第一篇：成功的定义英语演讲稿
my definition of success well, you know the rest.the three tasks may be different in different versions, but the main plot is always the same, with the prince claiming the princesss hand triumphantly.and the ending is always the same, finishing with the line and they live happily every after.why arent we tired of something so fanciful, so unrealistic, and, i would say, so unimaginative? how can a story like that endure generations of repetition`? because, i think, it is a typical success story.it is highly philosophical and symbolic.by implication, we see a 4-step definition of success: 1)a goal to be set.as represented by the beautiful princess;2)challenges to be met, as represented by the three tasks;3)the process of surmounting difficulties, as represented by the ordeals the youth goes through;and 4)the reward of success, as represented by the happy marriage.the story not only caters to everyones inward yearning for success, but also emphasizes the inseparability of the process and the result.the reward of success will be much amplified if the path leading towards it is treacherous, and vice versa.if a person inherits his fathers millions and leads an easy life, he is not a successful person even in material terms, because there are no difficulties involved in his achieving affluence.the term success, to be sure.will not sit still for easy the concept of success is not constant but relative because the nature of difficulty is also relative.something you do effortlessly might pose a great difficulty for a handicapped person.in acquiring the ability to do the same as you can, he or she achieve success.thats why we greatly admire stephen hawking, because, though confined to a wheel chair, he has contributed greatly to the field of science.thank you.译文:成功之我见
很久以前，有个国王，他的女儿貌美如花。老国王向所有来求婚的男士提出了三个任务作为挑战，而每一项任务都异常艰巨，几乎不可能完成。一天，来了一位年轻英俊的王子„„”好了，下面的故事你们都知道了。三项任务在不同的版本中各不相同，但关键部分的情节都如出一辙:王子成功地过关，得到了公主的芳心。而故事的结局也都一样，最后一句都写道:“从此他们幸福地生活在一起。为什么我们对如此美妙、如此不切实际,而我要说,如此缺乏想象力的东西这么乐此不疲呢?这样的故事又如何能够经历几代人的重复?我想，因为它是典型的成功的例子。故事的思想性很强，具有代表性。通过故事带给我们的启示，我们认识到了成功定义中的四个步骤;第一，目标的设定，有如故事里美丽的公主;第二，所遇到的困难和挑战，就像三大任务;第三，克服困难的过程，故事中青年经历重重难关可以作为象征;第四，就是成功的果实，如同幸福的婚姻。这个故事不仅迎合了人们内心深处对成功的向往，也强调了过程和结果的不可分离。如果通往成功的道路崎岖曲折，那么成功的回报必然硕果累累，反之亦然。如果一个人继承了父辈的百万家产而生活得轻松富足，那么，即使在物质上，他也不能算是个成功人士，因为，他的财富并没有经过艰难困苦而获得。确切地说，“成功”这个词，不是个静态简单的定义。在我的理解中，真正意义上的成功是奋斗的过程和经历了奋斗之后赢得的满意的结果。请让我另举一例来阐明我的见解。如果我们试着改变足球的比赛规则，将球门放得很大，换下大卫〃希曼或其他任何的守门员，这样，随便哪个“大卫”，比如说，“大卫〃贝克汉姆”，就可以轻松进球，然而这样进一球却不能给他带来成功的震颤与喜悦。如果我们再改一改比赛规则，不让阿森纳队的防守来守门，那么，贝克汉姆只要动动手，其实就是抬抬脚就能进一球，那样的话、，实际上也没有什么比赛可言了，因为赢球的意义已经不存在了。在接受挑战、克服困难和经历磨难的过程中，“成功”的价值才得以丰满。取得成果的意义和所克服的艰难的程度成正比。所谓成功的概念不是一成不变的.而昙相对而言的,因为困难的性质也是相对意义上的。正常人不费力气做成的事对于一个残疾人来说也许相当困难。获得了同正常人一样的能力，这个残疾人就获得了成功。这便是我们为什么崇敬史蒂芬〃霍金的原因—虽然行动不便，受到了轮椅的限制，他依然为科学界作出了巨大的贡献。就我自己而言，生性羞涩，容易怯场，不得不鼓起非常大的勇气来参加此次的演讲比赛。我完全可以待在一边，不参加大学级别的比赛，而落得轻松自在。可是，我还是选择了接受这一挑战来面对困难。现在我来了，如果我能够得第一的话.这对我来说就是巨大的成功。如果，我是最后一名—我希望情况不是这样—但如果我真的是最后一名，我也不会认为这次的尝试是一次失败，反而我要把它当作一次真正的成功来庆贺，因为我一部分的目标是对自己性格的锻炼—更加坚强、勇敢地面对困难。对我来说，这标志着我在通向成功人生的漫漫征途中又向前迈进了一步，尽管是很小的一步，但是我确实通过参与真正地获得了收益。回到我们年轻英俊的王子和对“成功”的四步骤定义上吧，您也许已经注意到了财富、地位和名誉等这些世俗的标准在故事中并未提及，相反故事强调了克服重重困难的过程。古代的智慧已经对成功的意义下了定义，这也是我的定义。
谢谢!篇二：关于成功的英语演讲稿 1.success, as is known, is the pursuit of many ambitious people.it requires much of a person.in my above all, one should be a person of strong perseverance.rome was not built in a day.on our long way to success, there are undoubtedly many difficulties standing in the way.if we lose heart and give up halfway, nothing can be achieved.throughout history, we havehad many famous successful people in the world, of whom no one is weak-minded.take the great american scientist edison as an example, he tried experiment after experiment and had one failure after another before he finally invented the bulb, which lighted up the whole world.so we can conclude perseverance can surely be one of the secrets of success.furthermore, one needs to work hard to realize his dream just as the famous saying goes “hard work leads to success”.look at these around