英语作文之你觉得交往能改善人际的关系吗

第一篇：英语作文之你觉得交往能改善人际的关系吗

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communication between people is of utmost importance.the importance cannot be stressed too much.it is said in the bible that once upon a time, humans communicated with each other in one language.so they attempted to build the babel tower to communicate with god, only to find such dream was a castle in the air.in the aftermath, humans were trapped into troubles due to the misunderstandings between them.the jealous god plunged us into such bitterness.even now, people with different races and religions are dragged into endless wars.people are crying and dying!such consequences are rooted deeply in the lack of communication.therefore, lack of communication will lead to perish of human beings.on the contrary, mutual understanding can be well-established between people if we communicate with each other.that is, the rapport between two countries will be strengthened and the misunderstanding will be reduced if there is a dialogue channel.likewise, friends can become closer if they argue with each other.no one likes to but it is necessary to be healthy.arguments between people are a way of communication, by which we can find a solution to the conflictions between us.consequently, we promote the mutual understanding.to conclude, through communication, mutual understanding can be promoted and fostered between people with difference races, religions, sex and ideologies.one way is to argue(not totally means quarrels)during the communication to clarify the different views.lack of communication will surely lead to perish of mankind.

第二篇：英语写作之人际关系

人际关系(读写任务)

人际关系指人与人之间的交往与友谊，与家人、朋友、邻居、亲戚或他人之间的情感交流或沟通；对他人的感谢、感恩、宽容、道歉、赞扬、微笑等，请求他人同意和帮助、解决问题、处理矛盾冲突、和解等等。

人际关系方面，高考命题人可能会选择如宽容、赞扬等某一个话题，要求考生通过自己或他人的一次经历来发表看法。以下几个具体话题值得关注：(1)有的同学抱怨父母的期望高、作业多、压力太大，或对生活中的其他方面感到不满，请写一篇短文，准备在“我们应该抱怨生活吗”的主题班会上发表你的看法。(2)写一篇短文，参加“增进父母与孩子之间的理解，构建和谐家庭”的演讲比赛。(3)就“如何构建和谐班集体”谈谈你的看法。(4)描写你和你的同学是怎样建立起友好关系的。

实用表达：

learn from each other 互相学习promote the friendship 增进友谊

improve the relationship 改善关系show love and concern for sb.爱护和关心某人 Good listening can really enable us to get closer to each other.善于倾听使我们彼此走得更近。

A good relationship between teachers and students is of great importance for our studies.良好的师生关系对我们的学习很重要。

To build a good relationship，we should trust each other.要建立良好的关系，我们应该彼此信任。

Only in this way can we enjoy an equal relationship.只有这样我们才能享有平等的关系。They find it easy to communicate with their teachers.他们发觉很容易和老师沟通。

We should value this harmonious relationship between teachers and students.我们应该珍惜师生之间这种和谐的关系。

With the encouragement and support of my father，I have overcome many difficulties in my life.在父亲的鼓励和支持下，我克服了生活中的许多苦难。

A good relationship will make learning and teaching enjoyable while a bad one can make them unpleasant.良好的关系可以使教与学变得愉快，不好的关系令人不高兴。

阅读下面的短文，然后按要求写一篇150词左右的英语短文。

“Can I see my baby？” asked the happy new mother.The bundle(婴儿包)was placed in her arms and when she moved the fold of cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped.The doctor turned quickly and looked out the hospital window.The baby has been born without ears.Time, however, proved that the baby's hearing was perfect except his appearance.One day when he rushed home from school and threw himself into his mother's arms, he cried out bitterly, “A boy, a big boy… called me a f…freak.” She sighed, knowing that his life was to be endless of heartbreaks.He grew up, handsome for his misfortune.A favorite with his fellow students, he might have been class president, but for that.He developed a gift for literature and music.The boy's father had a talk with the family doctor.Could nothing be done? “I believe we could graft(移植)on a pair of outer ears, if they could be donated(捐献)，”the doctor decided.So the search began for a person who would make such a sacrifice.Two years went by.Then, “You're going to the hospital, son.Mother and I have someone who will donate the ears you need.But it's a secret，” said the father.The operation was a brilliant success.His talents blossomed(开花)into genius.School and college became a series of successes.Later he married and entered the diplomatic(外交)service.“But I must know！” he urged his father.“Who gave so much for me? I could never do enough for him.”

“I do not believe you could，” said the father, “but the agreement was that you are not to know…not yet.”

