关于触痛心灵的往事的日记

第一篇：关于触痛心灵的往事的日记

触痛心灵的往事

沉痛的往事静若尘埃，赶不走，驱不散。

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1990年7月15日，那是一个黑色的星期天，一位3岁的小男孩带着沙哑的哭声在奶奶的怀里睡着了。

“妈妈，你在哪儿？快出来啊，天黑了，我害怕。”小男孩不停地哭喊，搜遍了整个屋子，甚至连平常躲猫猫的地方也没有放过。小手不停地擦拭着脸上的泪水，哭声越来越大，爷爷奶奶跑来了，邻居也来了。“小彦乖，不哭，妈妈很快就会回来的。”“不，我要妈妈，我要妈妈，不......”稚嫩的双腿仿佛有了无穷的气力，乱蹬乱踹，奶奶蹲下来正准备抱住他，却被一脚踹倒了，邻居大娘塞在他手里的糖果被重重地砸在地上。一时没辙，爷爷只好硬把他抱回家。“不，放我下来，我要找妈妈，我要妈妈......”小手使劲地拍打爷爷的肩膀，不论怎么哄都哄不了。“好，我带你去找妈妈，不哭，要不然......”话音未落，嘶声裂肺的声音顿时变成了抽泣，如同瞬间被阻断的滔滔江水。

上东家，下西家，访北家，走南家，偌大的村寨都找遍了，小男孩依旧见不到妈妈的身影。他看着爷爷，绝望的泪珠哗哗滚落，简直要哭破天。“妈妈是不是在大田坝里打猪草呢？可能猪草打得太多，她背不动，正等着小彦和爷爷去帮她背呢。”哭声又停了下来。“爷爷，那咱们快去找妈妈。”说着便走。

到了大田坝，天越渐发黑。“妈，您在哪儿？我和爷爷来帮你背猪草......”小男孩朝着沉重的黑夜喊去，可是怎么也没有听到妈妈的回应声。此时，哭声打破了寂寥的夜。爷爷把孙子抱在怀里，拖着沉重的身躯，迈着沉重的步子，踉踉跄跄地朝回家的路走去。

那一夜，他饭水不沾，带着“我要妈妈”的哭声在奶奶的怀里睡着了。第二天天刚破晓，他摇醒睡梦中的奶奶。“奶奶，我妈妈回来了吗？”“妈妈过几天就回家来。现在她到外地去给你买漂亮的衣衫回来。她说要你听爷爷奶奶的话，做个乖孩子。”“是真的吗？”“那当然是真的了，奶奶能骗你吗？来，再睡会儿奶奶就起床做饭给你吃。”小男孩半信半疑地睡着了。

午饭过后，小男孩像往常一样去窜门找伙伴玩，从大人的议论声中，他隐约地知道，妈妈再也不会回来了。那刻，泪水像一串断线的珠子从他的脸庞滚落，悄无声息。想到平日就“战乱”不断的家，爸爸动不动就拿妈妈出气，妈妈脸上的肿块消了又起，起了又消，经常是青一块紫一块，几乎不用画浓妆。此时，一场疯狂无声的暴雨在那个童话世界里溃堤泛滥了。时间没有因为小男孩的满腔怒火而凝固，一个星期就快过去了，妈妈依然杳无音信。

窜门找朋友玩时，小朋友们都说他是个没娘爱的孩子，现在他都不敢出门了，像一条冬眠的小蛇在窝里静静地等候春天的来临。突然有一天，一个熟悉的声音令他喜出望外。“小彦，咱们回家吧，妈妈回来了。”小男孩像一只晒干露水的蝴蝶一般朝爷爷奔去，连鞋都跑掉了一只。

回到家里，他穿过拥挤的人群，直接扑进了妈妈的怀里。“妈妈，您这几天都哪里去了？能找的地方我都找了，就是见不着您。”妈妈没有说什么，只是紧紧地把他拥紧在怀里，眼里泛着串串泪花。

如今，二十几个春秋已逝，三尺讲台上的我已是一个大男孩。沉痛往事，每每忆起，便心如刀割。

第二篇：触痛心灵的坦然

触痛心灵的坦然

一天，我骑着自行车忙着往家赶，路过一个较偏僻的巷子时，突然感觉有人拽我的包。回头看时，包已被一个骑摩托车的小伙子拿在手里。我大喊：“把包还我，光天化日的，竟然抢劫。”不曾想，那个小伙子一点也不紧张，坦然地对我说：“我只要钱，别的还给你，别嚷嚷，嚷嚷也没用。”他倒是说到做到，从包里掏出我的钱包后，把包远远地扔给我，一脸得意地离开。在他脸上，我怎么也找不到愧疚的神情。

单位需要上报市里一份文件，因为秘书不在，领导让我起草，可领导从来没对我说过以后的打算，我怎处理？憋屈了半天，我也没弄出来。看我犯难，领导亲自出马，说：“这还不简单，我看到邻县兄弟单位已经发给市里了，并在网站上贴了出来，你给我打印一份，我五分钟内搞定。”果不其然，一会儿领导就拿着改好的文件找我，说：“你照着我修改的给打出一份，快递到市里。”我一看，只是把县名改了改，其余未动。我有点担心地对领导说：“全文copy人家，是不是有点不大合适？”“天下文章一大抄，没关系，说不上他们也是copy人家的。”说这些话时，领导是很坦然的，丝毫没有抄袭的不安。

曾经有机会和某局局长一起吃饭，那菜真叫丰盛，鲍鱼、甲鱼都上来了，酒喝的是茅台，人家吃喝得兴高采烈，我心里却隐隐作痛，这得花费多少人民币啊？感情不是他自己掏腰包。酒过三旬，局长喝得醉醺醺地说：“大家想吃什么，喝什么，尽管说，我们局不差钱。”尽管是酒后失言，可他那份说话的坦然神情，我想应该是潜意识里固有的，刹那间，灼烧了我并不迟钝的神经。

我出生的村子，挨着小城，农业用地自然成为房地产开发商的香饽饽。在土地又一次被征用，农民没有得到任何好处后，他们联合起来集体反对。不曾想，开发商竟然雇了两车地痞流氓，带了家什，对手无寸铁的农民大打出手，结果二十多人人被打伤住院。这还不算，开发商还扬言，让你们找死不看好日子。打了人，竟然还如此嚣张，坦然到这程度，不禁让人无语了。不禁要问，是谁给了你如此坦然的权力？后来，事情闹大了，开发商拿钱收买了受伤者，才得以解决。

遭遇的这些坦然，总让我困惑不已。我常常思考，面对社会现状，我们到底需要从老祖宗那里传承怎样的坦然？

第三篇：学生往事日记

学生往事日记1

堂姐，你还记得，今天是你的生日吗？

你每次在这一天，都喜欢把它划掉，对吗？为什么憎恨生日？为什么？你是想起了那一天的故事吗？记得姨妈说过，姨丈在你出生的那一刻说一定要保护你直到老，可，就在你十岁生日时，姨丈离开了这个家，走向了另一个女人，他和姨妈吵得昏天暗地，最终，在那份离婚协议书上签了名，我知道，你的`生日，有着非同寻常的意义。

你曾说过，你再也不要过生日了，因为你已经24了，足足比我大十四岁，你的青春全浪费在人才市场，我知道，你不是不能干，是他们太挑剔了，别伤心。今天请原谅我突然跳出来提起你的那段往事，可那毕竟过去了，我曾听过这样一句话：这也会过去。对啊，不论是好事坏事，它都已成为往事，过去的就让它过去吧，看看今天，看看明天，看看未来，看着你的前面还有很多光在闪烁，而你身旁和身后昏暗和熄灭的光，都已成为往事，别再去记它了，答应我，忘了它。

谁说这世界上没有难解的事，其实都可以解开，今天在Q农小丑那看到了一句话：有理想的地方，地狱也是天堂。你没有理想吗？不，有。你时时刻刻都会有一个理想，往你理想的路走吧，而身后的事，踹踹脚把它们踢开，就什么也没有了。

你看到我字体的颜色吗？是你最喜欢的草绿色，虽然看得很辛苦，但它仍是我的一片诚意，收下吧，堂姐。

学生往事日记2

成长路上有很多往事，它伴随着我成长，给我以激励和鞭策。即便现在的我已经成为了一名初二的学生，但我仍能想起那个关于自己书包的童年往事。

背上书包看看你的童年，你会感到无比幸福。这些往事，在我们成长的道路上一幕幕呈现出来。我的童年往事有很多，我最记忆犹新的是这一件事。

一个八岁的小姑娘并不懂什么是爱。八岁的我，看到别的小朋友都背上了书包，我的心里开始犯困。为什么我没有书包?在一个阴雨连绵的天气里，我踮起脚尖，仰着头，撅着小嘴问妈妈：“妈妈，别的小朋友都有书包，为什么我没有?快给我买。”妈妈笑眯眯的说：“孩子，咱家的经济实在困难，妈妈给你做一个好不好?”我生气的又摔盘子有打碗。也就是在这样的.情况下，爸爸给了我一巴掌。并狠狠的训斥了我一顿。我不顾父母的阻挡跑了出去。自己一个人号啕大哭起来。我不知道脸上流的是雨是泪，流到嘴里，涩涩的。

第二天早上上学，眼睛肿的像鱼眼。没办法，还是要用一个大的方便袋装书喽。回到学校，同学们一阵讽刺和嘲笑。而我呢?恨不得找个地洞钻进去。

晚上回到家，并没有看到妈妈的身影，爸爸依旧在看电视。我丧气的从方便袋中拿出作业来。“吱”门响了，我回头一看，是妈妈来了，身上全都淋透了。两手背在后面，走到我的面前。和蔼的说：“你看这是什么。”说罢，呈现在我面前的是一个粉色的，并带有一个蝴蝶结的书包。我呆住了，眼泪也不知不觉的留了出来。嘴唇颤动着对妈说了句：“妈妈，对不起，我爱您。”

往事像一串串珠子，数也数不尽。珍惜现在，把握时间。

学生往事日记3

在我的记忆中，有许多往事如同沙滩的脚印，当海浪卷来的时候，便消失无踪，而有的就如海底的'珊瑚，永远鲜亮。其中，有一丛珊瑚最亮，那就是江边的那件事

那天的下午，我扛着画板来到目的地，坐在那儿，摆放好画板，拿笔作起画起来。这时，远处传来一声叫卖声，我仔细一看，原来是个卖花的小男孩，只见他手上拿着十几朵花，张嘴大喊：“卖花啦!”我朝他打量一下，看到了他身上有几个补丁。

看了一会，从远处来了一个绅士，绅士说：“小男孩，一支花卖多少钱?”“3元”。小男孩弱弱地回答。这时，又来了个漂亮的小女孩，她轻声轻语地问“这花多少”?“3元”男孩跟她说。

这时，我一不小心把天空画成了红色，这时，小男孩走过来羡慕地说：“哥哥画得真好看!”“对呀”!妹妹也跟着说，可我却着急，不由得跺跺脚：“这该怎么办?”最后，我和小男孩一起完成了这幅画，在作画的过程中，我们聊了很多，我知道他今年8岁，本应该安安静静在校园课堂里听老师讲课，和同龄人一起在操场上追逐嬉戏，他热爱学习，喜欢看书，喜欢画画，可是因为家里经济条件不好，加上父母亲身体差，无法出来打长工，所以小男孩小小年纪就要出来承担生活的压力，卖花就是为了赚钱帮补家用。最后小男孩把他的梦想告诉了我，他的梦想是考上北京大学。

这时，他的爸爸从远处走了过来，问他：花卖完了吗’?“卖完了!”

