失乐园英文读后感(John Milton and his Paradise Lost)

第一篇：失乐园英文读后感(John Milton and his Paradise Lost)

John Milton and His Paradise Lost

Abstract:

Paradise Lost which played a powerful role in promoting the development of the epic was the product of Puritanism, as well as rooted in Milton’s personal beliefs and faith.The creative style of Milton was different from any writers after him.Although Milton was involved in Puritan movement, his religious ideas and political arguments all promoted he development of capitalism.Therefore, we can saw that secular humanism which provided a new way to deal with social problems was the combination of the thoughts of humanist and religious doctrine.It can be said, Paradise Lost was the epic of mankind, but also an epic display of human nature.Keywords:

John Milton, Paradise Lost, Puritanism, revolutionary theme, English bourgeois

Milton was born in London in 1608.He was born a poet.He believed that a true poet was derived from the love of life, while one’s happiness in heart was the source of creativity.A few months after his marriage, his wife deserted him and returned to her family in Oxford shire.The reason is unknown, but there are many possibilities.During this, Milton probably began the arguments for his four Divorce Tracts.His thinking on divorce caused him the most trouble with the authorities.An orthodox Presbyterian view of the time was that Milton's views on divorce constituted a one-man heresy.Milton abandoned his campaign to legitimize divorce after 1645, but he expressed support for polygamy in the De doctrinal Christiana, the theological treatise that provides the clearest evidence for his views.Milton believed that marriage depended on compatibility between partners, and without that, people are violating their own personal liberty.Later, because of the tragedy of his marriage, he wrote something reflecting marriage principles.John Milton was an English poet, author, polemicist and civil servant for the Commonwealth of England.He is best known for his epic poem Paradise Lost and for his treatise condemning censorship, Areopagitica.He was both an accomplished, scholarly man of letters and polemical writer, and an official serving under Oliver Cromwell.His views may be described as broadly Protestant, if not always easy to locate in a more precise religious category.Milton was writing at a time of religious and political flux in England, and his poetry and prose reflect deep convictions, often reacting to contemporary circumstances.He wrote also in Latin and Italian, and had an international reputation during his lifetime.After his death, Milton's personal reputation oscillated a state of affairs that has largely continued through the centuries.He early became the subject of partisan biographies, such as that of John Toland from the nonconformist perspective, and a hostile account by Anthony à Wood.Samuel Johnson described him as “an acrimonious and surly republican”;but William Hayley's 1796 biography called him the “greatest English author”, at a time when his reputation was particularly in play.He remains, however, generally regarded “as one of the preeminent writers in the English language and as a thinker of world importance.”