us and we’ll find diligent people are always the favor of our society.they usually achieve more than expected.why do so many of our classmates of average intelligence go far ahead of others? hard work is definitely supposed to be the answer.and still, i hold that one must keep in pace with the informative world.there’s no denying that our world is changing every day.so one can never be locked alone inside his own room, doing his research work and dedicated to book knowledge how can an isolated person be well-informed enough to go ahead of others? if so, that could be ridiculous.success is what one desires.so long as one is perseverant, hard working and up-to-date, i am sure success is near at hand.2...success is what？what is success? this is an old topic.however,however, everyone’s understanding of success is quite different.some people think that having money, house, car, a woman is successful.some people think that success is doing something that you want to do.some even deny the existence of success, he thinks this world is not successful, only the endless pursuit.so i want to make a new definition of success: success is something that people are very eager to do good things gained a sense of satisfaction and excitement.therefore, we do things, no matter big and small, as long as you want to do, and through your efforts made, and you happy, then you succeeded.do not look too far successful, they should not be too easy to see success, success requires your effort.those who believe that successful people do not exist, in fact, continue to define new goals, they will from what they have done to get happy, they succeeded.(each other.if you follow these principles, you will certainly achieve remarkable success in thefuture.in my opinion, success means achieving brilliant results in ones work, that is, making outstanding contributions to the development of the country and bringing happiness to the people.so my conclusion is that even if one has made great progress in what he does, i don’t think there’s any reasons for him tobeconceited.3.uccess 大学英语作文
谈到成功时，对于实现成功的原因不同的人有不同的看法。有些人认为勤奋是成功必备的素质，而另一些人则相信聪明人会实现成功。从我的角度来看，我认为毅力和勤奋对于那些想要成功的人是必不可少的。
首先，毅力让人离成功越来越近。大多数人都想用不同的方式证明自己的价值。设定自己的目标，向着目标走，就可以使梦想成真了。然而，有些人设立了目标，却在困难面前妥协了将以失败告终。我认为成功与失败之间的差别是毅力。如果我们有毅力，即使我们不聪明，我们也会有很大的不同，但是如果我们没有毅力，我们注定是要失败的。我们都知道，爱迪生是一位伟大的发明家。但是，在他发明电灯泡前，他试了为数千次去找一个合适的线。让我们想象一下，如果他在第九百九十九次放弃了，那么他就不可能变得如此成功。因此，我强烈认为，坚持就会成功。
其次，还有一种人是天生聪明的，他们是幸运的。然而，如果他们没有在实现目标之前努力工作，他们当然也会成为失败者。无论我们是否有天资，我们都应该努力工作以获得成功。我认为勤奋是成功的一个有效的方法，因为我相信的“付出和收获”。对于那些不努力工作的人最后是失败的了。在古代，有一个聪明的男孩，在他能说话的时候就可以作优秀的诗歌。当他的父亲发现他孩子的聪明时，他只是让孩子到处作诗歌来炫耀，却从不让他儿子学习别的知识。孩子长大后，人们把他遗忘了，因为他失去了创作能力，成为了普通人。从这件事中，我们可以看到，只有通过努力工作才能获得知识，拥有一个好的 anyway, i think perseverance and hard-working are both important in our way to success for they enhance us and produce success 不管怎么样，我觉得毅力和勤奋在成功路上都是很重要的，因为他们提升我们并获得成功。
4.、cease to struggle and you cease to live.—— thomas carlyle 生命不止，奋斗不息。——卡莱尔 you have to believe in yourself.that’s the secret of success.—— charles chaplin 人必须有自信，这是成功的秘密。——卓别林
33、man struggles upwards;water flows downwards.人往高处走，水往低处流。、the people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for circumstances they want, and if they cannot find them, make them.—— bernara shaw 在这个世界上取得成就的人，都努力去寻找他们想要的机会，如果找不到机会，他们便自己创造机会。——萧伯纳 5.篇三：关于成功的英语演讲稿 1.success, as is known, is the pursuit of many ambitious people.it requires much of a person.in my above all, one should be a person of strong perseverance.rome was not built in a day.on our long way to success, there are undoubtedly many difficulties standing in the way.if we lose heart and give up halfway, nothing can be achieved.throughout history, we have had many famous successful people in the world, of whom no one is weak-minded.take the great american scientist edison as an example, he tried experiment after experiment and had one failure after another before he finally invented the bulb, which lighted up the whole world.so we can conclude perseverance can surely be one of the secrets