里根婚后情书

第一篇：里根婚后情书

里根婚后情书

杰拉德·加沃特

婚后51年的日子里，里根每年都要在结婚纪念日给妻子写一封信。这种不同寻常的通信持续了四十余年，即使里根患上老年痴呆症之后，他仍然坚持给南希写信，直到他连自己的妻子都认不出来了为止。亲爱的Mommie Poo：

2月14日是情人节，它只是为那些不算太幸运的人而准备的节日。从1952年3月4日以来，我就一直在过情人节。只要有你，每天都是我的情人节。你知道这对我的意义有多大吗？亲爱的，告诉我你能永远做我的瓦伦丁吗？我爱你如我的生命，所以只能选择和你一起生活。Poppa

1960年2月14日

我亲爱的第一夫人：

在我们结婚15周年纪念日的早上，我看着你睡在我身旁，脑中有个奇怪的想法：为什么别人才把你当作“第一夫人”？事实上，15年以来我一直把你当作我的第一，而且是唯一。

15年时光倏忽而过，我们的韶华已逝。这并不可怕，唯一让我感到遗憾的是那些日子里，当我醒来时，发现你不睡我身旁。亲爱的，我要问，为什么每次你睡着时看起来都像只有5岁？可能是我只有15岁——在看到你之前，我仿佛不曾活过。

感谢你带给我的生活，带给我这个世上最大的快乐。

我很爱你，而且越来越爱。

你的丈夫

1967年3月4日

亲爱的：

昨晚，我们互相打了电话。我一天没有工作，把时间都用在改写理查德·赫布勒给我撰写的传记上了。明天是我最后一天外景拍摄，我会给你打电话告诉你我多么爱你。我是认真的。

无论迈克决定拿钱买他的第一辆汽车还是买运动衣，这都不重要。我们都希望他能够走上独立生活的道路，靠自己赚钱养活自己。最重要的是，我们对子女们都尽到了做父母的责任。在经济方面，我们对他们从小谨慎教管，没有让他们依靠在我们的财产上。你知道你在睡觉时会把手卷握起来放在下巴下吗？很多次早上天刚蒙蒙亮，我醒来看着躺在身边的你，就这么一直看着，一直到最后我忍不住伸出手来轻轻地触摸你，我不想把你弄醒——但是，我实在忍不住想抚摸你。

想象一下：我发现自己喜欢安·布莱思（美国女演员），因为她和她的男人有一些和我们相似的地方。从他们身上，你就能明白当一个人深爱上另一个人到底是什么样子，就像我把手伸出来越过大山、穿过沙漠，直接来到我们的房间，在壁炉前把你的手抓起。

可能这封信会在几个小时内到你那边。在我到达你身边之前，我想对你说说我的心里话。我相信我的想法不需要用纸、墨和邮票等任何东

西就能够到达你那边。如果我感到痛苦，那是因为我们彼此分离。但是，我们不曾真正分开过，你在我体内，是我的一部分。我也确实感到痛苦，这是因为我不能活在没有你的世界，因为我爱你。你的丈夫

1963年5月24日

第二篇：婚后的情书写法

有的人认为，一旦爱情之花灿烂地开过，婚姻之果已高悬枝头，等待采撷之时，作为表达爱情的情书，便无多大存大的必要了。这是一种错误的看法。爱情的路还很漫长。婚后，如果不是好好驾驶你们的爱情小舟，俩个人的世界随时都会出现裂痕。

感情的交流永远必要，不论是用书面形式——情书，还是口头形式——情话，永远都是重要的。

常见一些恋人，热恋时情话绵绵，关怀备至。可是婚后，似乎热恋时已把话说尽，说的话语简炼到惊人的程度：“饭做好了吗？”“该睡觉了。”