我看着他们离开的背影，带有一丝同情。希望小男孩长大以后能实现自己的梦想。而我也要好好珍惜学习的时光，不听天由命，努力实现我的画家梦。

学生往事日记4

记得孔子说过一句话：“三思而后行。”可我太爱表现自己，行时就忘了思。因为这，我曾经遇到过一次难堪。

那是前一段时间，我校开设“多媒体教学课”。邀请了许多领导和家长。我走进教室朝后面一看，啊，听课的人真多，黑压压的一片，他们正叽叽喳喳地议论着什么。我坐在位置上，前面、身后。头顶都有摄像头!

好大的场面呀!我的虚荣心马上膨胀起来，心中暗想：一定要在老师，同学和家长面前好好露一手。我悄悄地“侦察”了一下情况，妈妈坐在左前方，正朝我这边看呢。我暗下决心：一定得往妈妈脸上“贴金”。当老师提出问题时，我把手举得高高的，起初老师没看到就点了其他同学。我暗想：老师肯定没看见!我还得举手!

老师又问了另一个问题，我把手举得更高了，老师终于叫到了我的名字，我就“嗖”地站了起来，准确地回答了老师的问题。老师和听课的人都向我投来赞许的目光。我心里美滋滋的，得意洋洋地坐下了。

老师讲完一部分内容，又提了一个问题。我生怕别人抢了先，没加思索就毫不犹豫地又举起了那手。老师见我十分积极，就再次让我回答问题。我站起来后，却不知道如何说了结结巴巴地回不出来。这时全场静极了。全场的人都把目光到我的'身上，当时我真想一下子钻进地缝里。当老师叫我坐下时，我像泄了气的气球呆呆地坐在凳子上，心里不知道是什么滋味。接下来老师讲的内容，我什么也没听进去。

下课了，妈妈轻轻地拍拍我的头，安慰我，并告诫我说：“凡事要经思考再行动。”唉，一个人如果只想着出风头而不思考，会出大丑的哟!

学生往事日记5

光阴似箭，一转眼我就成为了六年级的学生了，往事也随着时间在我脑海中渐渐地忘了。但是，有一件事我永远也忘不了，父亲的一席话启迪了我，让我明白了什么是责任和有主见。

二年级时，我和弟弟在老家一楼玩着木棍，突然听见头顶传来叽叽喳喳的叫声，我循声望去，只见横梁上有一个燕子窝，窝里有几只小燕子，那声音就是它们发出来的。我一分心、手一松，棍子就飞了出去，不偏不倚地砸中了燕子窝，把燕子窝砸掉了一块，随后一只小燕子掉了下来。我伸手接住了那只小燕子，小燕子掉在我手上还在叫着，好像在向我求救。我看到它安然无恙，也松了口气。这时，弟弟说：“快跑，把它丢了，不然大人一发现我们闯了祸一定会把我们骂一顿!”可是我觉得这样做不对，我们跑了小燕子怎么办呢?在我左右为难时，爸爸从楼上走了下来，问：“两个小鬼，在干嘛呢?”弟弟瞪了我一眼说：“叫你不跑，这下伯伯来了大家都别想跑了!”我跑过去对爸爸说：“我跟你说件事，但是你一定不要生气。”爸爸同意了，我就把事情的'来龙去脉告诉了爸爸。他点了点头，想了一会，对我们说：“两个都不对，弟弟你不能逃避责任，就算没人知道，你内心不会感到自责吗?”弟弟听了，羞愧地低下了头。爸爸接着说：“还有你，作为哥哥要有主见、起带头作用，做事不能犹豫不决，觉得事情是正确的就要用实践去证明它。”

我听了这番话，受益匪浅，立即搬来梯子，一手捧着小燕子，一手抓着扶手往上爬，把小燕子送回了窝。下来时，我发现了爸爸严肃的脸上流露出欣慰的神情。

通过这件事，我明白了：犯了错不能逃避，要学会承担责任;只要觉得自己做得是对的，就要有主见地、当机立断去实践。

学生往事日记6

回想起那些往事，欢欢喜喜，悲悲切切，真是不知从何说起，只是在不同的事中，我越来越完整了。

从一开始自行车脚蹬子砸到腿都会哭鼻子的小姑娘，到扛着自行车走完徽杭古道的Heroine，可以说是很漫长，很艰辛，很痛苦的过程。

大到莺歌海的最美海滩，壮丽的黄河。小到学堂下的那条小河，大散原的那口井。每一个都有最深刻，最难忘的经历，有亲情，有乡情，有师生情，有友情。

走到现在，我磕磕绊绊，我曾经以为我是孤独的(友谊方面)，但有一天，我发现我的身边多了好多朋友，在我最痛苦的时候，张博雄、杨冰娴、任柄赫、申良烨毅然决然站在了我身后，为我撑起了友谊的天空，我第一次感到被信任的幸福感。随后，睿雯、张洋也陪着我走过了第一次独自离乡的痛苦。强大、杨韩乐使我更加博学。清园、琪儿、小草、可乐使我有了动力。406的姑娘们使我感到来自青春的活力。当然还有书院的其它孩子们也许我们不曾说过话，但四海之内皆兄弟也，见到你们的笑脸，听到你们的`声音就会使我愉悦上一天的。

从古诗到易经，我渐渐的充实了起来，并对各种经典有了自己的看法。我在我的强项——语文上越走越好，这是值得开心的。

我从小有许多爱好，但都不精通。太真实了，要说我在我爱的方面没放弃过，但是就是很弱哈哈，不过拿现在和以前比还是有很大进步的，也是很不错的经历吧。

短短十二年，我也成长了很多。直到今天，我才深刻明白了notalone的意思，以后，我的人生——荆棘之路也不会再狭隘。

第四篇：心灵日记

心灵日记

２００６年１２月２６日 星期二 阴 作业与自由的ＰＫ

自从上了六年级，鉴于升学压力，“自由”二字已经从我的字典里消失了，我不再是那个天真无邪、无忧无虑的孩子了。教室成了我的牢笼，一把大锁锁住了我的快乐和自由，学校用作业和试卷当作是对我们“严刑拷打”的工具，使我不再快乐，不再自由。

我渴望自由，憧憬那种能自由地翱翔于蓝天白云之间的那种无拘无束的生活。我想飞，以凌驾于时空的速度，飞得越远越好，飞到一个没有烦恼的世界，在那里，自由女神会对我绽放迷人的微笑，我也会幸福无忧，快乐无比„„

但是当我看到家长殷切的目光，教师焦急的神情时，我又陷入了沉思：自由与未来，哪个更重要？如果现在得到了自由，那么美好的前程还会属于我吗？相反，如果现在玩命地学习，就意味着会有一个美好的未来！我明白了，自由与未来就像鱼与熊掌一样，不可兼得。正象古语所说的一样：“生，亦我所欲也；义，亦我所欲也；二者不可得兼，舍生而取义者也。”根据现在的情况，我能把这句话改成：“自由，亦我所欲也；未来，亦我所欲也；二者不可得兼，舍自由而取未来者也。”

然而──

就真的没有二者兼得的方法吗？看到《读者》我恍然大悟了：虽然为了美好的未来，现实不允许有“自由”的存在，但是，我们自己却可以调配时间，忙中偷闲，自己去寻找自由和快乐，这样不会更好吗？想到这里，心情豁然开朗了许多，看到窗外的湛蓝的天空，心想：我一定要微笑着迎接每一个阳光灿烂的日子！

２００６年１２月１８日 星期一 晴

“减负”仅是一句口号

我实在厌倦了，厌倦了被作业和考试折磨的日子。每天，我都会闻到教室里的火药味，尤其是我们这些学习好的学生，整天勾心斗角。上六年级了，都知道学习的重要性了。还有几天时间就要进行第二次阶段性测试了，这几天，我连放学等校车的时间都不放过，在教室里写作业，这样回到家就可以余出一些时间看会儿书或做些别的题了，等到离发车还有五六分钟的时候才赶紧关灯锁门迅速地冲出教室„„惟独那些中等生，整天轻轻松松。我突然很盼望当一名中等生，因为优等生的压力太大了，整天不想别的，只想着这次考试我要超过某某，我一定不能输给某某„„我畏惧了，我害怕自己达不到理想的目标，实现不了自己的承诺。更无法面对父母、老师殷切的目光。最近几天，每天晚上的作业都要做到九点半左右，做完老师布置的作业，还要写一写摘抄日记，找点别的题做，我恐怕自己不做而那些住校生却做了，那样，自己就会吃亏的，跟别人拉开差距„„