of success.furthermore, one needs to work hard to realize his dream just as the famous saying goes “hard work leads to success”.look at these around us and we’ll find diligent people are always the favor of our society.they usually achieve more than expected.why do so many of our classmates of average intelligence go far ahead of others? hard work is definitely supposed to be the answer.and still, i hold that one must keep in pace with the informative world.there’s no denying that our world is changing every day.so one can never be locked alone inside his own room, doing his research work and dedicated to book knowledge how can an isolated person be well-informed enough to go ahead of others? if so, that could be ridiculous.success is what one desires.so long as one is perseverant, hard working and up-to-date, i am sure success is near at hand.2...success is what？what is success? this is an old topic.however, everyone’s understanding of success is quite different.some people think that having money, house, car, a woman is successful.some people think that success is doing something that you want to do.some even deny the existence of success, he thinks this world is not successful, only the endless pursuit.so i want to make a new definition of success: success is something that people are very eager to do good things gained a sense of satisfaction and excitement.therefore, we do things, no matter big and small, as long as you want to do, and through your efforts made, and you happy, then you succeeded.do not look too far successful, they should not be too easy to see success, success requires your effort.those who believe that successful people do not exist, in fact, continue to define new goals, they will from what they have done to get happy, they succeeded.(in my opinion, success means achieving brilliant results in ones work, that is, making outstanding contributions to the development of the country and bringing happiness to the people.so my conclusion is that even if one has made great progress in what he does, i don’t think there’s any reasons for him to be conceited.3.uccess 大学英语作文
谈到成功时，对于实现成功的原因不同的人有不同的看法。有些人认为勤奋是成功必备的素质，而另一些人则相信聪明人会实现成功。从我的角度来看，我认为毅力和勤奋对于那些想要成功的人是必不可少的。
首先，毅力让人离成功越来越近。大多数人都想用不同的方式证明自己的价值。设定自己的目标，向着目标走，就可以使梦想成真了。然而，有些人设立了目标，却在困难面前妥协了将以失败告终。我认为成功与失败之间的差别是毅力。如果我们有毅力，即使我们不聪明，我们也会有很大的不同，但是如果我们没有毅力，我们注定是要失败的。我们都知道，爱迪生是一位伟大的发明家。但是，在他发明电灯泡前，他试了为数千次去找一个合适的线。让我们想象一下，篇四：英语演讲：成功是什么 my what is success? definition of success what is success? nowadays, in the modern society, people always identify the concept of success with having a large sum of money, achieving fame, having a great career, possessing all the things they ever wanted.and for us, success is getting high marks in exams, winning games, making new friends, and things like that.however, when we’ve gotten all the things above, we begin to think about the same question: is there supposed to be more to life than all those things? definition of success is to realize our ideals and dreams, which are always inside our deepest hearts.? as far as i’m concerned, one of the most important reasons for us to chase ideals and dreams is that they are eternal while money, high positions or fame are not.in the process of realizing our dreams, we get both our body and souls tempted, meanwhile, we’re also enlightened by the most precious qualities of human-beings — love, patience, perseverance and the sense of responsibility.so this is what success really means, and this is why success really matters.i believe, everyone here has his own interpretation of success, anyway, please believe in our dreams and ideals, please believe in ourselves, we, every one of us, can lead a bright future and obtain success!? 我国成功的定义是什么成功?如今，在现代社会中，人们总是确定的概念，成功了一大笔钱，实现了名气，有一个伟大的事业，拥有所有的东西都想要的。而对于我们来说，成功是获得高分的考试，赢得比赛，成为新朋友，等等。? 然而，当我们已经得到所有的东西上面，我们开始思考同样的问题：是否有应该更多的生命比所有这些东西? ? 事实上，成功有不同的形式和定义。这取决于您所搜寻的项目在您的生命。运动员可能会发现成功的第一个达到的目标，一个音乐家可能会发现成功的最热门的安打，一个演员的成功可能会发现作为一个赢得奖项。但有一件事我相信，真正的和最终取得成功的定义是要实