调查研究的结果显示：许多男女认为，一旦成为夫妻了，都是自家人了，他爱我，我爱他，是天经地义的事，不必天大挂在口头上。因此，一反恋爱时的亲密和热烈，婚后感情的表达，交流爱意，成了扭扭怩怩、很不自在的事。使得一些人惊叹：“婚姻是爱情的坟墓！”

其实，婚后的感情交流，其重要性不亚于婚前。夫妻间应当随时随地相立交流思想、感情，甚至是各自瞬时灵感火花。决不要不好意思，决不要怕重复、怕罗嗦，决不要扭扭怩怩。爱情之花在婚后更要细心地照料，否则，它能由于主人的疏忽而枯萎。许多离婚者的故事，已经给我们提供了这方面有力佐证！

即使结了婚，也不应该忘了你的好朋友、老朋友一一情书，它是不应该“退休”的！此类情书例子参考 明倩：结婚两年来，我还从未出过门、离开过你，没想到这一次就跑得这么远。

前天，你送我上车时，我看到你眼中含着泪水。尽管你脸上露着笑容向我挥手，我仍然看出你内心若有所失。也许我们爱得过于缠绵了，以致虽夫妻多时却仍同热恋时一样难分难舍，其实我也一样，想到要我和的爱妻分别那么久，心中觉得茫然。有人说，爱人之间在分别之后重聚，会产生更深的感情，增添新的乐趣，不知是否确切。

在火车上，坐在我对面是一对恋人。那姑娘的一对眼睛乌黑乌黑，睫毛很长，真是非常漂亮非常的像你。我看着她，就像在认认真真地看你一样。还记得吗？在我们恋爱的时候，我时常会对你的眼睛发呆，然后由衷地赞叹。真是美得令人吃惊，即使天才的画家也画不出这么动人的眼睛来，只有上帝才能创造出这无与伦比的杰作。

其实我会那么轻而易举地成为你的俘虏，拜倒在你的石榴裙下，也是因为你那双眼睛。当我第一次看见它时，我的心就像被电击了一样产生剧烈的震颤，从此我就不属于自己了。

回想起来，你当初一定认为我这人很“无赖”，就像涂了胶水一样粘住你不放。有一回你说：你这人怎么盯劲这么足，耐性这么好。我说：我这人生来倔犟，认准了之后，不达目的决不罢休。

有时候我也觉得，我妻子是让我盯来的。也许一开始你对我并无什么好感，只是认为我这人没有什么好也没有什么不好，后来是因为我锲而个舍受了感动，才答应和我交往。当然再后来，你也爱上了我，离不开我了，对吗？

亲爱的，你知道当我们领取结婚证书时，我有多么自豪和得意，因为我娶了世界上最好的姑娘作妻子，她有一双可以令天下男子都着迷的眼睛，是我拥有了她而不是别人，我能不骄傲吗？从那天起我就发誓，我要使你终生幸福，我要为她贡献一切。

我不知道我们共同生活的这两年中你的感觉如何。我们之间是不争不吵的。可我也看得出你有时也流露出一种忧愁，这种情绪是因为我的母亲。

我母亲是个老派妇女，脑子中的传统习俗观念比较浓厚。最坏的毛病是喜欢唠叨，用自己的行为准则来评判别人。

我知道，你是很敏感很聪明的，你能从我母亲的话里听出对你埋怨。只是因为你的大度、忍让，才不当她的面反驳，你总是用充耳不闻来应付那种尴尬局面。因此我心中一直非常感激你。如果你也喜怒于色，很可能导致你与母亲的争执，婆媳之间只要有一次争执，就会产生再也无法解开的结，那么，我们家将被卷入无休止的鸡零狗碎的争吵中去，我也将会为了当“救火队员”而疲于奔命。

明倩，我可以告诉你，母亲虽然“嘴臭”，其实她是很喜欢你的。她常在我面前夸你比嫂嫂懂事，也能干。她有时的唠叨，不是因为不满意你，完全是因为两代人的差异和文化背景的不同。所以我希望你在觉得委屈时，能宽宏大量地谅解她。事实上你已经这么做了。

