傲慢与偏见的爱情观

第一篇：傲慢与偏见的爱情观

傲慢与偏见的爱情观

《傲慢与偏见》是英国著名作家简·奥斯丁的成名佳作，她是19世纪英国文学史上一位伟大的女性作家。她一生之中共创造了6部长篇小说：《傲慢与偏见》、《理智与情感》、《劝导》、《爱玛》、《曼斯菲尔德庄园》、和《诺桑觉寺》。这些作品大都以日常生活为素材，描述了18世纪末到19世纪初处于保守和闭塞状态下的英国乡镇生活和世态人情。其中《傲慢与偏见》更是影响广泛，深得众多人的喜爱。作品一问世就受到了世人的追捧，产生了大量的“简迷”，其中更是不乏一些名人。在当时的英国，于浪漫主义诗歌的盛行，英国的小说在相当长的一段时期内一直处于下滑的地位。在18世纪70年代以后的将近40年中，英国文学中少有让人称颂的文学家和作品，读者的周围充斥着“哥特式”小说 和“感伤小说”。“哥特式”这种小说故事多发生在中世纪的古堡中，情节总是与鬼魂、谋杀等相互联系在一起，常常充斥着恐怖、超自然、死亡、家族诅咒等元素。故事情节虚伪离奇，显得矫揉造作，读者早已厌倦，最多把其当做打发时间的休闲工具而已。感伤主义于18世纪后期发源于英国，由于当时英国的资本主义加速发展，社会贫富差距扩大，社会矛盾也日益加剧。中下阶层的人民由于自身的社会地位和物质生活得不到保障，感伤的情绪日益浓厚。感伤主义应运而生。作为当时的读者之一，奥斯汀也表现出了厌倦和不满之感。她的另外两部小说《诺桑觉寺》和《理性与感伤》就是故意模仿“哥特小说”和“感伤小说”而作，以借机讽刺这两类体裁小说。而《傲慢与偏见》这篇小说取材于日常生活，笔调轻松诙谐，语言机智幽默，极富喜剧色彩，开创了一个不同于以往的文学新风。文章中的熟悉的生活场景让读者倍感熟悉亲切，而独特鲜明的人物个性又能让读者在平淡中体会它的幽默。整个文本在故事情节和人物语言的塑造两方面洋溢着一种轻喜剧的风格。

《傲慢与偏见》仍然是千古不变的爱情题材，嫁给一个有钱的白马王子，可以说是每个女孩子的梦想。虽然该小说主要是以18世纪的英国为背景，但与英国读者见面却在19世纪。在19世纪的英国，是一个以男性为中心的时代，只有男性才拥有财产继承权，这也是为什么班纳特先生尽管有5个女儿，而他的家产却要有他的侄子柯斯林先生来继承。连班纳特先生都认为这是一件最不公道的事情并且是一件洗也洗不清的罪过，虽然对于女子没有继承权这件事生恶痛觉，他却也无能为力。所以在这样一个由男性主宰的社会，妇女要生存下去，只能通过婚姻这一捷径才能获得生活的保障。对于没有经济来源的女性，婚姻才是最终目的，而爱情不过是一项奢侈品。

《傲慢与偏见》一书的女主人公伊丽莎白用行动告诉世人：不能为了金钱、地位、财产而结婚；但结婚不考虑这些因素也是不行的。她在任何时候都坚持自己的主张，坚持做自己，因而能够化被动为主动，收获美满的婚姻。她的婚姻观不仅引起了当时人们的注意，也足以警示现代人：什么是爱情，什么是正确的爱情观，什么是应该借鉴的？ 傲慢与偏见》一书的女主人公伊丽莎白用行动告诉世人：不能为了金钱、地位、财产而结婚；但结婚不考虑这些因素也是不行的。她在任何时候都坚持自己的主张，坚持做自己，因而能够化被动为主动，收获美满的婚姻。她的婚姻观不仅引起了当时人们的注意，也足以警示现代人：什么是爱情，什么是正确的婚姻观，什么是应该借鉴的？ 关键词：婚姻模式；现代爱情；傲慢与偏见；婚姻观；价值启示

伊丽莎白是小说《傲慢与偏见》的女主人公，她是一个活泼开朗、机智果断、自尊自信而又尊重他人，有着独立人格的女性。小说出自于18世纪末19 世纪初英国女作家简·奥斯汀之手。这部小说再现了当时处于保守和闭塞状态下的英国乡镇生活，反映了当时社会的婚姻问题。书中男女主人公因傲慢与偏见而分离，最后又不计前嫌而结合，他们的爱情耐人寻味。小说所引发的对爱情、对婚姻等问题的思考启迪着人们，特别是现代女性。

婚姻是人一生中不可或缺的部分，大多数人都会经历。作者的观念通过对主人公婚姻的描述清楚地展现：不能为了金钱、地位、财产而结合；但结婚不考虑这些因素也是不行的。

一、伊丽莎白婚姻观

伊丽莎白并没有什么惊世骇俗的伟大壮举，她没有与家庭决裂，也同姐妹们一样参加家宴、舞会、走亲访友。她的视野不够开阔，没有想经济独立自谋职业，她也摆脱不了婚姻。但我们却要说，这样的她是聪明的。她不是战士，她无法摧毁不合理的一切。她只是用自己的言行告诉世人她的思想、行为和选择。她维护了自己的主张，把坏影响降到最低。伊丽莎白追求有爱的婚姻，要求婚姻双方互相尊重和理解，因此她拒绝了柯林斯的求婚，最后和达西化解了所有偏见与误会，成为幸福的一对。

如果伊丽莎白对婚姻和家庭的看法同当时人一样的话，她是无法描画出她的美好前景的。对于自身婚姻的坚持与追

求，让她得到最终幸福美满的婚姻。她让我们明白：婚姻不光需要金钱、地位、财产，更需要爱情。

二、伊丽莎白婚姻观的现代思考

现代人不相信爱情。现代人的思想观念随着经济、科技、文化等方面的变化而发生改变。其中对婚姻看法的转变突然的令人不可置信。在现代男女的观念里，爱情几乎被排在了最后，首先考虑的是身份、地位、家境、学历、收入、性格、相貌……没有金钱是万万不行的，但金钱并不是万能的。

作者在《傲慢与偏见》中主要描写了四段婚姻，有现实婚姻（卢卡斯与柯林斯），有冲动婚姻（莉迪亚与威克姆），有完满婚姻（简与宾利），有理想的婚姻（伊丽莎白与达西）。在现实的生活中不冲动，直面一切反对力量，捍卫爱情，坚持爱情是成就理想婚姻的基础，为了物质而结合的婚姻是无法天长地久的。