现我们的理想和梦想，它总是在我们最深切的心中。? 至于我而言，最重要的一个原因，我们追逐的理想和梦想是，它们是永恒的，而金钱，高职位或没有名气。在这一过程中实现我们的梦想，我们得到我们的身体和心灵的诱惑，同时，我们也开明的最宝贵的素质的人存在-爱，耐心，毅力和责任感。因此，这就是成功的真正含意，这就是为什么成功的真正问题。? 我认为，这里的每一个人都有自己的解释获得成功，无论如何，请相信我们的梦想和理想，请相信自己，我们，我们每个人，可能会导致一个光明的未来，并取得圆满成功!篇五：刻苦努力才是成功之路-英文演讲稿 hard work leads to success good afternoon!everyone!nice to meet you all here.now let me introduce myself.my name is **.im from the ** **.and my topic is “hard work leads to success”.i hope you will like it.first i want to ask you a question..what brought people to success? yes,the answer is you must work hard.we have learned that those who rise to the heights in any field aren’t those with the greatest natural talent,but those who working harder and harder.of course,for hard work to really pay off,we need to work effectively,here’s how: the first one is “follow your dream”.you must have a direction for your work.set your objectives early,then devote all your energies to achieving them.and the second is “block out the time”to be beneficial,you must be regular。for example,if you want to be an experienced engineer ,then you must to give up many leisure time,you must to studying hard,summing up your experiences for years..the third is “take one step at a time”.don’t aim to reach the top in a single session,just try to improve by one percent over the session before.and the forth is “look back”.may be you can ask yourself frequently.“am i have any “soft spots”？”if you do,try to find them and make some effort to identify the weaknesses,then try to do better tomorrow.the last is “hold out a carrot”,whatever your work needs,always hold out a reward for your achievement.for example ,if you finish the day’s scheduled work,you can go out watching a movie or just eating with your good friends, such a reward will inspire you to work harder and harder.ladies and gentlemen,we all know work is a chance to find yourself.if you think of work as a punishment,how can you achieve your goals? ladies and gentlemen,working hard does have its drawbacks ,its difficukties and painful moments,sometimes maybe you want to give up the whole thing.but we all believe,after all the drawbacks,there’s a benefit.hard work is the way to the end of the rainbow.you have been a very attentive audience,thank you ,thank you all.刻苦努力才是成功之路 大家下午好，很高兴看到你们。首先我做一下自我介绍，我叫**，来自***。我今天演讲的题目是“刻苦努力才是成功之路”，希望你们喜欢。首先我希望问大家一个问题：“怎样才能成功呢？”。是的，你必须刻苦努力才能成功。我们都知道，在任何一个领域，能攀上事业高峰的人未必都是天赋过人的人，而是努力并且倍加努力的人。
当然，要使刻录努力真正得到回报，你必须提高工作效率。现说明如下：
第一，就是树立目标。你必须有努力的方向，尽早的树立目标，接着全力以付去实现。
第二，就是合理安排时间。艰难的工作不是随意应付就可以的，要作出成效，就必须持之以恒。例如，你想成为一个经验丰富的工程师，那你就必须牺牲很多的闲暇时间去学习，不断的积累。第三，就是一步一个脚印。不要想一步登天，每一个阶段能比上一个阶段有百分之一的进步就可。
第四，就是勤于回顾。你可以经常的问自己，我有什么弱点吗？如果有，就试图的发现并努力认识自己的劣势，力图明天做得更好。最后一点就是犒劳自己。不管你忙到什么程度，只要取得一点成绩，就犒劳犒劳自己。例如，你完成了当天规定的工作，你可以去看一场电影，或者和朋友们一起出去聚餐，这样的一个奖励会激励你更加努力的工作。
女士们，先生们，我们都知道，工作就是给我们提供发现自我的机会。如果你把努力工作看成是惩罚，那怎么能达到你的目标呢？
女士们，先生们，刻苦努力的过程确实充满了困难、挫折和痛苦，甚至有时候会想到放弃，但是我们相信，每一次的挫折都会给我们带来新的收获。
刻苦努力才是通向成功的必由之路。
女士们，先生们，让我们相信我们的愿望，相信我们自己，为我们自己，为我们的公司的繁荣，更为了我们的国家的富强继续努力，再努力吧！这也是我准备这次演讲的中心含义之一。谢谢大家专心的听我演讲。
第二篇：成功定义
The Definition Of SuccessNowsdays,most people define success only in terms of a lot of people or a high position.However I think succcess is a combination of things—health,happiness and fulfillment.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimated number of “0”,while health is the “1”.If not the “1”,life is only a “0”.For example,my uncle worked very hard and earned much money,but in the last he was diagnosed with cancer because of toil.From him ,I see the health is real success.Besides ,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet,he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like Grandet.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.In addition to health and happiness,achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,no matter what your achievements are are all successful.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleanerthinks she is successful just
because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons’ eyes.I just think health,happiness and achievement make up of the real success.The Definition Of Success