每天，雪花般的试卷在老师的手中发呀发，在同学们手中传呀传，在我的手中写呀写。平日里，我都把这些牢骚往肚里咽，因为胥老师说，发牢骚也是无用的，面对激烈的竞争，学习才是无悔的选择。我知道她是一位开明的老师，说的也没错。可是今天，我忍不住了，我想把这想法化成凝固的文字写下来，请老师不要怪我。毕竟，这，就是我的心声呀！秦老师，我不希望在这篇日记的下方出现您红色的评语：牢骚满腹防肠断，风物长宜放眼量！

第五篇：心灵日记

A Long-cherished Desire(chapter one)

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.There exist two certain categories of people around us, both of whom have strengths and weaknesses, but that is what I think makes our life colorful.Let us talk about one of them first.For one thing, he perhaps does not have a good background.However, he does have a good appearance.For another, he will not have any difficulty in coping with incidents in certain scope with many friends around.But he maybe is someone who attaches much importance to the traditional relationship of family, and he is some what stubborn at some time.It is just the very characters that he owns that make him less popular in the eyes of certain people.Regardless of his weaknesses, he is still a real man supporting his family.When it comes to the other one, a figure has already captured my mind.Though enjoying a good reputation among colleagues, his background is not that good, either.Having experienced hard time in an early age, he has got what he deserves.More importantly, he enjoys a good health, which is a big fortune for him.Actually, he is not old for his age, but his learned knowledge and considerate heart have won so many people all round.Charm as he is, he has received sincere admiration from people with enthusiasm.On balance, in spite of his weakness, I will always be excited in his presence.It seems that I have a preference for the category, but what depresses me most is that it is just a legend.Something coming across easily, but never pursued.But just think over it several seconds, it has become a feast for a green heart.If memory serves me well, I have dreamt both of them in some night.If I would I can picture more of their features in detail from it.Above are only my personal opinions about them.If there are some similarities with someone, please just consider it a coincidence.2555(chapter two)

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The day is drawing near tranquilly, although I have been informed in advance, I still have no other means to control my fast-beating heart.I am now even wondering whether I should have a word with him or not.Though I know in my deep heart that he will accept my compliments, I will be sort of nervous in his presence, let alone the courage to tell the designed impression of him.Being lack of necessary skills in communicating has embarrassed my heart strongly.Actually I have not directly talked with a considerate person before he first chats with me.But now, as the yearning heart beats with curiosity, my body has already lost control of itself, running just after it.As is schemed a week earlier，there are three matters that I would like to tell him.The first may be an interesting one: What would he think and say if there is someone applauding on a highlight in a lecture? It counts for little whether I can get a certain answer to it, and what I really want to do is to express that there does exist such an occasion where I just want to applaud.Perhaps because some kind of character touches heart deeply.But in most cases I will keep silent without any reason to tell.The second one is what I think best for my potential apology, if there is any mistake.It is just the coming Band-4.Obviously his regular consideration and kindness should be taken seriously, rather than just smile them selfishly without considering his situation and other persons‟ feelings.After all, knowing there is someone caring for oneself is full of happiness, which will stimulate her or him to achieve what she or he has desired for a long time.There seems to lack something important when it comes to a blank heart if there are not comfortable words around.At least I think it in this way.Finally my feelings after his lecture will be served as the third one.On the one hand, please allow me to express my doubt toward the details from certain examples.However, it does matter whether they are true or not.Because they are amusing as well as meaningful, which I think is enough for teaching.To be honest, I have been more attracted by those examples, regardless of their sources.It is exactly he that makes the atmosphere in a lecture lively.On the other hand, I certainly can gain confidence in his lecture, but at the same time I also get

frustrated.Compared with the influential persons he refers to in class, though he takes proud of them, I come to feel kind of uncertain of the future without any useful guidance.So I would like to write those words just to get in touch with him.Otherwise, it will be a great loss for me to a designed fate.Just as he has put in the first class: It will probably take many years to bring both strangers from different backgrounds together.I have not learned one with so much professional knowledge and abundant experience until his appearance.If we had known each other a little earlier.But life is good enough as it is now.After all, good fortune has brought me the very character that I have sought for a long time in people.Old as he is, he always appears young and energetic for his age and keeps up a good sate of mind.In a nutshell, I have a favorable impression of him.Excited in his presence without any reason.Writing aimlessly, I myself even can not figure out what I have already written.Perhaps he would be clear about everything even without taking a glimpse at this.第二章翻译

Durianu091213 这一天（不确定）悄悄的临近，尽管我早已预知，但我仍然无法控制跳动的心，我甚至还在想是否应该和你谈一次话。虽然我深知你会接受我真诚的赞美但你在场时我还是会有点紧张，更甭提告诉对你已形成的印象的勇气。

必要交流技巧的缺乏令我颇感难受。事实上，在一个考虑周到的人找我谈话乊前，我还未主动与他按照一周前的计划，我打算与你谈三件事。聊过。但是现在由于心的好奇，我也不由自主的随他所欲，无法控制。

第一件事也许很有意思：如果有人在讲座的高潮部分鼓掌，你会怎样想并说些什么呢？我能否得到确切的答案无关紧要，我只是想要你知道确实存在这样我想鼓掌的场合。也许因为被某个特定的品格深深触动了。但多数时候我总是没有缘由的保持沉默。如果有错误的话，第二件事是我道歉的最佳。正式将要到来的四级考试。很显然，你惯常的体贴和关爱应当谨慎对待，而不是不考虑你的境况和别的感受地付诸一笑。毕竟，知道有人关心自己是件快乐的事。这将激发他（她）实现自己盼望已久的梦想。如果没有温馨的话萦绕，当提及空白的心时似乎少了一些重要的东西。至少我这样认为。最后听后感作为第三件吧！一方面请允许我对你所讲的一些例子中的细节提出疑问。然而，它们是真是假无关紧要。因为它们已被寄予了乐趣和意义，对于教学来说，我想那已足够了。坦诚的说，我更喜欢那些例子，并不在意其来源。正是你使的课堂上的气氛如此活跃；另一方面我能从你的讲座中得到信心，但同时也会感到受挫。和你课堂提到的有影响力的人相比，尽管你以他们为荣，我逐渐感到了未来的渺茫，仅仅因为没有一些有用的指导。因此我写了这些希望能够与你保持联系。否则，对于我来说，将是命运安排的损失。正如你在第一堂课上所言：多年休来相见缘。

在你乊前，我还没了解到一个有如此多的专业知识和丰富经验的人。我们若早点相识就好了。但现在的生活已很好：毕竟，好运实现了我长久以来寻找人们内在特定品质的愿望。你看起来比实际年龄年轻，并总保持清醒的头脑。总乊，对你印象良好，看到你很高兴。漫笔随谈，我自己也不知道写了些什么，也许会很明白即使仅一瞥。

2555(chapter three)

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It is great honor to have been with you for almost one year.During those times we have spent together in the class, I have got not only contentment for the soul but also attitude toward life.There are no other good sentences than “someone takes a hand, opens a mind, touches a heart and shapes a future”to describe the fine qualities you hold as the certain position.When thinking of the first time I attended your lecture, I indeed felt delighted upon a new teacher.After all, as with the course itself, it is a theoretical course as well as a required one.A good sir will surely make his audience concentrated on what he intends to convey by using various methods, rather than tell the designed content of the book without any attractive or useful experience from real life.When comparing those two types of teachers, I like the former one much more.To tell the truth, it was exactly after the second class that I came to appreciate your style of teaching with kind voice and considerate heart.Being kind of humorous, you have passed your message in such a special way as we all can accept.But when it comes to the potential international issues, it appears hard to imagine what will happen without professional knowledge in mind.For example, as we all know, China possesses the largest part in population of the world;on the one hand, it makes the numerous resources to every single individual much less than that of any other country, which seems to promise not so good a phenomenon.But on the other hand, the largest part in population can otherwise fortify its citizen’s glory as well as confidence.Just as a father living in the rural area takes pride in the number of his son.All those are realistic facts.What would it be like if there is a nation whose population is expected larger or at least as much as ours’in the world near the future ? Will we sense the pressure from the respect of population? Surely it is a profound question.As I do not care much about those things, I only can realize its pressure with a superficial mind.Besides the reputation of being respectable and learned, a bold interval between eyebrows is quite impressive.It is just the symbol of insight and humanity.I do not learn much about your extra work, but it is an obvious fact that everyone has his or her talent in certain field which he or she takes interest in, and there is

no exception for others working in other careers.Plain as they all are, they have the qualities of encouraging others and being patient.But now I am wondering whether those qualities make them what they are or the other way around.As a sentence reveals: The qualities most of us value above all others are honesty, courage, persistence, generosity and humility, we are not born with those things, instead we develop them.Though it is just about initiative and passivity, I think it does count for much.To some extent, I have no intention to write those feelings, much less the right to disturb other’s normal life with them, but it seems much easier to flow those feelings with a pen than to talk with you directly.I do not want to make further explanation of why, perhaps I can not make it at all.What I actually want to do is respect you with fear.Although I know that making someone feel that he is hard to communicate with is impolite, I still can not take up courage to talk with you.But when given a second thought, it is reasonable that one will feel delighted when he knows that he is held admirable.With no other intention writing those, I just want to share some encouragement and useful guidance in spirits with another him, at most express what I think in my mind.As a matter of fact, it is not necessary for me to think too much, just right we will be afraid of taking even a glass of water if we pay too much attention to the sources of disease.Just behave as what I think is appropriate.As a proverb goes: Go your own road, and let others say.Job is all about work, while life is what we have to take into account even during the work.Only by this way can one enjoy a successful career as well as a harmonious FAMILY life.If the paper were of function in recording your expressions which would soon be sent back when you are reading, that would be fairly good.No special meaning;just say“cheese”with a causal mind.Sorry to take up some of your time.Yours sincerely，Li Anling

The advantages of using the third person: There seems to be no direct relationship in the essay between the writer and addressee, thus fading that special relationship, and there also seems to be less respect, thus making it close but not to be extreme.Happiness in my mind

