第一篇：抵抗天赋的诱惑(记贝索斯在普林斯顿大学2010年学士毕业典礼上的演讲)
抵抗天赋的诱惑(记贝索斯在普林斯顿大学2010年学士毕业典礼上的演讲)我一直相信每一个人都有自己的天赋，每一个人的存在都代表着宇宙空间中的一种唯一，然而令我经常都在深思的是，既然我们都是这样的独特，又为何偏偏要去模仿和畸变成拥有同类“基因”的人呢？为什么我们中的很多人都不愿意去追逐属于自己的理想，或者不能为此奋斗一生呢，抑或者一生都是在自欺欺人的辩解？在Randy的The Last Lecture中我深深的感受到了一个人追逐自己最初理想的意义会变得如此的伟大，充满的是一种人生最大的和最根本的价值。一直在想这样的一个问题，当社会尚且艰难，生活尚且苦难的日子里都有如此多人在追逐属于自己梦想的时候；在一个生活舒适，物质条件优越的年代我们竟然不知所措的迷失掉自己的方向，找不到自己前行的路。这是多么可悲和可笑的一种境况！我们，有了更高的天赋，有了更好的环境，却因为有更多的选择而抹杀了我们自己的梦...这确实让人觉得不可思议！
我相信每个人都有自己最初的梦想，在这样的一个年代，在这样一个至少没有饥寒交迫的时代，我坚信追逐自己理想的人会获得生命尽头最高贵的礼物和人生最大的价值！
记：在一个可以实现最初梦想的时代选择不可以的沉默必将是这个时代最损失的损失，也必将是生活在这个时代的人最遗憾的遗憾...附：
抵抗天赋的诱惑（贝索斯在普林斯顿大学2010年学士毕业典礼上的演讲）
在我还是一个孩子的时候，我的夏天总是在德州祖父母的农场中度过。我帮忙修理风车，为牛接种疫苗，也做其它家务。每天下午，我们都会看肥皂剧，尤其是《我们的岁月》。我的祖父母参加了一个房车俱乐部，那是一群驾驶Airstream拖挂型房车的人们，他们结伴遍游美国和加拿大。每隔几个夏天，我也会加入他们。我们把房车挂在祖父的小汽车后面，然后加入300余名Airstream探险者们组成的浩荡队伍。
我爱我的祖父母，我崇敬他们，也真心期盼这些旅程。那是一次我大概十岁时的旅行，我照例坐在后座的长椅上，祖父开着车，祖母坐在他旁边，吸着烟。我讨厌烟味。
在那样的年纪，我会找任何借口做些估测或者小算术。我会计算油耗还有杂货花销等鸡毛蒜皮的小事。我听过一个有关吸烟的广告。我记不得细节了，但是广告大意是说，每吸一口香烟会减少几分钟的寿命，大概是两分钟。无论如何，我决定为祖母做个算术。我估测了祖母每天要吸几支香烟，每支香烟要吸几口等等，然后心满意足地得出了一个合理的数字。接着，我捅了捅坐在前面的祖母的头，又拍了拍她的肩膀，然后骄傲地宣称，“每天吸两分钟的烟，你就少活九年!”
我清晰地记得接下来发生了什么，而那是我意料之外的。我本期待着小聪明和算术技巧能赢得掌声，但那并没有发生。相反，我的祖母哭泣起来。我的祖父之前一直在默默开车，把车停在了路边，走下车来，打开了我的车门，等着我跟他下车。我惹麻烦了吗?我的祖父是一个智慧而安静的人。他从来没有对我说过严厉的话，难道这会是第一次?还是他会让我回到车上跟祖母道歉?我以前从未遇到过这种状况，因而也无从知晓会有什么后果发生。我们在房车旁停下来。祖父注视着我，沉默片刻，然后轻轻地、平静地说：“杰夫，有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难。” 选择比天赋更重要 今天我想对你们说的是，天赋和选择不同。聪明是一种天赋，而善良是一种选择。天赋得来很容易——毕竟它们与生俱来。而选择则颇为不易。如果一不小心，你可能被天赋所诱惑，这可能会损害到你做出的选择。
在座各位都拥有许多天赋。我确信你们的天赋之一就是拥有精明能干的头脑。之所以如此确信，是因为入学竞争十分激烈，如果你们不能表现出聪明智慧，便没有资格进入这所学校。你们的聪明才智必定会派上用场，因为你们将在一片充满奇迹的土地上行进。我们人类，尽管跬步前行，却终将令自己大吃一惊。我们能够想方设法制造清洁能源，也能够一个原子一个原子地组装微型机械，使之穿过细胞壁，然后修复细胞。这个月，有一个异常而不可避免的事情发生了——人类终于合成了生命。在未来几年，我们不仅会合成生命，还会按说明书驱动它们。我相信你们甚至会看到我们理解人类的大脑，儒勒·凡尔纳，马克·吐温，伽利略，牛顿——所有那些充满好奇之心的人都希望能够活到现在。作为文明人，我们会拥有如此之多的天赋，就像是坐在我面前的你们，每一个生命个体都拥有许多独特的天赋。
你们要如何运用这些天赋呢?你们会为自己的天赋感到骄傲，还是会为自己的选择感到骄傲? 追随自己内心的热情
16年前，我萌生了创办亚马逊的想法。彼时我面对的现实是互联网使用量以每年2300%的速度增长，我从未看到或听说过任何增长如此快速的东西。创建涵盖几百万种书籍的网上书店的想法令我兴奋异常，因为这个东西在物理世界里根本无法存在。那时我刚刚30岁，结婚才一年。
我告诉妻子MacKenzie想辞去工作，然后去做这件疯狂的事情，很可能会失败，因为大部分创业公司都是如此，而且我不确定那之后会发生什么。MacKenzie告诉我，我应该放手一搏。在我还是一个男孩儿的时候，我是车库发明家。我曾用水泥填充的轮胎、雨伞和锡箔以及报警器制作了一个自动关门器。我一直想做一个发明家，MacKenzie支持我追随内心的热情。
我当时在纽约一家金融公司工作，同事是一群非常聪明的人，我的老板也很有智慧，我很羡慕他。我告诉我的老板我想开办一家在网上卖书的公司。他带我在中央公园漫步良久，认真地听我讲完，最后说：“听起来真是一个很好的主意，但是对那些目前没有谋到一份好工作的人来说，这个主意会更好。”
这一逻辑对我而言颇有道理，他说服我在最终作出决定之前再考虑48小时。那样想来，这个决定确实很艰难，但是最终，我决定拼一次。我认为自己不会为尝试过后的失败而遗憾，倒是有所决定但完全不付诸行动会一直煎熬着我。在深思熟虑之后，我选择了那条不安全的道路，去追随我内心的热情。我为那个决定感到骄傲。明天，非常现实地说，你们从零塑造自己人生的时代即将开启。你们会如何运用自己的天赋?你们又会作出怎样的抉择? 你们是被惯性所引导，还是追随自己内心的热情? 你们会墨守陈规，还是勇于创新? 你们会选择安逸的生活，还是选择一个奉献与冒险的人生? 你们会屈从于批评，还是会坚守信念? 你们会掩饰错误，还是会坦诚道歉? 你们会因害怕拒绝而掩饰内心，还是会在面对爱情时勇往直前? 你们想要波澜不惊，还是想要搏击风浪? 你们会在严峻的现实之下选择放弃，还是会义无反顾地前行? 你们要做愤世嫉俗者，还是踏实的建设者? 你们要不计一切代价地展示聪明，还是选择善良? 我要做一个预测：在你们80岁时某个追忆往昔的时刻，只有你一个人静静对内心诉说着你的人生故事，其中最为充实、最有意义的那段讲述，会被你们作出的一系列决定所填满。最后，是选择塑造了我们的人生。为你自己塑造一个伟大的人生故事。谢谢，祝你们好运!