The years kept the secret, but the day did come…one of the darkest days that ever passed through a son.He stood with his father over his mother's casket(棺材).Slowly and tenderly, the father stretched forth a hand and raised the thick, reddish-brown hair to let out the secret.【写作内容】

1.以约30个词概括这个感人的故事；

2.以约120个词，请就“在受别人的帮助中，学会了帮助别人”的话题写一篇英语短文，表达你内心的感受，并包括如下要点：

(1)你看完这个故事后，你如何评价这位母亲的无私行为；

(2)请以你的日常生活经历的事情为例，说明别人的善良行为对你的影响；

(3)你的感想。

【写作要求】

1.作文中可使用自己的亲身经历或虚构的故事，也可以参照阅读材料的内容但不得直接引用原文中的句子；

2.标题自定。

所给文章属于记叙文文体，第一段在概括时，要抓住记叙文的“六要素”，即who/ when/ where/ 括部分可以加上事件带给我们的启发，注意，“启发”句要用一般现在时表达。本文的概要必须包含以下要点：A baby was born without ears.Someone donated the ears the boy need.The 第一个写作要点“你看完这个故事后，你如何评价这位母亲的无私行为”，是要对故事中母亲的行为发表你的看法，所以在概括部分和此要点之间可以使用After reading the story, I am deeply moved and realize that…进行过渡，而且为了与下一个要点衔接，该部分的感想最好涉及“善良行为”，为下文做铺垫。第二个要点“请以你的日常生活经历的事情为例，说明别人的善良行为对你的影响”，此部分的例

子要精练，因为本文毕竟不是记叙文，之后要结合所举事例来谈对自己的影响，切忌事例与感想脱节。第三个要点还要谈“你的感想”，在结构和内容上是对前面内容的总结和升华。是摘要部分，写作内容部分的三个要点分别为二、三、四段。

通常来讲，读写任务部分所写短文的段落数可以根据写作要求的要点数来确定：总段数＝1＋要点数。其中，摘要为第一段，其他各段内容依要点顺序安排即可。

Help is Always Unselfish

A unselfish mother donated her ears to her imperfect son without telling him about it.At last, the son got the secret from his father after his mother died.Help is always unselfish.The mother donated her ears to her son, showing her greatest love to her child.From these, we can know how difficult it is for parents to raise their children.In the daily life, we always get kind help from our teachers, classmates and friends.And their kind help is always unselfish.When I was in Senior Middle School, I lived in the school.Every time I was ill, my teachers and classmates gave me kind help, taking good care of me all the time.In today's society, I was affected by some bad things, which made me think that there was no kindness in the world.It was my friends who did everything to help me out.From these experiences, I have realized that helping others is necessary, and true love does exist in our daily life.Since then, I have changed myself a lot, and I also give hands to others when they are in need of help.阅读下面的短文，然后按要求写一篇150词左右的英语短文。

I received a call from the nursing home.Grandpa was failing rapidly.There was nothing to do but hold his hand.“I love you, Grandpa.Thank you for always being there for me.”

Memories… memories… six days a week, Grandpa in that old blue shirt caring for those cattle… on hot

summer days plowing the soil, planting the corn and beans and harvesting them in the fall…always working from dawn to dusk.But on Sundays he put on his gray suit and hat.Grandma wore her wine-colored dress and ivory beads, and they went to church.I removed Grandpa's things from the room and found a very old handmade valentine in the top drawer

of his nightstand.A piece of white paper had been glued to the center of the heart.On it, penned in Grandma's handwriting, were these words：

TO LEE FROM HARRIET with All My Love, February 14, 1895

Are you alive? Real? Or are you the most beautiful dream that I have had in years? Are you an angel — or a figment of my imagination?

You made me laugh when my heart was crying.You helped me set new goals when I was dying.You showed me dew drops and I had diamonds.You sang to me and angelic choirs burst forth in song.You held my hand and my whole being loved you.You gave me a ring and I belonged to you.I belonged to you and I have experienced all.Tears streamed down my cheeks as I read the words.Now it is framed on my dresser, a treasured part of family history.【写作内容】

1．以约30个词概括短文的要点；

2．然后以约120个词就“真爱”的主题发表看法，并包括如下要点：

(1)真爱的重要性；

(2)你对真爱的看法及理由。

【写作要求】

可以使用实例或其他论述方法支持你的论点，也可以参照阅读材料的内容但不得直接引用原文中的句子。

________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ One possible version：

After his grandpa passed away, the author found the grandpa's valentine which is a fitting testament to the true and holy love story about his grandpa and grandma.It is essential for everyone to get true love in his lifetime.On the one hand, it can bring in full confidence, but on the other hand it can contribute to many success.Without true love, however, you are not courageous to

meet challenges.What's more, you will fail in your study.From my personal point of view, we, out of true love, are considerate of each other's feelings and courteous in our actions toward one another;but we do not insist that our own way is

best and demand that our mates give in to us.Besides, we are concerned not only about our own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well, because we look forward to our relationshipgrowing more meaningful and precious.Last but not least, we should treat our mates with absolute trust.As soon as we gain true love each other, we'll be enabled to fight and overcome any difficulty;at the same time, we'll find our life full of color and flavor.