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From my standpoint, happiness is a special feeling which comes from the bottom of heart for a certain reason.It is just a kind of state existing between the materialistic world and the spiritual world.Surely it is more a process than an outcome.It is exactly the process of pursuing the dream we desire for that makes it much more precious for our soul, which would otherwise remain plain as a tranquil lake, dull without any ripple.When it comes to happiness, some conceive that material is a necessity.But I am inclined to that certain material only can meet one’s demand to some extent, or rather it is just an extra one.As is widely acknowledged: a millionaire may encounter frustrating occasions in his life;while a beggar can gain happiness over his lunch food.Common as it is, it is food not only for the mouth but also for the soul, and it is best bestowal for the beggar to meet his need.Happiness, as everyone desires for, is a natural feeling that can be come across by luck, but seldom be pursued with some purpose.That is to say, happiness just takes its own course without considering one’s subjective will.But it does not appear so bad an incident for our human beings;at least, we can imagine some wonderful situations by adding our own feeling to them.Actually, it matters little whether this way will work or not, for it is just an approach to make one feel delighted.There are various ways to gain happiness if we like and keep up a positive attitude.It does not matter where you come from and what you will be.All you need to do is to find the potential happiness with your sensitive eyes.For example, we can obtain happiness from the scene when we are sitting around the table and enjoying a big meal together with our family members;we can acquire happiness by helping a blind man cross the bustling street;we also can get happy from the time when we are accompanied by the one we love.All in all, happiness is all around our daily life, it depends on your capacity to discover it.Happiness is to human beings what sunshine is to flowers.The flowers become more beautiful with gentle sunshine on.As with our human beings, our life would have been meaningless if there were not happiness existing as an emotional style.After all, happiness has played a crucial role in strengthening the relationship among people.In a nutshell, happiness has highlighted our life in different ways.To be in the elder’s company is like reading thick book of deluxe edition that fascinates one so much as to be reluctant to part with;to come across an old friend is like tasting a fragrant wine that includes colorful memories of the old days;to be in a subtle longing to someone is like enjoying a silent drama that covers various sides of life;to receive a humane look is like showering in gentle sunshine that will warm heart deeply;to be in the smile of the kind eyes is like walking in breeze wind that will encourage one strongly.All of those are indispensable elements forming the happiness.As we can see from the above, they are just casual daily life that can happen even beyond your expectation.It is your effort that really matters if you want to go along with it.To conclude, whatever else happiness may be, it is neither in having nor in being, but in becoming through your own effort to overcome difficulties in your life.Only by this way can one enjoy a successful career as well as a harmonious “FAMILY” life, and then true happiness will be surely in his mind.母爱—萦绕心头的一缕阳光

题记：在众多的爱别之中，我最喜欢母亲的爱

每当忆起母亲，总会有一种莫名的感觉漫不经心地爬上心头，些许的留恋，些许的思念，但更多的是对她深沉的爱的感激。正是母亲那份无所索取﹑默默奉献的爱是我在成长的道路上得以顺利行进。在生活中，它不仅给了我在逆境中战胜困难的勇气，而且使我明白了事在人为的道理。

在日常的家庭生活中，母亲是个精准的时间打理者。她总会在适当的时机把儿女及家人的所需准备妥当，尤其是在天气突然转变这方面，母亲的感知能力绝不逊色于天气预报的科学预测。即使有时倔强的我们会极力反对母亲的建议，体贴的她仍然会在我们最需要她的时候及时出现，无论刮风下雨，酷暑严寒。相对于我们有意或无意的冷漠的拒绝母亲关心的自私心理，母亲那孜孜不倦的爱显得多么高尚啊﹗家中的一切在母亲那勤劳而智慧的双手下各就各位，而家庭了的其他成员则尽情享受着一切各司其职的特权。无需多问，你曾经落在荒郊野外的玩具小车仍藏匿于你经常光顾的“车库”里；你用了n年之久的挎包已悄然变成了你盼望已久的背包了；你昨天刚换洗的衬衣正焕然一新的酣睡于衣柜。在生活中，母亲就是这样一个关怀无微不至、体贴无处不在的锐利形象。井井有条的室内布置，周到热情的服务是母亲在这个平凡的家庭中所承担的最基本的任务，而她却做出了令人骄傲的业绩。毕竟，我们现在都已长大成人，并且拥有母爱所传递的做人准则。

在日常的开支方面，母亲又是一个出色的钱财管理者，她小心谨慎的进行着每天的柴、米、油、盐的预算。也许财务的数目并不可观，但母亲总是以一种满足的心态毫无怨言地继续着那份自已娴熟的职业。或许是习惯了的缘故，母亲在生活开支方面的管理能力，在

某种程度上可以和当代的财务工作者相匹敌。只是少了些巨额钱财的管理而已，但却多了一份精打细算。小到每顿饭的支出，大至家电器材的购置，母亲无不发挥着她超强的预算能力。每当遭遇家中经济短缺的时候，母亲总能从前期的工作经验中总结出应对的措施：或者是上个月的预留款，或者是亲戚朋友的舶来品，这些总能帮助家人度过困难时期，并迎来新的希望。其中，母亲自如的应对发挥着无可替代的作用。小时候，总以为母亲是个苛刻的形象，我盼望已久的一顶帽子直到下雪的前夕才温暖到我的心头，看到有些委屈的我，母亲也流露出了淡淡的无奈。生活毕竟如此，诚然我应该感谢那时的生活，正是其时的那些人和事成就了母爱中最辉煌的人性之美，而作为生活经营者的母亲更值得讴歌。

母亲的文化程度度并不高，但和同时代的人相比，母亲却是幸运的。小学四年级没毕业的她，迫于无奈，只得留在家中。但她从未有过半点怨言。有时她竟在我们面前夸耀自已在上学时取得的优异成绩，虽然那些成绩在现在看来并不显著，但母亲仍然乐此不疲，颇像天真的孩童一样，留恋着充满欢乐的童年趣事。母亲熟谙教育的重要性。作为一个受教育程度不高的母亲，她从未放松过对我们学习的管理。她常常鼓励我们努力学习，因为只有这样才能走出农村，去城市打拼另一片新天地。当时母亲的思想开放程度实在令她的同龄人吃惊。当别人都在忙于田间劳作的时候，母亲却不忘监督我们的学习，生怕我们在学习上会落后于他人。能够有一个思想如此超前的母亲，实在是值得骄傲的事。

母亲是乐观的。面对生活中不行的遭遇时，或许是饱经风霜的缘故，母亲显得分外坦然，无所畏惧。而勇敢接受现实的挑战是她多年来从实践中总结出来的杀手锏。一直以来，母亲秉乘方法比问题多的解决方针，当遇到相当棘手的问题时，从多个角度全面分析，以寻求解决问题的最佳途径。这样一来，母亲便能权衡大局利弊，从中选择最佳方法。在这方面，母亲既拥有分析问题的素材，又有自主抉择的权利，其权威性绝不亚于一个专业的政府官员。事实上，这些丰富的素材和应有的权利进一步充实了母亲乐观的性格，当然对我们的成长也起到了一定的指导作用。

现今处于花甲之年的母亲，仍然在辛勤的经营着那份属于自已的工作，怡然自得。由于相距甚远，我与母亲相聚的机会自然也就少了很多，而我对她的思念却与日俱增，越来越强烈。孤独寂寞的时候，会想起母亲讲述故事的温馨场景；面对困难时，母亲鼓励的话语会时常萦绕在耳畔；失望伤感时，忆起母亲的乐观会给我重新振作起来的勇气。然而，时光荏苒，岁月无情，一并在她曾经潇洒飘逸的黑发间种下了丝丝白发，在那一度娇艳的容颜上留下了深深的皱纹，同时也留下了根本就无法带走的那份对儿女及家人默默付出的执着。那些虽然一纵即逝却湿润我双眸的份份感念，那些纵然久远亦不能淡忘的阙阙故事都会在心中渐渐累积，渐渐沉淤成最凝重、最美丽、最隽永的回忆，任岁月侵蚀，心境变迁，它却历久弥新，永葆着那份独特而清雅的余韵，散发着怡人芬芳。

在成长的道路上，是母亲轻挽着我们的小手，给我们以前进的动力；在心智成熟的过程中，是母亲用金钥匙为我们打开了通往智慧的大门，使我们领悟到心灵深处那种伊始的触动；在成功的旅途中，是母亲独具前瞻性的见解为我们塑造了一个美好而灿烂的未来。

因此，在众多的爱别之中，我最喜欢母亲的爱，不止为那平凡的伟大，也不止为那无言的深沉，更为了那不经意间的一个喷嚏对心灵的触动与震颤。值此母亲节来临之际，让我们重温FAMILY的旧梦，拾掇母爱的的点点滴滴，共同将其珍藏于心灵的伊甸园，共同祝愿所有为人母的女性健康快乐、永远幸福。

﹡FAMILY一层意思为Father And Mother I Love You, 也为其意本身：家庭。

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I am glad to write something to you to show my gratitude.With no other intention in mind, I mainly want to keep in touch with you.After all, this is the last P.E.class that is assigned to our sophomore students.Some wonderful memories are worth recalling anyway.I do not regret choosing your class at all;instead, I feel much honored to have been with you during the class and learned something extra as well.As a matter of fact, I did not attend any formal physical education before I come to college.The only informal one that I attended was assigned to our class in 2003.Strict as the teacher was, he scolded students who did not do as he taught to with a loud voice, and he even hit them hard.His “unique”style really impressed me deeply.Yet, thinking of his stiff face, I will still be quivering with fear.I had thought we would have more access to physical education before I went to senior high middle school.To my disappointment, due to the fierce competition pressure from among schools, the school government did not considering arranging that sort of class at all.Their main concern was the number of high scores.Therefore, under that circumstance, my interest in physical education had faded, only leaving an unconscious conception of outdoor activity.This is why I did not like physical education class until your appearance.As with another three P.E.teachers in university, they are also good with their own character, but it is just you that make me have some passion for the class.Good fortune just brought you to be my last semester P.E.teacher without any notice in advance.Believe it or not, before the activity of selecting course, I had intended to play softball.But as it turned out the course of softball had conflict with my other required courses.With so many courses around, I really had no idea of what to choose and whose course to take.Finally，I selected health care with curiosity and memorized the name of the teacher and the number of the classroom at random.It can not be denied that the unintentionally meeting is that fate has designed for each other intentionally.This is exactly what you call as luck.Approachable as you, you seldom get angry in our class, I reckon it is the sufficient patience that enable s you to keep a positive attitude when it comes to teaching students.But as yourself, you only keep disappointment in your own heart and just show subtle helplessness

through your eyes.Being the person in your favorite job, I think you will not have any difficulty while coping with that sort of mental effect.The most impressive character is the way you tell your life experience when we are taking a break.With kind voice and a multivariate（多变的）facial expression, you make the classroom filled with laughter when you refer to something interesting.After entering college, I find a fact that there are few teachers smoking in public, but the number of smoking students takes up a large proportion.What is worse, some students should smoke in the dormitory.Bad phenomenon as it may be, it can not be eliminated.My attitude toward smoking varies from season to season.Smoking in winter can create a relatively warm atmosphere;while smoking in summer in the public place can disturb others psychologically and leave an ungraceful image on others.As far as I am concerned, smoking itself will not do any good to our health.Here just talk about my attitude to smoking, no suggestion for you.After all, it is none of my business.(Indeed this comment is not responsible at all.)in other people’view, we are just passerby to each other in life, but as for me, I have experienced an unforgettable experience.Special as you are, you show a peaceful mentality and no hauteur at all.I learned that the quality of a person will match his or her title to a large extent;the position one hold indeed can reflect his or her capability.It is none of others but your heart that makes a real you presenting in our class.Ok, just end here and contact later.If the paper were of function in recording your expressions which would soon be sent back when you are reading, that would be fairly good.No special meaning;just say“cheese”with a causal mind.Sorry to take up some of your time.Yours sincerely，Li Anling