亲爱的，已经深夜了，我在这遥远的地方伸臂拥抱你，热烈亲吻你，就像在家中那样……。

永爱你的裕国×月×日

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真：我真后悔又与你吵架了，其实我已不知多少次地告诫过自己：再也别对你大声嚷嚷，可不知怎么总是克制不往自己。

用你的话说，我已经变了，完全不同于恋爱时对你那么亲呢温柔了，你说我心中已没有了你，也没有孩子，当然也没有这个家，因此你感到伤心和失望。

我真不知道怎样向你解释这一切。我又何尝不想每天下班都能早早地回到家中，和你度过那美好的黄昏和夜晚呢？特别是在这初秋季节，风吹在身上凉凉爽爽的，天是那么高，月是那么明，带着孩子去外面散散步，会是何等舒适啊。

可是不能啊，我总是有没完没了的工作，不是外出接待客人和采访，就是把自己关在书房里写稿。一个星期中，我最多只能和你们一起看一次电视。

我的妻，我十分理解你的心境。作为一个女人。你具有一颗细腻的心，对生活有一种美好的向往。所有的女人在同自己心爱的男人结婚时都编织过幅未来生活的图景，她们希望生活永远是充满浪漫色彩和诗情画意的；她们希望自己的丈夫永远能像热恋时一样对自己一往情深，卿卿我我，缠缠绵绵，朝夕厮守；他们把爱情看作是一种具体的实实在在的行为，这种行为是眼能见耳能听手能摸的。

但是生活远非像我们希望的那么轻松浪漫，它总和我们的期望相差一段距离。生活有时是相当无情和苛刻的。它不允许我们沉缅在夫妻的甜甜蜜蜜中，它迫使我们放弃许多享受去进行艰苦奋斗，尤其当我们想要不断地改善自己的生活条件时，我们必须作出某些牺牲。生活的准则就是：有得就有失。

一般来说，男人总是把事业放在第一位的，除非他是一个无所事事的庸人。热恋时，男人也许会因为要获得自己心爱的女人而全身心地投入到爱情之中，一旦结婚之后，他们往往又会从沉缅已久的爱海中冒出头来，急切地游向被冷落了的事业之舟。当他翻身上船之后，他似乎脱离了海水，开始冷静地操纵起浆来。于是，有些女人便把这现象看作一种背叛或冷落：但是，我的妻，你想过没有：即使你的丈夫坐在事业之舟里，那舟不仍漂荡在爱海上吗？你和他之间确是有了一层间隔，但他毕竟没有登岸，离你而去呀！

男人身上肩负着一种使命感，当他有了家时，他必须理智地为这个家争得最好的荣誉和前程，他所持的是宏观的目光，因此也就少了对家的关照，这难道不能谅解吗？

如果要你的丈夫做到你所需求的是再容易不过的。但是这一来，我们将失去多少呢？要是我放弃了对事业的追求，我肯定可以活得轻松些。当我被劳累拖得眼皮发痛，腿脚发软时，我多么想撒手不干了啊。特别是当你抱怨我的时候，我更是何苦呢？

然而，我总是不敢停下来。许多成就，要获得是难而又难，要半途而废却易如反掌。如果我真的躺倒不干，得过且过，我又如何对得起自己，对得起你和孩子呢？

我的精力是有限的，顾了这头，对那头就会少关心些。这些便是你不满意的原因。为此，我希望你能真正理解我、体谅我。

你千万别认为我对你的爱有了变化。你应该懂得，真正的爱情来之下易，要改变它也是不容易的。夫妻间只有保持一种相互的信任和谅解，彼此的感情才能经受住任何考验。

真，让我们从此不再彼此抱怨，携手并进吧。我们会损失一些东西，同时我们也肯定会得到一些东西，你说对吗？热烈的吻你

你的丈夫庆祥×月×日

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碧娇：想不到生活竟让我也体验上了“人去楼空”的滋味，实在有说不出的懊丧。