With the parliamentary victory in the Civil War, Milton used his pen in defense of the republican principles represented by the Commonwealth.The Tenure of Kings and Magistrates(1649)defended popular government and implicitly sanctioned the regicide;Milton’s political reputation got him appointed Secretary for Foreign Tongues by the Council of State in March 1649.Though Milton's main job description was to compose the English Republic's foreign correspondence in Latin, he also was called upon to produce propaganda for the regime and to serve as a censor.In October 1649 he published Eikonoklastes, an explicit defense of the regicide, in response to the Eikon Basilike, a phenomenal best-seller popularly attributed to Charles I that portrayed the King as an innocent Christian martyr.However, restoration occurred inevitably.Thus, with the fire of anger on the restoration, Milton created a world-famous epic three-step.He published Paradise Lost in 1667, Paradise Regained and Samson Agonistes in 1671.The great poet died in 1674.John Milton is one of the most famous poets in the 17th century in British history.During this period, the United Kingdom had made significant progress in capitalist development.“However, the feudal autocratic monarchy had seriously hindered the development of British capitalism.The contradiction between the two classes had been to the white-hot stage that must need revolutionary means to solve the problem.” Milton said.Being a revolutionary activist, he was willing to contribute his passion to his motherland.He opposed to royal tyranny and was prepared to attack it by creating poets.Paradise Lost was written in such a historical period.The theme of Paradise Lost was chosen from the foundation of American literary---Bible.Some of these theological concepts and terminology related to human nature is essential for understanding the epic.The theme of Paradise Lost was chosen from the “Genesis.” He gave the only 100 words bizarre story twists and turns and made it a new epic.Paradise Lost is consisted of 12 parts.Part1, the reasons and results of the events;part2, Satan and angles discuss how to fight against God;part 3, God decides how to give human a gift;part 4, Satan meets with Adam and Eve and his temptation;part 5, the angels warn Adam about Satan’s temptation;part 6, the angels and Satan fight against God;part7, Adam asks angles about world problems, and gets answers;part8, Adam asks angles about how celestial bodies run, but he is not satisfied with the answers;part 9, Satan pretends as a snake and ask Adam and Eve to eat the forbidden fruit;part10, God is so angry and Adam also regret;part11, Adam and Eve are expelled from the Paradise;part12, Adam and Eve leave the paradise and then lost the paradise.Paradise Lost describes that: after escaping the dungeon, Satan went to the God to establish the Garden of Eden for human ancestors---Adam and Eve.They ate the forbidden fruit tree due to the temptation of Satan.Therefore, because of their ignorance and depravity, God expelled Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden.Their fault was the original sin of human which caused death, suffering, famine, pestilence on Earth.However, God still gave human the chance to salvation.God sent Jesus Christ to do redemption price, so that mankind could return to paradise with tough faith and sincere repentance.Milton revealed the failure of State and the Church through the research of history.Many of his controversial works reflect this phenomenon.Many commentators have analyzed the works of Milton.The commentators who convinced the Marxist said that: in society, all undertakings of the literati who were keen on promoting the development of cultural were ultimately based on economic change.John • Milton is a British progressive camp and a typical representative of the bourgeoisie.His literary thought reflected in his works fully reflects the status of the English bourgeois revolution in that period.Paradise Lost which played a powerful role in promoting the development of the epic was the product of Puritanism, as well as rooted in Milton’s personal beliefs and faith.The creative style of Milton was different from any writers after him.Although Milton was involved in Puritan movement, his religious ideas and political arguments all promoted he development of capitalism.Therefore, we can saw that secular humanism which provided a new way to deal with social problems was the combination of the thoughts of humanist and religious doctrine.It can be said, Paradise Lost was the epic of mankind, but also an epic display of human nature.Milton understood the true meaning of truth and his own environment in which he used to express the epic figures of the revolutionary ideas and his fighting spirit.And he also expressed the despair and anguish brought by the restoration.Milton was progressive bourgeoisie in fact, and his advanced thinking