第一篇:趁着年轻,一定要多出去走走励志美文
我有个习惯,做什么事情都喜欢提前一点时间做准备,比如上班,我总喜欢提前十分钟到。而路上的这段时间总让我感觉到快活和自由。下班路上的这段时间也是,我会晚一点离开,我似乎越来越喜欢一个人行走。
越来越觉得只有独处的时候,才会觉得自己是自由的,才会觉得时间是自己的。
中年人,不想变得越来越油腻。不想被闺蜜摸着肚子说哎呦,看你这肚皮松弛的!不想打扫卫生时,满屋都是脱落的头发。
可是赚钱的能力跟不上野心奔跑的速度,越来越多的焦虑充满内心。
在知乎上看到过这样一句话,所谓自由,不是你喜欢做什么就做什么,而是你不喜欢做什么就不做什么。
上学的时候我特别羡慕上班,在我看来,上班族们做着自己喜欢的事情,还能有钱赚,赚了钱,想去哪里去哪里,想买什么买什么,这样的自由真是羡煞我也!
可是后来上班了,才明白,原来事实并非是我想的那样。原来上班迟到会被罚,完不成业绩会丢脸,做错事情会承担责任。原来,工作后的自由也是有条件的。原来,在哪里都是一样,要付出努力才会得到自己想要的。
曾经看到年轻的情侣秀恩爱,看电影,送花,西餐厅约会。于是对爱情充满了美好的幻想。后来自己有了男朋友,原来除了花,除了电影,还会有争吵,还会有柴米油盐,还会有我喜欢吃苹果,而你只会送我香蕉。
原来,爱情里的自由都是相对的,因为谈恋爱不仅是两个人的事,还是两种观念,两个家庭的事。
日常生活就更不用说了。
我先生老张说过这样一句话,到了我们这个年龄,很多喜好情绪都学会了被掩藏,不会轻易显于脸上。
因为成年人的世界里有了更多利益牵扯和生活需要。
于是,自由显得更加难得!
于是我们自己的时间被挤的越来越少,自己的思想越来越多的沉淀于心底。
以前,流行过一句话,有钱的时候没时间,有时间的时候没钱。一直没能体会到这是怎样的一种生活。
后来,工作了,于是懂了,我们不再是依靠爸妈的孩子了,我们开始要靠自己生活!于是,为了生活,我们有着越来越多的身不由己,越来越多的面具需要时刻带着。
生活和自身的无奈也让我们明白,可以不做自己不想做的事情,是多么自由的一件事!
越来越多的时候,想让自己的生活慢下来。想让心慢慢的静下来,于窗前泡一壶茶,听雨打芭蕉的声音,看落叶随风缓缓飘起又落下。
渴望这样慢下来的自由与洒脱,于尘世中找一处慢地方安放自己那颗躁动的渴望自由的心!
可是这样的时刻在这个不自由的时代越发显得难得。
前辈们常说,趁着年轻,一定要多出去走走,看看外面的世界,体验一下不一样的生活,不要纠结于眼前的得失。
心里始终是明白,所谓的不自由,始终是内心的责任使然。我们不得不去面对那些不自由,因为我们要往前走,因为我们还渴望更多的美好出现,因为我们相信,未来有更多有意义的事情等着我们。
我们要告诉自己,一切都会往好的方向发展,总有一天,我们会享受着心灵的自由,迎面有风轻拂!