重新当起“单身汉”，却…快乐”不起来。我们的分离是我们自己促成的，是一，种奋发图强和追求时髦相汇涌的浪潮推着走到这一地步的，里面有自觉的追求，也有盲目的憧憬，心甘情愿和无可奈何交织在一起，使我怨不得天，怨不得地，众人面前还不敢流露相思之苦。

我也激动过、兴奋过，可现在，情绪却好不起来。说实话，从当初一开始为你办出境手续时，我就不时夹杂着丝丝缕缕的失意感，只是当时来不及也不愿意去正面想它。

此时，别离成为现实之后，茫然若失的意识紧紧攫住了我。你身居异乡独为客，我不要说帮忙，连你周围的环境也无法想象一二，叫人如何不忧虑？同时，我还要忍受由于你的离去所带来的种种煎熬。回家后空荡荡的房间，床显得特别大让人无法安稳入睡。

在相当长一段时间里，我已无法正常看书写作。记得有文章介绍过一位画家，作画时一定得妻子陪着，哪怕妻子在旁织毛衣拣青菜都行，只要妻子一离开，他的灵感就没了。确实，周围没人走动，没有唠叨，没了以前那些令我厌烦的干扰，人反而静不下来了。

人们总喜欢津津乐道爱情与事业的矛盾，其实，这要么失之偏颇，要么是矫揉造作。从宏观意义上说，爱情不应该也不可能是事业的羁绊，它给人的愉悦、感奋的力量是无法代替的。

过去我也曾对爱这个怪物做视过，可现在我愿匍匐在它的脚下，对它顶礼膜拜，并且深为像我过去一样而现在仍然执迷不悟的人感到遗憾，这点上，我要深深地感谢你。

在我们新婚燕尔之时，我们似乎从来没有想到还会有劳燕分飞之日，关于“永不分离”的悄悄话也说过不止一次。可一年之后，我们就分开了，分得那么远，当中隔了个浩瀚的太平洋。

我现在最为担心的，还是你的心理承受能力和生活适应能力。不少归来的人都说过，那里的世界是人类感情的沙漠，每个人都紧紧裹住自己，从不过问旁人的事，这或许是现代文明的标志，它可以省却许多无事生非的流言蜚语。但对一个举目无亲的异乡人来说，未免太冷酷了。

不过这些都不是最重要的，最重要的是不要忘记了我。记住你的“骆驼样子”，他将伴你度过不眠之夜，在夜阑人静时听你的叨叨絮语，帮你一起走过这片开阔地。贪婪地亲你、抱你

你的永胜×月×月

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第三篇：婚后的情书写法

有的人认为，一旦爱情之花灿烂地开过，婚姻之果已高悬枝头，等待采撷之时，作为表达爱情的情书，便无多大存大的必要了。这是一种错误的看法。爱情的路还很漫长。婚后，如果不是好好驾驶你们的爱情小舟，俩个人的世界随时都会出现裂痕。

感情的交流永远必要，不论是用书面形式——情书，还是口头形式——情话，永远都是重要的。

常见一些恋人，热恋时情话绵绵，关怀备至。可是婚后，似乎热恋时已把话说尽，说的话语简炼到惊人的程度：“饭做好了吗？”“该睡觉了。”

调查研究的结果显示：许多男女认为，一旦成为夫妻了，都是自家人了，他爱我，我爱他，是天经地义的事，不必天大挂在口头上。因此，一反恋爱时的亲密和热烈，婚后感情的表达，交流爱意，成了扭扭怩怩、很不自在的事。使得一些人惊叹：“婚姻是爱情的坟墓！”

其实，婚后的感情交流，其重要性不亚于婚前。夫妻间应当随时随地相立交流思想、感情，甚至是各自瞬时灵感火花。决不要不好意思，决不要怕重复、怕罗嗦，决不要扭扭怩怩。爱情之花在婚后更要细心地照料，否则，它能由于主人的疏忽而枯萎。许多离婚者的故事，已经给我们提供了这方面有力佐证！

