第一篇:莱温斯基演讲-耻辱的代价 英文文稿
The Prices of Shame You are looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade.Obviously, that’s changed, but only recently.It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit: 1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30.That meant that in 1998,the oldest among the group were only 14,and the youngest, just 4.I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs.Yes, I’m in rap songs.Almost 40 rap songs.But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened.At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy.I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined.You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again.I realized later that night, I’m probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn’t make s mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep.That’s what I thought.So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss.Unlike me though, your boss probably wasn’t the president of the United States of America.Of course life is full of surprise.Not a day goes by that I’m not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply.In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was the swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before.Remember, just a few years earlier, news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television.That was it.But that wasn’t my fate.Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution.That meant we could access all the information we wanted.,when we want it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998.It broke online.It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world.What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide.I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.This rush by judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers.Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes.News sources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspaper, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the TV.Do you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret? Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that beret.But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was unprecedented.I was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and of course, that woman.I was seen by many but actually known by few.And I get it: it was easy to forget that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once unbroken.When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it.Now we call it cyberbullying and online harassment.Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that result in less suffering for others.In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity.I lost almost everything, and I almost lost my life.Let me paint a picture for you.It is September of 1998;I’m sitting in a windowless office room inside the office of the independent counsel underneath humming fluorescent lights.I’m listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year before.I’m here because I’ve been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation.For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head.I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day;listen as I confess my love for the president, and of course, my heartbreak;listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth;listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worse version of myself, a self I don’t even recognize.A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and transcripts, those stolen words, form a part of it.That people can read the transcripts is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available online.The public humiliation was excruciating.Life was almost unbearable.This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people’s private words, actions, conversations or photos, and then making them public—public without consent, public without context, and public without compassion.Fast forward 12 year to 2010, and now social media has been born.The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine, whether or not someone actually makes a mistake, and now it’s for both public and private people.The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.I was on the phone with my mom in September of 2010, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler Clementi.Sweet, sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man.When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited.A few days later, Tyler jumped form the George Washington Bridge to his death.He was 18.My mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with pain in a way that I just couldn’t quite understand, and then eventually I realized she was reliving 1998, reliving a time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death, literally.Today, too many parents haven’t had the chance to step in and rescue their loved ones.Too many have learned of their child’s suffering and humiliation after it was too late.Tyler’s tragic, senseless death was a turning point for me.It served to recontextualize my experiences, and I began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around me and see something different.In 1998, we had no way of knowing where the brave new technology called the internet would take us.Since then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolution, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slut-shaming that I experienced had mushroomed.Every day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can’t imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don’t, and there’s nothing virtual about that.ChildLine, a U.K.nonprofit that’s focused on helping young people on various issues, released a staggering statistic late last year: From 2012 to 2013, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and emails related to cyberbullying.A meta-analysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline bullying.And you know what shocked me ,although it shouldn’t have, was other research last year that determined humiliation was a more intensely felt emotion than either happiness or even anger.Cruelty to other is nothing new, but online, technologically enhanced shaming is amplified, uncontained, and permanently accessible.The echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village, school or community, but now it’s the online community too.Millions of people, often anonymously, can stab you with their words, and that’s a lot of pain, and there are no perimeters around how many people can publicly observe you and put you in a public stockade.There is a very personal price to public humiliation, and growth of the Internet has jacked up that price.For nearly two decades now, we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliation in our cultural soil, both on-and offline.Gossip websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics, news outlets and sometimes hackers all traffic in shame.It’s led to desensitization and a permissive environment online which lends itself to trolling, invasion of privacy, and cyberbullying.This shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills calls a culture of humiliation.Consider a few prominent examples just from the past six months alone.Snapchat, the service which is used mainly by younger generations and claims that its messages only have the lifespan of a few seconds.You can imagine the range of content that gets.A third-party app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespan of the messages were hacked, and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked online to now have a lifespan of forever.Jennifer Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked, and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internet without their permission.One gossip website had over five million hits for this one story.And what about the Sony Pictures cyberhacking? The document which received the most attention was private emails that had maximum public embarrassment value.But in this culture humiliation, there another kind of price tag attached to public shaming.The price does not measure the cost to the victim, which Tyler and too many others, notably women, minorities, and members of the LGBTQ community have paid, but the price measure the profit of those who prey on them.This invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit.A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a community and shame is an industry.How is the money made? Clicks.The more shame the more clicks.The more clicks the more advertising dollars.We are in a dangerous cycle.The more we click on this kind of gossip, the more numb we get to the human lives behind it, and the more numb we get the more we click.All the while, someone is making money off the back of someone else’s suffering.With every click, we make a choice.The more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online harassment.Why? Because they all have humiliation at their cores.This behavior is a symptom of the culture we’ve created.Just think about it.Changing behavior begins with evolving beliefs.We’ve seen that be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the past.As we’ve changed beliefs about same-sex marriage, more people have been offered equal freedoms.When we began valuing sustainability more people began to recycle.So as far as our culture of our humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural revolution.Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it’s time for an intervention on the Internet and in our culture.The shift began with something simple, but it’s not easy.We need to return to a long-held value of compassion—compassion and empathy.Online, we’ve got a compassion deficit, and empathy crisis.Researcher Brene Brown said, and I quote, “Shame can’t survive empathy.”