related to social progress.He believed that social progress, as well as the doctrine of God was the rational laws of nature.Therefore, the advanced productive forces will eventually replace the bourgeois which hindered the pace of capitalist development.That was a perfect reflection of historical inevitability.In Paradise Lost, the Satan fought against God and the feudal kingdom of heaven that was the civil war between the two classes.Justice would eventually prevail over evil.The King Charles I was brought to the guillotine.However, with the Republic of depravity and corruption, the bourgeoisie compromised with the House of Stuart king Charles II, and they broke the revolutionary movement the restoration together.Representatives of the advanced productive forces went against the law of social development.Milton used Adam and Eve to map the historical events.Its meaning was very clear.From an objective point of view, the masses were the driving force of historical progress and the ultimate source of social progress.But the bourgeoisie ignored the power of people.Milton expressed his own political position and revolutionary consciousness by Paradise Lost.He made a series of thinking about human nature.This was why he used human degradation to be the creative theme.Therefore, we could say that his epic was based on history.He was a devout Puritan, but his political views were applicable to the materialist outlook on life.In Paradise Lost, the Satan was the most successful image the author shaped, especially in the first two volumes.He was an image of a rebel.The romantic poet, Blake Byron Shelley, highly praised for this image of heroism.He said:“ Satan was on behalf of the imaginative soul of mankind.” The reason why the character Satan could get admiration of many romantic poets and readers was mostly that this image reflected the will of freedom.First of all, the epic praised Satan’s spirit of resistance.In traditional concepts, Satan was the devil from hell, the scum of angels, human enemies.Because of his ambition and rebellion he was thrown into the abyss of misery by God.However, in Paradise Lost, the poet portrayed Satan as a brave hero that went against the usual religious beliefs.The intention of describing this extraordinary momentum and power of Satan was to emphasis his courageous and prudent and his spirit of hating tyrants and resisting God.Although the struggle was failed, but he had never doubted that his struggle was a justice action, he had never regretted to fall into hell where he suffered in the flames and he had never been desperate and hopeless.He convinced that his spirit of resistance would never disappear and his revolutionary willing would never depress.It should be said that: this was the reflection of the revolutionary spirit of the bourgeois and a song of all revolutionary fighters.The epic also describes that, after being expelled from heaven and thrown into the flames of hell, Satan was even still full of the indomitable fighting spirit.He vowed to continue the confrontation with God.When reading those words filled with courage, all readers could see his will to overcome all the difficulties and accomplish all his plans.Second, the epic had also criticized the autocratic rule of God.Whether in the ancient Greek myth, or religious traditions, God had always been portrayed as the ruler of the universe and the absolute authority.Even in Dante's famous work Divine Comedy filled with modern spirit, God was still praised as a true, good, and kind image.While in Paradise Lost, God was a typical image of tyranny.The poet condemned God through Satan’s words.On the surface, God had given human free will;in fact, he had suppressed the true freedom.Obviously, the poet's criticism and condemnation of God were out from the social reality of United Kingdom.The tyrant was the embodiment of Stuart.Milton laid his own political tendencies in the great Satan.He portrayed Satan's resistance as the justice resistance to authoritarian rule and a bold challenge to the violent regime.In Paradise Lost, Lenovo was rich and metaphor was innovative.This was another artistic characteristic of Paradise Lost.This was mainly reflected in the psychological description of Adam and Eve when they were driven out after eating the forbidden fruit.The story of Adam and Eve in Bible was just a few words and very specific.There was no document about their life and inner feelings.But in Paradise Lost, the story was written vivid, flesh and colorful.In Milton’s imagination and description, the worldly things seemed to have feelings and emotions.Milton had made the most powerful cry for freedom and equality.He attempted to suggest that the heaven paradise had lost, but the earth paradise would begin.The poet’s unique writing style created a new poetry generation.This was also the most important contribution of Paradise Lost to British literary language

