第一篇：傲慢与偏见读后感
《傲慢与偏见》这本书，在初中时已经接触过了。只是当时只是看到了男女主角之间的感情纠葛，起起落落的心情，让人沉浸在其中，几年之后，再次翻阅，别有一番风味。
班纳特家有5个女儿均未出嫁，而班纳特太太是一个神经质虚荣心十足的女人，将每个女儿嫁出去是她这一生唯一的大事却从不费心管教女儿的举止，而班纳特先生是个顾家的老绅士，却放任妻子和女儿的不得体行为，宁愿躲进图书室寻求平静。简·班纳特是班纳特家的大女儿，容貌美丽、性情温柔、沉静；伊莉沙白·班纳特是班纳特家的二女儿，个性活泼大方、聪慧与美貌并俱；三女儿玛丽容貌不若其它姊妹出色，因此便在品德及知识上用功，但也造成她的自大态度；排行第四的凯蒂个性浮华，与么妹丽迪雅最热忠跳舞，举止常失礼而不自知；么女儿爱慕虚荣、注重享乐、跳舞和与军官斗闹取乐是她生活的唯一目的。有一天他们家附近的搬来了一个有钱的单身男子彬格莱·查尔斯，他是一个个性温和、做人真诚不拘泥小节的富家青年，在一个宴会彬格莱却恋上了班纳特家的大女儿简，与简·班纳特相互爱慕；而彬格莱的好朋友达西·费茨威廉个性拘谨严肃，不善言词常给人自大傲慢的印象，在不知不觉中喜欢上班纳特家的二女儿伊莉沙白，但是因为班纳特一家本身并不是得体的家族令这两段恋情受到障碍，伊莉沙白一开始就对傲慢的达西存有偏见，主要就是描述他们这段关系的转变过程。
书中的时代背景会造就许多不同的爱情观：“彬格莱先生仪表堂堂，大有绅士风度，而且和颜悦色，没有拘泥做作的气习。达西立刻引起全场的注意，因为他身材魁伟，眉清目秀，举止高贵，于是他进场不到五分钟，大家都纷纷传说他每年有一万磅的收入。男宾们都称赞他的一表人才，女宾们都说他比彬格莱先生漂亮得多。”人们就是以财富来衡量一个人的。在达西与伊莉沙白的年代是趋于保守的，也会有贵族与平民的障碍；相较于现代这样的情形就会比较少发生。在我看法里我认为爱情是很美好的，两颗心的距离并不一定会因为形体的接近或分开而有所改变，青春和爱情，都是天底下最容易消逝的东西；一个女人在一生中能够被一个男人深深爱过，是一种怎样的幸福呢？或者说，一个女人在一生中错过一个深深爱她的男人，是一种怎样的遗憾？傲慢和偏见，就属于人类弱点中最常见的两种。而人性又太容易被扭曲、被异化，一不小心，或一旦陷入盲目，失去公正和理智，被感情所操纵，就会出毛病，伊莉沙白和达西也只是一个代表而已。而出身、财产、地位、教养、一旦沾上上流的边，就容易染上傲慢的毛病，对贫穷、低下、粗俗的人瞧不上眼；而地位低、财产少的人，出于人类的一种自尊心，则以偏见对抗骄傲的优越者，这自然是另一种被扭曲的傲慢。不过《傲慢与偏见》与另一部《爱玛》中都以婚姻为其中心议题。就书中的人物而言，婚姻并非意味着男女间无法控制的热情而是双方与社会间的契约产物。小说人物全然融入其社会现实，依循社会规则，谱出故事情节。由于明白婚姻关系可提供阶级提升与经济改善的机会，财力与社会地位为决定结婚对象的相关条件。