Shame can’t survive empathy.I’ve seen some very dark days in my life, it was compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals, and sometimes even strangers that saved me.Even empathy from one person can make difference.The theory of minority influence proposed by social psychologist Serge Moscovici, says that even in small numbers, when there’s consistency over time, change can happen, in the online world, we can foster minority influence by becoming upstanders.To become a upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation.Trust me, compassionate comments help abate the negativity.We can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with this kind of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation from the U.S.In the U.K.there’s Anti-bullying Pro, and in Australia, there’s Project Rockit.We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of expression.We all wanna be heard, but let’s acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and peaking up for attention.The Internet is the superhighway for the id, but online, showing empathy to others benefits us all and helps create a safer and better world.We need to communicate online with compassion, consume news with compassion, and click with compassion.Just imagine walking a mile in someone else’s headline,.I’d like to end on a personal note.In the past nine months, the question I had been asked most is why, why now, why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in those questions, and answer is nothing to do with the politics.The top note answer was and is because it’s time;stop tip-toeing around my past;time to stop living a life of opprobrium;and time to take back my narrative.It’s also not just about saving myself,.Anyone who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing;you can survive it.i know it’s hard.It may not be painless, quick or easy, but you can insist on a different ending to your story.Have compassion to yourself.We all deserve compassion.And to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.Thank you for listening.
第二篇:莱温斯基TED演讲 中英对照
The price of shame
主讲人:莫妮卡 莱温斯基
主题:耻辱的代价
You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade.Obviously, that's changed, but only recently.站在你们面前的是一个在大众面前沉默了十年之久的女人。当然,现在情况不一样了,不过这只是最近发生的事。
It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30.That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and the youngest, just four.I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs.Yes, I'm in rap songs.Almost 40 rap songs.几个月前,我在《福布斯》杂志举办的“30岁以下”峰会(Under 30 Summit)上发表了首次公开演讲。现场1500位才华横溢的与会者都不到30岁。这意味着1998年,他们中最年长的是14岁,而最年轻的只有4岁。我跟他们开玩笑道,他们中有些人可能只在说唱歌曲里听到过我的名字。是的,大约有40首说唱歌曲唱过我。
But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened.At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy.I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined.You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again.I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.但是,在我演讲当晚,发生了一件令人吃惊的事——我作为一个41岁的女人,被一个27岁的男孩示爱。我知道,这听上去不太可能对吧?他很迷人,说了很多恭维我的话,然后我拒绝了他。你知道他为何搭讪失败吗?他说,他可以让我感到又回到了22岁。后来,那晚我意识到,也许我是年过40岁的女人中唯一一个不想重返22岁的人。
At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep.That's what I thought.So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss.Unlike me, though, your boss probably wasn't the president of the United States of America.Of course, life is full of surprises.Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply.22岁时,我爱上了我的老板;24岁的时,我饱受了这场恋爱带来的灾难性的后果。现场的观众们,如果你们在22岁的时候没有犯过错,或者没有做过让自己后悔的事,请举起手好吗?是的,和我想的一样。与我一样,22岁时,你们中有一些人也曾走过弯路,爱上了不该爱的人,也许是你们的老板。但与我不同的是,你们的老板可能不会是美国总统。当然,人生充满惊奇。之后的每一天,我都会想起自己所犯的错误,并为之深深感到后悔。
In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before.Remember, just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television.That was it.But that wasn't my fate.Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution.That meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke online.It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world.饱受网络欺凌之苦 1998年,在卷入一场不可思议的恋情后,我又被卷入了一场前所未有的政治、法律和舆论漩涡的中心。记得吗?几年前,新闻一般通过三个途径传播:读报纸杂志、听广播、和看电视,仅此而已。但我的命运并不是仅此而已。这桩丑闻是通过数字革命传播的。这意味着我们可以获取任何我们需要的信息,不论何时何地。这则新闻在1998年1月爆发时,它也在互联网上火了。这是互联网第一次在重大新闻事件报道中超越了传统媒体。只要轻点一下鼠标,就会在全世界引起反响。
What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide.I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.This rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers.Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes.News sources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspapers, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the TV.Do you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret? 对我个人而言,这则新闻让我一夜之间从一个无名小卒变成了全世界人民公开羞辱的对象。我成了第一个经历在全世界范围内名誉扫地的“零号病人”。科技是这场草率审判的始作俑者,无数暴民向我投掷石块。当然,那时还没有社交媒体,但人们依然可以在网上发表评论,通过电子邮件传播新闻和残酷的玩笑。新闻媒体贴满了我的照片,借此来兜售报纸,为网页吸引广告商,提高电视收视率。记得当时的那张照片吗?我戴着贝雷帽的照片。
Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that beret.But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was unprecedented.I was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that woman.I was seen by many but actually known by few.And I get it: it was easy to forget that that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once unbroken.现在,我承认我犯了错,特别是不该戴那顶贝雷帽。但是,除了事件本身,我因此受到的关注和审判是前所未有的。我被贴上“淫妇”、“妓女”,“荡妇”,“婊子”,“蠢女人”的标签,当然,还有“那个女人”。许多人看到了我,但很少有人真正了解我。对此我表示理解,因为人们很容易忘记“那个女人”也是一个活生生的人,她也有灵魂,她也曾过着平静的生活。
When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it.Now we call it cyberbullying and online harassment.Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that results in less suffering for others.17年前,对于我经历的这些遭遇还没有一个专有名词。现在,我们称之为“网络欺凌”和“网上骚扰”。今天我要与你们分享一些我的经历,我想谈谈那次经历是如何形成了我的文化观察,我希望我过去的经历能够产生一些改变,减少他人的痛苦。
In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity.I lost almost everything, and I almost lost my life.1998年,我失去了名誉和尊严。我几乎失去了所有,我几乎失去了我的人生。丑闻爆发之后,铺天盖地都是对此事件的报道。Let me paint a picture for you.It is September of 1998.I'm sitting in a windowless office room inside the Office of the Independent Counsel underneath humming fluorescent lights.I'm listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year before.I’m here because I've been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation.For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head.I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago?
