第一篇：虎妈战歌英语读后感（共）
虎妈战歌英语读后感
Earlier this year, a book on parenting memoir of the tiger mother battle hymn sensation in the United States, sparking a heated debate about education thought idea, this also caused wide attention of the Chinese people.今年年初，一本关于育儿的自传《虎妈战歌》轰动美国，引发一场关于教育思想理念的热议，这也引起了中国民众的广泛关注。
The author Amy chua, a chinese-american, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor.Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education
situation, Ms.Chua in Chinese parents' high expectations and strict parenting to two children本书作者蔡美儿，美籍华人，美国哈佛大学文学学士，法学博士，现任美国耶鲁大学 终身 教授。在欧美近似放羊的松弛教育态势之下，蔡美儿用华人家长的高度期待和严格教养方式培育两个孩子。
Finally two children are outstanding, learning and music are all very good, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy.The tiger mother warsong “revealing the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.最终两个孩子均出类拔萃，学习和音乐都非常优秀，取得引人羡慕的成绩，在当地被誉为音乐神童。《虎妈战歌》坦露了作者抚养两个孩子的心路历程和育儿的体验。
Read the book, page by page feel Amy chua education child's real and true feelings, amazing chua's devotion and dedication, experience the extraordinary Cai Meier and absolute, step by step into the joys and sorrows of the author, Amy chua and her two children image lifelike show in sight.读这本书，一页页感受蔡美儿教育孩子的真实和真情，惊叹蔡美儿的投入和执着，体验蔡美尔的超凡和绝然，一步步走进作者的喜怒哀乐，蔡美儿和她两个孩子的形象栩栩如生展现在眼前。Cai Meier writes:
Become an ”expert, actually there is no fun at all.Any skills to master, must pay the hard work.And from the nature of children, never love.Therefore, the beginning don't give them
opportunities to choose don't work hard, it becomes crucial.“
蔡美尔在书中写道：
“成为行家里手的过程，其实毫无乐趣可言。要掌握任何高超的技艺，必须付出艰苦的努力。而从孩子们的本性来讲，绝不会爱好努力。因此，一开始就不给他们选择不努力的机会，便显得至关重要。””Don't give children choose not to opportunity“, became the
basic idea and starting point of the Cai Meier parenting.Nothing is born like hard.The children more love with open arms to embrace.American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose.As a result,many children will choose to give up very easily.And as a parent, the most unfavorable to protect the behavior of the child's self-esteem, is to see their children gave up the attempt in the face of hardship, but their inaction.“不给孩子选择不努力的机会”，这成为蔡美尔育儿的基本思想和出发点。没有什么人天生就喜欢努力。孩子们更是喜欢张开双臂去拥抱轻松。美式教育特别强调对孩子的尊重，常常把选择的权利交给孩子。结果许多孩子会很轻易选择放弃。而作为父母，最不利于保护孩子自尊的行为，就是眼看着自己的孩子在困难面前放弃努力，而自己无所作为。
Don't give children choose don't work hard, is to help children choose to chance.Let the child choose a meaningful things, then concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance.Actually, the process itself, the children can benefit from life.Develop children treatment enterprise ”concentration and
strength to rush toward, perseverance" attitude and will quality, this is the direction of chua's parenting.Don't give children choose don't work hard, this is really a parenting is the best choice.Strict management and supervision, it is Amy chua's parenting patterns, Chinese traditional education mode is Amy chua said.不给孩子选择不努力的机会，就是要帮助孩子选择努力的机会。让孩子选择一项有意义的事情，然后专心致志，全力以扑，坚持不懈。其实这个过程本身，就能让孩子受益终身。培养孩子对待事业“专心致志，全力以扑，坚持不懈“的态度和意志品质，这正是蔡美儿育儿的大方向。不给孩子选择不努力的态度，这其实就是育儿最好的选择。严格管理和悉心督导，就是蔡美儿的育儿模式，也是蔡美儿所说的中国式传统教育模式。
第二篇：《虎妈战歌》读后感
“虎妈战歌”之感想
“虎妈”蔡美儿基本上可以说是众多中国家长的代表，也正是因为对这种教育有切身的体会，我才会选择了这个“虎妈战歌”这个视频来写观后感。