Nowadays, most people define success only in terms of a lot of people and a high position.However I think success is a combination of things-health,happiness and achievement.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimited number of '0',while health is the '1'.If you lose your health,your life will be vacant.For example,my uncle has toiled very hard and earned lots of money,but now he was diagnosed with cancer because of exert.From him ,I see only health can be the real success.Besides ,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet, he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like him.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.Apart from health and happiness, achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,you are all successful whether your achievement is big or small.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleaner thinks she is successful just because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.Obama, who is President of the United States, is successful.While Tom,who is a cleaner in White House,is also successful.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons' eyes.Only like this can we be succeed really.The Definition Of Success
Nowadays,most people define success only in terms of a lot of people and a high position.However I think success is a combination of things-health,happiness and achievement.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimited number of '0',while health is the '1'.If you lose your health,your life will be vacant.For example,my uncle has toiled very hard and earned lots of money,but now he was diagnosed with cancer because of exert.From him ,I see only health can be the real success.Besides,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet, he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like him.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.Apart from health and happiness, achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,you are all successful whether your achievement is big or small.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleaner thinks she is successful just because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.Obama, who is President of the United States, is successful.While Tom,who is a cleaner in White House,is also successful.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons' eyes.I think the definition of success is composed of health,happiness and achievement.Only like this can we be succeed really.The Definition Of Success
Nowadays,most people define success only in terms of a lot of people and a high position.However I think success is a combination of things-health,happiness and achievement.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimited number of '0',while health is the '1'.If you lose your health,your life will be vacant.For example,Jack is a company man.He worked six days a week,five of them until eight or nine at night.And he was always eating fast food and never did sports.In return,his salary was dramatically large.However,he worked himself to death,finally and precisely,at three clock Sunday morning.Besides,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet, he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like him.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.Apart from health and happiness, achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,you are all successful whether your achievement is big or small.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleaner thinks she is successful just because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.Obama, who is President of the United States, is successful.While Tom,who is a cleaner in White House,is also successful.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons' eyes.I think the definition of success is composed of health,happiness and achievement.Only like this can we be succeed really.