即使结了婚，也不应该忘了你的好朋友、老朋友一一情书，它是不应该“退休”的！

第四篇：里根就职演说

美国历届总统就职演说（里根）

Second Inaugural Address of Ronald Reagan MONDAY, JANUARY 21, 1985 Senator Mathias, Chief Justice Burger, Vice President Bush, Speaker O'Neill, Senator Dole, Reverend Clergy, members of my family and friends, and my fellow citizens: This day has been made brighter with the presence here of one who, for a time, has been absent--Senator John Stennis.God bless you and welcome back.There is, however, one who is not with us today: Representative Gillis Long of Louisiana left us last night.I wonder if we could all join in a moment of silent prayer.(Moment of silent prayer.)Amen.There are no words adequate to express my thanks for the great honor that you have bestowed on me.I will do my utmost to be deserving of your trust.This is, as Senator Mathias told us, the 50th time that we the people have celebrated this historic occasion.When the first President, George Washington, placed his hand upon the Bible, he stood less than a single day's journey by horseback from raw, untamed wilderness.There were 4 million Americans in a union of 13 States.Today we are 60 times as many in a union of 50 States.We have lighted the world with our inventions, gone to the aid of mankind wherever in the world there was a cry for help, journeyed to the Moon and safely returned.So much has changed.And yet we stand together as we did two centuries ago.When I took this oath four years ago, I did so in a time of economic stress.Voices were raised saying we had to look to our past for the greatness and glory.But we, the present-day Americans, are not given to looking backward.In this blessed land, there is always a better tomorrow.Four years ago, I spoke to you of a new beginning and we have accomplished that.But in another sense, our new beginning is a continuation of that beginning created two centuries ago when, for the first time in history, government, the people said, was not our master, it is our servant;its only power that which we the people allow it to have.That system has never failed us, but, for a time, we failed the system.We asked things of government that government was not equipped to give.We yielded authority to the National Government that properly belonged to States or to local governments or to the people themselves.We allowed taxes and inflation to rob us of our earnings and savings and watched the great industrial machine that had made us the most productive people on Earth slow down and the number of unemployed increase.By 1980, we knew it was time to renew our faith, to strive with all our strength toward the ultimate in individual freedom consistent with an orderly society.We believed then and now there are no limits to growth and human progress when men and women are free to follow their dreams.And we were right to believe that.Tax rates have been reduced, inflation cut dramatically, and more people are employed than ever before in our history.We are creating a nation once again vibrant, robust, and alive.But there are many mountains yet to climb.We will not rest until every American enjoys the fullness of freedom, dignity, and opportunity as our birthright.It is our birthright as citizens of this great Republic, and we'll meet this challenge.These will be years when Americans have restored their confidence and tradition of progress;when our values of faith, family, work, and neighborhood were restated for a modern age;when our economy was finally freed from government's grip;when we made sincere efforts at meaningful arms reduction, rebuilding our defenses, our economy, and developing new technologies, and helped preserve peace in a troubled world;when Americans courageously supported the struggle for liberty, self-government, and free enterprise throughout the world, and turned the tide of history away from totalitarian darkness and into the warm sunlight of human freedom.My fellow citizens, our Nation is poised for greatness.We must do what we know is right and do it with all our might.Let history say of us, “These were golden years--when the American Revolution was reborn, when freedom gained new life, when America reached for her best.” Our two-party system has served us well over the years, but never better than in those times of great challenge when we came together not as Democrats or Republicans, but as Americans united in a common cause.Two of our Founding Fathers, a Boston lawyer named Adams and a Virginia planter named Jefferson, members of that remarkable group who met in Independence Hall and dared to think they could start the world over again, left us an important lesson.They had become political rivals in the Presidential election of 1800.Then years later, when both were retired, and age had softened their anger, they began to speak to each other again through letters.A