蔡美儿写的这本书《虎妈战歌》讲述了一位华裔妈妈，和两个女儿、两条狗的故事。她身为华裔第二代美国移民，以华人家长对子女的高度期待与严格的教养方式来教育2个女儿。在《虎妈战歌》里，蔡美儿坦露了自己抚养两个孩子的心路历程，与孩子“斗智斗勇”的过程。两个女儿在妈妈的严格管教和倾心培育下，承袭了华人的优秀传统，在学业、音乐等方面都有卓越的表现，在当地被誉为音乐神童。在两个女儿成长的过程中，蔡美儿以这种如何培养子女成为“数学精英和音乐天才”的思路为主线，总结了她教育自己两个女儿的一些基本做法，大致如下：不得在外过夜；不得邀请玩伴来家；不得参加学校的演出；不得抱怨没有被家长允许参加学校的活动；不得看电视或者玩计算机游戏；不得自作主张选择课外活动；单科成绩不得低于A；除了体育和戏剧课之外，每门学科必须成为全班第一名； 只被允许学习演奏钢琴和小提琴。在这种强制教育模式的长期培养下，蔡美儿很为自己的两个女儿骄傲：小女儿是极具天赋的小提琴家，大女儿已经成功地在卡耐基音乐厅表演钢琴。但在我看来，蔡美儿无非就是想为自己的女儿寻求一个长远稳妥的成功之路，希望自己女儿以后的道路一帆风顺成就突出。但她却忽略了什么才是她的女儿真正想要的。
在杨澜的采访中，蔡美儿有句话让我印象深刻，她说，在孩子五、六岁的时候，他们太小了还不能做出自己的选择。所以她会在孩子小的时候定下“十诫”，给自己的孩子各种各样的要求。值得注意的是，蔡美儿此种教育方式是来源于她的父母。她的父母在她小时候是这样教育她的，所以她也选择以此种方式教育下一代。
当然蔡美儿的教育必然有优势的地方，比如说她的孩子会比一般美国的孩子更加努力，基础更加扎实，也更注重学习的重要性等等。但是这种教育方法却忽略了孩子真正喜欢什么，在孩子成长的过程中，过早的用狭义的概念框定了孩子的人生。我们不能把“孩子太小不懂选择”作为借口，以此剥夺了孩子自我选择的权利。每个孩子都需要一个过程去寻找自己，去发现自己的渴望与动机，并把这些内化为人格的力量。这个过程是漫长而必须的，而“虎妈”恰于此处抄了近道。“虎妈”的大女儿在媒体攻击虎妈时，写了一封公开信来支持“虎妈”。信中大意是，她很感谢“虎妈”对她的培养方式，也认为“虎妈”的方式是基本正确的。可是这是建立在她通过“虎妈”的此种教育方式取得了一定意义上的成功的基础上。如果她通过“虎妈”的教育，并没有取得多好的成绩，试想她还会如此感激“虎妈”吗？而抛弃通过钢琴所取得的种种成就，最开始时她是真心喜欢钢琴吗？我认为这是一种“幸存者偏见”，“虎妈”的这本书也多少带有这种意味。
以我自己的经历来说，我从小喜欢跳舞，但小时候父母却以跳舞耗费太多时间而不让我继续学习。现在这成为我最大的遗憾，也让我失去了生活中一大乐趣。但同时，他们却让我花费了大量的精力在钢琴之上，每天固定的练琴时间和每周一次的钢琴课。但让我感到庆幸的是我的父母并没有强制性的要求我进行考级，虽然我现在有点后悔当初为什么他们不在钢琴上更对我严厉些。通过这些经历，我认为孩子在小时候也会有自己特定的爱好和兴趣，让他们自由的依照爱好和兴趣来发展是十分重要的，但也不能否认在有些选择上按照父母的要求来做可能会更好一些，重要的是掌握好两者之间的度。在孩子的成长过程中，最关键的是要让孩子明白成功并不是人生最终的目标，不要用狭义的或者说父母的理想生搬硬套在孩子身上，每个孩子都是独特的，要尊重并且理解这种独特性。
不管是“虎妈”也好，“猫妈”也罢，父母总是关心孩子的。尤其是中国父母，总是希望把最好的都给孩子，但是孩子的成长过程中，要给孩子一个正确的观念和健康的环境。就像我爸妈和我说的，他们生下我并不是要我取得多大的成就，或者代替他们取得成功实现他们的理想，而只是希望我能生活的平安快乐，这样就够了。
第三篇：读《虎妈战歌》有感
《虎妈战歌》读后感
徐舟峰
有一次在看央视2频道的“对话”栏目，听到了一位来自美国的华裔蔡美儿的育儿观念并深深被吸引，她的许多观点引起了我的共鸣。“虎妈”，是美国耶鲁大学的华裔教授蔡美儿，她出版的《虎妈战歌》曾在美国引起轰动。利用暑假时间，我也捧起这本书仔细地拜读一番，颇有感受。
《虎妈战歌》是一本回忆录，华裔教授蔡美儿回忆自己如何以中国式教育方法管教自己的两个女儿，她骂女儿垃圾、要求每科成绩那A、不准看电视、琴练不好就不准吃饭、把女儿关在小房子里逼迫其练钢琴等等。
《虎妈战歌》在全球引起一场关于中式教育的大讨论，书中她所倡导的“华人家庭教育”，以严苛辛辣的教育方式让孩子成才。依据我有限的观察和学习，在个体成长的过程中应该是有些“强制”的成分可能才比较合适，不然，纵容和随心会让人一事无成。不过，中国的儿童可能被“强制”过多，而美国的儿童“自由”则可能占据主导。“虎妈”现象如果在中国估计不会引起如此大的反应，相反只有在美国这样的背景反差下才会引起如此争论。她的这一系列教育方法有人指责她不尊重儿童，对待孩子方式残忍，充满歧视，有人将其称为“法西斯母亲”，甚至“惨无人道”。但也有人十分赞同，并以此为借鉴用于教育自己的孩子。然而对此，我个人认为对于虎妈此类教育方法或许可以理解但并不宜推崇甚至不是所有人都可以照搬的。
我对虎妈的付出要表示敬意，正如某些中肯的评论所说，很多父母不这么做，并不全是因为想给孩子更多的自由，恐怕同时也想给自己更多的自由。不管是西方的父母，还是中国的父母，扪心自问一下，自己是否能够做到像虎妈那样为子女120%的全力付出。虎妈对于孩子全身心的投入十分值得佩服，她给孩子树立的榜样的作用是十分鲜明的，她给孩子创造了最好的学习环境，选择了最棒的老师，这一切都是让人望尘莫及的。但是始终认为“棍棒教育”很难培养出创新型人才。虎妈之所以能成功培养两个女儿，这和他们夫妇的深厚学识和丰富的人脉资源是分不开的，否则怎么能找到善于激发孩子的最棒的老师呢？加上虎妈十几年如一日地执着地逼迫孩子，没有休息，这种非常执着地教育过程逼迫出了孩子的成功，我觉得这本身与虎妈的两个孩子先天的智商和自身的素质有很大的关系，许多事实证明，靠家长逼出成绩的孩子能有几个最终走向成功的呢？
至于虎妈所提倡的教育理念，我倒觉得单从理念来说，不存在哪种更优越的说法。对有些孩子，这种方法有效，对另一些孩子，可能就没用或者会害了他们。虎妈的方法有些极端，培养出来的孩子也肯定不平庸，要么就非常优秀，也会碰到精神压力过大。至于虎妈的“棍棒教育”，个人认为可以和当今社会许多家长对孩子一味地宽松、无原则的放纵相结合，采取宽中带严，严中有宽，掌握原则，有奖有惩的教育方法。在我看来，教育的艺术应该是在于宽严有度，这种“度”是以最大限度地促进一个人的潜能发挥和真正自由意志的展开为标尺的。孩子的教育是一个复杂的过程，没有普遍适用而简单易行的方法。把教育孩子的过程简单化、规范化是很多人潜在而流行的观念，于是才有了各种神童、天才培养秘笈的火爆与泛滥。最后，教育孩子的同时也是父母成长的过程。尊重孩子，与孩子一起成长才是父母值得尊奉的教育信条。家庭教育的最高境界可能就是让孩子在追求卓越的过程中享受应有的快乐。家庭教育，也应有“中庸之道”，在孩子的需求与父母的意愿之间达到和谐。相对于为了让孩子成为天才而失去自由，为了得到更好地自身发展而忽略社会参与意识，我觉得作为家长，我们在关注孩子学业之余，更加不能忽视其情商的培养，要知道：作为社会人，情商比智商更为重要！
第四篇：关于虎妈英语作文