第二篇:你一定要幸福情感美文
走出房门时候没有看到星星,耳机来传来陶喆的歌,
“昨天已来不及 /明天就会可惜 /今天你要嫁给我 /听我说/ 手牵手/ 我们一起走/ 把你一生交给我/ 昨天不要回头/ 明天要到白首 /今天你要嫁给我 ”
我不知道那个男生是否唱着煽情的情歌,是否捧着玫瑰颤抖地出现在你面前单膝跪地说要娶你,我一厢情愿幻想着你们决定此后相伴的那天是什么样子,他是什么样子而你又是什么样子,是满眼泪滴还是水到渠成的自然顺其,不知道,来不及知道。
你遇到了命中注定的那个男子,走到他身旁,贴着他的胸膛。
打开记忆的匣子,好似嗅到了阳光的味道,那个揣着简单心事的小姑娘披上婚纱,嘴角微微上扬成了新娘。相识一场,朋友一场,我已经错过你们的婚礼,想着好好去说一声祝福的时脑汁绞尽也想不出贴切的词来,最后新婚快乐也被我自己憋坏在心里,没有说出去。幸好祝福那么多,好多老朋友去了你的婚礼,即使缺了我这一个也已经圆满。
也许以后不再有那些时候,刚遇到你的时候,你不经意指着杂志上的蜻蜓图片问我它们会不会死掉,我说会,然后你就难过了好久;你也不会捧着装有金鱼的一次性杯子逼着老尹给它去一个好听的名字;再也不会一边心惊胆战然后又小心翼翼去刻意接触我口中那个孤单产生幻觉的高一女孩;不会神秘兮兮地说,张冬成,你说好看的那个姑娘我认识还有联系方式,想要吗?不会再一个人在足球场旁的树林里难过,失落地告诉我那天是你生日,他不在。
不会再有,张冬成,我想喝酒在贵阳,也不会再有,张冬成,我要结婚了,你要来参加我的婚礼吗?
人总喜欢这样,一步步走,忙碌着自以为的忙碌,等静下来回忆的时候才发现错过了很多真挚的感情,我们想去挽救却已经来不及像歌里唱着,当你发现时间是贼了,他早已偷光你所有选择。
时间永远不会停留着某一天的白天或者晚上,只是在这样的夜里听到这样的情歌,想着啊,那个整天嚷嚷着不要长大的小冬妹要嫁人了,感叹着刚要成熟就要老去,时光好不经用。
如果哪天能为你带走一丝忧伤,我愿意回到你认识我的所有时候。爱本身是一种信仰,也许我并不是一个很好的歌颂者,却愿意为你们歌唱。
愿你们在以后的风雨途中,好好恩爱,好好的相携,好好地体谅,好好相待,好好宽容,好好情深似海。
冬妹,一定会幸福。要好好的。
第三篇:英语励志美文一
短文1.Luck and Hard Work运气和努力
Good evening, Ladies and Gentlemen,I believe that everyone here wants to be successful in life.But how can we succeed?
Nowadays, it is generally believed among young people that success comes from luck.They believe it in love, in examinations and even in promotion.But in fact, success depends on knowledge and hard work.You can get whatever you dream of if you work hard enough.Even if you may fail sometimes, you your fate lies in your own hands.Your future also lies in your own hands.As long as you put your heart into your work, you will realize all your dreams.It’s diligence, not good luck that can bring you success in your life and career.Luck doesn't come alone.It goes hand in hand with knowledge and hard work.Shallow men(肤浅的人)believe in luck.Hard work is the first secret of success.短文2.Happiness Is Your Own Choice选择快乐你就快乐
Most of us compare ourselves with anyone we think is happier, a relative, someone we know a lot, or someone we hardly know.As a result, what we do remember is anything that makes the other happy and anything that makes ourselves unhappy, totally forgetting that there is something happy in our own life.So the best way to destroy happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest flaw.It is the smallest weakpoit that would make us complain.And it is the complaint that leads us to become unhappy.If one chooses to be happy, he will be blessed.Happiness is just what you think will make you happy.短文3.How to live a productive life 如何过丰富的生活
Ladies and gentlemen,Today I’m going to talk about how to live a productive life.Every day is a gift, even days that are difficult or days you feel down.Appreciate every day.Learn something new every day.Do something to improve yourself every day.Don’t delay.Don’t let your dreams die.Don’t waste time.Just do it.Life is too short to waste even one single day.If you live every day fully and productively, you’re bound to succeed.Remember, yesterday is a memory, tomorrow is a dream, live for today.Thank you for your listening!