本文以社会女性主义观点切入，检视奥斯汀的社会背景，探索社会环境如何影响女性在面临婚姻时，内心的焦虑与挣扎。就社会女性主义者而言，物质环境为塑造女性婚姻意识的决定因素。事实上，婚姻，就小说人物而言，为一个阶级交换与经济交流的市场。为了达成结婚的目的，女性人物擅于把自己转化成商品，展示其外貌与才艺，吸引男性目光。此一时期女性受到社会价值的鼓励，利用其女性特质来赢得婚姻伴侣。然而，奥斯汀的女性人物在面临婚姻伴侣的抉择时往往呈现对婚姻无意识的不安。爱情是一条主线，然而婚姻与爱情还是有差别的，其中一点诚实，男女主人公就太缺少了。正因为如此才使得女主角不安。
傲慢与偏见，在书中是男女主角爱情上的障碍，但在现实社会中也是人们相互之间交流的障碍，更是在正确对待自己，对待事物上的绊脚石。人的缺陷太多，首先是心灵上的陷阱。要想在一生中成一番事业，无论是知识、教养、还是爱情、事业，都需要同自己心灵的种种浅浮的陷阱或阴影做斗争，经过各种误解和长时间的反复的认识过程，慢慢由心灵克服各自弱点和毛病，而走向开放、洒脱、自由的必然结果。扰扰尘世，做人不易；茫茫人海，佳偶难见。然而没有爱情不要勉强人结
婚，只要人品正直，追求美德，不放松向喜之心，不苟且、贪图一时之利欲，追求两心之和谐、相应，运用彼此的智慧，克服心灵上的缺点，终得如愿以偿。人和人之间的相处总会有一些小小的摩擦，而这些摩擦，往往就是自己内心中所潜藏的弱点或毛病，要和别人能够更愉快的生活，就必须先了解到自己的缺点，并磨去他，其次是了解别人的内心，最后再互相深入彼此，如此一来，你会发现到社会上每一件人、事、物都是如此美好、光明，更进一步激发出你内心深处的感动，发挥出自己的专长去替这个社会、这个国家、这个世界服务，毕竟我门是万物之长，如果人们不再用心去关怀身边的人，不再去付出自己的一臂之力，那么还有谁要去完成这个任务呢？
这是部浪漫又现实的爱情。爱情没有浪漫就失去其美好的色彩了。但是小说中种种关于门当户对，以及财富对婚姻的考量却充斥其中。
伊丽莎白为自己家人的行为给自己带来的影响万分懊恼，达西也因此劝宾利先生离开 简，后来自己也是在理智与情感较量之后万分矛盾地向伊丽莎白吐露心事。所以说什么是爱情？那种纯粹的感情，爱的不顾一切，单纯的洁白如雪的爱情是不是真如镜中花水中月，是不是只不过是人们心中的美好幻想和追求罢了，而现实生活中人们总是寻找二者之间的最佳平衡点。
在追求爱情的路上，一定要坚定自己的信念，不要因为金钱、名利或其他原因而草草决定，要坚持寻找真爱。如果对方的某些缺点是自己所不能容忍的、而且也是自己所无法改变的话，就应该果断选择放弃；当然也应该要珍视彼此，不要由于别人的一些话就改变自己的决定，幸福要自己去经营。
合上书的那一刻，我对男主角达西和女主角伊丽莎白在追求各自幸福中所显露出来的执著的勇气敬佩不已。真的难以想像，如果聪明的达西在第一次求婚遭到拒绝后，没有勇气去面对并改正自己的性格缺陷，或者他俩谁都没有勇气去克服财产与门第的悬殊，他们还会幸福吗?