英文原稿：
“We are What We Choose” Remarks by Jeff Bezos, as delivered to the Class of 2010 Baccalaureate May 30, 2010
As a kid, I spent my summers with my grandparents on their ranch in Texas.I helped fix windmills, vaccinate cattle, and do other chores.We also watched soap operas every afternoon, especially “Days of our Lives.” My grandparents belonged to a Caravan Club, a group of Airstream trailer owners who travel together around the U.S.and Canada.And every few summers, we'd join the caravan.We'd hitch up the Airstream trailer to my grandfather's car, and off we'd go, in a line with 300 other Airstream adventurers.I loved and worshipped my grandparents and I really looked forward to these trips.On one particular trip, I was about 10 years old.I was rolling around in the big bench seat in the back of the car.My grandfather was driving.And my grandmother had the passenger seat.She smoked throughout these trips, and I hated the smell.At that age, I'd take any excuse to make estimates and do minor arithmetic.I'd calculate our gas mileage--figure out useless statistics on things like grocery spending.I'd been hearing an ad campaign about smoking.I can't remember the details, but basically the ad said, every puff of a cigarette takes some number of minutes off of your life: I think it might have been two minutes per puff.At any rate, I decided to do the math for my grandmother.I estimated the number of cigarettes per days, estimated the number of puffs per cigarette and so on.When I was satisfied that I'd come up with a reasonable number, I poked my head into the front of the car, tapped my grandmother on the shoulder, and proudly proclaimed, “At two minutes per puff, you've taken nine years off your life!” I have a vivid memory of what happened, and it was not what I expected.I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills.“Jeff, you're so smart.You had to have made some tricky estimates, figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division.” That's not what happened.Instead, my grandmother burst into tears.I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do.While my grandmother sat crying, my grandfather, who had been driving in silence, pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway.He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow.Was I in trouble? My grandfather was a highly intelligent, quiet man.He had never said a harsh word to me, and maybe this was to be the first time? Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother.I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be.We stopped beside the trailer.My grandfather looked at me, and after a bit of silence, he gently and calmly said, “Jeff, one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever.” What I want to talk to you about today is the difference between gifts and choices.Cleverness is a gift, kindness is a choice.Gifts are easy--they're given after all.Choices can be hard.You can seduce yourself with your gifts if you're not careful, and if you do, it'll probably be to the detriment of your choices.This is a group with many gifts.I'm sure one of your gifts is the gift of a smart and capable brain.I'm confident that's the case because admission is competitive and if there weren't some signs that you're clever, the dean of admission wouldn't have let you in.Your smarts will come in handy because you will travel in a land of marvels.We humans--plodding as we are--will astonish ourselves.We'll invent ways to generate clean energy and a lot of it.Atom by atom, we'll assemble tiny machines that will enter cell walls and make repairs.This month comes the extraordinary but also inevitable news that we've synthesized life.In the coming years, we'll not only synthesize it, but we'll engineer it to specifications.I believe you'll even see us understand the human brain.Jules Verne, Mark Twain, Galileo, Newton--all the curious from the ages would have wanted to be alive most of all right now.As a civilization, we will have so many gifts, just as you as individuals have so many individual gifts as you sit before me.How will you use these gifts? And will you take pride in your gifts or pride in your choices? I got the idea to start Amazon 16 years ago.I came across the fact that Web usage was growing at 2,300 percent per year.I'd never seen or heard of anything that grew that fast, and the idea of building an online bookstore with millions of titles--something that simply couldn't exist in the physical world--was very exciting to me.I had just turned 30 years old, and I'd been married for a year.I told my wife MacKenzie that I wanted to quit my job and go do this crazy thing that probably wouldn't work since most startups don't, and I wasn't sure what would happen after that.MacKenzie(also a Princeton grad and sitting here in the second row)told me I should go for it.As a young boy, I'd been a garage inventor.I'd invented an automatic gate closer out of cement-filled tires, a solar cooker that didn't work very well out of an umbrella and tinfoil, baking-pan alarms to entrap my siblings.I'd always wanted to be an inventor, and she wanted me to follow my passion.I was working at a financial firm in New York City with a bunch of very smart people, and I had a brilliant boss that I much admired.I went to my boss and told him I wanted to start a company selling books on the Internet.He took me on a long walk in Central Park, listened carefully to me, and finally said, “That sounds like a really good idea, but it would be an even better idea for someone who didn't already have a good job.” That logic made some sense to me, and he convinced me to think about it for 48 hours before making a final decision.Seen in that light, it really was a difficult choice, but ultimately, I decided I had to give it a shot.I didn't think I'd regret trying and failing.And I suspected I would always be haunted by a decision to not try at all.After much consideration, I took the less safe path to follow my passion, and I'm proud of that choice.Tomorrow, in a very real sense, your life--the life you author from scratch on your own--begins.How will you use your gifts? What choices will you make? Will inertia be your guide, or will you follow your passions? Will you follow dogma, or will you be original? Will you choose a life of ease, or a life of service and adventure? Will you wilt under criticism, or will you follow your convictions? Will you bluff it out when you're wrong, or will you apologize? Will you guard your heart against rejection, or will you act when you fall in love? Will you play it safe, or will you be a little bit swashbuckling? When it's tough, will you give up, or will you be relentless? Will you be a cynic, or will you be a builder? Will you be clever at the expense of others, or will you be kind? I will hazard a prediction.When you are 80 years old, and in a quiet moment of reflection narrating for only yourself the most personal version of your life story, the telling that will be most compact and meaningful will be the series of choices you have made.In the end, we are our choices.Build yourself a great story.Thank you and good luck!
