第一篇:初次见面说英语的技巧
初次见面说英语的技巧
初次见面的老外跟你说了句“How do you do”, 估计多数人都会美滋滋地搬出学校教的那套,回敬一句“How do you do”。可英美人士却觉得你的回答有点买帽子当鞋穿——不对头。因为他们会觉得对话似乎没有得到回应,好像你并不高兴见到他一样。所以,当别人说“How do you do”的时候,你最好改答“Nice to meet you”或者“It's a pleasure to meet you”。
怎么样,是不是觉得上面的小技巧还有点用处?那么,你知道怎么掌控好一个初次见面的开场白吗?还有谁先开口,说什么,怎样继续话题?要不要握手呢?别着急,我现在就告诉大家一些社交小技巧。它们可以让你在不同的场合游刃有余,沟通无极限。
先来看一段Jake和Debbie之间的对话吧。大姑娘上花轿--头一回,这两个大一新生在校园里初次碰面了。JAKE: Hi!My name is Jake.We haven't met before, have we?
DEBBIE: No, we haven't!My name is Debbie.JAKE: Nice to meet you, Debbie!
DEBBIE: Nice to meet you, too, Jake.JAKE: Are you a new student?
DEBBIE: Yes, I am.What about you?
JAKE: Yeah, me too!
JAKE: What're you studying here?
DEBBIE: Journalism.I want to be a journalist.What about you?
JAKE: I'm doing law.But I'm thinking of doing business studies instead.DEBBIE: Do they allow you to change?
见机行事,见什么人说什么话。Jake和Debbie之间的对话适用于什么场合呢?
他们的对话适用于非正式场合。因为:Jake使用了Hi这个问候词。这个词适用于比较随意的场合或者正式场合下彼此非常熟识的人之间。2 Jake和Debbie在介绍自己和称呼对方的时候都在用彼此名字的第一个字。如果两人第一次见面就直接用名字的第一个字相互称呼,这就暗示他们想让接下来的谈话无拘无束,闲散自在一些。两个人谈话的语气和内容都显得轻松,随意。
再来看一段James Taylor和Wang Dong之间的对话。James Taylor是AEC Advertising 的总裁,Wang Dong是China Bright Advertising Company 外事处的秘书。她负责到机场去接从未谋面的James Taylor。(想听声音就点击这里:http:///magazine/002/more.htm)
Wang Dong: Good morning.Are you James Taylor?
James Taylor: Yes, and...Wang Dong: Welcome to Beijing, President Taylor.I'm Wang Dong, the secretary of the foreign affairs office from China Bright Advertising Company.Please call me Wang.James Taylor: Oh, nice to meet you, Wang.Wang Dong: Nice to meet you, too.How was the flight?
James Taylor: It was OK, though I feel a bit tired.Wang Dong: Would you like me to help you with the luggage?
James Taylor: Oh, thank you.Wang Dong: Please follow me to the gate.The company car is waiting for you outside.大家已经意识到了吧,这段对话适用于正式的社交场合。二个人用 Nice to meet you 相互问候。Wang Dong 在自我介绍的时候不仅说了自己的姓名,还说了自己的职务和此行的身份。Wang Dong 称呼对方为President Taylor,这是一种正式的称呼,而不是用Mr.James或者James。4 Wang Dong 的用语十分礼貌,恭敬。
说到这里,让我们来作个初次见面问候用语的小结吧。
Brief greetings:
--Hi!(for informal situation)
--Hello!(for informal situation)
--Hullo!(for informal situation)
--Good morning/afternoon/evening.(for more formal situation)
Extended greetings at the first meeting:
--Nice to meet you.(--Nice to meet you, too.)