让我来描绘这样一幅场景:1998年9月的一天,我坐在美国独立检察官办公室一间没有窗的屋子里,头顶上的日光灯嗡嗡作响。我正在听我的录音,那是一位所谓的朋友偷偷录下的电话谈话。我被依法要求鉴定那20个小时的电话录音是真实的。在过去的八个月里,这些录音带中神秘的内容就像一把悬在我头顶的达摩克利斯之剑。我的意思是,有谁会记得自己一年前说过的话? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day;listen as I confess my love for the president, and, of course, my heartbreak;listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth;listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worst version of myself,a self I don't even recognize.在恐惧和羞愧中,我听着录音,听我闲扯每天发生的琐碎之事;听我坦白对总统的爱慕,当然,还有我的心碎;听有时尖酸,有时粗鲁,有时愚蠢的我是如何冷酷,无情,无理取闹。我带着深深的羞愧听着那个最糟糕的我的声音,糟糕到我自己都不认识了。A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of it.That people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available online.The public humiliation was excruciating.Life was almost unbearable.几天后,斯塔尔报告提交至国会,那些录音带和文字记录,那些被窃取的言语,都是这份报告的一部分。人们能够读到这些文字对我来说已经够恐怖了,但是几个星期后,那些录音又在电视上播放,有一些重要的内容还被发布在网络上。公开的羞辱让我饱受折磨。这样的生活让我几乎无法忍受。
This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people's private words, actions,conversations or photos, and then making them public--public without consent, public without context, and public without compassion.在1998年,我所说的这些还并不常见。我指的是窃取他人私下的言语、行动、谈话内容和照片,并公之于众——在未经本人同意,未交待背景的情况下,毫无恻隐之心地将这些内容公之于众。
Fast forward 12 years to 2010, and now social media has been born.The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine, whether or not someone actually make a mistake, and now it's for both public and private people.The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.快进到12年后的2010年,社交媒体诞生了。可悲的是,社交媒体上充斥着更多像我这样的例子,不管这个当事人是不是真的犯了错,而且,公众人物和普罗大众都深受其害。对于有些人来说,后果是严重的,非常严重。
I was on the phone with my mom in September of 2010, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler Clementi.Sweet, sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man.When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited.A few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his death.He was 18.2010年9月的一天,我正在和我的母亲通电话,我们在讨论一则新闻,关于罗格斯大学的一个名叫泰勒 克莱门蒂的大一新生。可爱、敏感、富有创意的克莱门蒂被室友偷拍到和另一个男人有亲密关系。当这个视频在网络世界曝光后,嘲笑和网络欺凌的火种被点燃。几天后,泰勒从乔治华盛顿大桥上纵身跳下。一个年仅18岁的生命就这样逝去。
My mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with painin a way that I just couldn't quite understand, and then eventually I realized she was reliving 1998, reliving a time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death,literally.我母亲在讲到泰勒和他的家人时情绪有些失控,她所表现出的痛苦让我并不十分理解。后来,我才终于意识到,她正在重新经历1998年发生的一切。重新经历她每晚坐在我的床头的时候;重新经历她要我开着浴室门洗澡的时候,重新经历她和父亲担心我会因为受到羞辱而自寻短见的时候。真的是这样。
Today, too many parents haven't had the chance to step in and rescue their loved ones.Too many have learned of their child's suffering and
humiliation after it was too late.今天,太多父母没有机会及时介入来拯救他们挚爱的孩子。太多的人,当他们获悉自己的孩子的痛苦和受到的羞辱时,已为时已晚。
Tyler's tragic, senseless death was a turning point for me.It served to recontextualize my experiences, and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around me and see something different.泰勒悲惨而毫无意义的死亡对我来说是一个转折点。他让我开始重新审视我的亲身经历,他让我开始观察身边这个充满羞辱和欺凌的世界,让我看到了不同的东西。In 1998, we had no way of knowing where this brave new technology called the Internet would take us.Since then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolutions, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slut-shaming that I experienced had mushroomed.1998年,没有人知道这种名叫“因特网”的新技术会把人类带向何方。自诞生以来,因特网用难以想象的方式将人类联系起来。它让人们找到失散的兄弟姐妹、拯救生命、发起革命,但是我所遭受的黑暗、网络欺凌和被称为“荡妇”的羞辱也如雨后春笋般疯长。Every day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can't imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don't, and
there's nothing virtual about that.ChildLine, a U.K.nonprofit that's focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year: From 2012 to 2013, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and emails related to cyberbullying.A meta-analysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline bullying.And you know what shocked me, although it shouldn't have, was other research last year that determined humiliation was a more intensely felt emotion than either happiness or even anger.每天,在网络上都会有人,特别是年轻人被辱骂和羞辱,而他们对此束手无策。这些辱骂和羞辱让他们想立刻死去。悲剧的是,有些人,真的因此死去。这一点儿也不虚拟。