Dear parents,Recently, a controversy arose over Amy Chua, the tiger mother.I’m writing to you to explain my ideas about your educational method, which is quite similar to the Tiger Mother’s.I know what you have done for me is all in favor of me.In fact, it worked out quite well.People always compliment me and regard me as a witty and intelligent girl as a top student.You take pride in it and so do I.However, I can’t cheer up, for you are much too strict with me.You don’t allow me to watch TV except the daily news broadcasting.But you don’t know various programs can broaden my horizons.And I know how to control the time.What’s worse, you forbid me to take part in after-school activities, thinking it’s a waste of time.But do you know it’s of great benefit to make me an all-around student? Another thing that makes me unsatisfied is that you force me to practice playing the violin, despite knowing I’m crazy about painting.Under the pressure of you, I have to study harder and harder, with my freedom and happiness becoming less and less, of which you aren’t aware absolutely.Instead of forcing your ideas and choose on me, you are
supposed to discuss with me in detail and then determine.Instead of generalizing, you should respect for the law of my growth.In contrast to being under a severe strain, I’m sure to do better with reasonable freedom.At last, I’d like to show you my thanks for your love all the time.But do remember I’ve already grown up and had my own mind.Please teach me with a more permissive attitude.Only in this way will I do the best in turn.Yours sincerely,daughter
第五篇：虎妈英文读后感
Reaction to Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother Recently, I have finished a book called Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother.The book reveals the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.The author compares herself to a tiger mother.Lost in thought, I want share my ideas with you.The author Amy Chua, a Chinese-American, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor.Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education situation, Ms.Chua in Chinese parents' high expectations and strict parenting to two children.At the start of reading, I didn’t quite understand why Amy is so cruel with her daughters.The rules she made are so strict and even unreasonable.Her daughters are not allowed to: • attend a sleepover
• have a play date
• be in a school play • complain about not being in a school play
• watch TV or play computer games
• choose their own extracurricular activities
• get any grade less than an A
• not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
• not play the piano or violin.With deeper reading, I found I misunderstood her.Amy’s strict is her love to her daughters.After the book published, it caused a heated debate about education thought idea.Most western and eastern mothers hold completely different idea about it.Amy Chua’s requirement to her daughters seems too rigorous in American people’s eyes, but from the perspective of Chinese parents, it’s just ok.I think one of the reasons why western Mothers are different from the eastern, is that the different culture and environment.In my opinion, the west countries are more advanced than the east in many ways.So the huge disparity may make the eastern mothers feel anxious.As a result, they would be stricter with their children to make them excellent.Traditional Chinese mothers always hold high hopes for their children.The kids are required to learn many things like piano or math, even at a