--How do you do!(--Nice to meet you.)(for more formal situation)
附:几个实用的句子Nice to meet you.很高兴认识你。
二个素不认识的老美见面打招呼的方式很简单,就是一个人先说“Nice to meet you”,另一个人说 “Nice to meet you, too”,然后相互握手。但人多的时候, 你不可能一个一个说 “Nice to meet you”,这时简单说“Hi” 就可以了,但这么说不适用于比较正式的场合。Give me a hug.给我一个拥抱吧。
如果两个人相识已久,见面再说“Nice to meet you” 反而显得有点见外。这时候通常问候一句 “How are you doing” 或者 “What's up” 比较好一些。如果两个人还是不错的朋友,就会彼此拥抱一下。当然啦,拥抱之前不一定要说 “Give me a hug”,只要看到人家张开双手,你就可以迎上去拥抱啦。3 Do you want to exchange numbers? 你想不想交换电话呢?
如果是学生的社交场合,要不要名片就不是那么重要了。这时你可以尝试跟对方交换电话号码。你可以说 “Do you want to exchange numbers” 或是直截了当要对方的电话 “Could I have your phone number”。当然,第一次见面就要对方电话感觉好像怪怪的,所以你也可以跟对方要 E-mail address 或是 ICQ number。总之要什么就根据当时的情况和你个人的企图来定了。
第二篇:职场英语-初次见面
职场英语·初次见面
发表于:2009-6-5 浏览:76 次 来源:教育频道
第一天到公司上班,You must be nervous.你的心情一定挺紧张。怎么才能给上级和同事留下a favorable impression(良好印象)呢?西装革履的你看起来很cool,但你还是没有十分的把握。我们先来听听某家外企公司的新成员Peter King如何得体地处理他工作中的第一天。
Peter: Good Morning.May I introduce myself?My name's Peter King and I'm new here.Anna: Pleased to meet you.I'm Anna White, the assistant to the Personnel Manager.Welcome
to our company.你看,初次见面好比跳华尔兹,非常简单,就是三步曲:问候——介绍——对方回答。不过这首华
尔兹在不同的场合,步伐也不相同。
在formal正式场合中, 要用:Good morning/afternoon或How do you do,同时要shaking hands“握握手”来显示你的sincerity诚意。当然不要忘了smile一下,因为微笑是消除隔阂、沟通心灵的最好
方法。
而在informal非正式场合中,比如年轻人之间或平时的聚会中,我们就可以relax,放松一下,不单穿着随便,而且只需招手致意,问候语用简单的Hi, or Hello!就可以了。
另外,作为新人,应该主动与同事交往,所以要先作self introduction,除了May I introduce myself? My name's Peter King,你还可以说:Let me introduce myself.My name's Peter.或者
I'm Peter.作完了自我介绍,Peter希望Susan能把他介绍给经理或其他人,听听他是怎么说的:
Peter: Could you introduce me to the Manager?
Susan: Of course.Mr.King...Mr.White, let me introduce you to Mr.Peter King,the new
clerk in your department.White: How do you do.I'm Alex White.We're going to be working together.Peter: How do you do.I've been looking forward to meeting you, Mr.White.原来他用了句型 Could you introduce me to sb.? 这显得很有礼貌。另外你还可以这样说:
1、I haven't met your Managing Director yet.(我还没有见到你们的总裁。)
2、I don't know anyone here.You'll have to introduce me.(这里的人我都不认识。您得给我作介绍。)
如果情况相反,需要你把某人介绍给其他人,下面的句子可以帮你这个忙:
1、Let me introduce you to our Managing Director.(请让我把您介绍给我们的总裁。);
2、I'll introduce you to our Managing Director , this is Mr.Johnson, our MD.(我会把你介绍给我们的总裁。这是约翰生先生,我们的总裁。)
最后,请问你知道在初次见面时哪句话是必不可少的吗?对了,是:Nice to meet you.(见到您
很高兴。)每当对方报上姓名时,你要记得说这句话。
为了加深对方的印象,你可以加上你对对方的赞扬:I've heard a lot about you.(久闻大名)。
当然用Glad to meet you.或Pleased to meet you.来替代Nice to meet you.也可以。
第三篇:初次见面如何用英语打招呼
初次见面如何用英语打招呼
第一天到公司上班,You must be nervous.你的心情一定挺紧张。怎么才能给上级和同事留下a favorable impression(良好印象)呢?西装革履的你看起来很cool,但你还是没有十分的把握。我们先来听听某家外企公司的新成员Peter King如何得体地处理他工作中的第一天。
Peter: Good Morning.May I introduce myself?My name's Peter King and I'm new here.Anna: Pleased to meet you.I'm Anna White, the assistant to the Personnel Manager.Welcome to our company.你看,初次见面好比跳华尔兹,非常简单,就是三步曲:问候——介绍——对方回答。不过这首华尔兹在不同的场合,步伐也不相同。
在formal正式场合中, 要用:Good morning/afternoon或How do you do,同时要shaking hands“握握手”来显示你的sincerity诚意。当然不要忘了smile一下,因为微笑是消除隔阂、沟通心灵的最好方法。
而在informal非正式场合中,比如年轻人之间或平时的聚会中,我们就可以relax,放松一下,不单穿着随便,而且只需招手致意,问候语用简单的Hi, or Hello!就可以了。
另外,作为新人,应该主动与同事交往,所以要先作self introduction,除了May I introduce myself? My name's Peter King,你还可以说:Let me introduce myself.My name's Peter.或者I'm Peter.作完了自我介绍,Peter希望Susan能把他介绍给经理或其他人,听听他是怎么说的:
Peter: Could you introduce me to the Manager?