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The Second Thought on Band-4

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Having been away from writing English composition for almost three month, now I find it difficulty to start, only leaving a blink mind wandering.Indeed, I do not have any certain feeling after Band-4, what I actually have is subtle luck.As I did not take this Band-4 seriously before its coming, sometimes I even escaped the compulsory course of English course, thinking that I had enough confidence in passing it, and all of those led to my failure in finish the Band-4 test paper.After the exam, though I knew in my deep heart that I could pass it anyway, I felt kind of shameful in my former teachers’presence.To make matters worse, I even told him that I did not want to the class without any formal excuse, but he should accept my request and advise me to memorize some sample composition of Band-4.Whether his advice was taken seriously was not of importance.It is the fact that I had got something(like advice)from him beyond my expectation that delighted me most.To my contentment, after a long time waiting, I finally got my score of Band-4.It is an excellent one, at least I think it like this in my mind, perhaps just as I had expected before the answers to it came.While contacting with him, he made no remark but sincere compliment on it.I had intended to get some advice from him with scores of every part, but I had not received it yet, perhaps he did not care for it at all, or it was my fault that I failed to use a directly way to chat with him.Actually, I have little sense of the relationship between teacher and student.Though I have told myself many times not to be shy while coping with the relationship, I do not manage it just because I attach too much traditional factors to it.As a matter of fact, there is no need for me to feel embarrassed.As a test throughout the whole nation, the Band-4 exam has taken on fair as well as authoritative.Given the fact that different areas have diverse level of language, its difficulty in paper has to be strictly considered.In terms of myself, I find it easy to pass it, but only one o my roommates passed it with a satisfactory score.To my surprise, our dormitory was not the worst one, which was really a confusing thing.As for my roommates, every one had his own goal, but they all expected to pass it after painful work.Unfortunately, good luck turned against them;perhaps they did not find a proper way while learning English.Now looking back on the old days we had spent together, I find that not everyone’s hard work is paid off.In my opinion, what really matters in the situation is one’s attitude and way of study.First of all, in order to learn English well, one can make a plan for his

study, in which case he can go on his work regularly.Second one must have persistent effort to fight to the end.Last but not the least important, one can find a soul mate who can offer useful guidance so that he can go through this relatively lonely period.This is a really useful suggestion.As we all know, long-lasting learning is monotonous and it is usually inevitable for us to encounter unexpected difficulties.But if we have a soul mate who can offer the shoulder to us to rest our exhausted head, we will get encouraged so that we can refresh ourselves from ever frustration and gain confidence in advancing against difficulty.To be frank, thanks to one of my sincere soul mates, I have passed this test without any extra hurting in both physical condition and mind.If memory serves me correctly, I did come across some puzzling problems and it is exactly my soul mate that helped me out of those hard times.In a nutshell, one’s soul mate really plays an important role in his journey to success.Writing aimlessly, I myself even can not figure out what I have already written.There do some truths as well as off-truths exist in the composition.SB PV WYCM

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When I came across such a title in a book of Chinese version, I felt it necessary for me to write something of my own to illustrate my viewpoint.Here just write in English in case of accuracy explanation.As a matter of fact, I am for the viewpoint, but in everyday life I am experiencing, I always try to avoid being helped or accept any kind of offer from others by instinct, even though I know for myself that they will feel sort of embarrassed.I am just reluctant to ask for help for fear of owing them something.Actually, this situation can not be all to blame for me, and the growing atmosphere in my previous years has already separated me from a pretty large group.Besides, we are of different channel just as a TV set can broadcast diverse programs, which do not have direct connection.Perhaps we have no universal language at all.In a word, I have been out of date for that special relationship.I can sense the hurt of being deserted for my indifference to the help from others.In reality, human resource has taken up a large proportion in our society when it comes to accomplishing a certain work.Without proper human resource, you even can not finish one task completely.While as for me, I would rather take trouble to do things in myself than ask for a hand for others.I seldom take any junk food from my roommates and friends, not that I do not like to eat them.Gradually, my bad manners hurt many persons around;though declining others is not my initial motivation.The impression I left upon others shows that I was a man with who is hard to get along.As a result, I have fades out of the mortal society in a way.A person is surely not of his own world.When I had some achievements, I suddenly found that there is nit anyone else to congratulate on my luck, and share happiness with me.Eying around, I even could not find a stranger passing by.I felt extremely sorrowful, and a sense of unprecedented loneliness covered all my heart.As a consequence, I reckoned it is not essential for me to stick to fighting anyway.No meaning at all if there was not any

encouragement existing.The author of the essay explains as this: someone just there for being used;you can not decline an offer with no excuse at all.If someone needs a help, you should probably offer one on condition that you can help it.Otherwise, how the relationship between people can be strengthened?

It suddenly occurs to me that no one would like to become friends with one who hold no interest in others help.So I try to change within my ability.I try to accept others help with a good grace;if there is no one would like to help, I will find someone to offer some advice initiatively.Only by owing something to others can I get some human smell on me.In our life, someone indeed just is there for being used.It is not the someone that plays a key role in the process, but a you with some initiative character that matters.☆The happiest people do not necessarily have the best of everything;they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.Maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but we often look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling that it was the best conversation you ever had.It is true that we do not know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we do not know what we have bee n missing until it arrives.Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love back!Do not expect love in return;just wail for it to grow in their heart but if it does not, be content it grew in yours.It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it probably takes a lifetime to forget someone.Do not go for looks, they can deceive.Do not go for wealth, even that fades away.Go for someone who makes you smile because it only takes a smile to wake a day seem bright.Find the one that make your heart smile.There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!Dream what you want to dream;go where you want to go;be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.Always put yourself in others’ shoes.If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.The happiest people do not necessary have the best if everything;they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ended with a tear.The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can not go on well in life until you let go of your failures and headaches.When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.Live your life so that when you die, you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you was smiling.Please send this message to those people who mean something to you, to have touches your life in one way or another, to those who make you smile when you really need it, to those that make you see the brighter sides of thing s when you are really down, to those who you want them know that you appreciate their friendship.And if you do not, do not worry, nothing bad will happen to you, you will just miss out the opportunity to brighten someone’s day with this message.☆ 最幸福的人未必拥有全部最好的东西，他们只是能最大程度地利用生活所赋予的一切。

也许，上帝希望我们在遇到适合自己的人之前，总会遇到一些不适合自己的人，这样，在最终找到适合自己的人的时候，我们就会心存感激，并将其看做天赐福祉。

当一扇幸福之门关闭的时候，另一扇幸福之门就会打开，但是，我们往往长久的凝望着那扇已经关上的门，而没有看见那扇已经打开的门。

如果有一个人与你心情愉快的坐在门廊里，然后没说一句话就走了，但当他离开后，你却感觉你们之间仿佛有过平生最美妙的交谈，那么这个人就是你最好的朋友。

凡事都是失去以后才知道珍惜；同样地，不曾拥有，也就不知有所缺憾。

爱别人并不意味着一定得到对方的爱！不要期待爱的报答，要期待爱在对方心中的滋长，如果没有实现的话，那就让爱常驻你心吧！对一个人产生好感只需要一分钟，喜欢上一个人需要一个小时，爱上一个人需要一天，而忘记一个人却需要漫长的一生。

不要追求容貌，那是骗人的。别去追逐财富，那最终会烟消云散。去寻找那些能使你绽放笑容的人吧！因为只有欢笑才能给黑暗的日子带来光明。找一个能博你开心一笑的人吧！

在我们的生命中，有时你是如此的思念一个人以至于你希望他们能从梦境中跳出来，带让你实实在在地去拥抱。

梦你想梦之梦，去你想去之地，做你想做之人吧！因为你只有一次生命和一次机会去做自己想做的事情。

愿你：因拥有幸福而可爱，因经历考验而坚强，因体验悲哀而善良，因怀抱希望而幸福。

设身处地为别人着想。如果你觉得受到了伤害，对方恐怕也觉得如此。

最幸福的人未必拥有全部最好的东西，他们只是能够最大程度的利用生活所赋予的一切。

幸福亲睐那些哭过、伤过、追寻过并且努力过的人们，因为只有他们才懂得珍惜曾经影响过自己生命的人。

爱以笑开始，以吻而深厚，却以泪收场。最光明的未来往往建立在忘记过去的基础上，只有当你让过去的失败与伤痛随风而逝时，才能更好的生活下去。

当你出生的时候，你不停的哭泣，而周围的人都在笑。好好的度过你的一生，这样当你死去时，你可以面带微笑，尽管周围的人在为你哭泣。

请将本文传递给那些对你来说很重要的人，那些以这样或那样的方式影响你生活的人，那些在你需要时带给你欢笑的人，那些在你失落时让你看到光明的人，那些你渴望结交并成为挚友的人。如果你还没有这样做，也不用担心，在你的身上不会发生任何糟糕的事情，你只是错过了用这篇美文让别人的日子变得更美好的机会。

1．Swing 摇动，摇摆 2．Sorrow 悲伤，忧伤 3．Assurance 确定，确保 4．Trial 试验，测试 5．Deceive 欺骗

Not Just a Mom

★ Being a mom is the greatest of all sorts of joys.A woman named Emily renewing her driver‵s license at the County Clerk office was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.“What I mean is,”explained the recorder, “Do you have a job, or you just a …” “Of course I have a job,”snapped Emily.“I am a mother.”

