虎妈”训孩子的17大经典语录

第一篇：虎妈”训孩子的17大经典语录

“虎妈”训孩子的17大经典语录

Every mom has a favourite quote and a special tone to scold orteach a lesson to their recalcitrant kids.We might hate thismomism as a kid but we all so much miss them when we grow up.Thesemotherly sayings go a long way in building us strong and making usa better person.Though we hate our moms for being so harsh intheir statements, ironically we all use the same momism that wereceived from our mothers on our kids.Oh God, how much weappreciate our mothers for coming up with such perfect oneliners。

每个母亲都有自己一套教训小孩的说辞和口气。小的时候我们憎恨这些字眼，但长大了又很怀念。妈妈的话指导我们变得更坚强、更优秀。虽然我们不喜欢妈妈训斥自己时的严厉态度，但我们往往沿用她们的话来教训自己的孩子。能想出这些经典语句的妈妈真是值得我们钦佩。

Here is list of most common and popular momisms.Thesemotherly advise transcends the borders of time, space, language andculture.For kids are kids everywhere and Mom are alwaysMom...caring, concern, all knowing and full of love。

这是一些最常用的“妈妈语录”。这些话超越了时空、语言和文化，各地的小孩都听过这些话，各地的妈妈们也都是一样，都那么关心我们，那么理解我们，那么充满爱心。Money does not grow on trees。钱又不是树上长出来的。

Don't make that face or it'll freeze in that position。别给我脸色看，不然我让你一直都是那种脸色。If I talked to my mother like you talk to me.。

我要是像你跟我讲话那样跟我妈妈讲话，她早就…… What if everyone jumped off a cliff? Would you do it, too? 别人干什么你就干什么啊?要是别人都去跳崖，你去不去? You have enough dirt behind those ears to grow potatoes!你耳朵后面的土都可以用来种土豆了!If you can't say something nice, don't say anything atall。你要是学不会好好说话，那就别说话。

Don't put that in your mouth;you don't know where it'sbeen!别把不知道哪来的东西放到嘴里!Don't eat those, they will stunt your growth。别吃这些对长身体不好的东西。

If you don't eat those, you will stunt your growth。不吃这个你怎么长得大? I hope that when you grow up, you have kids “Just Like you”!(Also known as the “Mother's Curse”)我希望你以后的孩子就跟你一样!(这句就是传说中“妈妈的诅咒”)Because I'm your mother that's why。我是你妈，这就是为什么!If you fall out of that tree and break you leg , don't comerunning to me。如果你从树上掉下来摔断了腿，别跟我这哭哭啼啼的!“Cheer up, the worst is yet to come.” Usually said in advanceof grounding。别哭丧着脸，还有更糟的呢。(在关你禁闭之前的提醒)Because I said so。

我说是怎样就是怎样。Just wait till your father gets home。等你爹回来再收拾你!I brought you into this world and I can take you OUT！我能把你生下来，也能把你弄没了！Bored!How can you be bored? I was never bored at yourage。

无聊?你怎么可能觉得无聊?我跟你一样大的时候从来不觉得无聊。

第二篇：虎妈”训孩子的17大经典语录

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双语阅读：“虎妈”训孩子的17大经典语录

Every mom has a favourite quote and a special tone to scold orteach a lesson to their recalcitrant kids.We might hate thismomism as a kid but we all so much miss them when we grow up.Thesemotherly sayings go a long way in building us strong and making usa better person.Though we hate our moms for being so harsh intheir statements, ironically we all use the same momism that wereceived from our mothers on our kids.Oh God, how much weappreciate our mothers for coming up with such perfect oneliners。

每个母亲都有自己一套教训小孩的说辞和口气。小的时候我们憎恨这些字眼，但长大了又很怀念。妈妈的话指导我们变得更坚强、更优秀。虽然我们不喜欢妈妈训斥自己时的严厉态度，但我们往往沿用她们的话来教训自己的孩子。能想出这些经典语句的妈妈真是值得我们钦佩。

Here is list of most common and popular momisms.Thesemotherly advise transcends the borders of time, space, language andculture.For kids are kids everywhere and Mom are alwaysMom...caring, concern, all knowing and full of love。

这是一些最常用的“妈妈语录”。这些话超越了时空、语言和文化，各地的小孩都听过这些话，各地的妈妈们也都是一样，都那么关心我们，那么理解我们，那么充满爱心。

Money does not grow on trees。钱又不是树上长出来的。

Don't make that face or it'll freeze in that position。别给我脸色看，不然我让你一直都是那种脸色。If I talked to my mother like you talk to me.。我要是像你跟我讲话那样跟我妈妈讲话，她早就„„

What if everyone jumped off a cliff? Would you do it, too? 别人干什么你就干什么啊?要是别人都去跳崖，你去不去? You have enough dirt behind those ears to grow potatoes!你耳朵后面的土都可以用来种土豆了!

