隔代教育个案分析1

第一篇：隔代教育个案分析1

个案分析1

胡乐被爷爷奶奶惯出了一身的坏毛病，经常为一点小事就和同学发生矛盾，而且“得理不饶人”。

一次课间操排队，有一名同学不小心碰倒了胡乐的椅子，椅子上挂着的书包掉了下来，书啊文具啊掉了一地。这下可气坏了胡乐。胡乐立马找到老师，希望老师为自己评理。由于老师急着带队去操场做操，便说做完操再说。没想到，胡乐的态度非常强硬，甚至说“我要找我爷爷来”。

原来，爷爷经常对胡乐说，如果在学校被人欺负了，不能忍气吞声，一定要告诉他，他会帮胡乐处理。久而久之，胡乐养成了遇事斤斤计较的坏毛病，容不得自己吃一点亏、让一点步，而且时不时找爷爷处理问题。

通过家长学校的培训，爷爷认真阅读了《小学生家长读本》，老师也经常打电话跟爷爷沟通，爷爷认识到，自己这样，是太过于宠溺胡乐了。从此以后，爷爷也不再插手孩子们之间的事情了，还教育胡乐，要宽容要大度。胡乐呢，也比从前快乐独立很多，还交到了很多朋友呢！

第二篇：隔代教育

Research on inter-generational education

Introduction: It is a common phenomenon that there exists inter-generational education in Chinese family education.The so-called inter-generational education is a relative concept of parenting education.What is inter-generational education? Why does it happen? How to treat inter-generational education exactly ?It does more good than harm or more harm than good is it,this essay “Research on inter-generational education”will discuss this question.Keywords: inter-generational educationgrandparentgrandchildrenContent:What is the inter-generational education

Inter-generational education is the common reality in contemporary China.With the progress and change of the society, and social competition becoming more serious, more and more young parents are always busy with their work,they have no time to take care of their children.So these young parents put all the responsibility of education to grandparents.And grandparents try their best to take care of their grandchildren.The grandparents become the“modern parents”, and grandparents are also happy to play this role and enjoy the life.This situation that grandparents bring up and educate their grandchildrenis the so called inter-generational education.Causes of inter-generational education

A study on “inter-generational education” survey in China showed that: Nearly half of children are followed by Chinese grandparents.That is to say grandparents grew their grandchildren up.In Shanghai, 60% are in “inter-generational education”, Guangzhou for “inter-generational education” of children accounted for half of the total, while in Beijing, the children accept the “inter-generational education” are up to 70%.Cross-generational education in China is so obvious.Analysis of the causes of inter-generational education, involves many factors.For example, social background, personal and family situation and so on.2.1 the pressure of the social environment

With the development of our society, social competition, employment pressure and other reasons, many young parents are busy with their work, busy to adapt to the society, There is little time to give their children, So the young parents ignore children's education.Therefore, asking for grandparents' help on their children's education become their first choice.This choice, in their view ,not only can save money, but also more at ease.In addition, as the conditions of modern society, the convenience of transportation and communication.The employment environment and space are expanded, young parents in order to search better opportunities, they are willing to run around.The time between children and their parents is greatly reduced.So the responsibility for education has been placed by the grandparents.We can say that the social environment factors are the main reason for inter-generational

education in China today.2.2 inherent ethics in the family

China has a deep-rooted family ethics.Continuation of this blood on the generation of ideas in people's minds has a very clear expression.In China, three generations living together is the ideal that older generation persue.Therefore, in this family environment, inter-generational education is essential.2.3 The self-awareness become stronger

Young parents are mostly born in 1980s in contemporary China, People born in this era are completely different with grandparents.Their child-care concept changes a lot.These young parents are no longer just live for their children,They do what they want to, go anywhere they want to,they live for themselves.They have a strong

self-awareness,they like free way of life, they do not want to be tied, so the best way is to send their children to grandparents.The grandparents take care of children, the young parents can live a their own life.They can be more free.Benefits of Inter-generational education