第二篇：贝索斯在普林斯顿大学2010年学士毕业典礼上的演讲)
在我还是一个孩子的时候，我的夏天总是在德州祖父母的农场中度过。我帮忙修理风车，为牛接种疫苗，也做其它家务。每天下午，我们都会看肥皂剧，尤其是《我们的岁月》。我的祖父母参加了一个房车俱乐部，那是一群驾驶Airstream拖挂型房车的人们，他们结伴遍游美国和加拿大。每隔几个夏天，我也会加入他们。我们把房车挂在祖父的小汽车后面，然后加入300余名Airstream探险者们组成的浩荡队伍。
我爱我的祖父母，我崇敬他们，也真心期盼这些旅程。那是一次我大概十岁时的旅行，我照例坐在后座的长椅上，祖父开着车，祖母坐在他旁边，吸着烟。我讨厌烟味。
在那样的年纪，我会找任何借口做些估测或者小算术。我会计算油耗还有杂货花销等鸡毛蒜皮的小事。我听过一个有关吸烟的广告。我记不得细节了，但是广告大意是说，每吸一口香烟会减少几分钟的寿命，大概是两分钟。无论如何，我决定为祖母做个算术。我估测了祖母每天要吸几支香烟，每支香烟要吸几口等等，然后心满意足地得出了一个合理的数字。接着，我捅了捅坐在前面的祖母的头，又拍了拍她的肩膀，然后骄傲地宣称，“每天吸两分钟的烟，你就少活九年!”
我清晰地记得接下来发生了什么，而那是我意料之外的。我本期待着小聪明和算术技巧能赢得掌声，但那并没有发生。相反，我的祖母哭泣起来。我的祖父之前一直在默默开车，把车停在了路边，走下车来，打开了我的车门，等着我跟他下车。我惹麻烦了吗?我的祖父是一个智慧而安静的人。他从来没有对我说过严厉的话，难道这会是第一次?还是他会让我回到车上跟祖母道歉?我以前从未遇到过这种状况，因而也无从知晓会有什么后果发生。我们在房车旁停下来。祖父注视着我，沉默片刻，然后轻轻地、平静地说：“杰夫，有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难。”
选择比天赋更重要
今天我想对你们说的是，天赋和选择不同。聪明是一种天赋，而善良是一种选择。天赋得来很容易——毕竟它们与生俱来。而选择则颇为不易。如果一不小心，你可能被天赋所诱惑，这可能会损害到你做出的选择。
在座各位都拥有许多天赋。我确信你们的天赋之一就是拥有精明能干的头脑。之所以如此确信，是因为入学竞争十分激烈，如果你们不能表现出聪明智慧，便没有资格进入这所学校。
你们的聪明才智必定会派上用场，因为你们将在一片充满奇迹的土地上行进。我们人类，尽管跬步前行，却终将令自己大吃一惊。我们能够想方设法制造清洁能源，也能够一个原子一个原子地组装微型机械，使之穿过细胞壁，然后修复细胞。这个月，有一个异常而不可避免的事情发生了——人类终于合成了生命。在未来几年，我们不仅会合成生命，还会按说明书驱动它们。我相信你们甚至会看到我们理解人类的大脑，儒勒·凡尔纳，马克·吐温，伽利略，牛顿——所有那些充满好奇之心的人都希望能够活到现在。作为文明人，我们会拥有如此之多的天赋，就像是坐在我面前的你们，每一个生命个体都拥有许多独特的天赋。
你们要如何运用这些天赋呢?你们会为自己的天赋感到骄傲，还是会为自己的选择感到骄傲?
追随自己内心的热情
16年前，我萌生了创办亚马逊的想法。彼时我面对的现实是互联网使用量以每年2300%的速度增长，我从未看到或听说过任何增长如此快速的东西。创建涵盖几百万种书籍的网上书店的想法令我兴奋异常，因为这个东西在物理世界里根本无法存在。那时我刚刚30岁，结婚才一年。
我告诉妻子MacKenzie想辞去工作，然后去做这件疯狂的事情，很可能会失败，因为大部分创业公司都是如此，而且我不确定那之后会发生什么。MacKenzie告诉我，我应该放手一搏。在我还是一个男孩儿的时候，我是车库发明家。我曾用水泥填充的轮胎、雨伞和锡箔以及报警器制作了一个自动关门器。我一直想做一个发明家，MacKenzie支持我追随内心的热情。
我当时在纽约一家金融公司工作，同事是一群非常聪明的人，我的老板也很有智慧，我很羡慕他。我告诉我的老板我想开办一家在网上卖书的公司。他带我在中央公园漫步良久，认真地听我讲完，最后说：“听起来真是一个很好的主意，但是对那些目前没有谋到一份好工作的人来说，这个主意会更好。”
这一逻辑对我而言颇有道理，他说服我在最终作出决定之前再考虑48小时。那样想来，这个决定确实很艰难，但是最终，我决定拼一次。我认为自己不会为尝试过后的失败而遗憾，倒是有所决定但完全不付诸行动会一直煎熬着我。在深思熟虑之后，我选择了那条不安全的道路，去追随我内心的热情。我为那个决定感到骄傲。
明天，非常现实地说，你们从零塑造自己人生的时代即将开启。
你们会如何运用自己的天赋?你们又会作出怎样的抉择?
你们是被惯性所引导，还是追随自己内心的热情?
你们会墨守陈规，还是勇于创新?
你们会选择安逸的生活，还是选择一个奉献与冒险的人生?