ChildLine是英国一个致力于帮助年轻人解决各种问题的公益组织。去年年底,该组织公布了一组令人震惊的数据:从2012年到2013年,与网络欺凌有关的电话和邮件数量增加了87%。一份来自荷兰的综合分析首次披露,网络欺凌比线下欺凌更容易让人产生自杀的念头。去年,还有一项研究让我震惊,尽管我并不该感到震惊。研究显示,羞辱是比快乐或者生气更为强烈的情绪。Cruelty to others is nothing new, but online, technologically enhanced shaming is amplified, uncontained, and permanently accessible.残忍对待他人不是什么新鲜事,但是,在互联网上,技术让羞辱放大,一发而不可收,并且永远可以被看到。
The echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village, school or community, but now it's the online community too.Millions of people, often anonymously, can stab you with their words, and that's a lot of pain, and there are no perimeters around how many people can publicly observe you and put you in a public stockade.There is a very personal price to public humiliation, and the growth of the Internet has jacked up that price.过去,丑闻最多在你的家庭、村庄、学校或者社区传播。但是现在也在网络社区流传。数百万的网民,经常匿名地恶语相向,这带来很多痛苦。而且,到底有多少人可以公开地关注你,让你成为众矢之的?这是无法计算的。被公开羞辱对个人而言代价很大,而互联网的发展加剧了这种代价。
For nearly two decades now, we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliation in our cultural soil, both on-and offline.Gossip websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics, news outlets and
sometimes hackers all traffic in shame.It's led to desensitization and a
permissive environment online which lends itself to trolling, invasion of privacy, and cyberbullying.This shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills calls a culture of humiliation.近20年来,我们慢慢地在文化的土壤中播下耻辱和公开羞辱的种子,无论是线上还是线下。八卦网站、狗仔队、真人秀节目、政治、新闻媒体,有时甚至是黑客都是羞辱的通道。冷酷、放纵的网络环境助长了网络煽动、侵犯个人隐私、和网络欺凌。这种转变形成了一种尼古拉斯
米尔斯教授所说的羞辱文化。Consider a few prominent examples just from the past six months alone.Snapchat, the service which is used mainly by younger generationsand claims that its messages only have the lifespan of a few
seconds.You can imagine the range of content that that gets.A third-party app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespan of the messages was hacked, and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked online to now have a lifespan of forever.想想最近六个月发生的事情。Snapchat是一项主要是年轻人使用的服务,它号称所有的信息只有几秒钟的寿命。你可以想象这些信息会包含哪些内容。Snapchat用户使用的保存信息的第三方应用被黑客攻击,近10万名用户的私人谈话、照片、视频被泄露到网上。现在,它们可以永久保留了。Jennifer Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked, and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internet without their permission.One gossip website had over five million hits for this one story.And what about the Sony Pictures
cyberhacking? The documents which received the most attention were private emails that had maximum public embarrassment value.詹妮弗 劳伦斯和其他几位演员的iCloud账户被攻击,他们所有私人的、亲密的、裸体的照片在未经允许的情况下在互联网上铺天盖地地传播。一个八卦网站仅仅因为这一则新闻就获得了超过500万的点击量。索尼影视被黑客攻击的情况又如何呢?最受关注的文件是那些公开羞辱价值最大的私人电子邮件。
But in this culture of humiliation, there is another kind of price tag attached to public shaming.The price does not measure the cost to the victim, which Tyler and too many others, notably women, minorities,and members of the LGBTQ community have paid, but the price measures the profit of those who prey on them.This invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit.但是在这种羞辱文化中,公开羞辱还被贴上了另一种价格标签。这个价格标签衡量的并不是受害者付出的代价,比如泰勒、还有其他很多人,特别是妇女,少数群体和同性恋、双性恋、变性群体(LGBTQ)成员所付出的代价,而是衡量损害他们利益的牟利者的收益。侵入他人领域成了一种原材料,被人以最快的速度无情地挖掘,打包并出售。
A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a commodity and shame is an industry.How is the money made? Clicks.The more shame, the more clicks.The more clicks, the more advertising dollars.We're in a dangerous cycle.The more we click on this kind of gossip, the more numb we get to the human lives behind it, and the more numb we get, the more we click.一个市场横空出世,公开羞辱是商品,耻辱变成了一种产业。靠什么赚钱呢?点击。耻辱越多,点击越多。点击越多,广告收入就越多。我们身处一个恶性循环。我们对这类八卦点击得越多,我们就会对故事背后的当事人越麻木。我们越麻木,就越会去点击。
All the while, someone is making money off of the back of someone else's suffering.With every click, we make a choice.The more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is, the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online harassment.Why? Because they all have humiliation at their cores.This behavior is a symptom of the culture we've created.Just think about it.与此同时,有些人把自己的利益建立在他人的痛苦之上,每一次点击,我们都是在做出选择。我们文化中充斥的公开耻辱越多,它就越容易被接受,我们就会看到越多的网络欺凌、网络煽动、某些形式的黑客入侵,和线上骚扰。为什么呢?因为它们的核心都是羞辱。这种行为成为了我们所创造的一种文化病症。想想吧。