于丹曾说：“好婚姻没有固定模式。但进入一段好的婚姻之前，一定要先了解自我。要选择最合适自己的，而不是最好的。”执子之手，与子偕老。适合你的就是最好的。

二百多年过去了，伊丽莎白对自我幸福婚姻的见解与坚持并没有湮没在历史的长河中。消除误会彼此欣赏，心灵相惜才最纯美。伊丽莎白教现代人认清自我、坚持自我，面对婚姻选择自己真正想要的。

三、伊丽莎白爱情观的价值启示

世纪的英国，女人只是男人的附属品，不懂得该如何掌握自己的人生。例如，丽迪雅，伊丽莎白的妹妹，漂亮、热情，却轻浮又虚荣，头脑简单，社交是她最热衷的，以与驻扎在麦里屯的军官往来为荣，并与之私奔。丽迪雅对威克汉姆是怀着爱情的，但这一见钟情的爱情，不足两个礼拜，没有深思熟虑。她不了解威克汉姆的为人，就草率地决定了自己的婚姻，以为自己深爱着对方而对方也一样。这样的婚姻当然是不“理智”的，是不能长久的。丽迪雅与威克汉姆的结合纯属“生理需要”层次的冲动，并不是掌握住了自己的命运。不理智的冲动行为带给自己的是不幸。“这个社会，凭理智来领会，是个喜剧；凭感情来领会，是个悲剧。”（沃尔波尔）如上所说，丽迪雅是感情的代表，伊丽莎白是理智的代表。她用理智告诉自己也告诉我们：爱情不是冲动，而是需要理智。

没有什么是比把命运掌握在自己的手中更重要的事情，人必须对自己负责。伊丽莎白不是盲目的按照自己的脾气想法随意的行动，而是用理智作为前提，然后坚持主见、以自己的聪慧、机敏来使事情达到最圆满的结果。作为现代女性，有更多的机会与权力来掌握自己的人生，从这一方面来说是幸运的。但太多人容易在现实面前低头，家庭、工作、地位、金钱等，伊丽莎白与不为五斗米折腰的陶渊明似乎离人们越来越遥远。

每一个人都有他存在的价值，在这个方面伟大的英雄和渺小的平民都是平等的，单从一个人自身的角度来衡量，是不论长相、不论门第的。伊丽莎白对自身价值的肯定最终使她获得了幸福。她的家庭地位远远比不上达西，但这并不能使她感到自卑，也不妄自菲薄，而这更不能使她在达西面前胆怯，她可以毫不掩饰的用俏皮话讥讽达西表示对达西的不满。伊丽莎白对于自身是自信与尊重的。她虽然有时不齿于母亲、妹妹的某些做法，但是她对自己的家庭、自己的出身却从没有抱怨过。达西的姨妈咖苔琳夫人来到班府，要求她不能答应达西的求婚时，她大胆地向她表明了自己的态度，没有被贵夫人的气势和社会地位吓倒：“只是我已打定主意，我觉得怎么样能给我带来幸福，我就怎么办，我才不理会您呢，任何与我毫无关系的人我都一概不予理会。”这就是伊丽莎白，坚持主见、聪慧、机敏、漂亮的女孩儿，在她面前，一切问题都将迎刃而解。伊丽莎白不仅善于观察，精于判断，她还是一个思想独立的女性。她并不美貌出众，却征服了傲慢的贵族青年达西。“我一直在默默深思，玩味着一个漂亮女人脸上的一双美丽眼睛所给予的巨大快乐。”这是达西对她的评价。令达西折服的正是伊丽莎白那独特的人格魅力。

那个时代的妇女以伊丽莎白为榜样，现代女性也可以。曾经火透大江南北的《蜗居》，让不少男男女女不相信爱情，让许多女性以金钱为重。面对婚姻与爱情，人们应如何去做？伊丽莎白给了最好的回答：“只是我已打定主意，我觉得怎么样能给我带来幸福，我就怎么办，我才不理会您呢，任何与我毫无关系的人我都一概不予理会。

李银河说，物质和爱情本身就是对立的一组名词，如果两个人因为爱情在一起的话，他们是不会在乎物质的;反之如果两个人因为彼此的物质化条件而相互吸引走到一起，那么这种结合其实是没有多少爱情的成分在里面的。建立在物质基础上的爱情，也不会太牢固。

在物质和爱情之间，人们该如何选择?对此，李银河的观点是，如今人们越来越看重物质化的东西，没有给爱情留下多少空间。现实生活越物质，人们越要追求爱情的重要性，这就要求人们给情感世界充分的空间。最理想化的婚姻观应该是因为爱而结合，而不是因为其他的因素走入没有爱的婚姻。

第二篇：论文 分析《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观

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论文题目: Views on love and marriage in “Pride and Prejudice”

分析《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观

学生姓名：罗

考籍号：910108300488 年级专业：2007级英语 指导老师及职称：汤春华 学 院：中南大学科培中心

湖南·长沙 提交日期：2010年4月

Contents

Abstract...............................................................................................................................................1 Keywords............................................................................................................................................1 Introduction........................................................................................................................................3

1、Jane Austen and the Background of Pride and Prejudice............................................3 1.1 Jane Austen................................................................................................................3 1.2 The Background of Pride and Prejudice......................................................................4

2、Four Marriages and Ideals on Love and Marriage Shown in Pride and Prejudice......5 2.1 Four Marriages in Pride and Prejudice........................................................................5 2.1.1 Collins and Charlotte’s Marriage.............................................................................5 2.1.2 Lydia and Wickham’s Marriage...............................................................................7 2.1.3 Jane and Mr.Bingley’s Marriage.............................................................................7 2.1.4 Darcy and Elizabeth’s Marriage...............................................................................8 3.Austen’s Concept about Love and Marriage............................................................12

4、Conclusion.................................................................................................................................14 References.......................................................................................................................16 Acknowledgements.........................................................................................................19

Abstract “Pride and Prejudice” is Austen's masterpiece which described four different marriages and love.Until today, this novel is still very popular among many readers and arouses people's observation and unlimited thinking of marriage.This paper aims to probe into the views on love and marriage in ―Pride and Prejudice‖.That is: love and marriage are associated with, but not totally lie on the property and social status.The marriage which is based on the love, mutual understanding and mutual respect is a true happy marriage.Austen not only opposes marriage for money, but also is against the hasty marriage.She attaches great importance to ideal marriage and regards the feelings between men and women as the cornerstone of the ideal marriage.Keywords ―Pride and Prejudice‖;viewpoint of love;viewpoint of marriage;