Old people have a rich social experience and deep thoughts on life, and they often have more extensive education experience,so that they can effectively deal witha lot of problems of children's education, which is undoubtedly useful for the child's healthy growth.In another word,grandparents own the favorable conditions for children's education.At the same time, if grandparents educate children , young parents can be assured to work, it also can reduce their burden.These are

advantageous embodiment of inter-generational education.Objectively speaking, grandparents in caring for children indeed have many advantages.Simply put, there are three benefits of inter-generational education:First of all,one favorable is to the grandchildren.It is reported that a lot of “prodigy” is the result of extensive knowledge and experience of their grandparents.It is that old people make full use of their knowledge and experience to guide the children,so the grandchildren can broaden their horizon and get a lot that may not gain from school.What is more,this is still beneficial to the parents.Some parents are busy with their work, they just have no time.And some even do not know how to teach children.At this time, the grandparents can relieve parents' worries.So,these young parents could concentrate on the

business.They can provide better economic conditions for the children.Last but not least,it is beneficial to grandparents , not only can reduce loneliness,but also make the old feel them useful.Playing games with grandchildren help the elderly stay healthy and positive attitude of life.Disadvantages of inter-generational educational

No one can doubt the love of grandparents on grandchildren, but for children, parents are irreplaceable, parent-child relationship is the most important.Indeed, inter-generational education has a rational side, but in general, disadvantages are

greater than profits.4.1 lead to spoiled

Grandparents tend to spoil the children more than their parents, over-indulgent and accommodate are unfavorable to the child's habits, personality development and skills enhancement.Many elderly people often have a psychological compensation, they usually want to give what they now own to their grandchildren that maybe never give their own children because of poverty.and this kind of love is often very easy to become unprincipled accommodation and spoiled.Grandparents are afraid that the children may tumble or lose,they help to do everything which is very unfavorable for the child's growth.4.2 Cause parent-child relationship to estrangement

The children live with the grandparents,they have been used to shield and accommodation,they do what they want but never be blamed.so when parents see their children's shortcomings and deficiencies, they will propose strict requirements, the children will be very difficult to accept, so it will probably cause conflict and emotions between the formation of parent-child.So that the normal and necessary education become difficult;What's more, when parents strictly require or punisha child, grandparents tend to intervene, which lead the children can not be corrected in time.The children do not know the intention of their parents, and just feel bad for their parents.As the long run, it is very vulnerable to cause parent-child relationship to estrangement.4.3 Cause educational divergence in family education

There are many differences in social experience, education level, background and lifestyle between Grandparents and parents , which led to the education of two generations will have many differences.When two different educational methods also arises, if they do not communicate effectively , then it will easily lead to educational divergence.Also, if a family can not have an effective unified approach to education, then the child will not know what to do.4.4 Affect the healthy growth of children

Under the protection of grandparents, prone to two extremes: one extreme is the timid, alienation, adaptability is poor, introverted;Another extreme is the strong, domineering, difficult to manage, outward, These are all shows that the inter-generational education are likely to cause adverse effects for their children's habits, personality , ability and other aspects

Summary

Based on the analysis of the inter-generational education, we know that

inter-generational education have two sides.But the disadvantages far outweigh the positive side.We talk about education, ultimately comes down to kids, what is the best way to the children? How can it be best to develop their abilities?This is worth thinking about.Therefore, based on the reality of cross-generational education in China today, how should we do? Of course, we can not regard it as a scourge, we can not blame all the problems to inter-generational education, Certainly we can notignore and avoid its drawbacks, we should take a more positive attitude.That is to say, play inter-generational educational advantages, to overcome the negative impacts.Lead the children a more happy and healthy life.Bibliography:

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第三篇：隔代教育弊端

许多老师发现，班上性格有明显缺陷的个别学生，身上都有“隔代教育”的影子，这种现象已引起教育界人士的警觉。

溺爱，是许多老人无法摆脱的阴影

如今，只要谈起对孩子的教育，人人都知道不能对孩子溺爱，也知道溺爱只会害了孩子。但是，落实到具体每一个人身上，一些老人就自觉或不自觉地溺爱孩子。

有心理学家认为，溺爱，是一个比较复杂的心理活动，特别是老人，几十年的风雨和坎坷，老人已经别无所求。但是，许多老人在对待孙子辈的教育上，却或多或少带着某种感情色彩，总认为自己在感情上对子女有所欠缺，想利用对孙子辈抚养弥补一下失去的情感。