“We do not list mother as an occupation…housewife covers it”said the recorder emphatically.I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall.The clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like,“Official Interrogator” or “Town Registrar.” “What is your occupation? she probed.What made me say it, I do not know.The words simply popped out.“I am a research associate in the field of child development and human relations.” he clerk posed, ballpoint pen frozen in midair, and looked up as though she had not heard right.I repeated the title slowly, emphasizing the most significant words.Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire.“Might I ask,”said the clerk with new interest,“just what do you do in your field? ”

Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself replied,“I have a continuing program of research, in the laboratory and in the field.I am working for my master, and already have four credits.Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities and I often work 14 hours a day.But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.”

There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk‟s voice as she completed the form，stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.As I drive into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants—aged 13,7,and 3.Upstairs I could hear out new experimental model, in the child-development program, testing out a new vocal pattern.I felt triumphant!I had scored a beat on bureaucracy!And I had gone on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensible to mankind than“just another mother”.Motherhood … what a glorious career!Especially when there is a title on the door.Does this make grandmother“Senior Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relation”and great grandmother“Executive Senior Research Associate”? I think so！!

I also think it makes Aunts“Associate Research Assistants”.不仅仅是一位妈妈

★做一名母亲是福中之福，了中之乐。

一位名叫艾米丽的妇女到郡办公室办理驾照延期时，女登记员问她的职业。她犹豫了，拿不准自己属于哪一类。

“我的意思是你有没有工作，或者说你是个……”女登记员解释道。“我当然有工作，”艾米丽急忙说，“我是一个母亲。”

“我们不把„母亲‟看做职业……你应该填„家庭主妇‟，”登记员强调说。

要不是有一天在我们自己的市政厅，在我的身上发生了同样的事情，那位女士的遭遇几乎让我给忘了。那儿得职员是一位职业的女性，举止稳重、训练有素，有着类似“官方询问员”或“镇登记员”那样响亮的名头。“你的职业？”她询问道。

我为什么会这么说，连我自己都不知道，这句回答简直就是脱口而出，“我是儿童发展与人类关系研究员”。

那名办事员顿了一下，圆珠笔停在了半空，她抬起头来好像没听清楚。

我又慢慢的重复了我的职业，并强调了最重要的几个词。然后好奇地看着她用粗黑的墨水将我说的话写在了官方的调查问卷上。

“请问您在哪个领域具体是做什么的？”那名职员饶有兴趣的问。

我镇定自若、毫不慌乱的说：“我在实验室里或现场从事持续性的项目研究。我为获得学位而努力工作，并且以获得四学分。当然，这项工作是人文学科中要求最高的，我通常一天工作14个小时。然而，这项工作比许多普通工作更具有挑战性，而且我所得到的回报与其说是金钱不如说是一种满足感。”

那名办事员填完了表格，话里也多了些敬意，她起身亲自把我送到门口。

那响亮的新头衔使我飘飘然起来。车开到家门前的车道上，我的实验室助理出来迎接我，他们分别是13岁、7岁和3岁。楼上，儿童发展项目的新实验对象正在测试一种新的发音模式。

我深感得意。我给了当局有利一击！我，被看作一位从事着对人类来说比“仅作母亲”更不可缺少的、更重要的职业的人被登记在官方档案上。

母亲--多么光荣的职业！特别是当它已经有一个官方称谓的时候。

那么，是否祖母就是“儿童发展与人类关系资深研究员”，曾祖母是“高级研究员”？我想，那是确定无疑的！！

我想姑姑、婶婶、姨妈、舅妈等也可称为“助理研究员”。

I hope

★Happiness is goodness.But how? Grandpa knew more here.We tried hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse.For my grandchild, I would know better.I would really like for them to know hand-me-down clothes and home-made ice cream and left-over meatloaf.I really would.My cherished grandson, I hope you learn humility by surviving failure and that you learn to be honest when no one is looking.I hope you learn to make your bed and mow the lawn and wash the car—and I hope nobody gives you brand-new car when you are sixteen.It will be good if at least one time you can see a baby calf born, and you have a good friend to be with you if you ever have to put your old dog to sleep.I hope you get a black eye fighting for something you believe in.I hope you have to share a bedroom with you younger brother.And it is all right to draw a line down the middle of the room, but when he wants to crawl under the covers with you because he is scared, I hope you will let him.And when you want to see a Disney movie and your kid brother wants to tag along, I hope you take him.I hope you have to walk uphill with your friends and that you live in a town where you can do it safely.If you want a slingshot, I hope your father teach you how to make one instead of buying one.I hope you learn to dig in the dirt and read books, and when you learn to use computers, you also learn how to add and subtract in your head.I hope you get razzed by friends when you have your first crush in a girl, and that you when you talk back your mother you learn what Ivory soap tastes like.May you skin your knee climbing a mountain, burn your hand on the stove and stick your tongue on a frozen flagpole.I hope you get sick when someone blows smoke in your face.I do not care if you try beer once, but I hope you will not like it.And if a friend offers you a joint or any drugs, I hope you are smart enough to realize that person is not your friend.I sure hope you make time to sit on a porch with your grandpa or go fishing with your uncle.I hope your mother will punishes you when you throw a baseball through a neighbor‟s window, and that she hugs you and kisses you when you give her a plaster of pared mold of your hand.Those things I wish for you--tough times and disappointment, hard work and happiness.希望

1.幸福本是仁慈。怎样获得幸福，爷爷知道的更多。

我们辛辛苦苦的努力，想让孩子们过上更好的生活，可结果却适得其反。我知道什么才是对子孙们有益的。

我想让他们知道什么是上一辈传下来的衣服，什么是自制冰激凌，什么是吃剩的肉块。我一定会那样做。

我的宝贝孙子啊，我希望你能经历失败，并从中学会谦虚，而且在没人看见的情况下你也能做到诚实。

我希望你学着自己铺床、叠被、剪草和洗车。同时，我还希望没人会在你16岁时就送你新车。

如果你能看到小牛犊出生，哪怕一次也好；当你不得不帮一只老狗解脱时，我希望能有好友与你相伴。

我希望你能为自己的信念而奋斗，哪怕结果是鼻青脸肿。

我希望你能和弟弟睡在一个屋里，在卧室里划分一条分界线也没关系，可是，当他害怕的想躲进你的被窝时，我希望你能让他如愿。

我希望当地地缠着想和你一起去迪士尼看电影时，你能爽快的带上他。

我希望你能跟朋友一起去登山，而且我希望你能住一个小镇中，在那里你们可以安全的进行这类活动。

我希望当你想玩弹弓时，你父亲能教你做一个，而不是去买。我希望但你学着在土里挖土的时候，也能学着读书；当你学着使用电脑的时候，也能学着用心算来加减乘除。

我希望当你第一次对女孩有好感的时候，你会被朋友们的起哄弄得面红耳赤，而当你和妈妈顶嘴的时候，你会领教象牙肥皂的滋味。

我希望你登山时膝盖擦破点皮烤火是炉子灼一下你的手舔旗杆时冰冷的旗杆粘一

下你的舌头。

我希望当别人抽烟的时候你会觉得反感。我不在乎你偶尔喝点啤酒，但是我希望你不会喜欢上它。还有。当朋友给你一些大麻烟或毒品时，我希望你能够拥有一双火眼金睛，看清她不是你真正的朋友。

我当然希望你能够抽出时间陪爷爷聊天或者跟叔叔钓鱼。

我希望当你将棒球投进邻居的窗户时，你母亲会惩罚你；然而，当你将自己的手模送给她时，她会拥抱并亲吻你。

我希望上天能赐予你—艰难和失望，拼搏和幸福。

On Meeting the Celebrated

I have always wondered at the passion many people have to meet the celebrated.The prestige you acquire by being able to tell your friends that you know men proves only that you are yourself of small account.The celebrated develop a technology to deal with persons they come across, they show the world a mask, often an impressive one, but take care to conceal their real selves.They play the part that is expected from them, and with practice they learn to play it very well, but you are stupid enough if you think that this public performance of theirs corresponds with the man within.I have been attached, deeply attached, to a few people;but I have been interested in men in general not for their own sakes, but for the sake of my work.I have not, as Kant enjoined, regarded each man as an end in himself, but as a material that might be useful to me as a writer.I have been more concerned with the obscure than with the famous.They are more of themselves.They have had no need to create a figure to protect themselves from the world or to impress it.Their idiosyncrasies have had more chance to develop in the limited circle of their activity, and since they have never in the public eye it has never occurred to them that they have anything to conceal.They display their oddities because it has never struck them that they are odd.And after all it is with the common run of men we writer have to deal;kings, dictators, commercial magnates are from our point of view very unsatisfactory.To writer about them is a venture that has often tempted writers, but the failure that has attended their efforts shows that such beings are too exceptional to form a proper ground for a work of art.They can not be made real.The ordinary is the writer‟s richer field.Its unexpectedness, its singularity, its infinite variety afford unending material.The great man is too often all of a piece;it is the little man that is a bundle of contradictory elements.He is inexhaustible.You never come to the end of the surprises he has in store for you.For my part I would much sooner spend a month on desert island with a veterinary surgeon than with a prime minister.1.magnates

大资本家，巨头，富豪，要人 2.singularity

单一，异常，奇异，奇妙，稀有 3.inexhaustible 无穷无尽的

4.veterinary 兽医

与名人见面

我总想弄明白为什么许多人热衷于见名人。告诉朋友你认识某个名人，由此而来的声望只能证明你自己微不足道。

名人个个练就了一套处事高招，无论遇上谁，都能应对自如。他们给世人展现的是一副面具，常常是美好而难忘的面具，但他们会小心翼翼的遮盖自己的真相。他们扮演的是大家期待的角色，演得多了，最后都能演的惟妙惟肖。如果你认为他们在公众面前的表演就是他们真实的自我，那你就太傻了。