摘 要

《傲慢与偏见》是奥斯汀的代表作，小说以讽刺为基调描写了四种不同形态的婚姻观和爱情观，时至今日，这部小说仍然吸引着众多读者，引发了人们对婚姻的观察和无限思考。本文就是通过对这四段婚姻的详细的分析，来探讨《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观。笔者认为：爱情婚姻与财产和社会地位相互关联，但绝不能仅取于它，以爱情、相互理解及相互尊重为基础的婚姻才是幸福的婚姻。奥斯汀既反对为金钱而结婚，也反对草率结婚。她强调理想婚姻的重要性，并把男女双方感情作为缔结理想婚姻的基石。

关键词

《傲慢与偏见》；爱情观；婚姻观;

Introduction

Jane Austen humorously described the marriage in the “Pride and Prejudice” and a series of marriage-related activities in a relaxed manner.The novel consisted of how man picking their wives, how the young women choosing their future husbands and how their mothers selecting their son-in-low in many wonderful scenes.By studying the marital relationship, the authors strive to portray several different marriage and love relations.Although they had got married, the happiness of marriage is differs.This was because Austen's novels the marriage was involving not only the feelings, but also social status and money.“The bachelor who own property must marry a wife, it has become a universally recognized truth.” [6], But that really is a truth? In this paper, the novel's four marriages vividly reflected the British town life and the world state of human of 18 century to the early 19th century in a conservative and isolated state.1.Jane Austen and the Background of Pride and Prejudice

1.1.Jane Austen Jane Austen(1775 – 1817，)was one of the most outstanding writer who described the middle-class in the south of England with realism.From a unique female perspective, she left six immortal works.Her works were full of rich comedy conflicts in humorous and satirical style, so they were regarded as “the art of simplicity”.In Jane Austen's works, the content was not very wide and all were related to the life of a few middle-class families.The theme was about love and marriage between men and women.In the “Simple” works of Jane Austen, they showed us, truly and accurately, the social life and interrelationship and described the social state, marriage as well as political and economic relations between middle-class women at that time.And she expressed her views on marriage, directly or indirectly, by analyzing these phenomena.She believed that marriage just for money was wrong, but marriage of no money was stupid.She also frankly disclosed the inseparable relationship between marriages, property and family status.In her novel, as long as a woman who was intelligent, decent, 3

educated, and patient could overcome social barriers, she would receive the ideal happy marriage.Austen was born in a middle-class family of a small village in England, so the people and things in her works were all connected with this environment which was very familiar to her.It is difficult for readers to find the sufferings of those working people who lived at the bottom of the society at that time.At the same time, the important events, such as the French Revolution and Industrial Revolution, were little.Her narrative was always inseparable from the party, walk, talk, dance......Although this written style received some people's criticism, she still stick to it.She once said that she was ―sculpt on two inches of ivory‖.Austen was never married, but the marriage is the eternal theme of her writings.In her works, the marriage status of middle-class people was alive.1.2.The Background of Pride and Prejudice In this great book, the author amply demonstrated her view on love and marriage.In order to analyze these points of view, we should firstly start from the background of her great works.―At that time, according to the social conditions in Britain, a good marriage for a young woman was critical.This phenomenon was closely associated with the British society and the status of women in the society.In the 19th century, women were not well respected compared with the ones in the present society.There was no equality between woman and man.Women were considered to be inferior to men in terms of intelligence and capacity.The central life of women was forced to be staying at home.Their roles were to deal with the family affairs, such as taking care of the children and serving for the husband.‖(Zhu Hong, P34, 1995)

People at that time thought that women should be submissive to their husbands.The virtues of women were patience and deference.They must recognize their inherent inferiority to men, so they must restrict their abilities without question.Although the status of women was low, few of them expressed dissatisfaction about their own destiny.At that time, many middle-class young women had three ways out: getting married, staying at home as old maids or working as the family female teachers.The income of a family female teacher was very low, and the status was low as well.It was very difficult for them to change or swap out of this status, no one would like to be a maid forever, therefore, for young

women, especially those who did not have enough properties, getting married was the only good way for them to gain respect, stability and social status.Austen fully criticized some bad phenomena at that time in her work Pride and Prejudice and took some perfect points about marriage and loved to demonstrate her own view on love and marriage.2.The Four Marriages and the Ideas on Love and Marriage shown in Pride and Prejudice The story showed the ordinary life, feelings of the ordinary people.They were organized in a harmonious order under the author's skillful arrangement.The work mainly described four marriages.Two of them were main and assisted by the other two assistant marriages.―Darcy and Elizabeth’s love and marriage was the main theme of this work.After undergoing many setbacks, Darcy’s arrogance and Elizabeth’s prejudice eventually eliminates, the lovers finally got married.The marriage of Elizabeth’s sister Jane and Darcy’s friend Bingley was another clue.They deeply loved each other, but they were multi—blocked, after their departure, Jane missed Bingley very much.The two marriages reflected the other point of view in positive way that marriage should be based on true love, which was the ideal marry in the author’s opinion.The stories seem to be the ordinary lives, feelings and persons linked up in a harmonious order under the others meticulous concepts.However, the marriage between Charlotte and Collins was a negative example with the marriage between Lydia and Wickham, which helped to make the plots more tortuous and richer.‖(Zhu Hong, P12, 1985)

2.1.Four Marriages in Pride and Prejudice 2.1.1.Collins and Charlotte’s Marriage The article mentioned little of Charlotte, however, her image was very full.Charlotte was woman who is well-educated, intelligent and admired much by Elizabeth.But she was in financial difficulties.If she did not get married, she could only live in her brother's home to be a spinster.When Kosslyn had been rejected by Elizabeth and turned to propose to

Charlotte • Lucas, She agreed without the least hesitation and still stick to marry him though she knew that Collins was a man who was neither wise nor pleasant, and very boring and that Mr.Collins did not love her and his so-called love for her was imaginary because for her “ the marriage may not make the women to be too happy, but it is always the best safe for the women, and it can ensure them not to be affected by cold and hunger.” In “Pride and Prejudice” Austen described mostly happy marriage, which often aroused the reader's controversy, because they thought that it is too unrealistic to be true.Collins and Charlotte’s marriage made a brutal footnote for Elizabeth’s romantic and happy love.Indeed we can learn that Austen was on a critical opinion of the society at that time from the fate of Charlotte: In the male-dominated society, unmarried women had no future.Elizabeth was an idealist, she would not marry a fool for money(Kosslyn)and also not to marry a man she did not love(such as the Darcy at the beginning of the story);however Charlotte who was six years older than Elizabeth and had little property was a pragmatist.In order to avoid becoming a spinster, who would suffer gossip in the society, she must make full use of any possible opportunity to get married.As Austen said, the reason that Charlotte was willing to marry him was completely for the purpose of property.She also confessed to Elizabeth: “You know I am not a romantic.Moreover I had never been this kind of person.I only ask for a comfortable home.As with Mr.Collins's character, family relations and social status, I am convinced that my chance of happiness is as fair as most people can boast on entering them marriage state ”(......I am not romantic you know.I never was.I ask only a comfortable home;and considering Mr.Collins’s character, connections, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness is as fair as most people can boast on entering them marriage state.)And even after their marriage, Charlotte always felt that “If forget Mr.Collins, the inside and outside of the house is indeed a very comfortable place ”.This was their marriage, which was held together through a pure relation of money and wealth.To some extend, this kind of marriages is actually a social tragedy that is concealed under the gorgeous cover.Through describing such a marriage, Jane• Austen wanted to tell the readers a common point in British society at that time that the most critical factor in marriage is not love, but money.Actually, it was more than in the United Kingdom at that time, even in today's society, this view is very popular, and can be accepted by most people.That was an era in which love was exiled.We could not blame Charlotte and the vast majority of