人生之旅中，我们每一个人都是寻梦者。梦是巫山峡壁上缀着的那团闲适的白雾，不知何时来，何时去，去向何方；梦是一条伸向河里的若隐若现的虹，现到最美的时候也是它即将消逝的时候。梦是何等神奇，令人魂牵梦绕!它引无数的追梦者背负着黄河的淤泥，手捧长江的清纯，迈着日月交替的脚步，追赶着问题的音符。这其间每一段艰辛的历程，无不饱含着奋斗的辛酸，无不需要我们以足够的勇气去面对，去承受，去拼搏。
有人曾经问我，你可曾关注过空气中的那些尘埃?浩大的世界中它们什么也不算，既没有浮到空气顶层的能力，亦缺乏彻底堕入低谷的魄力，他们以一种很不起眼的姿态被夹在世界的中央。然而我要说：他们是有思想的，他们也拥有梦，他们努力争取过，可是最终他们选择了沉默，放弃了与世抗争的机会，放弃了一路的苦楚与灾难，更放弃了成功后收获的幸福。他们缺乏的是勇气，一种超越自我的勇气，一种不懈追求自己幸福的勇气。
命运是奇妙的，你永远不知道生活中将要发生什么，生活就是生活，你想这样，可它偏偏是那样。人的手掌太小了，握不住它惊喜和伤害，只是听由它倾盆而来。所以说，我们每一个人真的需要勇气来面对流言蜚语。勇气绝不是冲动，而是追梦者对未来对理想的一种执着。也许你曾有过这种感觉：偌大的世界你孤单地前行，丢弃了合乎自己的理想而显得空空荡荡，你以为自己还要寂寞地站很久，以为就算丢弃了整个世界也依然可以安稳地生存。这时，想想达西，想想他的勇气，也许就该知道如何去做了。
事实上，像达西这样的人物有很多。四面楚歌中，项王仍悲歌慷慨：“力拔山兮气盖世，时不利兮骓不逝”；曹孟德更是在“对酒当歌”中，一边感叹“人生几何”，一边执著地吟出“青青子衿、悠悠我心”。此时的我们正值青春，就如绚丽的花朵在绽放，我们充满希望，渴望自由呼吸，自由飞翔。而这一切，都需要我们有勇气去争取。幸福那么近地悬着，亲爱的朋友，你还在犹豫什么呢?
第二篇：傲慢与偏见读后感
我喜欢里面的达西，在人们眼里，他可能不讨人喜欢，但是宽大的胸怀，对别人怀疑的那种镇静，对自己所爱的执着，对粗俗人的包容，对朋友的真诚，甚至对某些人的不屑，才华、睿智，我都欣赏！
我喜欢里面的人物描写，对那种傲慢者，对那种拜金主义者，对那种萌动的爱意，对那种对爱的期盼，对低俗之辈的赤裸裸讽刺，都是那么的逼真。
小说中，每个人都用他们的方式来诠释自己的爱情观、价值观、人生观。
当时的西方社会，贵族社会和底层平民有严重的区别，社会阶级化明显。上帝创造人类的本意是赋予了每个人平等的地位、平等的权利。但是出生的差别、环境的影响，各人追逐的东西都是不同的，有人天生就爱金钱，有人天生就热恋权利，有人天生就沉迷于虚荣华贵，有人天生就是名誉的奴隶，有人天生就是纯真善良的守护者，有人天生就是真爱的追随者。当然，有些人并不是天生的，所谓近朱者赤，近墨者黑，当然也有出淤泥而不染，濯清涟而不妖。我没有权利将自己的爱情观、价值观、人生观强加给任何人，任何人都没有，如果他们是出于本意的，就如出生那样，赤裸裸地、坦诚的去追逐这些，是无可非议的，并且值得尊重，毕竟人各有志；但是那些耍些伎俩、损人利己之人、卑鄙之人、非出于真心想法和做法的人，我们绝对可以用以傲慢和偏见来看他们。社会的丰富多彩，世界的可贵之处，就是有了这么多独一无二的人类。
第三篇：《傲慢与偏见》读后感
Book Reading
Jane Austen(1775-1817)
“Pride and Prejudice”Foreign Language Teaching and Research Press(April 2010)
Information about the writer: An English writer, who first gave the novel its modern character through the treatment of everyday life.Although Austen was widely read in her lifetime, she published her works anonymously.The most urgent preoccupation of her bright, young heroines is courtship and finally marriage.Austen herself never married.Her best-known books include PRIDE AND PREJUDICE(1813)and EMMA(1816).Virginia Woolf called Austen “the most perfect artist among women.”