短文4.Key Factors to Success成功的关键因素
No doubt, everyone wishes to be successful in life.But most success depends on three factors: diligence, devotion, and perseverance.The first key factor is diligence.Diligence can help us remove ignorance and overcome difficulties.It can make a fool wise ,and a poor man rich.If we are diligent now, we will surely be successful in the future.Devotion, which means the concentration of our mind and effort in doing things, is another key factor to success.Whatever job we are doing ,we must love it and do it heart and soul.Only when we set our minds on the job can we do it well.Furthermore, perseverance is also necessary for any success.If we study or work day after day, there is nothing that cannot be achieved.Without a strong will, on the other hand, we are likely1
to give up when we meet difficulties.To conclude, all great men achieve success through diligence, devotion and perseverance.Just as the famous English saying goes, “No pains, no gains.”
短文5.Making Friends交友
Everyone needs friends.One relies on his friends for a lot of help during his lifetime.Friends not only help you through difficulties and hardships but also share your joys.Without friends one feels lonely.In order to make friends one should reach out first instead of just waiting.When you open your heart to others, you will find many people who have goals, tastes and interests, similar to yours.And your circle of friends grows.If one is always concerned about other people and helps them in tough times, they will certainly become his good friends.A good friend is helpful while a bad friend may be harmful.As distance tests a horse's strength, so does time reveal a person's heart.A long-term contact with someone will tell you who is a loyal friend and who is not.短文6.Increasing your enthusiasm提高你的热情
Most men aren’t born great--they become great.Similarly, not everyone is the enthusiastic type that falls in love with their work.However, do not despair, there are ways to become more passionate.One good way to increase your enthusiasm is by reading about successful people.Reading successful stories will help you realize that you too can make things happen.Real success stories often show that people much like yourself have become leaders in every field.In most cases, they all share one trait: enthusiasm.If you want to succeed, you should be excited about your work, your life and your co-workers.It is impossible to succeed without enthusiasm,短文7.Making Choices 选择
Throughout our lives, we are faced with choices: choices in schools, in careers, in personal and so on.Sometimes the decision is clear, and we can look ahead optimistically and say,“ I hope that everything will work out.” At other times, the decision is not clear.We go to others for advice, asking those around us, “What would you do if you were in my position?” and we ask ourselves, “What if I did this or did that?”
Eventually we make the choice.Some are good choices, and some are bad ones.Some choices bring happiness and satisfaction while others bring regrets: “I wish I hadn't done that.” “If I had known better, I would never have done that.”
Living with a good choice is easy, while living with a bad choice can be difficult.Yet as we evaluate ourselves and our actions each day, each of us has the opportunity to look forward or to look backward, to be optimistic or to be pessimistic.短文8.On Confidence论自信
As we all know, “Failure is the mother of success.” But I just want to say “Success is the baby of confidence.”
First of all, confidence makes us happier in our life.Life is like a wonderful song, a bright and colorful painting.If confidence is with us in our life, we will find that life really becomes richer and more interesting.Then, confidence makes us brave and courageous.If we lack confidence in ourselves, how can
we overcome difficulties we meet with? If we have no confidence in ourselves, how can we succeed in developing ourselves in the future? Without confidence, nothing can be accomplished.That is to say, if you want to win, you have to believe in yourself.Finally, I would like to use the following words as our mutual encouragement: “If you think you can, you can.”