“Charlottes” too much because it was not entirely their false perhaps in real life love can not defeat the bread forever.2.1.2.Lydia and Wickham’s Marriage

The second marriage is between Bennett’s third daughter Lydia and Wickham, the son of the housekeeper.Originally he was well-treated by his family and friends.However, he came down in the world because of his misbehavior.He got into debt, so he wanted to get money, became rich and changed his social status through marriage which was also a way to approach the talents.He was a man without any responsibility.He does nothing except assailing a woman with obscenities.In his opinion, love was only recreation.For his purpose, he enticed Lydia and got her love easily, for she was young, innocent and vainglorious, and loved to go ease and hated to work hard, and was spoilt by her mother.Getting love and praise of a boy was her dream.So when Wickham wanted to attain to his aim－getting wealth by love and exalting her beauty hypocritically, she forgot who she was and felt she was the most beautiful and happiest girl in the world.Their love did not get the permission from the parents, so then they eloped.When Elizabeth heard the news, she believed that their love was a false.Wickham would not marry Lydia, because she is not charming and had nothing to attract him, who did not love her but loved the wealth of her family.The marriage was admitted with the help of Darcy.Their marriage was considered to be a scandal in Bennett’s family.But Mrs.Bennet was not disgraceful to this marriage.When Collins got the news, he was very angry and reacted to the marriage to revenge his early failure of proposal to her.This marriage was one without love.They didn’t have the real meaning of marriage.They only wanted to satisfy their aspiration.So we can say this is a kind of impromptu love and marriage without true love and responsibility.Such couples only seek the experience of marriage but not everlasting and unchanging one.Of course, such kind of marriage is doomed to be a tragedy.2.1.3.Jane and Mr.Bingley’s Marriage In the novel, Bingley and Jane never stopped pursuing their true love although there were so many obstacles between them.Fortunately, with the help of Darcy and Elizabeth, they finally got married and had a happy life.Bingley and Jane had many similarities in their

characters, which was the main reason to the success of their marriage.They possessed personal attractiveness and dignity, social graces, and a measure of good sense.They all had good breeding, but lacked insight, strength, and self-confidence.They didn’t show their insides easily to the public because they cared the social criticism too much.For Jane, she always concealed her true feelings, which gave others an illusion that she didn’t love Bingley.For Bingley, he yielded easily to criticism of Jane’s social position and easily accepted the suggestions of his sisters and Darcy, which almost consumed the felicity between Jane and him.Frankly speaking, the outside forces facilitated their marriage.According to the relationship between Bingley and Jane, love and respect were the basic factors of their successful and happy marriage.With many similarities in character, people can understand each other easily.Most important of all, the couple with common interest can live together in a happy life.Because they understand, help and support between them.They didn’t care the defects of their partners and even they didn’t see any faults in each other.Just as the old saying goes, ―Birds of a feather flock together, people of a mind fall into the same group.‖

2.1.4.Darcy and Elizabeth’s Marriage Elizabeth was the actress in the “Pride and Prejudice”.Her love and marriage was the main thread running through the entire novel.At the beginning of the “recognized the truth” mentioned in the novel, all the girls in the middle-class families wanted to marry a good man.But Elizabeth had a different interpretation for a “good husband”.She believed that a husband not only need have certain number of family property but also must respect women, and at the same time there must be mutual understanding between them.Mr.Collins was the first suitor to Elizabeth.Elizabeth was surprised at first, but soon turned down Collins's proposal of marriage because she did not love Collins and could not fall in love with him.Elizabeth was impressed by Wickham’s elegant behavior and demeanor, but she still did not want to choose him to be her husband.She told her aunt that she could handle the relationship between her and Wickham and she would not fall in love with Wickham.Collins was secular cavity too, but smart without a common language with Elizabeth.Wickham is not rich man and lack of morality.Despite later Elizabeth discovered the true

face of Wickham.It did not affect the principle of Elizabeth optional husband.Wickham's exposure to poverty let him outside the scope of Elizabeth's choice of husband.But later why did Elizabeth reject Darcy who is a handsome wealthy man? Elizabeth clearly stated her answer: “Why, with so evident a design of offending and insulting me, you choose to tell me that you liked me against your will, against your reason, and even against your character? Was not this some excuse for incivility, if I was uncivil? ”(Austen, 2004:139).Of course, she had prejudice for Darcy and Wickham fabricated lies about Darcy, which had a certain impact on Elizabeth’ refusal to Darcy's marriage proposal, but the most important reason was that Elizabeth hated Darcy for their arrogant attitude.Elizabeth rejected the arrogant Darcy, but Darcy accepted the humble.Their marriage was based on Darcy's property and their love.The composition of property and the love marriage was the two indispensable important factors.When her sister Jane asked Elizabeth t how long she had fallen in love with Darcy, she replied: “It has been coming on so gradually that I hardly know when it began, but I believe I must date it from my first seeing his beautiful grounds at Pemberly.”(Austen, 2004:275)On the one hand, it revealed Elizabeth’s mockery.On the other hand, it also reflected her inner thoughts.It was this statement which reflected her attitude for money, marriage and life: The marriage based on no money was undesirable.So she visited Darcy’s luxurious Pember Lee Garden.After visiting the Manor, she felt that to be the Pember Lee Gardens hostess was quite good.From a psychological sense, it was a direct reflection of her inner thoughts.She was Bonnet’s second daughter, an active, intelligent and smart girl.She had a middle-class family background and had not been affected by the formal education belonging to those aristocratic young girls, so she was not good at music and painting, but she had read many books which made her knowledgeable and perceptive.The most important aspect was that she was a lady with dignity and upbringing.Darcy was a tall man with good manner.He was handsome, rich and powerful.So he was the ideal husband of most girls.He had grown up in the surroundings with strong sense of power, so he was always selfish and arrogant and had a critical look at each individual, except the family members.He was not concerned about anyone else, and looked down upon anyone else.Therefore, when he first arrived in the village, he found all the persons were beyond his imagination.Although every girl was young and lovely, he has no interest in young girls