我自己就喜欢一些人，非常喜欢他们。但一般来说，我对人感兴趣不是因为他们自身的缘故，而是出于我的工作需要。正如康的劝告的那样，我从来没把认识某人当作目的，而是将其当作对一个作家有用的素材。比之名流之士，我更加关注无名小卒。他们常常显得较为自然真实，他们无需再创造另一个人物形象，用它来保护自已不收拾人干扰，或者用它去感动世人。他们的社交圈子有限，自己的种种癖性也就越有可能滋长，因为他们从没引起公众的关注，也就从来没有想到过要隐瞒什么。他们会表露他们古怪的一面，因为他们从来没有觉得有任何古怪。总之作家要写的是普通人。在我们看来，国王、独裁者和商界大亨等都是不符合条件的。

去撰写这些人物经常是作家难以抗拒的冒险之举，可为此付出的努力不免以失败告终，这说明这些人物过于特殊，无法成为一件艺术作品的创作根基，作家也不可能把他们写的真真切切。老百姓才是作家创作的沃土，他们或变化无常，或难觅其二，各式人物应有尽有，这些都给作家提供了无限的创作素材。大人物经常是千人一面，小人物身上才有一组组矛盾元素，是取之不尽的创作源泉，让你惊喜不断。就我而言，如果在孤岛上度过一个月，我宁愿和一名兽医相守，也不愿统一为首相做伴。

The important things in life

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or what you want to become.You never know who these people may be—a roommate, a neighbor, a professor, a friend, a lover or even a complete stranger—but when you lock your eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.Without those small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere.It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.Even the bad experiences can be learned from.In fact, they are sometimes the most important ones.If someone love you, give love back to them in whatever way you can, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.If someone hurts you, betrays you, or break your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.Make every day count.Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and listen to what they have to say.Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sight high.Hold your head up because you have every right to.Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you do not believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.You can make anything you wish of your life.Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.And if you love someone, just tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store for you.一生中要紧的事

有时，一旦有人走入你的生命，你就会立刻明白他们本来就在那里，要么达成某种目的，给予你处事的道理；要么帮助你认清你自已；要么帮你实现理想。

你永远不知道这些人会是谁—一位室友，一位邻居，一位友人，一位情人或者是位陌生人—然而当你闭上眼睛想起他们时，那一刻，你会明白他们在某些方面深深地影响着你的生活。

有时，发生在你身上的事情首先看起来有点可怕，有点痛苦甚至还有点不公，而你反省之后，你会发现不克服这些障碍，也意识不到自己的潜力、实力、毅力还有心地。

疾病，伤害，爱情，那些逝去的真正伟大的时刻，以及种种愚蠢行为都可以验证你灵魂的底线。无论这些小小的测验是什么，没有它们，生活就像一条平坦的大道，伸向没有终极的目标。它可能安全舒适，却枯燥乏味，完全没有，意义。

在你的人生中，那些你遇见过的影响你生活的人，以及你所经历的大起大落，都会帮助你创造自己，实现自己。你甚至可以从那些糟糕的经历中学到东西。实际上，它们有时会成为你人生中最重要的经历。

如果有人爱你，无论你用何种方式，一定要投桃报李；不仅仅因为他们爱

你，而且因为他们教你怎样去爱，怎样敞开你的心扉，开阔你的视野。

如果有人背叛了你，伤害了你，或者伤了你的心，原谅他们，因为他们帮助你学会了信任，学会了对一个人敞开心扉时要谨慎小心。

让每一天都有价值，珍惜每一时刻，尽可能从那些时光中有所收获，因为这些经历你可能不会再重复。和那些你往日没有讲过话的人交流，听听他们的心声。

让自己陷入爱的涡旋之后从中解脱，然后放远眼光。你应该昂头挺胸，对自己充满信心，因为你有权利这样做。要从内心告诉自己你是一位了不起的人，并相信自己，如若你自己不相信自己，也很难让他人来相信你。

你可以按照自己的愿望生活。创造你自己的人生，按照你自己设计的方式毫无遗憾的度过。如果你爱上某个人，就告诉他，因为你永远不知道明天等待你的是什么。

我们这个时代的尴尬

我们的房屋在扩大，家庭却在缩小；生活越来越便利，时间却越来越少；学位证书越拿越多，基本常识却愈加匮乏；知识越来越丰富，判断力却日趋迟钝；专家越来越多，问题却也日益增加；药物越吃越多，健康却每况愈下。

我们花钱太鲁莽，笑容太少，车开得太快，太容易动怒，熬夜太晚，起床时太累，书读得太少，电视看得太勤，祷告做得太少。

我们不断敛聚物质财富，却逐渐丢失了自我价值。我们说的太多，爱的太少，谎言泛滥。我们掌握了谋生手段，却不懂得生活的真谛；我们不断的延年益寿，却没有为生命注入新的活力。

我们的房子越筑越高，脾气却越来越糟；我们行驶的道路越来越宽阔，眼光却越来越狭隘。我们付出很多，可获得的很少；我们购买了很多，可从中得到乐趣却很少。

我们能够往返于地球和月球之间，却不愿意穿过马路向邻居问好。我们已经征服太空，却无法与于内心的鸿沟；我们已经让原子分裂，却不能突破思想偏见；我们写的很多，可学到的很少；计划很多，可完

成的很少。

我们学会了追赶时间，却没学会耐心等待；我们拥有的财富越来越多，道德品质却日益沦丧，我们生产更多的电脑用于储存更多的信息和制造更多的拷贝，而相互间的交流却越来越少。我们渴求数量，却忽视了质量。

这是一个快餐食品与消化迟缓相伴的时代；一个体格高大和性格病态共存的时代；一个追名逐利和人情冷漠相生的时代。我们的休闲多了，乐趣缺少了；食品种类多了，营养缺失了；双薪家庭增加了，离婚率也激升了；局势的装饰华丽了，家庭却残缺破碎了。

Glad to chat with you From the first communication between us several days ago, I found that you are a man with kindness and consideration.I do not want to learn much about your background;after all, I have received concrete and all-aspects advice of everyday life, which I did not expect at all when I got you in the list of my“good-friends”.You should chat with me via voice-media, I do not mean that I dislike it here.To be honest, you are the first person that talked with me on the internet via voice-media since I bought the computer.Perhaps it is easier for you to chat through the voice-media than press the keys on the keyboard, as you have copious materials and life experiences, which make you a talkative man.As with myself, I reckon I have more time to think what I will say while pressing the keys, and in this way, too long interval between our talks seems to be avoided.Similarly, I do not think it(by pressing the keys)is good way to communicate either.Though the internet itself is filled with unreality, you have fostered a favorite image in my deep heart.Perhaps you are the leading man that helps me go to the right direction when I am at sea.OK, that is all.Thank you forever!

Yours sincerely

Li Anling

杂论随谈

1.Subtle friendship is true;subtle greetings are enough;subtle love is tender;subtle longing is deep;subtle wishes come from the bottom of my heart.2.I am not sure what it is that keeps me from approaching you to some extent, the wisdom you hold, or the fear in my heart, or some other objective facts.As a matter of fact, I have not meant to put you to so much trouble for the moment.I just want to keep in touch with you and know that it would be nobody else but you when I dial a certain telephone number.Perhaps that is what I have been longing for a long time.At the same time, as with strangers from different backgrounds, I do not expect much consideration from you, though it probably would not take you much time to offer me some necessary help when I actually need it.But on the other hand, all we see about your performance during the class is only the aspect of work, whether it is the real one of another you which I reckon can best reflect your certain quality does not account for much, after all, I have experienced some of your attitude to work and communication.3.Do not Wait till the Flowers out of Bloom

We often trap ourselves in a contradictory situation: we are willing to cherish those beloved or liked around us, but we also find excuse to wait till next day or time for them.However, one day when we are saddened to learn their disappearance, we realize that god do give us time to love, to care, to transplant them into our beautiful memories, but we miss the blossom.4.Two Truths to Live by

The art of living is to know when to hold fast and when to let go.For life is a paradox: it enjoins us to cling to its many gifts even while it ordain their eventual relinquishment.The rabbis of old put it this way: “A man comes to this world with this world with his fist clenched, but when he dies, his hand is open.5.The Difference Between Love and Like In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster, But in front of the person you like, you get happy.In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring

But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile

In front of the person you love, you can‟t say everything on your mind But in front of the person you like, you can

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy

But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self The person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes You can‟t look straight into the eyes of the one you love But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like

When the one you love is crying, you cry with them But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting The feeling of love starts from the eye And the feeling of like starts from the ear

So if you stop liking a person you used to like All you need to do is cover you ears But if you try to close you eyes

Love turns into a teardrop and remains in your heart forever after.6.When Love Beckons You

作者：纪伯伦

You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.When love beckons you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep.And when his wings enfold you, yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.north wind lays waste the garden.For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.But if, in your fear, you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears, love gives naughtbut itself and takes naught but from itself, love possesses not, nor would it be possessed, for love is sufficient unto love.Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.But if you love and have desires, let these be your desires:

To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.To know the pain of too much understanding of love.And to bleed willingly and joyfully.To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;

To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;

To return home at eventide with gratitude;

And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart.当爱挥手召唤你时，跟随着它，尽管它的道路艰难而险峻。当它展翼拥抱你时，依顺着它，尽管它羽翼中的利刃会伤害你。当它对你说话时，要相信它，尽管它的声音会击碎你的梦，像狂风扫尽花园中的花。

爱虽可为你加冕，也能将你钉上十字架。它虽可助你成长，也能将你削砍剪枝。它会攀至你的高处，轻抚你在阳光下颤动的最柔嫩的枝条，它也会降至你的根底，动摇你紧紧依附着大地的根须。

但是如果你出于畏惧而去寻求爱的和平与爱的欢乐，那你最好掩起自己的赤裸，离开爱的打谷场，踏入那没有季节的世界，在那里，你会开怀，但不是尽情欢笑，你会哭泣，但不是尽为泪水。爱除了自身别无所予，除了自身也别无所取。爱不占有，也不被占有：因为爱有了自己就足够了。

爱别无他求，只求成全自己。但如果你爱了，又有所渴求，就让这些成为你的所求吧： 融化为一道奔流的溪水，在黑夜吟唱自己的清曲。体会太多温柔带来的痛苦。被自己对爱的体会所伤害。心甘情愿的滴血。

清晨，带着一颗生翼的心醒来，感谢又一个充满爱的日子； 午休，沉思爱的心醉神怡； 黄昏，带着感激归家；

睡前，为你心中的挚爱祈祷。

Is life shy

I was painfully shy as a child.In high school I would avoid anticipating in class discussions.I was too afraid to talk to anyone but my closest friends.I would think about being less shy, wanting the courage not only to ask a girl out, but to speak up in class and say what I was thinking.Yes, it never happened, fears embodied themselves in such self-conscious question as, “What will other people think?”, “What if she says no?” I felt a dark presence in my mind holding me back.This shyness continued into college.One day the question occurred to me: Is life shy?