very
early
age.American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose.As a result, many children will choose to give up very easily.We should not completely criticize Amy.Though her second daughter hated this cruel mother, her two daughters won’t have today’s achievement without her strict education.Finally two children are outstanding, their learning and music are both excellent, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy.There’s no doubt in Amy’s dedication and devotion in educating her children.Every time her daughter was practicing piano, she was always there to company, though Amy had a lot of work to do.She devoted herself in parenting.So she really loves her two daughters but in a different way.Amy writes: “Become an expert, actually there is no fun at all.Any skills to master
must pay the hard work.And from the nature of children, never love.Therefore, the beginning don't give them opportunities to choose don't work hard, it becomes crucial.” Don't give kids opportunities to choose don't work hard, this is her core parenting thought.It equals to help them to work hard, so they can achieve more and become more excellent.Her strict demands teach her daughters how to concentrate on doing something and also develop them persistent and will quality.Actually, every mother has their own way of parenting.There is no the best method, but the most suitable.Just as an old saying goes, no leaves are exactly the same.Tiger mother tell us the way that she do is effective , but this may have effective are not suitable for everyone, every child's personality has different, parents should according to the actual situation of their children in accordance with their aptitude.Different kid has different situation.But we can learn some useful experience from Amy Chua.Most young children like playing, it’s not their nature to work hard or be concentrated.So parents should give some force to help their children in learning.And parents should also learn to keep persistent, as parenting is really a hard and long way.Parents are the guide and light of their children.To learn how to parent well, first be strict with themselves.Truth to tell, my mother is not a tiger mother.She is not strict, and didn’t require me to achieve something.As a consequence, I grew up in a relaxing and comfortable environment.I don’t have any stress or force.She never forces me to do or not to do something.One day I joked my mother why she was not very strict or that I would become better.However, I didn’t take my study easy, but work hard.Because I realized study is students’ primary mission.I take my own example to improve that study is not all parents’ duty, but ours.You can not totally criticize parents when their child didn’t behave well in their study.In a word, I think Amy Chua is a good mother, though she is very strict.But she just did a mother could do to help children become more excellent.She really knows how to educate children.Her daughters will very appreciate it when they grow.So these words are my own opinions, some of them may be not right, but exactly what I want to say.One thousand readers, there are one thousand Hamlet.
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