except Elizabeth.But actually, at first he didn’t put an eye on Elizabeth.Gradually, he had to admit that Elizabeth was beautiful, distinct and popular, although he insisted that Elizabeth hadn't the same social status as him.Darcy was rational because he has a strong sense of power, which agreed on the reality at that time.Although he expressed his love to Elizabeth, he couldn't help showing his arrogance, which made Elizabeth have misconception and prejudice on Darcy.Darcy loved Elizabeth, but looked down upon her social status.He considered that he had been lowing himself and doing something against his will, personalities and even moral standard.He thinks that his marriage would certainly succeed and Elizabeth was waiting for him to propose marriage.Therefore, even he was irresistible to the flooding feelings, and condescends to Elizabeth.He still remembered the gap between them.Clearly, the rational aspect of Darcy’s personality performed on the realities of society.When he talked about his feelings of love, he also expressed the arrogance of these fully feelings, which resulted in the arousing resentment of Elizabeth;she rejected his marriage proposal, and angrily accused his insolence.The rational aspect of the heroine Elizabeth showed her clear, calm and actually stressful personality.Compared with her stupid mother, the smooth and lazy father, the shallow-minded, self-willed sister with feather head, Elizabeth was one with ideal mind.She was elegant like her sister Jane, but more intellectually.She also advised her sister to see through the stupidity and nonsense of those camouflage honest persons.Unconsciously, they were fascinated by each other for the physical attraction, and this led to the experience of passion in a loving relationship.In regard to Darcy, he initially did not think Elizabeth was beautiful enough, and scorned her low relatives and vulgar family members despite his later passion for Elizabeth.Darcy loved Elizabeth’s charming appearance and intelligence.His admiration for Elizabeth was obvious in the following details.When Elizabeth went to look after her sister Jane on foot, Miss Bingley made fun of her and her family at the back.Even Miss Bingley said to Darcy, ―I am afraid….that this adventure has rather lessened your admiration for her fine eyes‖.But Darcy replied: ―Not at all, they are brightened by the exercise‖.At Pemberley when Miss Bingley noticed that Darcy admired Elizabeth, she intended to confuse Elizabeth and made her show some feeling that might harm her in Darcy’s opinion.But it meant nothing to Darcy.She continued to criticize Elizabeth’s appearance, behavior and dress.Darcy could no longer control himself

and said: ―For many months I have considered her as one of the best looking women I have consider her as one of the best looking women in my acquaintance‖.The intimacy component was formed after the prejudice was relieved.For Elizabeth, there are three elements causing her prejudice against Darcy—Darcy’s humiliation of her at the Meryton assembly by his aloof manner and superiority;and her suspicion of his responsibility for Mr.Bingley’s sudden migration to London which would ruin her sister’s chance of happiness.So when he made his proposal to Elizabeth, he heard her say: ―I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be induced to marry‖.Shocked and humiliated by Elizabeth’s refusal, the arrogant Darcy finally learned his lessons from Elizabeth.Upright as he actually was, Darcy wrote letter to Elizabeth, reveals the true character of Wickham and his true perception of Jane’s manner to Bingley.It was at this moment that Elizabeth contemplated the whole thing and she turned ―absolutely ashamed of herself‖, and the prejudice was relieved.Elizabeth at this point moved from strong hospitality to benevolent neutrality, but ―she could not approve him;or refusal, or feel the slightest inclination ever to see him again‖.The commitment component was formed after Elizabeth accept Darcy’s proposal.Only on the condition that Elizabeth saw the altered new Darcy, could she accept him as her man, who she respected and who respected her and her family.When Darcy meets Elizabeth at Pemberly unexpectedly, he entered into conversation with Mr.Gardiner.Elizabeth’s uncle, and asked permission for his sister to call upon Elizabeth.When Elizabeth told him that Lydia has run away with Wickham, he didn’t despise her but brought about the marriage by giving Wickham money.He started to stand on the level of equality to propose Elizabeth and he succeeded.After dispelling all misunderstandings, all three components of love——intimacy, passion, and commitment are formed.3.Austen’s Concept about Love and Marriage

Jane Austen is a writer who regards novel writing as a sophisticated art.With a cool hand, she always has her imagination and passion under control.With great details drawn from everyday life and activities, the pictures of her characters are vividly portrayed and everyone comes alive.With simple language and conversing dialogues, her novels are surprisingly realistic.When she converted the disorderly reality into an orderly artistic unity, she pays much attention to the formal qualities of composition, to the design, and to the subordination of the parts to the whole.Her plots appear natural, unforced.They were developed easily and unhurriedly under the author’s perfect control.All the characters have their place in the plot and contribute to the main story.At her best, she keeps balance between facts and form as no other English novelist has ever done.Jane Austen is one of the few novelists who have managed fully to satisfy the requirements in the art of novel writing.Compared with other writers, Jane Austen defined hers stories within a narrow sphere.The subject matters, the character range, the social setting and plots are all restrict to the late 18th century England.Everything in her novels reminds us of a quiet, uneventful and contented life of the English country.Jane Austen believed that a man’s relation to his wife and children is at least as important a part of his life as his belief and career, and reveals him fundamentally, so she characterizes readers a human being not at moments of crisis, but in the most trivial incidents of everyday life, such as their personal relations, human beings with their families and neighbors, etc.As a result, her novels have a universal significance.Jane Austen’s main concern is about human beings in their personal relationship.As a result her novels have a universal significance.From her point of view, life is made up of small things and human nature reveals itself in them as fully as in big ones and a man’s relationship to his wife and children is at least as important a part of his life as his concerns about his belief and career, which reveals his moral quality more accurately and truthfully.So when Jane Austen writes she would describe human being in the most trivial incidents of everyday life rather than at moments of crisis.She wrote within a narrow sphere.The subject matter, the character range, the social settings and plots are all restricted to the provincial life of the late 18th century England.Her attention would go to three or four landed gentle