由于老人往往溺爱孩子，而较少理会这种满足是否对孩子有益，过分的溺爱和迁就容易使孩子产生“自我中心”意识，形成自我、任性等不良个性。过分保护遏制了孩子的独立能力和自信心的发展，增强了孩子的依赖性，容易使孩子变得更加娇气。祖辈深受传统思想的束缚，接受新生事物较慢，影响孩子创新个性的形成。

在许多家庭，大家经常可以看到这样的情形：父母在对孩子的过错行为进行教育时，爷爷奶奶或者外公外婆总免不了在旁边插上一两句话，“孩子还小，不懂事。”“你们小时候我都没有这样对待过你。”“孙子乖，待会儿我给你买吃的，气死你老爸”诸如此类的话，让孩子更加有恃无恐。

在前面案例二中提到的家庭教育，由于孩子已经形成“以我为中心”概念，家里不管什么好的，首先就得满足孩子。吃东西，肯定是最好的夹在孩子碗里，而且一堆老高，生怕孩子饿着似的。爷爷家管教稍严一点点，外公外婆的电话就不停地追到爷爷家，担心孩子受皮肉之苦。据说，孩子的父亲一次气极打了儿子一下，外婆就在旁边伤心地陪外孙哭，而且责怪女婿让孩子受苦了。老两口都是有一定文化的人，可没见他们教孩子学点知识，小孩只知道用玩具手机模仿“大老板”口气摆布老人，而他们觉得孩子很可爱、聪明。

有邻居说，他们看在眼里，疼在心里，“这家子人如此没有原则地宠爱孩子，既表现出老人的极端不负责任，又说明他们有某种私心”。邻里指出，这种私心就是在某种程度上把孩子当成自己晚年的玩物。

孩子的父母说，我们很无奈

据调查显示，我市目前0－6岁的孩子，10个中就有五六个主要由隔代老人教育。随着社会老龄化趋势的形成，祖辈承担对孙辈的家庭教育正成为家庭的教育特色。调查表明，孩子年龄愈小，与祖辈生活在一起的比率愈高。社会竞争加剧，工作节奏加快，许多年轻父母们将更多的精力集中于事业。

一位外资企业的张女士已经做了4年的妈妈，带孩子的经验却只有半年。她说，自己有时间也属于各种各样的社交和两人世界，孩子让爷爷奶奶带着没什么不好。而更多的父母选择让老人带孩子则是出于无奈。做了2年半爸爸的王先生就说：“其实我和孩子她妈都想跟孩子有更多的接触时间，但工作实在太忙，我们也没办法。”

九龙坡某小院的章先生日前对记者诉苦，他一个人在外工作，每天的压力太大了，根本没有时间教育孩子，章的妻子几年前因单位没有效益放回家闲呆着。据说，这位太太是家里的独子，从小到大就没做过什么家务，更谈不上教育下一代了。章太太成天在家与邻居从玩“金花儿”、麻将到“斗地主”，5岁不到的女儿，就丢给孩子的爷爷奶奶管，而爷爷奶奶生活了几十年，由于两人的性格不合，几乎每天都能听到老人的磕碰吵闹声，结果孙女在家学会了动不动就赌气、指桑骂槐、摔东西甚至脏话。

在“现在就这么一个孩子，迁就一点有何不可”的观念支配下，许多孩子的父母也就懒得批评老辈子对孙子辈的娇惯。记者从我市部分小学、中学了解到，班上成绩优秀、懂礼貌、思想活跃的孩子，几乎没有一个在家里被老人或父母过分宠爱过。

孩子教育该谁管？

记者曾听到一位年轻母亲说的话，她说，我要了孩子，就要对孩子的未来负责，再苦再累，我也要让孩子在我的身边接受我和孩子的父亲的教育。

有专家说，我们并不完全反对隔代教育，隔代教育也有优势。比如，不少祖辈家长有充裕的时间和精力，愿意花时间与孩子在一起生活，而且能够耐心地倾听孩子的叙述。加上祖辈家长具有抚养和教育孩子的实践经验，对孩子在不同的年龄容易出现什么问题，应该怎样处理，他们知道的要比孩子的父母多得多。而且，祖辈家长在长期的社会实践中积累了丰富的社会阅历和人生感悟，是有效处理孩子教育问题的有利条件等等。