In short, Paradise Lost combined the political, ideological, religious, artistic elements, and achieved the perfect unity of arts.This epic gives use a wonderful art pleasure.Reference:

1, John Milton, Paradise Lost, 1667;2, Yu Hai Jun, A paean to English bourgeois, 2007;3, Chang Yan Li, Analysis of the purpose and creative theme of Paradise Lost, 2007;

第二篇：《失乐园》读后感

光阴荏苒，岁月如一去不复返的列车，又匆匆地带走了一年。独自一人在家过年，给了我一份清静，也给了我看完《失乐园》这本书的机会。小说的开始并没有我想象中那样精彩，甚至，我以为它和近年来流行的各种写实主义现代派小说没有什么不同——美丽而孤独的女人、有钱而冷酷的男人、精致的餐具、精美的菜肴，而这一切，不过是为了没完没了的床上戏

作铺垫。我以为《失乐园》也会同样浅薄轻松，那样的话，它就只配被当作像《废都》那样纯粹追求感官刺激的都市色情小说了。我很高兴《失乐园》并不是这样一部浅薄的小说。越往后看，我越感受到了它的深沉与凝重——爱的深沉与凝重。我一直以为，男人是不可能了解女人的爱情，虽然他们是女人恋爱的对象。爱一个人可以爱到想要杀死他！从古到今有几个人敢说出这样的话？记得以前朋友给我说起过一个英文故事，讲的是一位老姑娘爱上了远方来的“打工仔”，可是后来不知为何“打工仔”怀念远方的家人，想要回家去了。老姑娘艾米莉怕情郎一去不复返，在情郎准备离开的前夜杀死了他，并把他的尸体放在她自己的床上，这样就可以永远和心爱的人在一起......我相信很多人都会以为艾米莉疯了，而我，却深信这才是爱的真谛！当一对相爱的情人相互爱到了极至，当爱情到达了不可能再高的高度，我相信真心相爱的人是愿意共赴死亡之旅的。其实，对他们来说，这并不是生命的终结，而是要将快乐与幸福永远地封存起来。久木和凛子是在同时到达高潮的那一刹那共赴黄泉的，对他们来说，还有什么比这更幸福与快乐的事呢？！比起艾米莉，凛子简直是幸福得让人嫉妒！因为她是和心爱的人一起登上了幸福的颠峰的。不管怎么说，艾米莉和凛子都是幸福而满足的，因为她们以自己的方式领悟了爱的真谛。虽然她们的做法或许在很多人“正常人”的眼里是那么地“疯狂”和残酷，甚至会有人说她们“变态”。然而，正是这些所谓的“正常人”，他们永远无从领略真正的爱情，因为他们太“理智”太“清醒”，所以他们永远无法达到爱的颠峰，所以无法了解爱情，无法真正理解爱情，所以他们注定要平淡平庸碌碌无为过一生。以前看《玻璃之城》就被感动得一踏糊涂，心想如果能够像女主角那样死在爱人的怀抱会是多么幸福的事情。然而没有谁可以理解，没有谁愿意相信，爱一个人，真的可以爱到愿意去死！可是，即使真的有这样的女人又怎样！一个为了爱情可以抛弃一切甚至自己的生命的女人，在现实生活中，真的能够找到一个和她一样为爱痴狂，为爱燃烧，为了爱抛却一切包括生命的男人吗？相爱的人，谁不渴望着天长地久！相爱的人，谁不说海可枯石可烂天可崩地可裂情却不会变？！然而，为什么誓言总是那样脆弱幸福总是那样短暂？自信没有人比他们更相爱的凛子和久木也不敢保证未来的情感是不是会改变，所以他们愿意在彼此最相爱最幸福最快乐的时刻将爱情与幸福永远地封存起来，这样，也只有这样，他们的爱情与幸福便是永恒的了。

我相信，相爱到死——这样的爱情，也只有这样的爱情，才是真正的爱情。而这世上，有太多卑鄙无耻之徒，有太多虚伪矫情之辈，假借爱情的名义玩弄爱情亵渎爱情；还有更多无知的人误解爱情，无情的人伤害爱情。这世界上，也有太多伪装成爱情的陷阱，让那些幻想着爱情憧憬着爱情的人们纷纷掉进世俗的旋涡中；还有一些东西，比如说时间，它会将爱情一点一点偷走，让你曾经丰满的爱情谷粒变成一颗空瘪的糠壳......而爱情，并不见容于这个世界。“抛弃丈夫投到别的男人怀抱，是为人妻子不可原谅的过错，但从凛子的立场来说，抛弃虚伪的婚姻生活，拥抱真实的爱，是忠于自己心灵的行为。”这场爱情的另一位主角——久木何尝不同样遭受众叛亲离的无奈！在久木本人看来，自己是在享受着真正的爱的激情，然而在同事朋友和家人的眼里，他不过是一个道德败坏勾引良家妇女的可耻之徒。虽然双放都陷于众叛亲离的绝境，可是他们并没有对生活本身绝望。因为对他们来说，爱就是幸福，爱就是一切。生活中的烦恼并没有使他们感到不幸，相反，他们是想要在一生中最幸福的时刻死去，甚至，他们还计算好了死后最僵硬的时刻仍紧紧相拥，为了不让发现他们的人们把他们分开。

“请原谅我们的最后任性，请将我们葬在一起，谨此为愿。”