families with their daily routine life: relationships with members of their own family and with their friends, dancing parties, tea parties, picnics, barbecues and gossips.As a realistic writer, she considers it her duty to express in her words a serious criticism of life and to expose the weakness and illusions of mankind.In her style she is a neoclassicism advocator, upholding those traditional ideas of order, reason, proportion and graceful in novel writing.The interest of Jane Austen is to study human being in their relations with other people in daily life, so her novels concern about the relationship between men and women in love.Stories of love and marriage provide the framework for all her novels and in which women are always taken as the major characters.In their pursuit of a happy marriage, they could be grouped into three categories: those who marry for money, position and property, those who marry just for passion and those who marry for love which is based on consideration of both the person’s personal merit and his economical and social status.So in her novels the point that money is not the only thing in the consideration of marriage but it plays a very important role found best reflection there.Austen’s this view towards marriage is still very popular nowadays.There are a lot of novels talking about marriage in Britain, but scarcely an author could be like Austen, exposing the money-essence of capitalism marriage system so deeply.In brief, it is money that determines everybody’s life and fate, especially marriage.As for it was pragmatic meaning, it could be forceful and penetrating.No wonder that David Dax，a western Marxism critic said, in the aspect of exposing ―the economics of human beings’ behavior‖, Jane Austen, ―to some extent, had been a Marxist before Marx’s being born.4.Conclusion As in any good love story, the lovers must elude and overcome numerous stumbling blocks, beginning with the tensions caused by the lovers’ own personal qualities.Elizabeth’s pride makes her misjudge Darcy on the basis of a poor first impression, while Darcy’s prejudice against Elizabeth’s poor social standing blinds him, for a time, to her many virtues.Of course, one could also say that Elizabeth is guilty of prejudice and Darcy of pride: the title cuts both ways.Austen, meanwhile, poses countless smaller obstacles to the realization of the love between Elizabeth and Darcy, including Lady Catherine’s attempt to control her nephew, Miss Bingley’s snobbery, Mrs.Bennet’s idiocy, and Wickham’s deceit.In each case, anxieties about social connections, or the desire for better social connections, interfere with the workings of love.Darcy and Elizabeth’s realization of a mutual and tender love seems to imply that Austen views love as something independent of these social forces, as something that can be captured if only an individual is able to escape the warping effects of hierarchical society.Austen does sound some more realist(or, one could say, cynical)notes about love, using the character of Charlotte Lucas, who marries the buffoon Mr.Collins for his money, to demonstrate that the heart does not always dictate marriage.Yet with her central characters, Austen suggests that true love is a force separate from society and one that can conquer even the most difficult of circumstances.The title tells the major concern of the novel: pride and prejudice.Pride is the character flaw that causes Elizabeth to dislike Darcy upon their first meeting.Yet Elizabeth herself also suffers from the same flaw;her pride in her own ability to analyze character is such that she refuses to reevaluate Darcy in the face of evidence in his favor.The concept of pride can be defined into two ways: positive and negative.Possessing positive or right pride is to have self-respect, honor, and integrity.On the other hand, wrong or negative pride is defined as showing arrogant or disdainful conduct and haughtiness.Mr.Darcy displays the positive side of pride while Mr.Bennet possesses wrong or negative pride, and a lack of pride itself in some cases.Darcy is responsible for his sister, himself, his estate, and his family name.He takes pride in these things and does anything he can to protect them.But Mr.Bennet who is a father of five daughters, a husband, and the holder of reputable conduct in the family, does

not take pride in his family or takes his responsibility;Mr.Bennet ridicules the members of his family instead of controlling their unruly actions.Pride and Prejudice depicts a society in which a woman’s reputation is of the utmost importance.A woman is expected to behave in certain ways.Stepping outside the social norms makes her vulnerable to ostracism.This theme appears in the novel, when Elizabeth walks to Netherfield and arrives with muddy skirts, to the shock of the reputation-conscious Miss Bingley and her friends.At other points, the ill-mannered, ridiculous behavior of Mrs.Bennet gives her a bad reputation with the more refined(and snobbish)Darcy and Bingley.Austen pokes gentle fun at the snobs in these examples, but later in the novel, when Lydia elopes with Wickham and lives with him out of wedlock, the author treats reputation as a very serious matter.By becoming Wickham’s lover without benefit of marriage, Lydia clearly places herself outside the social pale, and her disgrace threatens the entire Bennet family.Love is wonderful.The distance between two hearts is not necessarily because physical proximity or separation may change.But youth and love are the most likely to disappear under the sun of things.A woman can be deeply loved by a man in her all life.Is that a kind of happy? Or, a woman in her life missed a man who deeply loved her.What kind of regrets? Pride and Prejudice are the two points in our common human weaknesses.The human nature is too easily distorted, alienated.If not carefully or falling into blindness, you will loss of justice and reason.Meanwhile it was manipulated by emotions and it will go wrong.Elizabeth and Darcy is only one representative.The origin, property, status, education, once stained with upper edge, it is easy arrogance of the illnesses contracted on the poor, low, vulgar person disdained eyes;while the low status, property, few people, for humanity a kind of self-esteem, places biased against the pride of the superior person, which naturally is another distortion of arrogance.In “Pride and Prejudice”, although it is a battle of wits and means shining love sitcoms, actually tells us a truth, that is a solid love is the cornerstone of marriage.In order to property, money and status of marriage is wrong;while marriage does not take into account the factors mentioned above is also foolish.Love and similar interests are the basic factors of a successful and happy marriage.With many similarities in character, people can understand each other easily.Most important of all, the couple with similar interests can live together with a happy life, because there are

understandings, helps and supporting between them.They don’t care the defects of their partners and even they don’t see any faults in each other.Just as the old saying going, ―Birds of a feather flock together, people of a mind fill into the same group.‖

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Acknowledgements I would like to express my gratitude to all those who helped me during the writing of this thesis.I gratefully acknowledge the help of my supervisor, Miss.Tang who has offered me valuable suggestions in the academic studies.In the preparation of the thesis，she has spent much time reading through each draft and provided me with inspiring advice.Without her patient instruction, insightful criticism and expert guidance, the completion of this thesis would not have been possible.I also owe a special debt of gratitude to all the professors in The Central South of University, from whose devoted teaching and enlightening lectures I have benefited a lot and academically prepared for the thesis.I should finally like to express my gratitude to my beloved parents who have always been helping me out of difficulties and supporting without a word of complaint.