第三篇：成功的定义
As we all know, YuanLongPing is a successful scientist.And I think a successful man should have some attributes.The first, he should have an ideal.A good ideal is the basis of success.The second, he will confident all the time.The third, the patience is also important.If a man who has this three attributes, I guess he will be a successful man.what is success? When we are talking about success, mostly the first image comes into our mind is an image of a successful business man with high social status, apartment, and quite a lot of property.Most people believe that is success and all that they do is for this purpose.To be clear about what success is must be the first step to achieving success.To a football player，scoring on the field is success.To a soldier, killing the enemy is success.To us, during the exam, getting a high score is success.even now I am standing here giving my speech is somehow also success.While, for those who want to fail, is not.And this remind me of what success to a robber is managing to get money from the bank, to a murder is successfully kill someone he wanted to kill.Money to a hungry man is not a success though it can by food.But food is.Today I am very glad to be here to share with you my ideas of success.It is what everyone is longing for.Sometimes success would be rather simple.However, as a person’s whole life is concerned, success becomes very complicated.What is success? Different people have different opinions on this question.Is fortune success? Is fame success? Is high social status success? My answer is not.Nowadays, in the modern society there are many people who are regarded as the successful.And the most obvious characteristics of them are money, high position and luxurious life.But the problem is whether it is real success.We all know there are always more money, higher position and better condition in front of us.If we keep chasing them, where is the end? What will satisfy us at last? Therefore, we can see, to get the real success we must need something inside, which is the realization of people’ hopes.Forrest Gump’s mother said, ‘life is like a box of chocolate ,you never know what you are goanna get.' I would say if the chocolate you got is not your favorite.Don't get upset but try the next.Meanwhile we are enlightened by the most valuable qualities of human beings: love, patient, courage and sense of responsibility.These are the best treasures.So now I am very proud that I have this opportunity to stand here speaking to all of you.So far, the best definition I have concluded is: “Success is the achieving anything intended.” In other words success is finishing what you planned to do.It is my success.