第三篇：分析你的人际关系,并谈谈你将怎样改善

每一个人都不是独立的个体，都不能在社会上独自生活，学习生活上离不开别人的帮助和支持。因此学会处理人际关系，学会与人沟通变得至关重要。人际关系是人生的巨大财富，是我们打开成功大门的金钥匙。

我们一般认为，人际关系是指人们在物质和精神交往的过程中发生和建立起来的，人与人之间相互影响的心里关系。人际关系主要包含三种成分：第一是 情感成分，人际关系的基础是人们彼此间的情感活动。情感是人际关系的主要成分，也是人际关系的基础。第二是 认知成分 就是自己对自己人际关系状况的了解，是好还是坏，有什么不足。第三是行为成分，是人际交往的外在表现和结果。人际交往应该的遵循的原则：真诚原则，交互原则，交换原则，自我价值保护原则，平等原则，情绪控制原则

我是一个随和的人，只要想和我真诚交朋友的人，我都会以真诚去对待。因此我也有一群不错的朋友群，我们一起生活，一起学习，有困难互相帮助，遇到问题互相理解，遭受挫折互相鼓励，拉一把。所以我的人际关系还算不错，不过也存在着不少的问题。但在朋友交往中，特别是好朋友间，我比较喜欢开玩笑，扮演“丑人”的角色，经常说一些开玩笑的挖苦的话语。有的朋友能理解，打闹一下就算了。但有的朋友会误解，导致我们的友谊受到影响，甚至对我产生厌恶感。还有就是在朋友间我会表现得很活泼，很喜欢玩，但在人际交往的陌生阶段，我却表现得很“冷”。基本上从不主动聊天，都是比较被动，只有在被人搭话我才回应一两句。可能就是这个原因，我的朋友大多数是同班同学。对于不是经常见面的朋友，我也很少和他们联系，有的只是在网上聊聊天，或者过年的时候聚聚，这也导致我们的关系疏远。在我心情不好的时候，想一个人静静，对于朋友的话语表现得不耐烦。这些都是我在人际交往过程中的问题，因为这些问题，我或多或少地损失一些朋友，影响我和朋友之间的友谊。

针对以上问题，在我与人交往的过程中，我会努力地让自己变得自信，活泼些。不管是不是陌生的人，也主动去聊天，努力去交多点朋友，拓展自己的人际关系；和好朋友交往中，也会开开玩笑，不过会把握好度，该开玩笑时，就笑笑。对于什么朋友，在什么场合能开玩笑有个清晰的了解，这样才能不会一句玩笑话取得反效果；对于很久不见的朋友，我会多点和他们联系，多点聚会，一起吃个饭，保持友谊的长久。每个人在人际交往的过程中都会遇到各种各样的问题，不过只要我们时刻记住人际交往的原则：真诚，交换，平等，尊重。我们就能妥善处理好我们的人际关系。

第四篇：如何与人交往英语作文

In our daily life, we have to come into contact with people in every walk of life.therefore, it is very important for us to know how to get along with other people.to get well along with others and win their friendships, we must observe strictly the following words.To begin with, we need to be honest with others and shouh{ always say what we mean.lies will surely make people stay far away from us in the long run.after all,honesty is the best policy.second, we have to be humble enough.if we are proud in public, we can hardly win other's respect, not to mention “friendship”

Finally, we must not be selfish.we should learn how to show concern for others.As long as we abide by what is mentioned above, we will find it easy to get along well with others.How to Mend a Broken Friendship

Growing up across the street from each other in Twin Falls, Idaho, Lisa Fry and Paula Turner never doubted their friendship would last forever.But after Fry married, moved to New York City and had a baby, her letters to Turner suddenly went unanswered.“Do you think I've somehow offended her?” Fry asked her husband.Turner, meanwhile, had convinced herself she was no longer important to Fry.“She's got a family now,” she told herself.“We're just too different to be close like before.”

Finally, Fry summoned the courage to call her old friend.At first, the conversation was awkward, yet soon they both admitted that they missed each other.A month later, they got together and quickly fell into their old habit of laughing and sharing confidences.“Thank goodness I finally took action,” Fry says.“We both realized we were as important to each other as ever.”

There are good reasons to cherish our friendships.Some years ago a public-opinion research firm, Roper Starch Worldwide, asked 2007 people to identify one or two things that said the most about themselves.Friends far outranked homes, jobs, clothes and cars.“A well-established friendship carries a long history of experience and interaction that defines who we are and keeps us connected,” says Donald Pannen, executive officer of the Western Psychological Association.“It is a heritage we should protect.”