第三篇：爱情观

1.人永远不会珍惜三种人，一是轻易得到的。二是永远不会快离开的。三是那个一直对你很好的。但是这三种人一旦离开就是永恒的。

2.喜欢一个人最愚蠢的方式莫过于暗恋。什么也不说、什么也不做，一个人在那边故作矜持，期望喜欢的人能跟你心有灵犀。可是那些东西都是电影里拍出来糊弄人的。事实上在你大演特演内心戏的时候，喜欢的人早就被身材长相皆不如你的但就是敢吐露心声大胆表白的人抢走了。

3.你这种路痴能轻易走到我的心里，还不是因为我悄悄竖了很多路牌…

4.我无法保证给你一段完美的感情，没有争吵，没有分歧。但我能保证只要你坚持，我定会不离不弃。

5.当我喜欢你的时候，不好意思我看谁都像情敌。6.最爱的人都会说：‘我一定不会伤害你’。可最终往往能让你痛彻心扉的的，恰恰就是ta。这世上，不是谁都有本事伤害我们，除了最爱的哪一个。爱，就是把伤害我的资格给了你。

7.很多女孩一旦被人感动了，就会迅速爱上对方。但一直想说，浪漫不是爱，陪聊陪笑不是爱，嘘寒问暖不是爱，那只是泡妞的手段。真正的爱，是牺牲了自己某一部分，来成全你，让你变得更好。所以不要找一个可以感动你的人，而要找一个爱你的人。爱不是感动，而是成全。

8.最好的恋情是，你可以彻底的做自己，并且你的；另一半依然迷恋真实的你。

9.绅士无非是有耐心的狼。

10.有人问上帝，喜欢与爱有什么区别？上帝指了指一个孩子，只见他站在花前，被花的美丽陶醉，不由得伸出手把花摘下来。上帝说，这就是喜欢。接着，上帝指了指另一男孩，只见他满头大汗的在给花浇水，又担心花儿被烈日晒着，自己站在花前挡光。上帝说，这就是爱。喜欢是为了得到，而爱却是付出。11.我们都像小孩，胡闹都是因为依赖你；懂礼貌，是因为你是外人。

12.为了让她爱上我，人们对我说：“要让她笑。”可是每次她一笑啊……明明是我又爱上了她。

13.当你开始喜欢一个人的时候，你就开始觉得对方怎么那么优秀，就好像谁都配不上TA一样，自己开始自卑，开始胡思乱想。其实不用想那么多啦，每个人都有喜欢上其他人的权利啊。放宽点心，该来总会来的。能在一起那就是上帝给的缘分，不能在一起的那都叫送狗吃了的青春。

14.被妹子拒绝的理由出奇的一致：你是个好人，我们不合适。潜台词：你要再坏一点，我就从了！

15.爱一个人的最好方式，是经营好自己，给对方一个优质的爱人。不是拼命对一个人好，那人就会拼命爱你。俗世的爱情难免会有现实的一面：你有价值，你的付出才有人重视。16.科学数据显示，人一生会遇到约2920万人。给你算一笔账，假设你的青春岁月占人生的15%，那么你这期间会遇到438万人，按男女人口比例1：1计算，你遇到这些人中约有219万是异性，而青年人在人口比例中约占27%，所以你青春岁月里一共会遇到了约591300名青年异性。遇到这么多人，还找不到对象，赖谁。

17.怕黑就开灯，想念就联系，人生就像蒲公英，看似自由，却身不由己。有些事，不是不在意，而是在意了又能怎样。自己尽力了就好，人生没有如果，之后后果和结果。18.有种快乐除了你，任何人都无法给予。

19.主动型：看自己指甲时把手背朝着自己，看鞋底时腿向前伸，有人搭你肩膀时或抬你下巴时能继续注视对方。被动型：看自己指甲时手掌朝着自己、弯着手指，看鞋底时腿向前后弯、扭头看，有人搭你肩膀时或抬你下巴时撇开视线

20.爱情的问题都是在床上解决的。---马尔克斯《百年孤独》 21.当你真正拥有社会属性的时候，才有资格谈爱情。何谓社会属性？心智成熟，受助于人，也能为人所用。凭自己本事吃饭，靠自己能力生存。在此之前，谈什么都是扯淡。你两手空空什么都不是自己的，除了大言不惭为了爱能献出生命之外还有什么？可惜这不是武侠时代也不用抗日战争，你的小命，还真送不出去。22.男人的逻辑是：如果你爱我，你就不会走；而女人是：如果你爱我，你会来找我。

23.喜欢和爱的区分，喜欢一个人，第一眼你会看到她的优点，接着你会发现她还有很多的缺点，没有想象的那么完美，如果在你看来优点完全足以让你包容她的缺点时，那就是爱了。24.当开始喜欢上一个人的时候，自己就已经开始失去掉一半的理智了，深陷在感情的漩涡里不能自拔。不怪你太让人喜欢，还是怪自己太喜欢你了。

25.“你喜欢一个人会怎么样？”“看他发的微博、朋友圈就像在做阅读理解。”

26.真正成熟的爱情，不是让两个人成为一个人，而是让两个人都因为对方能够变得更好，同时还能够真实的做自己。27.小矮子，你不用长高，我会弯腰。28.你就是嘴硬，欠吻！

29.“心里老住了个不可能的人，怎么办？”

“猛涨房租，逼她自己搬。”

30.有些事是要说出来的，不要等着对方去领悟，因为对方不是你，不知道你想要什么，等到最后只能是伤心和失望，尤其是感情。

31.人都是被自己打败的，而且首先给自己的情绪打败。控制不了自己情绪的人，别人的一个字，一句话，你就可以失眠一整晚了。

第四篇：爱情观

爱情观

爱情是个谈不完的话题，也是一个人人津津乐道的话题。每个人对爱情都会有自己独特的见解，我们称这种对爱情的见解为爱情观。爱情观决定着一个人怎样对待爱情、怎样去选择自己的伴侣、怎样处理爱情发展过程中出现的问题。爱情观是先于爱情而存在的，随着爱情的发展而逐渐完善。每个人都有自己的爱情观包括和尚和尼姑（出家人五大皆空，看空爱情就是他们对爱情的见解，有见解就说明他们有爱情观），我自然不例外。

关于爱情的建立有两种说法，一是一见钟情、一是日久生情。在我的爱情观里，我更倾向于日久生情。都说人生如戏，那爱情就是这场戏中的一幕，这一幕的开场如下。一男生遇上一陌生女生，第一眼望去这妮还不错，当那女孩转头时男孩送去一个微笑女生本能的回一微笑。因为当一个人对你做出善意的举动时，你总不能以恶意相还吧？于是两人就会在善意的接触下相识。不论是朋友的结交还是恋人的相识，人都会因为本能，在相对陌生的彼此面前展示自己优秀的一面，彼此也都会被这种刻意展示的优秀吸引，这也就助推了感情的进一步发展!这时如果一人挑明关系而另一人又不明确拒绝时，这时就可以宣布两个人获得了初始的爱情，但不是稳固的爱情。俗话说“天下之事合久必分，分久必合”，爱情也不例外。随着时间的推移彼此都会暴露出缺点，新鲜感逐渐被审美疲劳代替，爱情就会进入第一个起伏期。这也是“老婆都是别人的好”这句话产生的原因，因为在相识之初，你看到的都是别人的老婆在相对陌生的你面前刻意展示的美好，就如初见自己老婆时一样。如果你真的和别人的老婆深入接触后就会发现，别人的老婆也不是那么完美，同样会随着时间的推移而出现问题，进入爱情的第一个起伏期。出现问题是不是就预示着破裂那？不是，出现问题反而说明你对一件事情或是一个人有了更进一步的了解。这时爱情观就要发挥作用了，如果双方都不斤斤计较彼此的小缺点，而是更多追忆对方的好，那么爱情就会慢慢地回到另一个高峰。就像蹦床运动员开始表演时那样，落下是为了下一次起得更高。相反双方如果都紧盯着对方缺点不放，爱情就会像蹦床运动员结束表演时那样，离开床的高度就会一次比一次低一直走向结束。如果两人能携手走过30年的风雨坎坷、起起伏伏，并还想继续相濡以沫。那么恭喜他们获得了一份真正的爱情！这就是所谓的日久生情吧！