我的心痛了起来。不是因为忧伤，不是因为悲痛，更不是因为怜惜——任何人都没有资格对这样伟大极至的爱情说三道四，除了感叹，除了钦羡。我相信自己今生今世都不可能有那样的荣幸得到这样的幸福，至少，我看到了《失乐园》，我知道了这个世界上还有和我理想中的爱情相吻合的爱情，虽然它也不过只是一部小说。这也是迄今为止唯一一部我一夜看完的小说，在这一夜里，我仿佛亲身经历了这样一场轰轰烈烈激情燃烧的爱情甚至死亡，我想我也更深地体会到了爱情的深沉与颠狂。如果能够拥有这样至真至纯至美至烈的爱情，就算少活几十年又算得了什么？！正如歌里所唱的，为了爱情，哪怕“失去生命的力量，也不可

惜”。即使无法拥有这样的爱情，至少让我看到了这样的幸福。就像伊甸园之于亚当和夏娃，就像《圣经》之于芸芸众生，就像爱情是我的宗教，《失乐园》给我以幸福的向往。

第三篇：失乐园读后感

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The writer of Paradise Lost is John Milton.He was one of the most famous poets in the 17th century in British history.During this period, the United Kingdom had made significant progress in capitalist development.However, the feudal autocratic monarchy had seriously hindered the development of British capitalism.The contradiction between the two classes had been very serious.And the best way to solve the problem is revolution.Milton is a revolutionary activist, he was willing to contribute his passion to his motherland.He opposed to royal tyranny and was prepared to attack it by writing poets.Paradise Lost was written in this time.The theme of Paradise Lost was chosen from the foundation of American literary---Bible.The theme of Paradise Lost was chosen from the “Genesis.” And it consisted oftwelve books.It is based on the biblical legend of the imaginary progenitors of the human race-Adam and Eve, and involves God and his eternal adversary ,Satan.The epic told us that: after escaping the prison, Satan wanted to revenge God and he went to the Garden of Eden to allure Adam and Eve.They ate the forbidden fruit due to the temptation of Satan.Therefore, because of their ignorance and depravity, God expelled Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden.Finally, they leave the paradise and then lost the paradise.Paradise Lost played an important role in promoting the development of the epic and it was the product of Puritanism, as well as rooted in Milton’s personal beliefs.Although Milton was involved in Puritan movement, his religious ideas and political arguments all promoted he development of capitalism.Milton was a progressive bourgeoisie,he believed that social progress, as well as the doctrine of God was the rational laws of nature.Therefore, the advanced productive forces will eventually replace the bourgeois which hindered the pace of capitalist development.That was a reflection of historical inevitability.In Paradise Lost, the Satan fought against God that was the civil war between the two classes.Milton expressed his own political position and revolutionary consciousness by Paradise Lost.He made a series of thinking about human nature.This was why he used human degradation to be the creative theme.Therefore, we could say that his epic was based on history.He was a devout Puritan, but his political views were applicable to the materialist outlook on life.In Paradise Lost, the Satan was the most successful image that he author shaped, especially in the first two volumes.He was an image of a rebel and he was on behalf of the imaginative soul of mankind.The reason why the character Satan could get admiration of many romantic poets and readers was mostly that this image reflected the will of freedom.First of all, the epic praised Satan’s spirit of resistance.We always think Satan was the devil from hell and human enemies.Because of his ambition and rebellion, he was thrown into the abyss of misery by God.However, in Paradise Lost, the poet described Satan as a brave hero that went against the usual religious beliefs.The intention of describing this power of Satan was to emphasis his courageous and his spirit of hating tyrants and resisting God.Although the struggle was failed, but he had never doubted that his struggle was a justice action, he had never regretted to fall into hell where he suffered in the flames and he had never been desperate and hopeless.Second, the epic had also criticized the autocratic rule of God.Whether in the ancient Greek myth, religious traditions or other stories, God had always been regarded as the ruler of the universe and the absolute authority.God was praised as a true and kind image.While in Paradise Lost, God was a typical image of tyranny.The poet condemned God through Satan’s words.Apparently, God had given people the free rights, but in fact, he had suppressed the true freedom.Obviously, the poet’s condemnation of God were out from the social reality of United Kingdom.The tyrant was the embodiment of Stuart.Milton laid his own political tendencies in the great Satan.In Paradise Lost, image was rich and metaphor was innovative.This was