你们会屈从于批评，还是会坚守信念?
你们会掩饰错误，还是会坦诚道歉?
你们会因害怕拒绝而掩饰内心，还是会在面对爱情时勇往直前?
你们想要波澜不惊，还是想要搏击风浪?
你们会在严峻的现实之下选择放弃，还是会义无反顾地前行?
你们要做愤世嫉俗者，还是踏实的建设者?
你们要不计一切代价地展示聪明，还是选择善良?
我要做一个预测：在你们80岁时某个追忆往昔的时刻，只有你一个人静静对内心诉说着你的人生故事，其中最为充实、最有意义的那段讲述，会被你们作出的一系列决定所填满。最后，是选择塑造了我们的人生。为你自己塑造一个伟大的人生故事。
谢谢，祝你们好运!
(本文译自贝索斯在普林斯顿大学2010年学士毕业典礼上的演讲)
第三篇：杰夫·贝索斯普林斯顿大学演讲(中英)
As a kid, I spent my summers with my grandparents on their ranch(牧场)in Texas(德克萨斯).I helped fix windmills（风车）, vaccinate cattle（给牛接种疫苗）, and do other chores（杂务）.We also watched soap operas（肥皂剧）every afternoon, especially “Days of our Lives.” My grandparents belonged to a Caravan（乘拖车度假）Club, a group of Airstream trailer（车屋）owners who travel together around the U.S.and Canada.And every few summers, we’d join the caravan.We’d hitch（钩住）up the Airstream trailer to my grandfather’s car, and off we’d go, in a line with 300 other Airstream adventurers.I loved and worshipped（崇敬）my grandparents and I really looked forward to these trips.On one particular（特别的）trip, I was about 10 years old.I was rolling around in the big bench seat in the back of the car.My grandfather was driving.And my grandmother had the passenger seat.She smoked throughout these trips, and I hated the smell.童年时，夏天都是在姥爷的德克萨斯牧场里度过。我修过风车、给牛接种疫苗，做过许多其它的事情。每天下午我们也看肥皂剧，经常看《我们的日子》。我的姥爷外婆参加了一个房车俱乐部。他们都有自己的房车，一起在美国和加拿大旅游。每隔几个夏天，我也会参加他们的旅行。我们把房车挂在姥爷的轿车上，就这样，我们跟其它300个房车爱好者出发了。我非常爱姥爷和外婆，总是非常期待和他们一块儿出去旅行。在一次特殊的旅途当中，我依旧坐在后排车座上。姥爷在开着车，外婆坐在旅客席上，一直抽着烟，但我很讨厌烟味。
At that age, I’d take any excuse to make estimates（预算）and do minor arithmetic（算术）.I’d calculate（计算）our gas mileage（每英里汽油消耗量）— figure out useless statistics（统计）on things like grocery（食品杂货店）spending.I’d been hearing an ad campaign（活动）about smoking.I can’t remember the details, but basically the ad said, every puff of a cigarette（香烟）takes some number of minutes off of your life: I think it might have been two minutes per puff.At any rate, I decided to do the math for my grandmother.I estimated the number of cigarettes per days, estimated the number of puffs per cigarette and so on.When I was satisfied that I’d come up with a reasonable number, I poked（拨）my head into the front of the car, tapped（轻拍）my grandmother on the shoulder, and proudly proclaimed（公告）, “At two minutes per puff, you’ve taken nine years off your life!”
在那个年龄，我总是找一切机会去进行计算和预测，我曾经计算过车的油耗量和一些没多大用处的事情，像食品杂货店的开销这样的事情。我曾听到过一个关于吸烟的广告，具体的内容记的不是太清，但我记的广告基本内容是，每吸一口烟将从我们生命中带走几分钟的时间。我想应该是每口两分钟，不管怎样，我决定为外婆计算一下。我估算每天抽几根烟，每根烟需要抽几口等等。当我确定已经计算出一个合理的数据时，我把头伸向汽车的前排，轻轻拍了一下外婆，大声的说：“以每口两分钟计算的话，你已经抽走了九年的时间了！”。
I have a vivid(生动的)memory of what happened, and it was not what I expected.I expected to be applauded（夸奖）for my cleverness and arithmetic（算术）skills.“Jeff, you’re so smart.You had to have made some tricky（狡猾的）estimates, figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division（除法）.” That’s not what happened.Instead, my grandmother burst into tears（突然哭起来）.I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do.While my
grandmother sat crying, my grandfather, who had been driving in silence, pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway.He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow.Was I in trouble? My grandfather was a highly intelligent, quiet man.He had never said a harsh（严厉的）word to me, and maybe this was to be the first time? Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother.I had no experience in this realm（领域）with my grandparents and no way to gauge（估计）what the consequences（后果）might be.We stopped beside the trailer.My grandfather looked at me, and after a bit of silence, he gently and calmly said, “Jeff, one day you’ll understand that it’s harder to be kind than clever.”