Extract1.Elizabeth’s astonishment was beyond expression.She stared, coloured, doubted, and was silent.This he considered sufficient encouragement;and the avowal of all that he felt, and had long felt for her, immediately followed.He spoke well;but there were feelings besides those of the heart to be detailed;and he was not more eloquent on the subject of tenderness than of pride.His sense of her inferiority— of its being a degradation—of the family obstacles which had always opposed to inclination, were dwelt on with a warmth which seemed due to the consequence he was wounding, but was very unlikely to recommend his suit.2.In spite of her deeply-rooted dislike, she could not be insensible to the compliment of such a man’s affection, and though her intentions did not vary for an instant, she was at first sorry for the pain he was to receive;till, roused to resentment by his subsequent language, she lost all compassion in anger.She tried, however, to compose herself to answer him with patience, when he should have done.My comments: Mrs.Bennet is a vain person, and she has five daughters, all of whom with obvious personality.Mrs.Bennet has no other wish but marring off her daughters with someone wealthy and has high social status, but she never gives a lot of care to her daughters’ improperly behavior.Mr.Bennent is an old gentleman who take good care of his family, but he would like to let his wife’s improper behavior go unchecked, and he prefer hiding himself into library to find a piece of peace.Their oldest daughter, Jane Bennet, has a good appearance, gentle despotism, and always be quiet.Second daughter, Elizabeth, a vivid, wisdom, pretty, independent girl.Third daughter, Mary Bennet, maybe she is not as beautiful as her sisters ,but she is delinquent in pursuing knowledge to make up the common of her appearance ,so she is also a pride girl.Forth girl, Catherine “Kitty” Bennet ,who has a impetuous character , is fond of dancing, her manner is always improper, but she was never aware of this point.The youngest daughter , Lydia Bennet , is also a vain person , interested in dancing and making fun with officers ,it seems that such thing is her own life’s aim.One day, Bingley, a single man of a large fortune came to live near their home.He was a gentle, honest, tolerant and rich young man.He fell in love with Jane in a dance and had an affinity for each other.But Bingley’s friend
Darcy was serious and not good at communicating with others, which left a proud impression on others.Gradually, he fell in love with Elizabeth.However, the family of Bennet was not a decent family itself, which hindered their love from developing smoothly.Elizabeth had a prejudice against Darcy from the first.The problem between Elizabeth and Darcy was just a representative.Once one’s parentage, property, status and cultivation are related to upper class, he will be proud and look down on poor, humble and vulgar people.In turn, people with low status and little property, out of the self-esteem, will defend the proud with prejudice, which turns out to be another pride.Elizabeth was a clever girl;she did not accept that kind of marriage, either.When Darcy, a rich man proposed to her, she rejected.Because she did not like Darcy.Darcy was proud.Elizabeth had prejudice with him.Obviously, the pride and prejudice;two bad guys obstructed Darcy and Elizabeth's marriage.Fortunately, Darcy and Elizabeth rediscovered
themselves.Gradually, Elizabeth fell in love with Darcy, too.Finally, they married.By the way, in the end, Jane married Bingley.Love is really a wonderful thing.On the way of seeking love, as long as we stick to our principle and don’t be afraid of misunderstanding, I believe one day happiness will come true.
第四篇：傲慢与偏见读后感
Marriages in Pride and Prejudice
The novel Pride and Prejudice,written by Jane Austen in 1813, tells the love story of four couples.The first one is Jane and Bingly.Although they fall in love with each other somehow influenced by wealth and beauty,their marriage is mainlybased on love.The second is about Elizabeth.Elizabeth has a prejudice against Mr.Darcy because he istoo proud to appreciate her.Even when he displays Darcy affair to her,she refuses him for he considers Bingly and her sister,Jane.Another is Elizabeth’s Friend Charlotte Lucas who is neither beautiful nor rich.She marries Mr.Colins for financial supprot.The last one is her sister Lydia Bennet ,who is laching in maturity,runs off with George Wickham.Through these characters,this novel mainly tells us the attitude towards love and marriage.Above all,Jane Austen held the view that one should marry based on love like Elizabeth and Darcy.A womanshould refuse to marry a man without love,however rich he is.However,her friend Charlotte Lucas fail to persist on it,resulting in an unhappy mariage.What’s more,a woman should be independent when she choose her husband.In the Chapter 20,Elizabeth refuses the proposal of Mr.Colins in spite ofhis wealth and her mother’ persistence.“She talked to Elizabeth again and again;coaxed and threatened her by turns and Elizabeth, sometimes with real earnestness.” “and Elizabeth, sometimes with real earnestness and sometimes with playful gaiety, replied to her attacks.Though her manner varied, however, her determination never did.’’And in our real life,one should choose his or her mates because of love rather than money or appearance.Moreover, maturity is important in one’s marriage.Lydia Bennet accepts George Wickham without consideration.And her indiscreetnot only lead to a distress to her family but also runis her marriage.“How Wickham and Lydia were to be supported in tolerable independence, she could not imagine.But how little of permanent happiness could belong to a couple who were only brought together because their passions were stronger than their virtue, she could easily conjecture.”