Changing behavior begins with evolving beliefs.We've seen that to be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the past.As we've changed beliefs about same-sex marriage, more people have been offered equal freedoms.When we began valuing sustainability, more people began to recycle.向网络欺凌说不。改变行为从改变信念开始。不管是现在还是过去,无论是种族歧视、同性恋歧视和其它很多的歧视,都是这样来消除的。随着对同性恋结婚观念的改变,更多人被赋予了平等的自由。随着对可持续性的提倡,越来越多的人开始循环利用。
So as far as our culture of humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural revolution.Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it's time for an intervention on the Internet and in our culture.对于羞辱的文化也应该如此。我们需要文化革命。公开羞辱这种血腥的运动应该终止,是时候对英特网和我们的文化采取干预行动了。
The shift begins with something simple, but it's not easy.We need to return to a long-held value of compassion--compassion and empathy.Online, we've got a compassion deficit, an empathy crisis.Researcher Brené Brown said, and I quote, “Shame can't survive empathy.” Shame cannot survive empathy.I've seen some very dark days in my life, and it was the compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals, and sometimes even strangers that saved me.转变可以从简单的事开始,不过这也不容易。我们需要回归人类固有的一种价值,也就是同情心和同理心。互联网正经历着同情心匮乏和同理心危机。引用研究者布林 布朗的话来说就是,“羞辱在同理心之下无法存活”。羞辱在同理心之下无法存活。我的人生中有过一些非常黑暗的日子,是来自家人、朋友、专业人士、甚至是一些陌生人的同情心和同理心拯救了我。
Even empathy from one person can make a difference.The theory of minority influence, proposed by social psychologist Serge Moscovici, says that even in small numbers, when there's consistency over time, change can happen.In the online world, we can foster minority influence by becoming upstanders.To become an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation.哪怕只有一个人的同情也会产生改变。社会心理学家谢尔盖 莫斯科维奇提出了小众影响理论。他说,哪怕是小众人群,只要能坚持下去,也能做出改变。在网络世界中,我们可以成为行动派,培养小众影响力。成为行动派意味着不再袖手旁观,而是发表积极评论或是举报欺凌现象。
Trust me, compassionate comments help abate the negativity.We can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the U.S., In the U.K., there's Anti-Bullying Pro, and in Australia, there's Project Rockit.相信我,表达同情的评论能够削弱负面影响。我们还可以通过支持处理这类问题的组织机构来对抗这种羞辱文化。例如,美国有泰勒 克莱门蒂基金,英国有反欺凌项目,澳大利亚有Rockit项目。
We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of expression.We all want to be heard, but let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention.The Internet is the superhighway for the id, but online, showing empathy to others benefits us all and helps create a safer and better world.We need to communicate online with compassion, consume news with compassion, and click with compassion.Just imagine walking a mile in someone else's headline.I'd like to end on a personal note.关于言论自由的权力我们讨论了很多,但我们还应该更多地谈谈享受言论自由时所承担的责任。我们都希望自己的声音被听到,但是我们要区分有意图的发声和寻求关注的发声。因特网是表达自我的超级高速公路,但是,站在他人角度考虑问题对我们都是有利的,而且能够帮助创建更安全,更美好的世界。
我们需要怀着同情心在网络上交流,怀着同情心阅读新闻,怀着同情心点击鼠标。试着想象活在别人的新闻头条里。
In the past nine months, the question I've been asked the most is why.Why now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in those questions, and the answer has nothing to do with politics.最后我想以个人说明做总结。过去九个月里,我被人问得最多的问题是“为什么”。为什么是现在?为什么要逆流而上?你们应该可以听出这些问题的言外之意。答案与政治无关。
The top note answer was and is because it's time: time to stop tip-toeing around my past;time to stop living a life of opprobrium;and time to take back my narrative.It's also not just about saving myself.Anyone who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing: You can survive it.I know it's hard.It may not be painless, quick or easy, but you can insist on a different ending to your story.我的答案是,因为是时候了,是时候不再为过去而过得如履薄冰,是时候结束背负骂名的生活,是时候夺回我的话语权了。这不仅仅是为了拯救我自己。任何遭受耻辱和公开羞辱的人,都需要明白一点:你能挺过来。我知道这很难,肯定会伴随痛苦,肯定不会又快又轻松,但你可以通过你的坚持,书写一个不同的故事结局。
Have compassion for yourself.We all deserve compassion, and to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.同情自己。我们都值得同情,无论线上还是线下,我们都应该生活在一个更富有同情心的世界。Thank you for listening.谢谢聆听!