我对此有很深刻的印象，我期望外婆夸奖我的聪明和算术能力，我想外婆会说：“杰夫，你是如此的聪明，你可以计算出一年有多少分钟并且也能做除法。”但结果却不是这样的。外婆突然哭了出来，我坐在车里不知道该怎么办。姥爷依旧开着车，默不作声，最后他把车听到了路边，下了车，打开我这边的车门，站在那里等我下车。我心里有点忐忑。我的姥爷是一个睿智温和的男人，从来没有责备过我，但或许这有可能就成为了第一次，也有可能让我去给外婆道歉。我从来没有经历过，也不知道会有什么样的后果。当我们走到拖车的后面，姥爷停下了脚步，看着我，在一阵沉默之后，他平静而又温柔的对我说：“杰夫，总有一天你会明白善良比聪明更难。”
What I want to talk to you about today is the difference between gifts and choices.Cleverness is a gift, kindness is a choice.Gifts are easy — they’re given after all.Choices can be hard.You can seduce（诱惑）yourself with your gifts if you’re not careful, and if you do, it’ll probably be to the detriment of your choices.今天我想告诉你们的是天赋和选择的区别。聪明是一种天赋，善良却是一种选择。天赋是最容易得到的，因为你一出生就有了，善良却是难得的。你如果你一不小心，你就会让天赋去驱使自己，它会蒙蔽的你双眼。
This is a group with many gifts.I’m sure one of your gifts is the gift of a smart and capable brain.I’m confident that’s the case because admission（准许进入）is competitive and if there weren’t some signs that you’re clever, the dean of admission wouldn’t have let you in.这里说的天赋有很多种，我相信敏捷的思维和活跃的大脑就是你们的天赋之
一。我确信这一点，是因为来这所大学的学生是经过残酷竞争的，如果你们没有这些特征的话，学校也不愿意招收你们的。
Your smarts will come in handy（便利的）because you will travel in a land of marvels（奇迹）.We humans — plodding（单调乏味的）as we are — will astonish（使惊讶）ourselves.We’ll invent ways to generate（产生）clean energy and a lot of it.Atom by atom, we’ll assemble（集合）tiny machines that will enter cell walls and make repairs.This month comes the extraordinary（非凡的）but also inevitable（必然的）news that we’ve synthesized（合成的）life.In the coming years, we’ll not only synthesize it, but we’ll engineer it to specifications（规格）.I believe you’ll even see us understand the human brain.Jules Verne, Mark Twain, Galileo, Newton — all the curious from the ages would have wanted to be alive most of all right now.As a civilization（文化）, we will have so many gifts, just as you as individuals（个人）
have so many individual gifts as you sit before me.你们的聪明才智终究会派上用途的，那时，你们正在进行着一次绝妙的旅程，我们人类，单调乏味的人类，最终却让我们自己感到不可思议。我们找到很多方式去发明清洁能源。我们用原子做成很小的机器，用它进入到细胞壁来进行一些修复。这个月我们已经合成了细胞，在来年我们不仅要合成，我们还要给细胞定一些规格。我认为我们甚至可以了解人类的大脑，儒勒·凡尔纳、马克·吐温、伽利略、牛顿——所有这些有思想的人都可以复活。作为一种共识，我们有这么多天赋，你们还有许多个人天赋。
How will you use these gifts? And will you take pride in your gifts or pride in your choices?
你怎么用这些天赋呢？你会为你的天赋或者选择自豪么？
I got the idea to start Amazon 16 years ago.I came across the fact that Web usage（使用）was growing at 2,300 percent per year.I’d never seen or heard of anything that grew that fast, and the idea of building an online bookstore with millions of titles — something that simply couldn’t exist in the physical world — was very exciting to me.I had just turned 30 years old, and I’d been married for a year.I told my wife MacKenzie that I wanted to quit my job and go do this crazy thing that probably wouldn’t work since most startups（创业）don’t, and I wasn’t sure what would happen after that.MacKenzie(also a Princeton grad and sitting here in the second row)told me I should go for it.As a young boy, I’d been a garage（车库）inventor.I’d invented an automatic gate closer out of cement-filled tires, a solar（太阳能灶）cooker that didn’t work very well out of an umbrella and tinfoil（锡纸）, baking-pan alarms to entrap（欺骗）my siblings（兄弟姐妹）.I’d always wanted to be an inventor, and she wanted me to follow my passion（激情）.16年前我有了开亚马逊的想法。我无意中发现这样一个事实：互联网的使用人数以每年2300%的速度进行增长。我从来没有见过或听说过哪种事物增长的这么迅速，然后我有了一个令我激动的想法，那就是建一个可以有数百万图书的网上书店，然而这种书店在物理世界中是不可能存在的。那时我才刚刚三十岁，刚结婚一年。我告诉我的妻子MacKenzie我想辞职去做一件疯狂的事，甚至我自己也不知道做完这件事会有什么样的结果，MacKenzie（也是一个普林斯顿大学的毕业生，就坐在第二排）告诉我，让我放手去做。当我还是个孩子的时候，我已经成为了一个车库发明家。我发明了一个能自动填充水泥的轮胎，一个没有了雨伞和锡纸就不能工作的太阳能炊具和欺骗兄弟用的平底锅报警装置。我一直想成为一个发明者，并且我的妻子让我跟着心走。
I was working at a financial firm（金融企业）in New York City with a bunch（群）of very smart people, and I had a brilliant（杰出的）boss that I much admired.I went to my boss and told him I wanted to start a company selling books on the Internet.He took me on a long walk in Central Park, listened carefully to me, and finally said, “That sounds like a really good idea, but it would be an even better idea for someone who didn’t already have a good job.” That logic（逻辑）made some sense to me, and he convinced me to think about it for 48 hours before making a final decision.Seen in that light, it really was a difficult choice, but ultimately（最终）, I decided I had to give it a shot.I didn’t think I’d regret
trying and failing.And I suspected（怀疑）I would always be haunted（缠住）by a decision to not try at all.After much consideration, I took the less safe path to follow my passion, and I’m proud of that choice.我当时和一群非常聪明的人一起在一家纽约的金融公司工作，我很羡慕我们的老板。我走进老板的办公室，告诉他我想办一家在网上卖书的公司。他带着我去中央公园散步，很认真的听我说，听完后跟我说：“听起来这是一个很好的注意，但对于一个还没有好工作的人来说，这会是一个更好的注意”。这个说法有点打动我，老板让我好好想两天再做决定。从那个角度看，这确实是一个艰难的抉择，但是最终我决定试一试。我想我不会因为尝试和失败而后悔，而会因为没有尝试而懊恼。经过思考，我决定为我的激情而铤而走险，我为我的选择而自豪。
Tomorrow, in a very real sense, your life — the life you author from scratch on your own — begins.明天，从某种意义上，你自己的人生才刚刚开始。
How will you use your gifts? What choices will you make?
你会怎么运用你的天赋？做出怎么样的选择？
Will inertia（惰性）be your guide, or will you follow your passions?
惰性会成为你的常态，还是跟着激情奔走？
Will you follow dogma, or will you be original?
你会屈服于命运，还是与天搏斗？
Will you choose a life of ease, or a life of service and adventure?
你会选择一种安逸的生活，还是选择一个充满冒险而有意义的生活？ Will you wilt（屈服）under criticism, or will you follow your convictions（信仰）? 你会在指责中退缩，还是坚持你的信仰？
Will you bluff（蒙混过关）it out when you’re wrong, or will you apologize? 当你犯错时，你会选择蒙混过关，还是去勇敢的面对？
Will you guard your heart against rejection, or will you act when you fall in love?
面对爱情时，你会因为拒绝而退缩，还是会一往无前？
Will you play it safe, or will you be a little bit swashbuckling?