Ironically, says Brant R.Burleson, professor of communication at Purdue University in West Lafayette, Ind., “the better friends you are, the more likely you'll face conflicts.” And the outcome can be precisely what you don't want--an end to the relationship.The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended.Here's what experts suggest:

Swallow your pride.It wasn't easy, but that's what Denise Moreland of Hickam Air Force Base in Hawaii did when a friendship turned sour.For nearly four months, Moreland, 45, had watched over Nora Huizenga's two young daughters, who were living with their father on the base, while Huizenga, 40, completed training as a dental hygienist in Nevada.“I felt honored to be asked to step in,” Moreland says.When Huizenga returned at Christmas, Moreland recalls, “I had so much to tell her, but she never called.” One daughter had a birthday party, but Moreland wasn't invited.“I felt like I'd been used,” she says.At first, Moreland vowed to avoid Huizenga.Then she decided to swallow her pride and let her friend know how she felt.Huizenga admitted that she'd been so worried about being separated from her family that she'd been blind to what her friend had done to help her.Today she says, “I would never have figured out what happened if Denise hadn't called me on it.”

When a friend hurts you, your instinct is to protect yourself.But that makes it harder to patch up problems, explains William Wilmot, author of Relational Communication.“Most of us are relieved when differences are brought out in the open.”

Apologize when you're wrong--even if you've also been wronged.No one should allow himself to be emotionally abused by anyone.But over the course of a friendship, even the best people make mistakes.“A relationship can grind to a standstill if the offender refuses to make the first move at reconciliation,” Wilmot explains.“Under these circumstances, it may be best if the wronged person takes the initiative and apologizes--for getting upset, for not understanding the friend's circumstances.When you apologize, give your friend the opportunity to admit that he'd screwed up.”

Experts agree that one of the worst things you can do when you're upset is to start a fight.“We don't think clearly when we're arguing,” says Michael Lang, a professional mediator in Pittsburgh.Instead, says Lang, ask: “What's going on? This doesn't make sense.”

See things from your friend's point of view.Sociologist Rebecca Adams of the University of North Carolina at Greensboro and Rosemary Blieszner, professor of gerontology and family studies at the Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in Blacksburg, interviewed 53 adults who each had many friendships lasting decades.“We were curious how these people managed to sustain strong friendships for so long,” says Blieszner.Tolerance is key, the researchers learned.The subjects also didn't let problems get blown out of proportion.“It's surprising how often a dispute results from a simple misunderstanding,” adds psychotherapist Anne Frenkel.Accept that friendships change.In the spring of 1996, Cindy Lawson, 34, of Chicago, and a close friend decided to co-host a friend's bridal shower.The two women agreed to share the work and the cost.Then the friend, an attorney, took a new, more demanding job.Total responsibility for the shower fell to Lawson.On the Saturday of the shower, Lawson did all the party decorating, then prepared dinner for 35 guests.Her co-host did not arrive from her office until shortly before the event.Later her friend complained about the cost.Lawson was furious.But deep down, she did not want to break off ties.The two women were in a book club together, had many common friends and enjoyed dinners out together with their husbands.Instead, Lawson decided to remain friends--but not close friends.“Friendships change as our needs and lifestyles change,” Wilmot observes.“It's healthy to have a host of friends and to sometimes shift the status of one or another.”

Making friends can sometimes seem easy, says Yager.The hard part is keeping the connections strong during the natural ups and downs that affect all relationships.Her suggestion: Consider friendship an honor and a gift, and worth the effort to treasure and nurture

第五篇：你能给你的学校带来什么 英语作文

What can you bring to your university, to some extent, is a philosophy question.First of all I want to state that everyone in the universe is unique.We know that the original form of a person is a combination of a sperm and an egg, called zygote.Before the progress, millions of sperms fight a severe war and at last only one of them survive to fertilize.From this perspective, it can be said that the existing people are the favourite of god.Then pay attention to some data: every year among the new born babies, only 86.9% can live on, and 94.4% of them are healthy ones, which means that nearly 5 in 100 babies are born with some diseases or disability.Therefore, as the comparatively unique and fortunate one, that I come, I see, I stand here, is the best and biggest gift I bring to the university.On the other hand, at present I am a part of your school thus when I am in other places I always keep the belief in mind that on no account can I do harm to the school’s reputation and in the meanwhile I should make every effort to do credit to our school.With regard to the future, infinite possibilities lie there, whether I become eminent or ordinary, I will inherit and spread the concept of your school to a wider world.That’s my topic, thank you.