mainly reflected in the psychological description of Adam and Eve when they were driven out after eating the forbidden fruit.The story of Adam and Eve in Bible was just a few words and very specific.But in Paradise Lost, the story was written vivid and colorful.In Milton’s imagination and description, the worldly things seemed to have feelings and emotions.Milton had made the most powerful cry for freedom and equality.He tried to tell us that the heaven paradise had lost, but the earth paradise would begin.The poet’s unique writing style created a new poetry generation.In short, Paradise Lost combined the political, ideological, religious, artistic elements, and achieved the perfect unity of arts.This epic gives use a wonderful art pleasure.外国语学院10级9班周雪伟10050224

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第四篇：失乐园读后感

失乐园读后感

《失乐园》是渡边淳一最为经典、影响最为深远的一部作品。

这部作品讲述了事业失意的久木，偶识书法教师凛子。工作狂、毫无情调的丈夫对凛子的冷漠导致凛子精神空虚、不满自己的婚姻生活。因工作变动而失意的久木乘虚而入。无爱的家庭婚姻与难于抵御的情感诱惑，使凛子与久木陷入婚外情的漩涡。在男欢女爱中，凛子的欲望逐渐被唤醒，无法控制的长久的沉溺其中。久木的家庭爆发冷战，凛子的丈夫嫉恨难平，为了报复而不愿离婚。这段感情让久木遭到公司冷遇，以辞职告终。众叛亲离使他们对未来无法掌控的生活充满了恐惧、厌倦和无力感。他们以为他们在一起的时候是人生中最快乐幸福的时候，是人生最美的时刻，是最满足的时候。那个时候，他们的爱情、快乐的感受达到了巅峰状态。他们要在他们爱的最深最浓的巅峰时刻长久的在一起，永不分离。他们选择了在极致的快乐的时刻快速离开这个世界。他们以极端的手段像世人展示他们是一对永不分离的恋人。

这是怎样的两个人？他们是55岁的久木和38岁的凛子。久木在出版社有着三十年编辑工作经历，收入不菲，家庭生活稳定安逸。凛子是个端庄娴雅的女子，担任书法老师。按道理说，这两个人都已过了冲动的年龄，没有被逼到生存的绝境，为什么会做出如此疯狂的事情？

从小说的发展脉络来看，男方只是想在闲余时间和美丽的女子喝喝茶、聊聊天、看看风景、谈情说爱，并没有预料到后来会发展到身不由已、难以控制、众叛亲离、身败名裂、双双殉情的悲惨结局。女方只是想暂时逃避无爱的婚姻生活，感受激情，享受极致的快乐。

错了，一切都错了。

错就错在他们不应该相遇，不应该相爱。一旦爱上了，就难分难舍，沦陷在情欲的沼泽地里。

错就错在他们是极其契合、和谐的一对情侣。他们能够给予对方极大的快乐和精神上的愉悦。如果他们不是两情相悦，不能给予对方极致的快乐，又怎么可能越陷越深，直至一发不可收拾？

错就错在他们爱的太深、太投入、太极致、太疯狂、太肆无忌惮。他们从最初对家人、同事、亲友的有所顾忌，发展到身不由己，最后到不顾一切死也要在一起。他们临死的遗言是把他们合葬在一起。

是什么原因导致端庄娴雅的凛子一错再错？

假如凛子的丈夫不那么冷酷，不是工作狂，多关心她，那么故事会如何发展？

或许，是因为寂寞空虚、情感饥渴导致凛子逐渐陷入婚外情的漩涡里。婚外情因其新鲜、刺激，充满着浪漫的色彩，强烈吸引着凛子一步步沦陷在情感的深渊。他们幽会的场所在高档的酒店、美丽的风景区，有鲜花、美酒、美味佳肴，再加上温泉沐浴，使他们销魂蚀骨。他们以为他们达到了人生的快乐巅峰、最美的时刻，相约一起离开人世，此生再无所求。