bond was reestablished between those two who had helped create this government of ours.In 1826, the 50th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence, they both died.They died on the same day, within a few hours of each other, and that day was the Fourth of July.In one of those letters exchanged in the sunset of their lives, Jefferson wrote: “It carries me back to the times when, beset with difficulties and dangers, we were fellow laborers in the same cause, struggling for what is most valuable to man, his right to self-government.Laboring always at the same oar, with some wave ever ahead threatening to overwhelm us, and yet passing harmless...we rode through the storm with heart and hand.” Well, with heart and hand, let us stand as one today: One people under God determined that our future shall be worthy of our past.As we do, we must not repeat the well-intentioned errors of our past.We must never again abuse the trust of working men and women, by sending their earnings on a futile chase after the spiraling demands of a bloated Federal Establishment.You elected us in 1980 to end this prescription for disaster, and I don't believe you reelected us in 1984 to reverse course.At the heart of our efforts is one idea vindicated by 25 straight months of economic growth: Freedom and incentives unleash the drive and entrepreneurial genius that are the core of human progress.We have begun to increase the rewards for work, savings, and investment;reduce the increase in the cost and size of government and its interference in people's lives.We must simplify our tax system, make it more fair, and bring the rates down for all who work and earn.We must think anew and move with a new boldness, so every American who seeks work can find work;so the least among us shall have an equal chance to achieve the greatest things--to be heroes who heal our sick, feed the hungry, protect peace among nations, and leave this world a better place.The time has come for a new American emancipation--a great national drive to tear down economic barriers and liberate the spirit of enterprise in the most distressed areas of our country.My friends, together we can do this, and do it we must, so help me God.--From new freedom will spring new opportunities for growth, a more productive, fulfilled and united people, and a stronger America--an America that will lead the technological revolution, and also open its mind and heart and soul to the treasures of literature, music, and poetry, and the values of faith, courage, and love.A dynamic economy, with more citizens working and paying taxes, will be our strongest tool to bring down budget deficits.But an almost unbroken 50 years of deficit spending has finally brought us to a time of reckoning.We have come to a turning point, a moment for hard decisions.I have asked the Cabinet and my staff a question, and now I put the same question to all of you: If not us, who? And if not now, when? It must be done by all of us going forward with a program aimed at reaching a balanced budget.We can then begin reducing the national debt.I will shortly submit a budget to the Congress aimed at freezing government program spending for the next year.Beyond that, we must take further steps to permanently control Government's power to tax and spend.We must act now to protect future generations from Government's desire to spend its citizens' money and tax them into servitude when the bills come due.Let us make it unconstitutional for the Federal Government to spend more than the Federal Government takes in.We have already started returning to the people and to State and local governments responsibilities better handled by them.Now, there is a place for the Federal Government in matters of social compassion.But our fundamental goals must be to reduce dependency and upgrade the dignity of those who are infirm or disadvantaged.And here a growing economy and support from family and community offer our best chance for a society where compassion is a way of life, where the old and infirm are cared for, the young and, yes, the unborn protected, and the unfortunate looked after and made self And there is another area where the Federal Government can play a part.As an older American, I remember a time when people of different race, creed, or ethnic origin in our land found hatred and prejudice installed in social custom and, yes, in law.There is no story more heartening in our history than the progress that we have made toward the “brotherhood of man” that God intended for us.Let us resolve there will be no turning back or hesitation on the road to an America rich in dignity and abundant with opportunity for all our citizens.Let us resolve that we the people will build an American opportunity society in which all of us--white and black, rich and poor, young