Susan: Of course.Mr.King...Mr.White, let me introduce you to Mr.Peter King,the new clerk in your department.White: How do you do.I'm Alex White.We're going to be working together.Peter: How do you do.I've been looking forward to meeting you, Mr.White.原来他用了句型 Could you introduce me to sb.? 这显得很有礼貌。另外你还可以这样说:
1、I haven't met your Managing Director yet.(我还没有见到你们的总裁。)
2、I don't know anyone here.You'll have to introduce me.(这里的人我都不认识。您得给我作介绍。)
如果情况相反,需要你把某人介绍给其他人,下面的句子可以帮你这个忙:
1、Let me introduce you to our Managing Director.(请让我把您介绍给我们的总裁。);
2、I'll introduce you to our Managing Director , this is Mr.Johnson, our MD.(我会把你介绍给我们的总裁。这是约翰生先生,我们的总裁。)
最后,请问你知道在初次见面时哪句话是必不可少的吗?对了,是:
Nice to meet you.(见到您很高兴。)每当对方报上姓名时,你要记得说这句话。
为了加深对方的印象,你可以加上你对对方的赞扬:
I've heard a lot about you.(久闻大名)。当然用
Glad to meet you.或Pleased to meet you.来替代Nice to meet you.也可以。
得体的介绍和问候会给对方留下美好印象,但是你不能虎头蛇尾呀,告别也要无可挑剔。常用的告别语有:
1、It was very nice to have met you.2、It was nice meeting you.3、Hope to see you again.嗯,第一课,everything is going well.一切进行顺利。你学会了如何作自我介绍和介绍别人以及初次见面如何问候。但是你还要记住,要好好做练习呀!See you tomorrow.
第四篇:初次见面游戏
初次见面[破冰]
见面3分钟时是你留给他人第一印象的最重要的时刻,同样在一个会议或培训的刚开始,如何让大家更加活络起来,是关系培训是否成功的关键,下面的小游戏就可以用于消除大
家的陌生感。
游戏程序和规则
1.第一步:
(1)给每一个人都做一个姓名牌。
(2)让每位成员在进入培训室之前,先在名册上核对一下他的姓名,然后给他一个别人的 姓名牌。
(3)等所有人到齐之后,要求所有人在3分钟之内找到姓名牌上的人,同时向其他人做自 我介绍。
2.第二步:
(1)主持人作自我介绍,然后告诉与会人员:“很高兴来到这儿!”
(2)快速绕教室走一圈,问:“如果你今天不在这儿,你会在做什么不情愿做的事情呢? ”
(3)注意让问答保持在一个轻松活泼的氛围之内。
相关讨论
1.当你在寻找你的姓名牌上的人的时候,你是不是也同时认识了很多其他的人?经过了这 个游戏,你是不是感觉大家的距离近了好多?