短文9.Never ,Never Give Up永不放弃
We often hear people say,“Never give up.”These are encouraging words that give a person determination.A person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails.In my opinion, determination to succeed is an important quality to have.Therefore, I believe that we should never give up.One reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything.It is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again.Another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we stick to making an effort.If we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted.If we never challenge ourselves, we will begin to doubt our abilities.In short ,it is important that we do not give up when working towards our goals.Whether we succeed in the end or not ,we will learn something, and what we learn will help us to become better, more confident people.Furthermore ,if we give up ,we have no chance of achieving our goals ,but if we keep trying ,there is always a chance that we will succeed one day.短文10.Facing and Solving Problems 面对问题 9
Life is difficult.Life is sometimes extremely tough.It is a great truth because once we truly understand and accept it, then life is no longer difficult.Most people complain about their problems and difficulties as if life should be easy.It seems that their difficulties represent a special kind of suffering especially forced upon them or upon their families, their class or their work.What makes life difficult is that the process of facing and solving problems is a painful one.Problems, depending on their nature, can cause sadness, loneliness, regret, anger or fear in us.These are uncomfortable feelings, often as painful as any kind of physical pain.And since life causes an endless series of problems, life is always difficult and is full of pain as well as joy.Yet, it is in this whole process of solving problems that life has its meaning.短文11.How to Stay Young 永远年轻的奥秘
1.The tears happen.Endure, grieve4, and move on.The only person who is with you your entire life, is yourself.Be alive while you are alive.人都会流泪哭泣。忍受了,伤痛了,人生还要继续前行。惟一与你相伴一生的人是你自己。活着就要有活力。
2.Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets,music, plants, hobbies, whatever.Your home is your shelter.让你的所爱环绕着你,家人、宠物、音乐、花草树木、业余爱好,只要你喜欢的,什么都行。家就是你的庇护之所。
3.Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it.If it is unstable, improve it.If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.珍惜健康。如果身体健康,就保持好;如果时好时坏,就改善它;如果改善不了,就寻求帮
助。
4.Don't take guilt trips.Take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.不要活在内疚悔恨的阴影里。去商场逛逛,去邻近的县郡看看,到外国旅游观光一下,但不要踏足内疚悔恨之所。
短文12Time flies!时间飞逝
Many people value their time more than anything else in the world.Once time is gone it can never be replaced.This makes time more valuable than money.Time is precious.Nobody can afford to waste time.Once time has gone by, it will never return.You can never turn the clock back.Time passes very quickly.People say time flies.Time and tide wait for no man.We should, therefore, make the best use of our time.If you can manage your time well, you will have a successful life.短文13Is money the road to happiness?钱与幸福
In modern society, quite a few people make money the target for their lives’ pursuit as they believe money is the road to happiness.I don't agree with this opinion.Of course without money we can not buy what we need in daily life.But money doesn't mean everything in the world, especially happiness.There are many factors contributing to happiness.Those who have too much money are not necessarily living a happy life while those who are lack of money may be happier than them.People say that money is the root of evil.It is true to some extent.Sometimes money can drive people crazy and kill them.In that case how can we say money is the road to happiness?
第四篇:关键时候,一定要保持镇静美文
有一个人去外国旅游,在经过隧道入口的时候,以为这个地方交通警察管不到,于是大着胆子穿过去。这个时候,他发现一个警察在不远处慢慢地跟随着,却没有上前来制止他。
他心想:嘿,那说明他不在意。于是,他自在而悠闲地走了过去。
结果当他走到对面时,警察迅速上前对他说:“先生,对不起,你违反了交通规则,请接受处罚。”
他很奇怪,这是为什么?
警察温和地说:“那是因为,我怕大声制止你,你会惊慌失措。而你在穿行隧道,列车随时会开过来,那是非常危险的。所以,以后请你一定要小心啊!”