老师和儿童心理学专家在分析孩子的教育时，都会告诉做父母的一句话：父母是孩子的第一任老师。可见，父母对子女教育的重要性。如今，残酷的竞争已经进入白热化，许多年轻的父母的确因事业和饭碗而不得不疲劳地奔波，无暇顾及对孩子从生活到人生道路教育的关照。但是，这并不能成为父母不管孩子的理由，也不能成为祖辈溺爱孙辈的理由。

父母要和孩子多接触，父母趋于理性，而隔代老人趋于感性。父母教孩子一种知识，给孩子买一样东西，满足孩子一个要求，往往考虑这样做对孩子的成长是否有益处，着眼于培养孩子良好的品格。但老人对待孩子往往有一种溺爱的倾向，以尽量满足孩子的愿望为出发点，而较少理会这种满足对他们有益还是有害。

家庭教育专家李洪曾说，隔代教育作为一种客观存在的家庭教育方式，对孩子的个性发展有着极大的影响，只有清楚地认识到隔代教育的利与弊，在发挥其教育优势的同时，认真克服种种负面影响，才能使孩子现有的家庭教育状况得以改进，使我们的孩子快乐、健康地成长。他建议年轻的父母，不管多么忙，都要抽点时间与孩子在一起，不要完全把对孩子的教育权、抚养权交给老人，这是对孩子不负责任的做法。

第四篇：学生教育个案分析

学生教育个案分析

孙志虎，男，九年级（4）班学生。性格倔强，个性刚硬，虚荣心特强，逆反心理十分严重。经常和老师发生冲突、顶撞，有很强的抵触情绪。你越是反对的事情，他就越和你对着干。在学校，他这种反抗行为十分尖锐。经受不起老师的批评。每当老师批评他时，他眼睛直对着老师，一副不服气的样子，甚至还和老师顶嘴。上课故意讲话，做小动作，不交作业。是个让老师十分头疼的学生。分析：

该生的叛逆行为是进入青春期的一种表现，许多青春期的孩子对大人都有一种逆反心理。他们往往把家长和老师的批评、帮助理解为与自己过不去，认为伤害了自己，因而就会表现出严重的敌对倾向。在长期的观察中，我发现他没有树立正确的学习动机。他不知道什么是学习，认为读书是为了老师或者是家长，当他看到社会上一些没读书而赚了大钱的人时，更是迷茫，觉得读不读书无所谓，这样也导致了他对学习没什么兴趣，甚至厌学。针对他的问题，我采取了以下措施：

第一，建立良好的师生关系。和他单独交谈，了解他的情况，让他充分地发泄内心里与学校与老师的不愉快记忆。刚开始他闭口不语，我就避开主题，先从日常生活中的小事谈起，并多次强调会为他所说的话保密，后来他终于开口了。在交谈中，我还了解到他爱好打篮球。

第二，要坚持疏导教育。我们要正确对待这类学生，避免直接批评，不与他发生正面冲突，注意保护他的自尊心。当他犯错误时，不当着其他人的面点他的名字，而是在与他个别交谈时动之以情，晓之以理，耐心帮助他分清是非，意识到自己的错误，并愿意主动地去改正，这样逐渐缓解紧张的师生关系。第三，要因势利导，扬长避短。老师要善于挖掘学生身上的闪光点，充分发挥其作用。对他学习上的任何进步都及时给予肯定和表扬，让他尝到成功的喜悦以及意识到自己还是有学习的潜力。

第四，要尽量减轻学生的心理和学业负担，尤其是减轻他的心理压力，然后逐步培养他学习的兴趣。

通过上述四个措施，两个月后，他的厌学情绪明显好转。表现为他不再逃课，上课时候也会认真听讲，不会随便和同桌或者其他同学讲话。即使做错了，受到来自老师的批评，他也不会和老师顶嘴或者对着干。虽然成绩不是有很明显的提高，但是上课能够坐在教室里安静听课，对他来说，也是进步的一个方面，作为老师也应该看到学生点滴的进步，应及时给予鼓励。