and old--will go forward together arm in arm.Again, let us remember that though our heritage is one of blood lines from every corner of the Earth, we are all Americans pledged to carry on this last, best hope of man on Earth.I have spoken of our domestic goals and the limitations which we should put on our National Government.Now let me turn to a task which is the primary responsibility of National Government-the safety and security of our people.Today, we utter no prayer more fervently than the ancient prayer for peace on Earth.Yet history has shown that peace will not come, nor will our freedom be preserved, by good will alone.There are those in the world who scorn our vision of human dignity and freedom.One nation, the Soviet Union, has conducted the greatest military buildup in the history of man, building arsenals of awesome offensive weapons.We have made progress in restoring our defense capability.But much remains to be done.There must be no wavering by us, nor any doubts by others, that America will meet her responsibilities to remain free, secure, and at peace.There is only one way safely and legitimately to reduce the cost of national security, and that is to reduce the need for it.And this we are trying to do in negotiations with the Soviet Union.We are not just discussing limits on a further increase of nuclear weapons.We seek, instead, to reduce their number.We seek the total elimination one day of nuclear weapons from the face of the Earth.Now, for decades, we and the Soviets have lived under the threat of mutual assured destruction;if either resorted to the use of nuclear weapons, the other could retaliate and destroy the one who had started it.Is there either logic or morality in believing that if one side threatens to kill tens of millions of our people, our only recourse is to threaten killing tens of millions of theirs? I have approved a research program to find, if we can, a security shield that would destroy nuclear missiles before they reach their target.It wouldn't kill people, it would destroy weapons.It wouldn't militarize space, it would help demilitarize the arsenals of Earth.It would render nuclear weapons obsolete.We will meet with the Soviets, hoping that we can agree on a way to rid the world of the threat of nuclear destruction.We strive for peace and security, heartened by the changes all around us.Since the turn of the century, the number of democracies in the world has grown fourfold.Human freedom is on the march, and nowhere more so than our own hemisphere.Freedom is one of the deepest and noblest aspirations of the human spirit.People, worldwide, hunger for the right of self-determination, for those inalienable rights that make for human dignity and progress.America must remain freedom's staunchest friend, for freedom is our best ally.And it is the world's only hope, to conquer poverty and preserve peace.Every blow we inflict against poverty will be a blow against its dark allies of oppression and war.Every victory for human freedom will be a victory for world peace.So we go forward today, a nation still mighty in its youth and powerful in its purpose.With our alliances strengthened, with our economy leading the world to a new age of economic expansion, we look forward to a world rich in possibilities.And all this because we have worked and acted together, not as members of political parties, but as Americans.My friends, we live in a world that is lit by lightning.So much is changing and will change, but so much endures, and transcends time.History is a ribbon, always unfurling;history is a journey.And as we continue our journey, we think of those who traveled before us.We stand together again at the steps of this symbol of our democracy--or we would have been standing at the steps if it hadn't gotten so cold.Now we are standing inside this symbol of our democracy.Now we hear again the echoes of our past: a general falls to his knees in the hard snow of Valley Forge;a lonely President paces the darkened halls, and ponders his struggle to preserve the Union;the men of the Alamo call out encouragement to each other;a settler pushes west and sings a song, and the song echoes out forever and fills the unknowing air.It is the American sound.It is hopeful, big-hearted, idealistic, daring, decent, and fair.That's our heritage;that is our song.We sing it still.For all our problems, our differences, we are together as of old, as we raise our voices to the God who is the Author of this most tender music.And may He continue to hold us close as we fill the world with our sound--sound in unity, affection, and love--one people under God, dedicated to the dream of freedom that He has placed in the human heart, called upon now to pass that dream on to a waiting and hopeful world.God bless you and may God bless America.