Last but not least,this novel also shows that one coulple should recognize their own faults so that they can know each other better.At first Elizabeth just can not stand Mr.Darcy’s pride so she refused him.But later she realized that he is kind to help Williama and her sister and generous to forgive others.All in all,Pride and Prejudice is a novel tells the principles of marriage and love.And Elizabeth’s indeendence of persenality as well as her persistence of love is still meaningful inmodern society.
第五篇：傲慢与偏见读后感
A book report on Pride and Prejudice
Pride and Prejudice, first published on 28 January 1813, is the most famous of Jane Austen's novels and one of the first “romantic comedies” in the history of the novel.Jane Austen, English novelist whose realism, biting social commentary and masterful use of free indirect speech, burlesque and irony have earned her a place as one of the most widely-read and best-loved writers in British literature.Its manuscript was first written between 1796 and 1797, initially called First Impressions, but was never published under that title.The title of the book is taken from a sentence in Fanny Burney's Cecilia;Austen was a reader and admirer of Burney's novels.The book opens its prelude with the sentence, “It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.” However little known the feelings or views of such a man may be on his first entering a neighborhood, this truth is so well fixed in the minds of the surroundings families, that he is considered as the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters.Elizabeth was the core character of the story, who is the second daughter of Mr.Bennet.She is characterized as a sensible, intelligent, yet stubborn, young woman.Elizabeth initially holds that Mr.Darcy is such a proud man that she dislikes him because of it.Jane, sister of Elizabeth falls in love with Mr.Bingley but Mr.Bingley is persuaded to leave the town under the suggestion of Mr.Darcy.Mr.Darcy is a rich man that at first he thinks that Elizabeth is not handsome enough to tempt him.However, he has a crush on the girl later.The man makes a proposal to Elizabeth, unfortunately he was turned down because his attitude is supposed to be too proud and Elizabeth has a great prejudice against him.What’s more, Elizabeth is convinced by Mr.Wickam of Darcy’s selfishness and pride.Having been turned down by the girl, Mr.Darcy leaves her sadly, leaving a long letter to make some explanation: he admits that he persuaded Bingley to leave but it is
because he is unsatisfied with Mrs.Bennet.What Mr.Wickam has said is all a lie for that it is Wickam who uses up all the assets and attempts to temp her sister.After reading the letter, Elizabeth is regretful and changes her opinion against Darcy.The next summer, Elizabeth meets Mr.Darcy and finds the changes in Darcy.During that time, Mr.Darcy helps Lidia and helps Bingley be together with Jane.From then on, Elizabeth’s prejudice towards Darcy is changed into true love.Finally they make peace and again, Mr.Darcy makes a proposal to Elizabeth.At last, the lovers finally got married.Having read the book, a question occurred to me that what is the cause of the lovers to be together after such a long time.As far as I am concerned, it is pride and prejudice that is the barrier of their love.In fact, there is barrier like this in our communication in our daily life.We always take something for granted and we have prejudice to the people whom we do not really understand.Meanwhile, we are too proud sometimes and we just refuse to know others well because of our poor pride.Furthermore, we have choice to decide what we want.Some people gets married because the temptation of the materials, like Charlotte, however, some insist on getting married to the person that is really their love, just like Elizabeth.Material comfort makes us happy sometimes, however, it won’t last long.For the things are empty in spirits.We need something that can comfort our spirits not just our bodies.Everyone has his own shortcomings.Elizabeth has prejudice against before she knows the person well, while Mr.Darcy is too proud at first.No one is perfect, but we can overcome those shortcomings as possible as we can, no matter what the result is.The communication with people is not an easy thing and understanding others may be more difficult.However, if we try our best to do it well, throwing away all our pride and prejudice, and be a new person to fight for a good future.
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