你们想要波澜不惊，还是想要搏击风浪？
When it’s tough（困难）, will you give up, or will you be relentless?
在困境中，你选择放弃，还是百折不挠？
Will you be a cynic（愤世嫉俗者）, or will you be a builder?
你们要做愤世嫉俗者，还是踏实的建设者？
Will you be clever at the expense of others, or will you be kind?
你们要不计一切代价地展示聪明，还是选择善良？
I will hazard（冒险）a prediction（语言）.When you are 80 years old, and in a quiet moment of reflection narrating（叙述）for only yourself the most personal version of your life story, the telling that will be most compact（简洁）and meaningful will be the series of choices you have made.In the end, we are our choices.Build yourself a great story.Thank you and good luck!
我可以负责任的说。当你八十岁的时候，你自己静静的反思自己的一生，你会发现记得都是自己所做的一系列的决定。而这每一一些列的决定最后造就了我们自己。创建一个属于你自己的精彩故事。谢谢并祝你们好运。
第四篇：4月2日杰夫贝索斯普林斯顿2010毕业典礼演讲
杰夫·贝索斯(Jeff Bezos)在普林斯顿2010毕业典礼的演讲
——抵抗天赋的诱惑
2010 Baccalaureate remarks, Princeton University
“We are What We Choose”
Remarks by Jeff Bezos, as delivered to the Class of 2010 Baccalaureate May 30, 2010
在我还是一个孩子的时候，我的夏天总是在德州祖父母的农场中度过。我帮忙修理风车，为牛接种疫苗，也做其它家务。每天下午，我们都会看肥皂剧，尤其是《我们的岁月》。我的祖父母参加了一个房车俱乐部，那是一群驾驶Airstream拖挂型房车的人们，他们结伴遍游美国和加拿大。每隔几个夏天，我也会加入他们。我们把房车挂在祖父的小汽车后面，然后加入300余名Airstream探险者们组成的浩荡队伍。
As a kid, I spent my summers with my grandparents on their ranch in Texas.I helped fix windmills, vaccinate cattle, and do other chores.We also watched soap operas every afternoon, especially “Days of our Lives.” My grandparents belonged to a Caravan Club, a group of Airstream trailer owners who travel together around the U.S.and Canada.And every few summers, we'd join the caravan.We'd hitch up the Airstream trailer to my grandfather's car, and off we'd go, in a line with 300 other Airstream adventurers.我爱我的祖父母，我崇敬他们，也真心期盼这些旅程。那是一次我大概十岁时的旅行，我照例坐在后座的长椅上，祖父开着车，祖母坐在他旁边，吸着烟。我讨厌烟味。
I loved and worshipped my grandparents and I really looked forward to these trips.On one particular trip, I was about 10 years old.I was rolling around in the big bench seat in the back of the car.My grandfather was driving.And my grandmother had the passenger seat.She smoked throughout these trips, and I hated the smell.在那样的年纪，我会找任何借口做些估测或者小算术。我会计算油耗还有杂货花销等鸡毛蒜皮的小事。我听过一个有关吸烟的广告。我记不得细节了，但是广告大意是说，每吸一口香烟会减少几分钟的寿命，大概是两分钟。无论如何，我决定为祖母做个算术。我估测了祖母每天要吸几支香烟，每支香烟要吸几口等等，然后心满意足地得出了一个合理的数字。接着，我捅了捅坐在前面的祖母的头，又拍了拍她的肩膀，然后骄傲地宣称，“每天吸两分钟的烟，你就少活九年!”
At that age, I'd take any excuse to make estimates and do minor arithmetic.I'd calculate our gas mileage--figure out useless statistics on things like grocery spending.I'd been hearing an ad campaign about smoking.I can't remember the details, but basically the ad said, every puff of a cigarette takes some number of minutes off of your life: I think it might have been two minutes per puff.At any rate, I decided to do the math for my grandmother.I estimated the number of
cigarettes per days, estimated the number of puffs per cigarette and so on.When I was satisfied that I'd come up with a reasonable number, I poked my head into the front of the car, tapped my grandmother on the shoulder, and proudly proclaimed, “At two minutes per puff, you've taken nine years off your life!”
我清晰地记得接下来发生了什么，而那是我意料之外的。我本期待着小聪明和算术技巧能赢得掌声，但那并没有发生。相反，我的祖母哭泣起来。我的祖父之前一直在默默开车，把车停在了路边，走下车来，打开了我的车门，等着我跟他下车。我惹麻烦了吗?
I have a vivid memory of what happened, and it was not what I expected.I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills.“Jeff, you're so smart.You had to have made some tricky estimates, figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division.” That's not what happened.Instead, my grandmother burst into tears.I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do.While my grandmother sat crying, my grandfather, who had been driving in silence, pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway.He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow.Was I in trouble?
我的祖父是一个智慧而安静的人。他从来没有对我说过严厉的话，难道这会是第一次?还是他会让我回到车上跟祖母道歉?我以前从未遇到过这种状况，因而也无从知晓会有什么后果发生。我们在房车旁停下来。祖父注视着我，沉默片刻，然后轻轻地、平静地说：“杰夫，有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难。”
My grandfather was a highly intelligent, quiet man.He had never said a harsh word to me, and maybe this was to be the first time? Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother.I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be.We stopped beside the trailer.My grandfather looked at me, and after a bit of silence, he gently and calmly said, “Jeff, one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever.”