世间最稳固的最永久的是亲情，爱情怎样才能像亲情一样稳固和永久那？要回答这个问题就要明白亲情是怎样浓厚持久的，是仅仅靠着血浓于水的血缘关系吗？我想不是或者不全是，我认为最重要的是亲人之间的无私、包容和奉献。想来一个人对父母的感情是最深的，因为父母会包容你的任性、你的刁蛮、你的无理取闹。而且父母会奉献他们全部的关怀、全部的时间、全部的金钱也就是全部的爱。他们所有包容和奉献都是无私，是不图回报的，所以你能深刻的感觉到父母是我们最亲的人。同样爱情要想持久且永固，就要求爱情的双方无限的做到无私、包容和奉献。一份成功的爱情需要双方在生活中包容彼此的不足并帮助对方弥补其不足，而且可以凭借爱情持久的影响力让对方渐渐汲取自己的优点，从而达到共同进步的目的。上乘的爱情就是你中有我，我中有你，你变成了我，我变成了你，最终促使双方无限的走向统一，也许就是夫妻相的由来吧。爱情会在无私、包容及奉献的促使下逐渐发展并最终转化亲情，到此就从根源解决了爱情怎样才能稳固且持久的问题。

爱情需要双方无限的做到无私、包容和奉献，但一个人的精力是有限的，这就导致了爱情的排他性。如果选择了一个人作为自己的伴侣就要对对方保持依恋感，绝不能三心二意、见异思迁！只要双方都没有明显的性格缺陷，只要尽力的做到无私、包容和奉献，就可以获得一份甜美的爱情。不仅是爱情所有的事都会因为种种的限制而不能有过多选择。如事业，一个人的精力有限、时间有限、资源有限决定着我们如果想成功只能选择一个事业坚持做下去，只有这样你才能充分的发挥的你才能、充分的投入你的精力、充分的投入你的时间。从而对这个事业获得最多了解、最丰富的经验、最准确的预测，再加上坚持成功肯定会青睐于你。这也就是我“简单、唯一和坚持”人生观的由来，也从侧面证明了一夫一妻制的优越性。

爱情只是人生这部大戏中的一幕，另一精彩的一幕是事业，两幕戏要以怎样的顺序出场才能演好人生这部大戏？有个哥们告诉我，“成家立业”这成语告诉我们只有先成家后立业，虽说这种解释没什么科学依据但却不是全无道理。如果背后有一个支持你的伴侣，在你灰心的时候给你鼓励、在你怯懦的时候给你勇气、在你失败的时候给你安慰，就会大大助推你的成功。这也许就是人们为什么会说：“每一个成功的男人背后都有一个伟大的女人，每一个成功女人背后都一个默默支持的男人”。但不能说不成家就不去立业，一个人总不能天天坐等着结婚而不去奋斗吧。我认为爱情和事业没有明显的先后顺序，关键在于遇见对的人。如果这个人遇见的早你就先完成爱情，如果这个人出现的晚你就先为事业奋斗着。有人说男人因孤独而优秀，女人因优秀而孤独，所以说爱情不怕等待最后总会有优秀的他或她会和你走到一块。对待爱情的态度应是时机不到不强求，机会来时就与她许下“生死契约，与子相悦，执子之手，与子偕老。”的誓言！

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156 奥巴马演讲词的人际意义研究

157 论王尔德在《道林格雷的画像》中的美学思想 158 解读《觉醒》中的个人主义

159 跨文化交际中的语用失误分析及策略研究 160 电影字幕汉译的归化与异化 161 《蝇王》中的象征

162 从民族文化心理差异角度看功能对等论在商标翻译中的运用 163 中西方创世神话文化的比较 164 《蝇王》中的人物原型研究

165 从顺应论的角度谈英文电影片名的汉译 166 中美家庭价值观差异浅析

167 文化差异视角下的英语称谓语的翻译策略 168 论礼貌原则在国际商务信函的应用

169 英语流行歌曲中隐喻的功能分析——以后街男孩的歌曲为例 170 分析《悲惨世界》中冉•阿让的人物形象 171 网络环境下英语专业学生学习策略研究

172 南方时代变迁中的胜利者与失败者——《飘》中主要角色的性格与命运对比 英语专业全英原创毕业论文，是近期写作，公布的题目可以用于免费参考（贡献者ID 有提示）

173 Error Analysis on English Writing by Senior High School Students 174 《安尼尔的鬼魂》中“鬼魂”的象征意义探究

175 General Principles and Features of Legal English Translation 176 论《大卫科波菲尔》中人物个性与时代背景的关系 177 《通天铁路》中超验主义与清教思想救赎观冲突之探析 178 爱伦坡短篇小说中死亡主题解析 179 中美企业文化研究

180 对文化差异引起的误译的研究 181 《夜访吸血鬼》中的模糊性别观 182 中国纺织业出口现状和对策

183 伟大理想的毁灭——《远大前程》和《了不起的盖茨比》 184 论基督教教义对美国人慈善观的影响 185 论《丽塔海华丝和肖申克救赎》中的反讽 186 德伯家的苔丝中苔丝的悲剧成因分析 187 论美国垮掉的一代和中国后 188 目的论下英语广告仿拟格的汉译 189 初中英语教学中的角色扮演 190 目的论视角下公益广告的翻译

191 外贸函电写作中存在的误区及其对策 192 英汉恭维语及其应答对比研究 193 广告英语的特点及其翻译探索

194 从功能理论角度分析电影《点球成金》字幕翻译

195 《小妇人》与《傲慢与偏见》中女性爱情观对比研究 196 论《等待戈多》中的等待

197 The Difference between Chinese and American Family Education 198 做最好的自己—论斯佳丽形象对现代女性的教育意义 199 背诵在英语学习中的作用

200 《哈利波特》系列里哈利波特与伏地魔的二元对立分析