第三篇:英文演讲文稿
大家好,今天我演讲的题目是“生活”
Hello everyone, today my topic is “Life” 我的报告分两部分,第一部分介绍什么是生活。第二部分介绍怎么去生活。
My report is divided into two parts, the first part of the introduction of what life is.The second part describes how to live life.什么是生活,第一点,生活中我们往往因为缺乏对自我的认知而错过了我们很多原本属于自己的生活,生活总是在不经意间见错过了那些最美好的东西。所以请留意你生活中的细节。
What is life?First point,In our life, we often miss us because of the lack of self-awareness and miss us a lot of our own lives, life always missed those most beautiful things.So please pay attention to the details of your life.第二点,尊重人比尊重头衔重要,每个人的生命都有自己的价值。在这里的“头衔”是指他人的评价,也就是所谓的面子,我们往往太在意他人的评价而忽略了自己最真实的需求,有一句话说的很好“外面只有自己,没有别人”;这句话反过来说也挺有意义:“里面只有别人,没有自己”,真正的忽略了别人的评价。其实,我们在生活的道场中要认真的反思与修行。
Second point,“Respect people over job titles.Everyone’s life has meaning.”
“Title” here refers to the evaluation of others, also is the so-called face, we are too care about others' evaluation and ignore the needs of their most true, there's a phrase said very well “outside only yourself, no one else”;, in turn, said this sentence is quite meaningful, “only others, does not have”, really ignore others' evaluation.In fact, we need to rethink and practice seriously in life.第二部分,如何生活?第一点,不要轻易说“不”.学会重新认识拒绝。当你努力想要成为领导者或者建立公司的时候,人们会经常告诉你“不行”。但是与其把这个NO视为事情的结束,不如把它看作一个寻找原因的机会:你是不是找了错误的人?你是不是还没有展现出你具有承担这个新责任的能力? 水滴石穿,NO会变成另一个等待,学习和再次尝试的机会。
Part 2, How to live? First point,Do not say “no”.Learn to recognize rejection.Whether you’re working towards a leadership position or building a company, people will frequently tell you no.Instead of seeing it as a shutdown, look at it as an opportunity to figure out why.Are you asking the wrong person? Have you not yet demonstrated
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new responsibility? Over time, ‘no’ becomes just another opportunity to wait, learn and try again.第二点,挑战自我.找到一个挑战自己的事业。问自己:“我是否为我的工作感到自豪”?如果你不去热爱你的工作与生活,不能发现工作与生活中的价值,再大的努力你的人生体验都会停留在峰底.Second point,Challenge yourself.“Find a place where you can be challenged.Ask yourself: Am I proud of my work ?”If you don't love your work and life, you can't find the value of work and life, and your life experience will stay at the bottom of the peak.第3,回顾过去的经历。当你进入你人生的新阶段,别忘了停下来回头看看,去发现你过去经历的意义。它可以让你更好的了解你是谁,将到哪里去,如何去那里。
No.3,Review past experience。“As you move forward into the next stage of your life, do not forget to stop and look back to discover the meaning of where you have been.That will help you better understand who you are, where you may be heading, and how you can get there.”
第4,受到教育不等于聪明。别把受到教育这件事和聪明这件事混为一个概念。特别是在中国,别把自己的高等教育当回事,真正的思考能力、创新能力及优秀的品格才是职业发展的源动力。
No.4,Being educated is not smart。“Never confuse being educated with being smart.” Especially in China, higher education don't take yourself seriously, the real thinking ability, innovation ability and good character is the source power of career development.第5,诚实比什么都重要。诚实的对待自己,愿意学习,愿意被指导。NO.5,Honesty is more important than anything。“Be true to yourself.Be willing to learn and to be coachable.”