今天我想对你们说的是，天赋和选择不同。聪明是一种天赋，而善良是一种选择。天赋得来很容易——毕竟它们与生俱来。而选择则颇为不易。如果一不小心，你可能被天赋所诱惑，这可能会损害到你做出的选择。
What I want to talk to you about today is the difference between gifts and choices.Cleverness is a gift, kindness is a choice.Gifts are easy--they're given after all.Choices can be hard.You can seduce yourself with your gifts if you're not careful, and if you do, it'll probably be to the detriment of your choices.在座各位都拥有许多天赋。我确信你们的天赋之一就是拥有精明能干的头脑。之所以如此确信，是因为入学竞争十分激烈，如果你们不能表现出聪明智慧，便没有资格进入这所学校。
This is a group with many gifts.I'm sure one of your gifts is the gift of a smart and capable brain.I'm confident that's the case because admission is competitive and if there weren't some signs that you're clever, the dean of admission wouldn't have let you in.你们的聪明才智必定会派上用场，因为你们将在一片充满奇迹的土地上行进。我们人类，尽管跬步前行，却终将令自己大吃一惊。我们能够想方设法制造清洁能源，也能够一个原子一个原子地组装微型机械，使之穿过细胞壁，然后修复细胞。这个月，有一个异常而不可避免的事情发生了——人类终于合成了生命。在未来几年，我们不仅会合成生命，还会按说明书驱动它们。我相信你们甚至会看到我们理解人类的大脑，儒勒·凡尔纳，马克·吐温，伽利略，牛顿——所有那些充满好奇之心的人都希望能够活到现在。作为文明人，我们会拥有如此之多的天赋，就像是坐在我面前的你们，每一个生命个体都拥有许多独特的天赋。
Your smarts will come in handy because you will travel in a land of marvels.We humans--plodding as we are--will astonish ourselves.We'll invent ways to generate clean energy and a lot of it.Atom by atom, we'll assemble tiny machines that will enter cell walls and make repairs.This month comes the extraordinary but also inevitable news that we've synthesized life.In the coming years, we'll not only synthesize it, but we'll engineer it to specifications.I believe you'll even see us understand the human brain.Jules Verne, Mark Twain, Galileo, Newton--all the curious from the ages would have wanted to be alive most of all right now.As a civilization, we will have so many gifts, just as you as individuals have so many individual gifts as you sit before me.你们要如何运用这些天赋呢?你们会为自己的天赋感到骄傲，还是会为自己的选择感到骄傲?
How will you use these gifts? And will you take pride in your gifts or pride in your choices?
16年前，我萌生了创办亚马逊的想法。彼时我面对的现实是互联网使用量以每年2300%的速度增长，我从未看到或听说过任何增长如此快速的东西。创建涵盖几百万种书籍的网上书店的想法令我兴奋异常，因为这个东西在物理世界里根本无法存在。那时我刚刚30岁，结婚才一年。
I got the idea to start Amazon 16 years ago.I came across the fact that Web usage was growing at 2,300 percent per year.I'd never seen or heard of anything that grew that fast, and the idea of building an online bookstore with millions of titles--something that simply couldn't exist in the physical world--was very exciting to me.I had just turned 30 years old, and I'd been married for a year.我告诉妻子MacKenzie想辞去工作，然后去做这件疯狂的事情，很可能会失败，因为大部分创业公司都是如此，而且我不确定那之后会发生什么。MacKenzie告诉我，我应该放手一搏。在我还是一个男孩儿的时候，我是车库发明家。我曾用水泥填充的轮胎、雨伞和锡箔以及报警器制作了一个自动关门器。我一直想做一个发明家，MacKenzie支持我追随内心的热情。
I told my wife MacKenzie that I wanted to quit my job and go do this crazy thing that probably wouldn't work since most startups don't, and I wasn't sure what would happen after that.MacKenzie(also a Princeton grad and sitting here in the second row)told me I should go for it.As a young boy, I'd been a garage inventor.I'd invented an automatic gate closer out of cement-filled tires, a solar cooker that didn't work very well out of an umbrella and tinfoil, baking-pan alarms to entrap my siblings.I'd always wanted to be an inventor, and she wanted me to follow my passion.我当时在纽约一家金融公司工作，同事是一群非常聪明的人，我的老板也很有智慧，我很羡慕他。我告诉我的老板我想开办一家在网上卖书的公司。他带我在中央公园漫步良久，认真地听我讲完，最后说：“听起
来真是一个很好的主意，但是对那些目前没有谋到一份好工作的人来说，这个主意会更好。”
I was working at a financial firm in New York City with a bunch of very smart people, and I had a brilliant boss that I much admired.I went to my boss and told him I wanted to start a company selling books on the Internet.He took me on a long walk in Central Park, listened carefully to me, and finally said, “That sounds like a really good idea, but it would be an even better idea for someone who didn't already have a good job.”
这一逻辑对我而言颇有道理，他说服我在最终作出决定之前再考虑48小时。那样想来，这个决定确实很艰难，但是最终，我决定拼一次。我认为自己不会为尝试过后的失败而遗憾，倒是有所决定但完全不付诸行动会一直煎熬着我。在深思熟虑之后，我选择了那条不安全的道路，去追随我内心的热情。我为那个决定感到骄傲。
That logic made some sense to me, and he convinced me to think about it for 48 hours before making a final decision.Seen in that light, it really was a difficult choice, but ultimately, I decided I had to give it a shot.I didn't think I'd regret trying and failing.And I suspected I would always be haunted by a decision to not try at all.After much consideration, I took the less safe path to follow my passion, and I'm proud of that choice.明天，非常现实地说，你们从零塑造自己人生的时代即将开启。
Tomorrow, in a very real sense, your life--the life you author from scratch on your own--begins.你们会如何运用自己的天赋?你们又会作出怎样的抉择?
How will you use your gifts? What choices will you make?
你们是被惯性所引导，还是追随自己内心的热情?
Will inertia be your guide, or will you follow your passions?
你们会墨守陈规，还是勇于创新?
Will you follow dogma, or will you be original?
你们会选择安逸的生活，还是选择一个奉献与冒险的人生?
Will you choose a life of ease, or a life of service and adventure?
你们会屈从于批评，还是会坚守信念?
Will you wilt under criticism, or will you follow your convictions?
你们会掩饰错误，还是会坦诚道歉?
Will you bluff it out when you're wrong, or will you apologize?
你们会因害怕拒绝而掩饰内心，还是会在面对爱情时勇往直前?
Will you guard your heart against rejection, or will you act when you fall in love?
你们想要波澜不惊，还是想要搏击风浪?
Will you play it safe, or will you be a little bit swashbuckling?
你们会在严峻的现实之下选择放弃，还是会义无反顾地前行?
When it's tough, will you give up, or will you be relentless?
你们要做愤世嫉俗者，还是踏实的建设者?
Will you be a cynic, or will you be a builder?
你们要不计一切代价地展示聪明，还是选择善良?
Will you be clever at the expense of others, or will you be kind?