第四篇：关于成功的定义(精)
关于成功的定义
jiamiu
关于成功的定义
1，成功是一个中性的词。（可能在很多的人看来成功是一个褒义词。）比如小偷偷东西达成了，对小偷而言，他是成功的，但对社会而言，他就不能算是成功，因为他的成功标准不被社会所认同。
2，成功是预期目标的达成。如果没有目标，那么成功就无从谈起。3，目标必须达成。如要存款10000，如果存了9000就不能算是成功。4，成功有明显的个性化特征，标准因人而异。个人的标准，他人标准，群体标准。这就是为什么congolin说的，将目标定低一些不就成功了吗？确实没错，如果你的计划是存9000以上，那么你就是成功的。也就是多成功有个人自己的标准。同时还有通俗的群体和他人的标准。在他人看来，你存10000算得了什么，压根就不叫成功。所以根据标准得不同，成功有完全不同得定义。所以关键要有自己的标准。自己是如何定目标，就有自己的成功。
5成功有量化的指标。很多人所说的更进一步，更好，赚更多的钱，这样的指标是难于衡量是否成功的。成功与否就变的说不清了。《成功一定有方》
congolin
谈谈我自己毕业一年的感受，我对“成功”的理解，希望能帮到大家。
以前听销售培训的时候，“成功”经常挂在讲师的嘴边，或许是用金钱代表，或许是地位、能力的提升、积德，总之它变成了明确的外化的目标，激励我们。再后来业绩不理想，跳槽了，轮到我给人家说成功（一笑），自己的斤两是知道的，我避而不谈，只谈自己在销售过程中的体会和心得，但在接触一些培训教材、培训讲师时，也总会提到这两个字。我不断地问自己，到底”成功“是什么？我有没有教唆别人，误导别人的嫌疑？如果说成功有一个客观标准的话，那么这个客观标准未免太过于广泛了，只要改变自己的认知就可以了。正比如认知评价理论、认知失调理论所述，往往是行为决定态度。我没钱——”钱不是万能的，我成功了“，我缺少家庭温暖——“我有情妇，我成功了”，我不知道为什么干这行但我还是干了十年——“我适应能力强，我干一行爱一行，我成功了”。
但往往认知不太容易改变，那如何？改变心智模式？找心理咨询？NLP？信仰宗教？法*功？
我后来“走投无路”，决定考研，独处的一段时间得以“淡泊明志”，反省自己的所得所失，前段时间看柯维《与成功有约》，书中提到生活重心、使命宣言的问题。再看南怀瑾先生的《论语别裁》，提到孔子等一系列人物。有所感悟，诚如马斯洛所言，“成功”是一种高峰体验，前提是自我实现需要的满足，“自我实现需要”基于自己的价值观，“满足“基于个人的认知模式。
我当年为什么会追求成功却不知道成功是什么？事实上我想要的是“高峰体验”，而我把“高峰体验”的获得外化为“成功”，然后我又把“成功”的标准外化成一些社会标准或客观标准，这反而让我丧失了最根本的东西——价值观、认知模式。所以我会这么盲目。
所以老师质疑我，为什么总将客观标准和主观标准、终极目标和主观体验对立，我没说什么，因为这是我的心路历程。
我的一些心得，可能很幼稚，希望诸君能感受到真诚。
jiamiu
——我后来“走投无路”，决定考研，独处的一段时间得以“淡泊明志”，反省自己的所得所失，前段时间看柯维《与成功有约》，书中提到生活重心、使命宣言的问题。再看南怀瑾先生的《论语别裁》，提到孔子等一系列人物。有所感悟，诚如马斯洛所言，“成功”是一种高峰体验，前提是自我实现需要的满足，“自我实现需要”基于自己的价值观，“满足“基于个人的认知模式。
诚如小林子所说，成功是一种高峰体验。觉得很对。最近了解到痛苦的本质就是自我的丧失，自我没有得到满足。（很小的孩子是不会有痛苦的，但他会感受到疼；也就是说痛苦属于灵魂，一个人失恋了，肉体没有任何伤害，但他会很痛苦，也就是自我的需要没有得到满足，所以痛苦就产生了，但痛苦的前提是有自我的意识）
从这个角度出发，如果痛苦的对立面就是快乐的话，也即快乐就是痛苦的减轻（佛勒依德？）话，那么快乐其实就是一种自我的满足（对立于自我丧失），一种灵魂的安宁和满足，如果这就是小林子所说的成功的话，那么是否可以认为成功和快乐实际上有着非常紧密的关系？？
jiamiu
近来想写个文章，题目想好了“从痛苦的本质谈雷锋精神的自私性”
也就是说雷锋虽然是助人者，表面上看他是无私的，但实际上他在助人的过程中获得了巨大的乐趣，也就是他在享受他的快乐，也就是他还是为了自己的快乐，所以本质上看，雷锋还是自私的，只是这是另一种形式的自私。
congolin
是啊，我一直很赞同成功必然是快乐的！
我觉得Jiamiu斑竹的这个版块不同的地方恐怕就是强调快乐吧，认识成功的本质是什么。
关于雷锋精神那一段，我不自觉想起了大四学社会心理学时，三更时分和吾友双华兄在光棍桥上叹天叹地，争执助人的本质，我觉得助人者其实是为了满足自己更高层次的需求，同时也体现了自己的强大（好听点叫影响力），换句话叫做“双赢”。
但这毕竟还有“自我”，和shanren吾友聊过，他说佛家得罪高层次已经是“无我”了，一直都参不透禅机。或许跟我的一次体验有些相像：刚毕业，做保险，住在棠下，躺在床上，冥想自己在天空中俯视大地，自己似乎越飘越高，似乎看到了其他人此时此刻做些什么，体验到他们的需求，他们的烦恼，最后飘到地球之外，注视着整个地球，似乎看到四季不断地变幻，此时真的没感受到自己的存在，然后……真的睡着了。
第五篇：英语演讲稿：成功之我见
xiexiebang演讲稿网推荐精彩文章如下
“Once upon a time，there was a king who had a daughter as beautiful as a blooming rose.To all the suitors who came to the king's palace to ask for the hand of the princess, the old king assigned three tasks to be accomplished, each next to impossible.One day, into the king's palace came a handsome young prince...“ Well, you know the rest.The three tasks may be different in different versions, but the main plot is always the same, with the prince claiming the princess's hand triumphantly.And the ending is always the same, finishing with the line ”And they live happily every after.“