第6,拥有感恩的心。回报用感恩的心,感恩身边的人和事。怀感恩之心的人,内心总是充满了感动,这是一种幸福生活的方式。NO.6,Have a heart of gratitude。“Give back—serve from a sense of gratitude.” The heart of Thanksgiving, the heart is always full of moving, this is a way of happy life.第7,坚持。坚持,坚持,再坚持。虽然生活中有很多困难、痛苦,但我们坚信,今天很难,明天更难,但后天终将美好 NO.7,Stick with it。
Although there are many difficulties in life, pain, but we believe one thing,today is difficult,tomorrow is more difficult,but the day after tomorrow is beautiful。So“Stick with it,and keep moving”
Some people say: This is the worst of times,有人说,这是最坏的时代,while the other people say: this is the best of times.也有人说,这是最好的时代。But in the face of this complicated era, 但是面对这个复杂的时代
you can never find truth by poking one eye out.你永远无法通过戳瞎自己的一只眼睛来寻求真相。
If you are bright, life will never be dark.你光明,生活便不黑暗。
你好,请问你今天为什么做这个主题的演讲呢?因为我认为现在有太多的人生活很悲观,但我相信正因为世界是不完美,所以才需要我们 Hello, could you tell me why are you doing today this theme speech ?Because I think there are too many people now living is very pessimistic , But I believe that is because the world is not perfect, so it needs us.你好,请问你如何看待中国未来的发展呢?
Hello, How do you see the future development of China? 每件事都会变,问题在于前进还是后退。
Everything will change.The only question is growing up or decaying.我想借用马云的一句话:
I would like to borrow Ma's words:(我们坚信,今天很难,明天更难,但后天终将美好)
We believe one thing,today is difficult,tomorrow is more difficult,but the day after tomorrow is beautiful。
第四篇:乔布斯斯坦福演讲英文文稿
Steve Jobs’ Speech in Stanford
(This is a prepared text of the Commencement address delivered by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, on June 12, 2005.)I am honored to be with you today for(at)your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world.Truth be told, I never graduated from college.And this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation.Today, I want to tell you three stories from my life.That's it.No big deal.Just three stories.The first story is about connecting the dots.I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit.So why did I drop out? It started before I was born.My biological mother was a young, unwed graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption.She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife.Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl.So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We got an unexpected baby boy, do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother found out later that my mother had never graduated from college and my father had never graduated from high school.She refused to sign the final adoption papers.She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would go to college.This was a start in my life.And 17 years later I did go to college.But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition.After six months, I couldn't see the value in it.I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out.And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life.So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK.It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made.The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked far more interesting.It wasn't all romantic.I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple.I loved it.And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on.Let me give you one example:Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country.Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed.Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this.I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great.It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life.But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me.And we designed it all into the Mac.It was the first computer with beautiful typography.If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts.And since Windows just copied the Mac, it's likely that no personal computer would have them.If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do.Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college.But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect them looking backwards.So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma whatever.Because believing that these dots would connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even when it leads you off the well-worn path and that will make all the difference.My second story is about love and loss.I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life.Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20.We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees.We just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30.And then I got fired.How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well.But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out.When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him.So at 30 I was out.And very publicly out.What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.I really didn't know what to do for a few months.I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs downthese things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.You are already naked.There is no reason not to follow your heart.About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer.I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas.I didn't even know what a pancreas was.The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months.My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die.It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months.It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family.It means to say your goodbyes.I lived with that diagnosis all day.Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor.I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery.I had the surgery and thankfully I'm fine now.This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope it's the closest I get for a few more decades.Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:No one wants to die.Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there.And yet death is the destination we all share.No one has ever escaped it.And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life.It is Life's change agent.It clears out the old to make way for the new.Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away.Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking.Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice.And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.They somehow already know what you truly want to become.Everything else is secondary.When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation.It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch.This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras.It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along.It was idealistic and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue.It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age.On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous.Beneath it were the words: “Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell message as they signed off.Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.And I have always wished that for myself.And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.Thank you all very much.4
第五篇:璀璨苏格兰演讲英文文稿3