If you can't say something nice, don't say anything atall。你要是学不会好好说话，那就别说话。

Don't put that in your mouth;you don't know where it'sbeen!别把不知道哪来的东西放到嘴里!

Don't eat those, they will stunt your growth。别吃这些对长身体不好的东西。

If you don't eat those, you will stunt your growth。不吃这个你怎么长得大? I hope that when you grow up, you have kids “Just Like you”!(Also known as the “Mother's Curse”)

我希望你以后的孩子就跟你一样!(这句就是传说中“妈妈的诅咒”)Because I'm your mother that's why。我是你妈，这就是为什么!

If you fall out of that tree and break you leg , don't comerunning to me。如果你从树上掉下来摔断了腿，别跟我这哭哭啼啼的!

“Cheer up, the worst is yet to come.” Usually said in advanceof grounding。别哭丧着脸，还有更糟的呢。(在关你禁闭之前的提醒)Because I said so。我说是怎样就是怎样。

Just wait till your father gets home。等你爹回来再收拾你!

I brought you into this world and I can take you OUT！我能把你生下来，也能把你弄没了！

Bored!How can you be bored? I was never bored at yourage。无聊?你怎么可能觉得无聊?我跟你一样大的时候从来不觉得无聊。

第三篇：虎妈·观后感

在《好孩子是虎妈式教育培养出来的吗？》这个视频中，争论双方围绕如何培养孩子的问题，从“好孩子是否是虎式教育培养出来的”、“父母该不该替孩子做主”以及“刻苦打基础还是快乐成长更重要”三个方面展开了多角度论战。其中我最感兴趣的是“父母该不该替孩子做主”。我的观点是，在教育方面，在孩子还没有办法认清自我的时候，父母应该负责任地、理性地替孩子做主。首先，让我们先梳理一下对“父母该不该替孩子做主”这一问题持否定态度者的基本观点。大部分持否定观点的人主要出于以下几点考虑。一是，每个孩子都有自己的长处，父母应该做的是顺应孩子的兴趣，引导其走向成功；二是，对于孩子应该接受怎样的教育、应该怎样学习这样的问题，如果父母替孩子做主，那么孩子便失去了自由选择的空间，这可能导致孩子被迫做不情愿的事情，进而影响孩子的心理健康；三是，如果父母事事替孩子做主，那就可能导致孩子独立面对问题的能力低下，进而可能导致孩子成年后面临多种困难。反对者的考虑不无道理，但是他们之所以反对父母替孩子做决定，其实多少都是出于一种假设——父母做出的决定常常不符合孩子自身的情况，甚至有些偏执武断的父母将自己的功利的想法强加于孩子的身上。这个不理性的做法当然不能提倡。但是，不管孩子是否已经具备独立做出判断决定的能力，就贸然坚持所谓应该顺从孩子的兴趣，这样的做法其实存在太大的不确定性，是一种武断，更是一种为人父母的不负责任。更进一步的是，反对者认为应该顺从孩子自己的兴趣，但是如果孩子其实不知道自己真正喜欢的，真正想要的是什么，那反对者的观点又有何意义呢？事实上，反对者们的观点只能存在于这样一种假设之下，即孩子们自己知道自身的兴趣并且会有明确的追求，但是，这样的设想其实与已有的心理学研究是相矛盾的。根据艾里克森的人格发展阶段理论，人的人格发展分为八个阶段，其中第五个阶段是人生最重要的阶段，该阶段要解决的问题是自我同一性的建立。他指出，这个时候人才真正认识到自己是怎样的人，才能形成明确的自我概念①，而这一阶段处于人的青少年阶段。换言之即是，在青少年阶段，孩子的兴趣爱好会和其意志一同形成合力，朝向明确的自我方向发展。因此，尽管有极少数例外，尽管艾里克森的研究成果不一定是金科玉律（虽然事实上他的这一理论是目前该领域认可度最高的），但是对绝大多数人来说，在青少年阶段之前期望孩子自己朝着自己的兴趣坚持追求其实是不具备生理理论基础，不现实的。那不能单单顺从孩子的兴趣，难道父母替孩子做主就是好的选择吗？难道这一做法不会到来其他的负面影响吗？当然，不顾孩子自身情况（包括其生理发展阶段特征、其性格特点以及在生活中表现出来的兴趣等），单纯拍脑袋决定或者随波逐流浮躁地决定孩子的发展方向肯定是不可取的。同样地，艾里克森在其人格发展阶段理论的第三阶段（3~6岁）指出，这一阶段，孩子总希望被允许去进行自主活动，且如果父母经常否定他们的要求，或完全强迫他们完成父母指定的任务，他们就会变得没有自主性。因此，我支持在教育方面，在孩子还没有办法认清自我的时候，父母应该负责任地、理性地替孩子做主。一方面，此时孩子正处于渴望自主活动的阶段，其表现出来的多种活