第五篇：婚后也浪漫 结婚后的情书写法

有的人认为，一旦之花灿烂地开过，婚姻之果已高悬枝头，等待采撷之时，作为表达爱情的，便无多大存大的必要了。这是一种错误的看法。

爱情的路还很漫长。婚后，如果不是好好驾驶你们的爱情小舟，俩个人的世界随时都会出现裂痕。

感情的交流永远必要，不论是用书面形式 情书，还是口头形式 情话，永远都是重要的。

常见一些恋人，热恋时情话绵绵，关怀备至。可是婚后，似乎热恋时已把话说尽，说的话语简炼到惊人的程度： 饭做好了吗？ 该睡觉了。

调查研究的结果显示：许多男女认为，一旦成为夫妻了，都是自家人了，他爱我，我爱他，是天经地义的事，不必天大挂在口头上。因此，一反恋爱时的亲密和热烈，婚后感情的表达，交流爱意，成了扭扭怩怩、很不自在的事。使得一些人惊叹： 婚姻是爱情的坟墓！

其实，婚后的感情交流，其重要性不亚于婚前。夫妻间应当随时随地相立交流思想、感情，甚至是各自瞬时灵感火花。决不要不好意思，决不要怕重复、怕罗嗦，决不要扭扭怩怩。

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爱情之花在婚后更要细心地照料，否则，它能由于主人的疏忽而枯萎。许多离婚者的故事，已经给我们提供了这方面有力佐证！

即使结了婚，也不应该忘了你的好朋友、老朋友一一情书，它是不应该 退休 的！

里海：

夫妻俩相处相濡以沫无话不谈，感情沟通似乎不成为问题，但有时直来直去也会产生矛盾，倘若能别出心裁地给爱人写一封情书，不但能迅速地解决矛盾，而且会使夫妻感情更加融洽，恩爱有加。

有人将夫妻俩比作是牙齿与舌头，动作稍微有些不协调，牙齿就会咬着舌头。夫妻之间发生一些不协调，这是正常的事，不足为奇。有一次在教育孩子的问题上，我和妻子的看法意见不同而发生争论，在争不过时，我当着儿子的面说了两句伤她心的话：“儿子属我管教，我说了算！”妻子看了我一眼，回了一句“儿子是我养的！”就不再理我了。说也真巧，过了两天，周五单位组织去广州旅游，我来不及细说，整理了一些衣物，留下一张条子就走了。在异地他乡，夜晚我住在宾馆里，回想妻子周三郁闷伤心的目光，心头顿时自责，拿起电话道歉吧，怎么说好呢?又怕拗口说不清，如果让人家听见更是笑话了，而且也言不尽意。后来又想，如果回家后向她当面赔礼道歉，还不如写封信。这一招真的很好，结婚前也是当面不敢说的话就是用情书来表达的。于是静下心来，拿起笔，一封“情书”一挥而就。先深表说错话的歉意，是大丈夫思想作怪，然后用心将妻子辛勤操劳家务尽心培育孩子的功劳着意刻画一番，特别强调妻子同样每天工作劳动，还要操持家务，付出的要比我多得多，并从旅途见闻联想当初一起旅游时的美好时光，用词当然要含情蜜意。信寄到家里妻子手中，可称为春风化雨后一片朝霞满天。五天后当我回家时，再看到妻子时，妻子是笑脸迎着我，我就知道情书已发挥了作用，妻子的那张笑脸我后来戏称是犹如清晨舒张芬芳的百合花。

有人说，少女恋情如诗歌，成年妇女恋爱成哲学。其实已婚的女性还是喜欢听爱的语言，犹如醇酒越闻越香。山盟海誓虽然能让人激动，而给爱人的书信，就是当了妈妈、婆婆也还是喜欢欣赏的。富有哲理情趣的语言，婚后夫妻、即使是老年夫妻间情书也可象钥匙开锁一样启开心门，让爱在彼此心海中持久荡漾。给爱人写的情书还可作特别纪念品珍藏，这也是我们夫妻俩共同的喜爱，有闲时拿出来共同翻阅，好比是在共同吟唱一首无比温馨的恋曲。

聪明的丈夫们，如果学会真诚亮丽具有穿透力的语言，或用书信形式来为爱人编织七彩阳光，那更能使夫妻感情永爱、家庭和睦，由此我说婚后的情书也醉人，就是这个道理。朋友，你觉得如何呢？