Why aren't we tired of something so fanciful, so unrealistic, and, I would say, so unimaginative? How can a story like that endure generations of repetition`? Because, I think, it is a typical success story.It is highly philosophical and symbolic.By implication, we see a 4-step definition of success: 1)a goal to be set.as represented by the beautiful princess;2)challenges to be met, as represented by the three tasks;3)the process of surmounting difficulties, as represented by the ordeals the youth goes through;and 4)the reward of success, as represented by the happy marriage.The story not only caters to everyone's inward yearning for success, but also emphasizes the inseparability of the process and the result.The reward of success will be much amplified if the path leading towards it is treacherous, and vice versa.If a person inherits his father's millions and leads an easy life, he is not a successful person even in material terms, because there are no difficulties involved in his achieving affluence.The term ”success", to be sure.will not sit still for easy definition.But as I understand it, the true meaning of success entails a combination of both the process and the satisfactory result of an endeavor.To clarify my view, let me give another analogy.If we changed the rules of football, greatly enlarged the goal and sent away David Seaman or any other goal keeper, so that another David, namely David Beckham, could score easily, then scoring would not give him the thrill of accomplishment and the joy that it brings.If we further changed the rules by not allowing Arsenal's defenders to defend, so that Beckham needed only to lift a finger, actually a toe, to score, then there would be no game at all, because the meaning of winning would have disappeared.In accepting the challenge, in surmounting the difficulties and in enduring the hardship, success acquires its value.The sense of attainment varies in proportion to the degree of difficulties on overcomes.The concept of success is not constant but relative because the nature of difficulty is also relative.Something you do effortlessly might pose a great difficulty for a handicapped person.In acquiring the ability to do the same as you can, he or she achieve success.That's why we greatly admire Stephen Hawking, because, though confined to a wheel chair, he has contributed greatly to the field of science.I myself, a rather shy person by nature who easily suffer from stage fright, had to pluck up great courage to take part in a speech contest like this.I could have stayed away and had an easy time of it by not entering the university level contest.But I chose to accept the challenge and to face the difficulties.Now here I am.If I come out first, it will be a great success for me.If I come out last-I hope this will not be the case-but if I come out last, I will not call my attempt a failure, but will also celebrate it as a true success, because part of my goal is my own character training-to do more assertive, to be brave in face of difficulties.For me, it is a meaningful step forward, small as it is, in the long journey toward the final success in my life, because I have truly gained by participating.Let us return to our handsome young prince and the 4-step definition of success.You my have noticed that the usual worldly criteria of wealth, position and fame were not mentioned as part of the story, but rather, it emphasized the process of overcoming difficulties.The ancient wisdom had already defined the meaning of success, and this is my definition, too.
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