The thought startled me!Think of the leaves bursting in the spring time, the bird singing at dawn, the sheer number of different forms of life, all expressing the wildness and scope of divine life.There is nothing shy about it.This life is everywhere and attention-grabbing.So, if my creator is not shy about all the life that needs expressing, I do not need to be either.I realized that if I wanted to overcome fear and shyness, I would have to put the law of life into practice.Shyness, fear, and loneliness were hiding me from living my life as life.I had to refuse to let shyness and fear control me.Instead, I decided to live hw life saw me.One example: I wrote a note to a girl, asking her out on a date.Even as I was writing it, the fears of rejection and unworthiness put their pressure to me.This time however, instead of shrinking back and hiding from fear, I put the note in the campus mail in spite of myself.I thought whether she says yes or no, it is still right for me not to be shy.I can live with the confidence sent from the source of my life.The girl saw me in class the next day and told me that she would love to go out with me.I should not have been so surprised!

Bit by bit, I was proving that a limited view of myself no longer had control over me.After college, I worked as a newspaper reporter, earned an advanced degree in theater, became a published writer(a life-long dream), met a special woman whom I married, and even got a job teaching at a major university.作为采石工的第一天

截至去年二月止，距离我初次打算尝试一种痛苦且受制约的生活经历已经20年了。那天早晨，我怀着无比沉重的心情于日出前上路。那时我还只是个瘦骨嶙峋男孩，爱恋美好而飘渺的浪漫，痴迷于白日做梦，醉心于不幸的变故。但我却将要去被伯恩斯在他的“两只狗”中列为所有就业情况中最令人讨厌的采石场之一去工作。除了以前被几则悲观的论调引起的不安外，我当时生活状况的一部分还是相当快乐的。我曾经游荡于山石和丛林之间，也一度品读猎奇书籍，并且对世袭故事珍爱有加。但现在我将用所有的白日梦和所有的乐趣来迎取一种不得不长时间出卖劳力以求基本生存的苦难生活。

我所工作的采石场位于南海岸一个美丽的内陆湾，或者说是一个河口。一旁是一条清澈见底的小溪，另一旁则是绵延的冷杉丛。在老红山岩片区已经被开发了，高耸在由冲积泥土而形成的巨大河床之上，有些地方几乎高出30英尺，在那时的这个季节被租出了，在近来天气严寒的时节，它总呈现出一览无余的面貌，摇摇欲坠，岌岌可危。一堆从上面落下来的碎块挡住了通往采石场的路。我此行的目的就是把它们清理开。

尽管与铁锹之间的摩擦导致了手上的水泡，但那却无关痛痒。我仍欣欣然地努力工作，因为我期待目睹这些外表看似坚不可摧的地下层组织是如何被挖开，尔后被挪走的。我的工友利用了锄、楔形物以及杠杆等工具，尽管我习惯性的认为这些工具除了本身笨重外，操作还是很方便的，但我却发现，就其使用方式而言，我仍需多加学习。然而它们的效用并不明显，由于必须深挖至下一层，工人们便利用了火药，我想这道对我来说还是陌生的程序应该极其有趣吧！他享有因受意外伤害而被照顾的特权，诸如划船、攀岩这类程度危险的活动。因此也就有了无关自身新奇与否的兴趣。经过多次致命爆破，碎石片漫天飞舞，其中一个巨大的洪积层块团崩塌时，两只既死的鸟儿也随之落了下来，顺着由最近的一次暴风雨形成的水流入一条更深的裂沟，死于隐蔽处。

我又产生了观看它们好奇心:其中一个是一只雄性的金翅雀，朱红色的头冠，翅膀上镶嵌着名副其实的金色，看起来油光滑亮且干净，就像是为了博物馆藏而特意维持的一般；另外一个是属于啄木鸟科的相当稀有的鸟类，斑驳的色彩中闪现出淡蓝色和灰黄色。我之所以专注于欣赏这两只可怜的鸟儿，与其说是思考十年后它们夏季绿色栖息地中的温暖和快乐与它们迁徙时的的寒冷和黑暗的对照，不如说是陶醉于其时的的脉脉含情。正在这时，响起了老板吩咐工人收工的声音。

我抬头看到太阳沉浸于绵延的杉木丛后，留下来的长长的黑影径直伸向海岸。

Chen Bin’s Noble Deeds Born in Haikang county, a city of Guangdong province, Chen Bin enjoys a courtesy name of Meichuan.When he worked hard in his early years, he once said: “There are few who are able to gain a good reputation of nobility when they are officials if they don not have strict self-discipline before.”

After passing a series of examinations, he became a presented scholar in 1694,and was conferred a magistrate of Gutian county.Mountainous as Gutian is, its small fields laid around without any order, and its tax and corvee were not so even.As a consequence, many people migrated and evaded away, some sly ones even turned thieves.Given its serious situation, Chen Bin boldly made a balanced tax and corvee plan, thus people there had a chance to recuperate and rebuild themselves.He soon was moved to Taiwan, where just had a recovery then, and many rules and regulations were not that complete.He not only led its people with his honesty but also made improving custom and prospering culture as his important business.He himself even wore flax clothes and ate vegetable food with no other flavor.At he end of the year, he donated all of his salary to the public and he left himself nothing.His noble deeds startled everyone around, and that was exactly what made him achieve so great a feat.When he took office as a TXDQS in Sichuan in 1703, he selected the talented with heart and soul all by himself, and he was known as the most honest government official.In 1714, he broke a rule of being promoted grand coordinator of Pianyuan, and he went there alone.Being unknown to his occupation, many bureaucrat officials showed no cordial welcome to him at all.He often said: “though an official takes only a small amount of money, he actually had stolen a big sum.” So he refused to accept any gift or offering from people.His son had planned to visit their relatives several times, only finding no extra money at hand to rent a boat or cart.Chen Bin‟s extraordinary character separated him from his fellow.He lived a plain, or rather a hard life, even his roof was of rough materials.Though he ate a little meat everyday, fruits and vegetables were his constant diet.His daily life was mostly lived through at the congress hall.He was so crazy about his work that he would get up at dawn and not sleep until it was too late at night.When he came up to meet the emperor, the predecessor showed solicitous concern about his health and welfare.But Chen Bin said:“I have a relatively wealthy life before I get the position, and I always can feed myself well without taking even a penny.” After he went far away, the emperor said with a mixed feeling:“what a poor penitential monk!”

Soon after he was set to Fujian.The emperor personally said to the chancellors:“Chen Bin is born and growing up by the sea, has no a well traditionary family, nor any relatives or

old friends, but people around all acclaimed that he is honest and upright.If he does not have fine deeds, how could it be like this? He is surely a prototype of auspicious for the country.” When he coped with affairs, he put emphasize on the important ones, and did not approve trivial ones.After he reached Jianyang, he built a Cox Pavilion Academy, then he also constructed Zhizi Temple of Dragon Stream.After a while, he took a viceroy of MinZhe as another work.When he wasa commanded to guard the coast, he refused to take in offerings from people and prepared necessary food by himself.The sea tides of Dongyang bank in Leizhou, Guangdong province, were so violent that they violated peasants‟ fields there.Therefore, Chen Bin took liberties with public property and his own salary of the official to help construct the burrock.Henceforth, its induration benefited fellow villagers there.When he suffered a serious illness, he only left his will indicating that his remaining 13,000 taels of silver would be presented to military pay division.The emperor said:“It is rare to such a noble official as Chen Bin.” And he was posthumously awarded director of board of vites, its posthumous title Qingduan.Exhortation to High Officials It is worthwhile paying certain attention to the historical experiences when it comes to tidy local administration.A paragraph in …………compiled and published by imperial order records:“If a corrupted chancellor can not make a prototype for his fellows, they might be dishonest;if the fellows can not manage people well, the society custom is bound to go bad, and at this rate, they make compulsory collection wildly, which will exert great harm on common people.So dsastr will surely be in store for the country.Under this circumstance, one can not wish a peaceful and stable life at all.”

Chancellor plays a key role in advocating upright and punishing dishonest.First of all, they occupy an important position and can affect other inferior officers directly.And their ways of dealing with affairs are bound to have significant effect on political life and social climate.Secondly, once a chancellor is involved in corruption, he will not be able to accord the dignity he actually deserves, and has no bold courage to manage politics.Just as the saying goes: It makes little invalid efficiency that one blame others for their dishonesty and corruption in he himself can not perform good deeds expected from him.Adimittedly it is true that some chancellors in all ages are so lured by greedy lust that they are just like moths flying into the flames, without considering accusals from the public.They just disregard moral principles in pursuit of profit, which makes them fatuous.And at the same time, they all harbor a fluke mind.Some books involving cautionary advice on high officials have already analyzed such a mentation, and indicated that people surely have a preference for themselves when compared with bribery, but they usually make an inverse choice between the two, and this is why? Actually, most of them reckon that they have a relatively underground action, and no one will know it.However, what makes them surprised is that their bribery will gradually spread from the place where they practiced

bribery to large street and small lanes day by day.Once their bribery is brought to light, not only all of their relatives and faithful friends but also evil associates will be hostile to them.They might feel tired in mind and exhausted in strength upon losing all standings and reputation.What a tragic experience!All talked about here is intended to deliver such a plain and profound alert to those ignoramus who hold an important post:“ You just can not escape being punished as there does exist justice and verdict of the masses.”