizabeth has a prejudice against Mr.Darcy because he istoo proud to appreciate her.Even when he displays Darcy affair to her,she refuses him for he considers Bingly and her sister,Jane.Another is Elizabeth’s Friend Charlotte Lucas who is neither beautiful nor rich.She marries Mr.Colins for financial supprot.The last one is her sister Lydia Bennet ,who is laching in maturity,runs off with George Wickham.Through these characters,this novel mainly tells us the attitude towards love and marriage.Above all,Jane Austen held the view that one should marry based on love like Elizabeth and Darcy.A womanshould refuse to marry a man without love,however rich he is.However,her friend Charlotte Lucas fail to persist on it,resulting in an unhappy mariage.What’s more,a woman should be independent when she choose her husband.In the Chapter 20,Elizabeth refuses the proposal of Mr.Colins in spite ofhis wealth and her mother’ persistence.“She talked to Elizabeth again and again;coaxed and threatened her by turns and Elizabeth, sometimes with real earnestness.” “and Elizabeth, sometimes with real earnestness and sometimes with playful gaiety, replied to her attacks.Though her manner varied, however, her determination never did.’’And in our real life,one should choose his or her mates because of love rather than money or appearance.Moreover, maturity is important in one’s marriage.Lydia Bennet accepts George Wickham without consideration.And her indiscreetnot only lead to a distress to her family but also runis her marriage.“How Wickham and Lydia were to be supported in tolerable independence, she could not imagine.But how little of permanent happiness could belong to a couple who were only brought together because their passions were stronger than their virtue, she could easily conjecture.”
Last but not least,this novel also shows that one coulple should recognize their own faults so that they can know each other better.At first Elizabeth just can not stand Mr.Darcy’s pride so she refused him.But later she realized that he is kind to help Williama and her sister and generous to forgive others.All in all,Pride and Prejudice is a novel tells the principles of marriage and love.And Elizabeth’s indeendence of persenality as well as her persistence of love is still meaningful inmodern society.
第五篇:傲慢与偏见读后感
A book report on Pride and Prejudice
Pride and Prejudice, first published on 28 January 1813, is the most famous of Jane Austen's novels and one of the first “romantic comedies” in the history of the novel.Jane Austen, English novelist whose realism, biting social commentary and masterful use of free indirect speech, burlesque and irony have earned her a place as one of the most widely-read and best-loved writers in British literature.Its manuscript was first written between 1796 and 1797, initially called First Impressions, but was never published under that title.The title of the book is taken from a sentence in Fanny Burney's Cecilia;Austen was a reader and admirer of Burney's novels.The book opens its prelude with the sentence, “It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.” However little known the feelings or views of such a man may be on his first entering a neighborhood, this truth is so well fixed in the minds of the surroundings families, that he is considered as the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters.Elizabeth was the core character of the story, who is the second daughter of Mr.Bennet.She is characterized as a sensible, intelligent, yet stubborn, young woman.Elizabeth initially holds that Mr.Darcy is such a proud man that she dislikes him because of it.Jane, sister of Elizabeth falls in love with Mr.Bingley but Mr.Bingley is persuaded to leave the town under the suggestion of Mr.Darcy.Mr.Darcy is a rich man that at first he thinks that Elizabeth is not handsome enough to tempt him.However, he has a crush on the girl later.The man makes a proposal to Elizabeth, unfortunately he was turned down because his attitude is supposed to be too proud and Elizabeth has a great prejudice against him.What’s more, Elizabeth is convinced by Mr.Wickam of Darcy’s selfishness and pride.Having been turned down by the girl, Mr.Darcy leaves her sadly, leaving a long letter to make some explanation: he admits that he persuaded Bingley to leave but it is
because he is unsatisfied with Mrs.Bennet.What Mr.Wickam has said is all a lie for that it is Wickam who uses up all the assets and attempts to temp her sister.After reading the letter, Elizabeth is regretful and changes her opinion against Darcy.The next summer, Elizabeth meets Mr.Darcy and finds the changes in Darcy.During that time, Mr.Darcy helps Lidia and helps Bingley be together with Jane.From then on, Elizabeth’s prejudice towards Darcy is changed into true love.Finally they make peace and again, Mr.Darcy makes a proposal to Elizabeth.At last, the lovers finally got married.Having read the book, a question occurred to me that what is the cause of the lovers to be together after such a long time.As far as I am concerned, it is pride and prejudice that is the barrier of their love.In fact, there is barrier like this in our communication in our daily life.We always take something for granted and we have prejudice to the people whom we do not really understand.Meanwhile, we are too proud sometimes and we just refuse to know others well because of our poor pride.Furthermore, we have choice to decide what we want.Some people gets married because the temptation of the materials, like Charlotte, however, some insist on getting married to the person that is really their love, just like Elizabeth.Material comfort makes us happy sometimes, however, it won’t last long.For the things are empty in spirits.We need something that can comfort our spirits not just our bodies.Everyone has his own shortcomings.Elizabeth has prejudice against before she knows the person well, while Mr.Darcy is too proud at first.No one is perfect, but we can overcome those shortcomings as possible as we can, no matter what the result is.The communication with people is not an easy thing and understanding others may be more difficult.However, if we try our best to do it well, throwing away all our pride and prejudice, and be a new person to fight for a good future.