第五篇：小学生教育个案分析

有一种教育叫静待花开

林笑微

一年级的学生刚刚从幼儿园上来，由于年龄小，自制能力差，时常不能控制自己，上课时爱随便说话或者做小动作。特别是走读班的学生，他们都是家里比较宠，一家人以一个孩子为中心，也有些孩子比较好动自控能力差。他们常常为一点小事弄情绪，或者动别人，有的无缘无故的离开位置走出来，或者扯别人的头发，想哭就哭等等。老师们总是苦口婆心地给他们讲道理，进行说服教育，但是没有取得良好的效果，他们没有太大的改变。通过观察了解才明白学生具有这样的行为不仅是品行问题，还有其心理问题。如何改掉孩子的随意性，想干嘛就干嘛，没有规矩意识呢？通过思考、实践，找到了一些有效的方法。

一、案例介绍：

我班有一个学生，叫周某某，刚入学那一会儿，学习习惯非常差，上课经常玩东西，把铅笔衔在嘴里，把橡皮擦弄得碎碎的，根本没有规矩；作业书写迹潦草不是没有铅笔，就是没有橡皮擦。她是一个在幼儿园已经学了很多知识的孩子，有点资本，上课反应还算快，但是注意力分散的也算快，回答问题的胆量没有，喜欢接别的同学和老师的话尾。一有什么不顺心的事，马上嚎啕大哭，不管是上课还是下课，所以经常影响到全班同学。下课也喜欢动手打人，她喜欢推来推去的。另外，我感觉的思想比较单纯幼稚，有时不能控制自己行为，但有改正的愿望。

二、案例分析

这个孩子其实算聪明，在学前教育阶段，习惯方面的问题没有引起家长足够的重视，而且还认为她聪明，虽有许多缺点，但关系不大，因此没有及时纠正；且家长忙于工作没时间管制她，放任她，纵容她的坏习惯，久而久之便改正不来。这类孩子平时管不住自己的手脚，言行举止不分时间、场合，课堂上坐不住，爱惹是生非，影响其他同学，课间常因自控力差而与同学发生摩擦，导致出现攻击性行为。

三、教育方式

针对此生的行为特点，需要老师和家长对她进行共同矫治，方法如下： 1．作为班主任简单地认为是思想和品德问题，粗暴地训斥、打骂、处罚，造成精神压力或情绪波动，引起反抗心理，甚至产生攻击性行为，而要多关心，多理解，使其感到温暖而有触动，有悔意，为教育引导打下基础。

2．通过了解周某的这种情况主要是应该是家庭不良的教育因素影响。父母做生意很忙，没有尽教育的责任，遇到孩子不乖不知道该怎么教育，动不动不是辱骂就是棍棒相加。但是，当老师发现问题跟她妈妈交流的时候，家长还不怎么配合，自认为自己孩子还是可以的，听话懂事。还质问老师，你作为施教准备怎么教育我家孩子。刚开始的态度很强硬，通过几次沟通后，妈妈的态度也有了转变，明白了教育需要家庭和学校双方配合的。

3．利用集体的力量影响他，使其养成良好的行为习惯。她哭闹会影响了全班同学的学习，到时候大家成绩不好，就会影响班级的荣誉，培养她的集体荣誉感。今后不管怎么样，要与同学友好相处，同时我也让全班同学都关心她，安排最好的学生与她同坐，在班上多给予肯定表扬，使她对自己有自信心，使她在大家的善意帮助下，在众多的榜样示范下，逐步向好的方面发展。

四、教育结果：

周某某还是那样的活泼好动，爱发脾气，但是比起之前似乎懂得了控制自己，制止力有了一些提高，偶尔还是会管不住自己的手，动动旁边的同学，有时靠在那里，坐姿不端正，有时候也会大声的插嘴。但是只要我一个眼神过去，她再也不会像以前那样和我对视毫不畏惧。而是马上坐端正。虽然还没有达到老师的要求，但是我想她已经在努力的改掉自己缺点，往好的方向发展。教育的结果不是一蹴而就的，这是一个长期而漫长的过程，但是我相信爱的力量，我相信每个孩子都是可以塑造的天使。

五、进一步措施：

用校规校纪约束她，用爱打开孩子的心，让孩子从内心接受老师的爱，并在老师的引导下不断的进步。

六、教育感悟：

孩子如花，每个孩子都有自己的花期，有自己独有的色彩，有的花期早，争芳斗艳，有的姗姗来迟，久久不开。只有静下心来，慢慢欣赏，才能等到孩子们独有的花期。