游客吓出一身冷汗,却对警察万分感激,从此他再也不敢违反规则。
我忽然想起小的时候,在乡下的水井边玩,那是一个很深的井,有十多米深,掉下去,是很难救起的。远远的,母亲看见了,她万分惊恐,但是她一点声音也没发出,慢慢地、偷偷地靠近,在距离非常近的时候,才一把把我抱下来。
在我成年之后,母亲提及这个故事,用了一句话来概括:关键时候,一定要保持镇静。
这让我一辈子刻骨铭心,镇静是多么可贵的一种品质,它直接影响到了生命。
无数次在你面临危难的时候,它能够使你从容地过关。
第五篇:一定要远离海水的诱惑美文
他是一个苦命的孩子,母亲早逝,只留下他和父亲相依为命。
父亲为了他,每天都在拼命挣钱,含辛茹苦送他念大学。大学毕业后,他幸运地在一个大银行找到了一份工作。这份工作是令人羡慕的,不仅收入丰厚,还相对稳定。他计划着让父亲早日退休,好安享晚年。
可是,命运跟他们开了一个残酷的玩笑:在他们的生活刚刚走上正轨的时候。父亲在一次例行体检中,被查出身患肝癌,幸好只是早期,需要立刻动手术。
手术需要一大笔钱,他拿出了家里的所有积蓄,借遍了身边能找到的亲戚朋友,却还差数万元钱。他急得六神无主,不知道该怎么救自己亲爱的父亲。他从没有像现在这样急切地需要钱,而在他的身边,每天触手可及的全是钱。
当然,那钱不属于他,都是别人的,是银行替储户们保管的。以前,敬业的他只当那些钞票是自己桌子上的“办公用品”,跟铅笔、橡皮没什么两样。他每天轻松坦然地经手管理着他人的万贯家财,心里没有一点感觉。
可是,现在不一样了,这些花花绿绿的纸,是他最想要的东西,它们能救父亲一命啊!
那天,他用颤抖的手制作了一张假存折,神不知鬼不觉地把3万元钱转移到了自己的户头。
晚上,他立刻把那些钱送到了医院。父亲看着他,问他钱是从哪里来的。他支支吾吾,半天说不出话来。
父亲长叹一声,说:“儿子,我给你讲个故事吧……”
在我年轻的时候,我当过海员,走过很多地方。有一次,我们的船遇上暴风雨沉没了,我和两个船员爬上了一个橡皮筱得以逃生。我们在海上漂流了两天,一直没看到陆地,眼前只有无边无际的大海。渴比饿更折磨人,我们身边全是水,但我们都知道,含有大量盐分的海水是不能喝的,喝下一升的海水,就必须排出体内两升的水分,越喝只会越渴。
“在渴到极点的情况下,那些看上去跟淡水毫无区别的海水,对我们真是一个巨大的诱惑。我们都在极力忍耐,但那个最小的船员没能坚持下去,明知道喝下海水的后果,他还是选择了用海水去暂时解救干渴的喉咙。最终,在我和另一个船员还可以虚弱地向终于赶来的救援人员哑声呼喊的时候,那个喝了海水的船员,已经在几个小时前脱水死掉了……”
“旁人根本无法想象,在那样嗓子冒烟的困境中,身边那些海水的诱惑有多大,大到明知道喝了会死,还忍不住要喝。可是,我们也正是抵抗住了诱惑,忍耐下来,才得以活命。”
“我的孩子,现在,我们父子俩就像是回到了那个橡皮筏上。这也许是最艰难的境地,但是,你要记住,坚持住,别喝那些海水,因为那些诱惑会把你拖进不可救赎的深渊,唯有冷静地忍耐,清醒地坚持,才能让我们走出困境,摆脱灾难。”
他静静地听着,对父亲说“我知道了。”
第二天,他带着那笔钱去找了领导,把一切原原本本地说了出来。他作好了被处理被辞退的准备,但出乎他的意料,领导没有追究他的责任,还在大会上请大家给他父亲捐款。
父亲最终在这些好心人的帮助下顺利做了手术,恢复了健康。多年后,他成了这家银行的行长,在每年单位招聘一批新人的时候,他都会给这些年轻人讲一节课,名字就叫“海水的诱惑”。