动自然会带上其兴趣的烙印，会反映其天赋所在。在这个时候，父母应该认真负责观察孩子的表现，想办法了解孩子的真实感受，然后进行必要的分析，帮孩子找出其兴趣和天分所在，为孩子做出一份科学的规划，为孩子“做主”。接下来便是实施的阶段，在这一阶段中，理性显得尤其重要。父母要用客观理性地态度看待自己为孩子做出的决定，观察孩子的反应，适时对孩子做出恰当的鼓励、教导和规范或对规划做出必要的调整。总结起来，在孩童时期的教育方面，父母与其让孩子游荡在极其不确定的、靠他们自己那点也许连他们自己都未必明了的兴趣中，还不如自己真正担起教育的责任，科学规划科学对待，帮助孩子铺设一条更加明朗的道路。

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唐红波.心理学.广州：广东省语言音像电子出版社, 2009

第四篇：虎妈教育

As more Chinese parents adopt a Western style of parenting that allows children more freedom and encouragement, Amy Chua and her book lauding strict Chinese parenting as superior ignited unprecedented attention among Americans.如今，提倡给予孩子更多自由与鼓励的西方教育模式越发受到中国家长的追捧，而华裔“虎妈”蔡美儿在新书中却称赞严厉的中式教育更为优越，从而在美国人当中引发空前关注。

Chua made the cover of the latest issue of Time Magazine, continuing to provoke heated discussion among Americans over her alleged Chinese parenting methods including no grades lower than A, no sleepovers, TV or computer games.蔡美儿前不久成为最新一期《时代周刊》的封面人物，此举进一步激起美国民众对其所倡导的中式教育的持续热议，她推行的教育方式包括不准有科目低于A，不准夜不归宿，不准看电视，不准玩电脑游戏。

As many in the US became furious at her “ruthless” way, asking “where is the love and respect for children,” some are wondering whether the Chinese approach creates smarter people who can take the lead in the future global marketplacea Harvard dropout.在中国学术界，许多人也在反思中国式的教育方式，似乎中式教育无法培养出像“哈佛辍学生”比尔•盖茨这样的具有创造思维的人才。

“In my opinion, compared with highly strict Chinese parenting, the Western way exerts more positive influence on children`s mental health,” said Cui Yonghua, a leading psychiatrist at Beijing Anding Hospital.北京安定医院精神病主治医师崔永华称：“我认为，与极其严厉的中式家教相比，西方教育方式对孩子心理健康会产生更多积极的影响。”

Cui pointed out that many Chinese parents now focus too much on children`s IQ development and physical health but little on their mental health.And it`s not good for parents to protect their children from every pressure and discomfort.崔永华指出，现在许多中国家长过分注重孩子的智商发展以及身体健康，反而忽略了孩子的心理健康。此外，家长保护过度孩子，使他们与压力绝缘，不让他们受委屈，这也是不好的。

“Parents should believe that children are able and flexible,” he said.他说：“家长应当相信孩子的能力，他们能屈能伸。”

第五篇：关于虎妈英语作文

Dear parents,Recently, a controversy arose over Amy Chua, the tiger mother.I’m writing to you to explain my ideas about your educational method, which is quite similar to the Tiger Mother’s.I know what you have done for me is all in favor of me.In fact, it worked out quite well.People always compliment me and regard me as a witty and intelligent girl as a top student.You take pride in it and so do I.However, I can’t cheer up, for you are much too strict with me.You don’t allow me to watch TV except the daily news broadcasting.But you don’t know various programs can broaden my horizons.And I know how to control the time.What’s worse, you forbid me to take part in after-school activities, thinking it’s a waste of time.But do you know it’s of great benefit to make me an all-around student? Another thing that makes me unsatisfied is that you force me to practice playing the violin, despite knowing I’m crazy about painting.Under the pressure of you, I have to study harder and harder, with my freedom and happiness becoming less and less, of which you aren’t aware absolutely.Instead of forcing your ideas and choose on me, you are

supposed to discuss with me in detail and then determine.Instead of generalizing, you should respect for the law of my growth.In contrast to being under a severe strain, I’m sure to do better with reasonable freedom.At last, I’d like to show you my thanks for your love all the time.But do remember I’ve already grown up and had my own mind.Please teach me with a more permissive attitude.Only in this way will I do the best in turn.Yours sincerely,daughter