Good morning, good afternoon, good evening ,ladies and gentleman.I don’t know exactly the time when you will watch this video, so, I send all greetings.Hope you can enjoy the next twenty minutes.It won’t be too boring, I promise.First, let me introduce myself.My name isHe Jiao, a freshman in the Central South University of Forestry and Technology, studying International economy and trade.The theme of my speech today is about the comparison in one specific aspect between cultures of Scotland and comtemporary China :theScottish kilt and the Chinese Chi-pao.You can see the skirt I wear today is with Scottish features.I think it’s awesome.I love it.What do you think? Actually, I truly wish I were a boy now.If so ,I can demonstrate the culture of kilt better ,worn like this.Scottish men’s wearing a kilt is the highlight.But the skirt I wear now is not the traditional kilt.A Scottish kilt has knee-deep length, collocating with a vest which has the same tone and a tweed Jacket andsilk thick stockings.A Leather skirt fastened with a wide belt hanging below a big purse.A tweed scarf hanging in the middle of the front, and sometimes bare shoulders also are disclosed an oblique plaid blanket, pinned to the left shoulder.Like this.In addition, if we look at it carefully, we can find there has a very subtle ornament—a pin in the kilt’s corner.This pin doesn’t pin two pieces of cloth together,but only one.Why?Because it justadds to the kilt’s weight,letting it droop.Thus, the skirt will not be blown uncovered.There are a variety of plaids in the Scottish kilts.But plaids are not just designed for the beauty.Each plaid represents a family name.so even if people do not know each other, they can recognize each other by the kilt.Scots are also very concerned about how to namethe kilt.The square pattern on behalf of the company and the family recorded in register is called tarten, others general square pattern are called cheque.In the 17th and 18th century ,scottish highlands had year-round endless warsbetween tribes.The men on the battlefield had to wear plaid to identify themselves, it’s just like the current “military uniform.” And now, a military band cannot play music without wearingkilt in Scotland.The British royal family also meets foreign guests with kilts.This shows the importance andthe status of the Scottish kilt.The saying “ a kilt is equal to the history of the British Empire” really has no exaggeration.By the way, in Scotland, there is a custom that men do not wear underwear with a kilt.From such an interesting story: 300 years ago, in a battle to defend the Scottish Highlands, an officer suddenly forced the soldiers to take off the kilt and underwear , wearing only a shirt to fight.Seeing this, the enemy thought they were crazy, then turned around and fled.Since then, the custom wearing a kiltwithout underwear is spreadwidely.Today, the kilt is popular everywhere ,and it wasreformed several times, becoming common in daily clothing.It also plays an increasingly important role in the fashion , and isloved by morepopular stars and designers, more frequently getting on the fashion stage.Besides, as more and more derivatives from the square pattern appear ,the plaid ,as an element ,has penetrated into a variety of costume and even architectural design.Such as plaid shirt, plaid coat,plaid bag, plaid scarf.I appreciate the kilt very much, but I didn’t find any poems about it ,so I wrote one myself.I just want to express my love of the kilt.The title is the invitation of life.The Invitation of Life
I cannot forget your passionate face ,like fire
I cannot forget your flowing emotion,like water
The rays from your square
Like light’s resplendence
Shine into my heart
You are a holy virgin
You are a flourishing blossom
You hide in the wind
And keep in the highland
I can see
Your skirt is swinging
Your color is swaying
As if you
Sent me a life invitation
Soplease come to my arms
OrLet me live in your heart
He Jiao
Thank you!Oh, how wonderful I am!the poem is great,right? Maybe I could consider to be a poet in the future, ifI cannot find any job.Just kidding.Let’s return to the subject.I really think that kilts can be included in the must-have items!Referring the must-have item, I must mention Chinese Chi-pao!Last decades, chi-pao appeared frequently in the international fashion stage, And it was the representative of nation as a kind of formal dress ,appearing in a variety of ceremonial occasions and the international communities.On the streets , we can see people wearing it as they regard it as a fashion style.First, let’s watch a video.That's so amazing!I am very fond of the Chi-pao, because its cut and design can perfectly show the shape of the curve of a woman, giving people the impression of Eastern women’s sex appeal , gentleness, decency and so on.Additionally, wearing Chi-pao can improve women’s sitting and walking temperament , shaping her into to an elegant woman.A Scottish kilt is made of pure wool, by handworkin scotland.Similarly, a Chi—pao with Chinese characteristics also has some requirements.It’s generally believed that a modern chi-pao has the following features : standing collar;waist
line;round buttons;slits in leg side.But chi—pao still has a lot of styles incollar, material, color, pattern and button.They can have many changes in details.However,the most special design with ethnic characteristics are Chinese Collarand hand-making buttons.Also worth mentioning isthe traditional Chinese Chi-pao’s pattern decoration, such as rich flowers, plum blossoms andthe floral patterns with Chinese ink paintings.All of these enrich Chinese elements ,makingchi—pao’s Chinese features more obvious.This unique design and excellent handwork gives Chi-pao more of a delicate beauty.Asthe most representative clothes of a country, kilts and chi-paos all reflectthe evolution, development and innovation of the culture.Meanwhile ,it reflects the national people’sawareness of the beauty and national people’s character.Scots are enthusiastic andlively, however, Chinese women have reserved style.Moreover,it reflects the inner spirit of a nation.Today, in the cultural exchanging world ,kilts and chi-paos are not only
belonging to their own residents, but also can be appreciated, loved and worn by people all over the world.They all have made huge contributions to the modern fashion.And it does impact every detail of our lives.This is the charm and magic of the culture!Kilts do not conflict with chi-paos , I can like both, And I do love both.I think we should treat cultural differences with a tolerant attitude and seek common ground.Under the background of globalization,the combination of different cultures is the major trend.Like a popular drinking way in China, mixing a kind ofwhiskey ,exported from Scotland ,named Chivas,with a typicalChinese drinking-tea together, I really hope that one day a piece of clothing could have both Scottish and Chinesefeatures.Maybe it could be the style of that,the upperis chi-pao, the rest is the kilt.Fashion changes fast, who knows the future.Kilts and chi-paos are just two micro shadows under Scottish and Chinese culture.I hope China and Scotland could have more and more cooperations and developments in the aspect of the culture, making more significant progress for human beings.Finally, I would like to express my love of Scotland and the yearning to study there.I very want to be a disseminator of Chinese-Scottish culture, letting people in China and Scottland understand and love each other more,Perhaps one day, I will wear a chi-pao ,sitting in the Highlands ,enjoying the bagpipes, telling the local people about Chinese history!
Thank you for listening!