2.在第二步中,当你们谈到自己可以不用做自己不愿意做的一些事情,你会不会发现坐在 这里听课是一件比较惬意的事情?
总结
1.在开始的课程中,主持人一定要注意保持一个积极、幽默的态度,以便让大家 迅速的消除腼腆等情绪,然后让大家好好的熟悉起来;同时有助于大家积极的发言。
2.如果没有调动起来情绪,学员没有积极举手回答的话,讲师可以有意识的点名让同学回答,以调动气氛。
参与人数:集体参与
时间:20分钟
场地:不限
道具:姓名牌
应用:(1)团队沟通
(2)培训或集体活动前的熟悉和沟通
(3)主持人开场白,帮助主持人与大家进行沟通和交流
第五篇:初次见面问候语
一.初次见面问候语
1.Nice to meet you!
Nice to meet you,too!
2.How are you ?
I’m fine ,thank you , and you ?
I’m fine ,too.3.Good morning /afternoon/evening/night!
二.问路
1. Excuse me , can you tell me where is the------?
2.Excuse me , can you tell me the way to the------?
3.Excuse me , would you please show me the way to the--------?
4.Excuse me, how can I get to the-------?
5.Go straight down/on/along this street/road 沿着街直着走,Turn right向右转,turn left向左转
at the second crossing road 在第二个十字路口
三.生活起居
1.when do you get up everyday ?At----.2.What time do you go to bed everynight ?3.What time do you have breakfast/lunch/dinner ?
4.what time / when do you usually go to school?
5.When is your school over?、When is your class over?
四.国籍
1.Where are you from? Where do you come from ?
2.what nationality are you ?
五.祝福语
1.Thank you for your-------2.Wishing you and your family a very happy
3.Best wishes for you and your family.六. 天气
1.What's the weather like today?/ How is the weather today?
2.it’s cool / hot /cold / cloudy /rainy / snowy.七.打车
1.The place you want to go is not easy to find, you's better take a taxi
2.I want to-----
3.how much ?
八.自我介绍
My Chinese name is-----.My English name is----.I’m-----years old.I am a pupil.I come from China Inner Mongolia Baotou.China is a big country.It has a population of 1.3 billion.China has a long history and culture.Inner Mongolia Baotou is my hometown.it is callde”Nation on horseback”.there are grasslands In my hometown.We can be happy riding on grassland.Baotou is also a heavy industrial city.The most important business is baogang.If you are a guest to Baotou , I will take you to eat features food in Inner Mongolia—Mongolian food.For example:Roast leg of lamb, hand Grilled meat, milk and cheese.My school is the second young Primary.My English school is New time English school.I like-----.My hobby is-----.My favourite food is----.This is my mother/father.she/he is a-----.I hope you like me.welcome to my hometown.thank you.九.卡片句型
1.How do you improve your spoken English or learning efficiency?2.What is the weather like in your country ?
4.What do you do to relax ?
5.DO you often Communication with your parents ?
6.which language do you speak ? It says you speak Chinese.Why do you speak Chinese ?
7.Is your English teacher strict ? Do you like your English teacher ?
8.How do you remember the new words ?
9.what places of historic interest in your country ?
10.will you earn pocket money on your holiday ?
11.what’s the traditional festival in your country ?
十.购物
1.what’s this / that ?
It’s----.2.what are these / those ?
They are----.3.what colour is it ?
It’s-----.4.What colour are they?
they are-----.5.Can I try this one ?
6.Can I try a large / small size?
7.Can I try another colour ?
8.How much this one ?
9.This one for me.10.Please cheaper!
十一.点菜
1.Do you like Chinese food or western—style food ?
2.A: can we see the menu ,please ?
B: Here you are ?
A: what’s good today ? 今天有什么好吃的?
B:I recommandcrispy and fried duck.我推荐香酥鸡和烤鸭。A:ok.B: Do you want any dessert ?你想要一些甜点吗?
A: no dessert , thanks , just coffee.B: I can have the check , please.请结账,A: let’s split this.让咱们各自付账。
No , it’s my treat tonight.不,今晚我请客。
Cash or charge ,sir? 现金还是记账?