我要做一个预测：在你们80岁时某个追忆往昔的时刻，只有你一个人静静对内心诉说着你的人生故事，其中最为充实、最有意义的那段讲述，会被你们作出的一系列决定所填满。最后，是选择塑造了我们的人生。为你自己塑造一个伟大的人生故事。
I will hazard a prediction.When you are 80 years old, and in a quiet moment of reflection narrating for only yourself the most personal version of your life story, the telling that will be most compact and meaningful will be the series of choices you have made.In the end, we are our choices.Build yourself a great story.谢谢，祝你们好运!
Thank you and good luck!
第五篇：美联储主席伯南克周六在普林斯顿大学做毕业典礼演讲
北京时间6月3日晚间，美联储主席伯南克周六在普林斯顿大学做毕业典礼演讲，他没有提及货币政策、没有暗示是否寻求连任，而是向毕业生提出“十大建议”。
以下为伯南克演讲主要内容：
重返普林斯顿感觉不错，很难相信，我离开校园赴华盛顿已经11年了。近期我向校方询问了我的教职问题，回信称：“很遗憾，普林斯顿收到很多更有才华的学者的求职信，而教职有限。”
我将在稍后献上对毕业生的最美好祝愿，首先我要恭喜在座的家长们。作为父母，我知道这年头供孩子读完大学不容易，数年前，我的一个同事有3个孩 子毕业于普林斯顿，尽管他们夫妻都不毕业于此，但我的同事常说，从财政角度讲，这如同每年买辆卡迪拉克，然后让车坠崖。他总会补充说，他会毫不犹豫的选择 重新来过。所以，感谢你们的工作，母亲们，父亲们，及家人们。
这确实是做毕业典礼演讲的合适场合，我认为，在这一讲台上，每个精神导师都受到过“十诫”的教诲，我没有那样的信心，而且无论无何，觊觎邻居的 驴牛已不是目前的问题，所以今年前几分钟我将提出“十个建议”，或称为对这个世界和你们毕业后的生活的十个观察。请注意，这十点与利率毫无关系。我之所以 有资格提出这些建议和或观察，除了普林斯顿的善意邀请外，理由和你们讨厌的哥哥姐姐可以晚睡是一个道理：我比你们更老。以下内容均经受过生活的检验，但以 往表现并不能确保未来的结果。
1、“当代哲学家”阿甘曾讲到人生和巧克力的相似性，你不知道下一块巧克力的味道。人生确实难以预料，任何一个认为知道10年后情况的毕业生，更不同说三十年了，我只能说他或她缺乏想象力。看看我吧，12年前我一心教经济学入门课程，想着编造什么理由不去参加教学会议，结果我接到了来自华盛顿的 电话。如果你有机会与毕业25年、30年或40年的校友交谈，并能够让他们敞开心扉，他们将告诉你，他们对生活中哪些事满意或不满意，他们经历过的高潮和 低谷。但我敢打赌，他们的人生故事与预期相异。这是好事而不是坏事，谁想在故事的开篇就知道结局呢？
2、是否人生偶然性之大这一事实，意味着小的决定和行动无足轻重，不需要规划和奋斗呢？当然不是。无论未来人生如何，都将是一个宏大及漫长的项 目，是你作为个人的发展过程。你的家人、朋友和你在普林斯顿的时光已经为你打下了良好的基础，未来你将如何？你会不断学习、竭力思索、对至关重要的问题持 批判态度吗？你会成为情感更强大、更大度、更有爱心、更道德的人吗？你会更积极的、更建设性的参与世事吗？你的人生会有很多故事，快乐的，及不太快乐的，如果你不为自己感到快乐，就连最伟大的成就业也不会让你感到满足。
3、成功的概念促使我考虑所谓的精英主义及其含义。精英是在健康和基因方面最幸运的人，他们在家庭支持、鼓励上，或在收入上也是最幸运的，他们 在教育和职业机遇上最幸运，他们在很多方面都最幸运，一般人难以复制。一个精英体制是否公平，要看这些精英是否有义务努力工作、致力于建设更好的世界，并 与他人分享幸运。
4、谁值得尊重？是那些充分利用优势，或勇敢面对逆境的人。我想我们会认同，那些虽然接受正式教育不多，但诚实劳动、勤勉的为家人提供衣食和教育的人，相比更多表面上很成功的人，更值得尊重，和他们喝两杯是更有趣的事情。
5、提到政治，愤世嫉俗是批判性思考和建设性行动的可悲替代品。当然，利益、金钱和意识形态都有影响力，如你在政治课上所学。但我的感受是大部 分政界人士都在寻求做正确的事情，大部分时候，这由他们的观点和意识决定。在复杂及难于处理的问题上所犯的诚实错误，更是糟糕结果的主要原因，而非不
良动 机。因此，华盛顿最有影响的力量是观念和想法，人们基于这些观念去行动。公共服务并不轻松，如果你选择了这一道路，那是值得的，并颇具挑战性。
6、经济学是颇具诡辩性的思维领域，她在解释决策者以往所犯错误方面显得很崇高，但在预测未来时则不仅如此。然而，谨慎的经济分析确有重要益处，她能去除那些不合逻辑或与数据不符的想法，这对90%的经济政策建议有影响。
7、我不会告诉你们金钱无用，反正你们也不会听的。事实上，对全球很多人来说，金钱能够决定是生存还是死亡。但如果你属于那些幸运得有能力进行抉择的少数人，请记住，金钱只是途径，而非最终目标。职业选择基于收入，而非热爱或做出贡献的热情，是日后苦恼的根源。
8、没有人希望失败，但失败是生活和学习的一部分。如果你衣衫整齐，你并没有真正进入比赛。
9、我希望你们能够发展自身对成功的定义，在这一过程中，你们能够选择一位亲密的伴侣。在做出选择时，要记住外表美只是人类演变的一种方式，它 使我们确信对方没有肠道寄生虫。不要误解我，我也为美丽、浪漫和性所吸引，不然美国影视业和广告业怎么生存下去呢？但尽管重要，这些不是寻找人生伴侣时唯 一需要考虑的事情。你们将共同走过人生旅程，需要对方的支持和关爱。作为已婚35年的人士，我想象不到比选择人生伴侣更重要的事情。
10、时不时的给父母去个电话。早晚有一天，你希望自己长大成人的、工作繁忙的、超级成功的孩子给你来个电话，再者，请不要忘记谁供养你上的大学。
最后，毕业生们，给他们点颜色看看。
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