如果凛子没有遇见久木那样的人，或许她依然做她的家庭主妇，做她的书法老师。她依然会将自己的书法作品送去参赛。她依然会过着平淡的生活。那样的生活虽然平淡无味，但是宁静稳定。至少，她不会众叛亲离，不会被家人遗弃。因为偷情，她失去了婚姻，失去了家庭，失去了亲人，失去了宁静安稳的生活。她的内心充满了失落感、罪恶感，因为她是不贞洁的女人，她是被世人嘲笑、唾弃的女人，她失去了祥和宁静的精神家园。虽然她和久木在一起能够感受到极致的感官上愉悦，但是她已失去了面对现实的勇气和生存能力。她的世界里只有久木一个人，只有情爱。除了谈情说爱、除了用身体上快乐填补空虚的灵魂，他们无事可做。他们只想永久的快乐的在一起，不相信未来。他们想永远的占有对方。于是他们选择了在最快乐的时刻离开这个世界。

他们以为他们永远在一起，永远无法分开。他们错了。世人不可能让他们以他们想要的姿态永恒的保存下去。

他们以为是在最美的时刻离开了这个世界，给世人留下了最美好的形象。他们错了。失去生命活力的他们丑陋不堪、污浊不堪。

爱若到了极致就是毁灭。爱到了极致就会想永久的占有对方的一切，就会导致极端的行为，就会脱离正常的生活轨道、社会生活，就会成为道德沦丧、丧心病狂的人。那样的人纵然打着“爱”旗帜，与没有礼义廉耻的禽兽有何分别？

所以，请勿轻易言爱。更不要爱之深，爱到极致。爱到极致，就有可能陷入万劫不复的深渊。

既然爱，就要好好的、体面的活下去。只有好好的活着，才能爱下去。只有体面的活着，才能有尊严的爱下去。失去了尊严，就会丧心病狂，无法立足于这个世界，必然会走向万劫不复的深渊。

所以，有些时候，爱不是占有，是放手。只愿岁月静好，默默守候，默默相望，默默祝福。

如此，才能细水长流，爱才能永恒。

第五篇：《失乐园》读后感

《失乐园》读后感

花了三个晚上看完了日本作家渡边淳一的《失乐园》。说句心里话，我没有看懂！真的没有看懂作者想要表达的难道仅仅是“爱情至上”这个理念么？

因为人到中年，因为夫妻之间的感情不如原先那么炽烈，因为外面的诱惑太大„„这样就可以背着自己的爱人在外面找“小三儿”了么？我不懂！

难道这样的爱情还要被称作至高无上的爱情么？久木，一个五十多岁得男人了，家里有着那么一个贤惠的妻子，女儿也已经长大出嫁。自己也算是有着一个还算稳定的工作。至于那个淩子，就更是让人理解不了了。自己的丈夫也算是个比较有成就的医生，自己的家庭主妇做的是那么的舒服。

这些人难道就仅仅是因为“性”满足不了，就可以这么大大方方的出去找情人了么？这个社会是怎么了呢？至少我现在是理解不了的！

既然做出决定，跪着也要走完自己的选择的路！既然当初是那么的爱着对方，为什么就不能还和当初一样爱着对方呢？毕竟你们是“夫妻”啊，“夫妻”的含义远远不像男女朋友关系那么的简单啊。这里面充斥着太多的责任与义务。

因为“性”就可以放弃一切，不顾一切，违背一切，那人活着还和动物有什么区别呢？ 现在的我还是个单身，我也在努力的寻找着自己的另一半！至少我现在是希望自己能够找到那个最适合自己的另一半。为了爱情，为了真正夫妻之间的爱情，我和他都要努力的去为了“爱情”，为了“责任”，让对方拥有一个幸福的“性”。

对于“性”这个东西，我真的没有什么资格在这里谈太多，没有经历过就没有发言权。我只是衷心的希望以后的自己不要做出像《失乐园》里主人公的事情，因为他们的做法太自私了！不能因为图自己一时快乐，就伤害了周围那么多无辜的人！

要学会爱自己的同时，也不能伤及无辜啊，这是“做人”最起码的底线啊。

加油，每天都要开心哦~火娃。