北大学姐演讲

第一篇：北大学姐演讲

在怀疑的时代依然需要信仰（7月1日，北大中文系毕业典礼上，一位学姐的致辞）

来源： 殷世浩的日志

敬爱的老师和亲爱的同学们，上午好！

谢谢你们叫我回家。让我有幸再次聆听老师的教诲，分享我亲爱的学弟学妹们的特殊喜悦。

一进家门，光阴倒转，刚才那些美好的视频，同学的发言，老师的讲话，都让我觉得所有年轻的故事都不曾走远。可是，站在你们面前，亲爱的同学们，我才发现，自己真的老了。1988年，我本科毕业的时候，你们中的绝大多数人还没有出生。那个时候你们的朗朗部长还是众女生仰慕的帅师兄，你们的渭毅老师正与我的同屋女孩爱得地老天荒。而现在他们的孩子都该考大学了。

就像刚才那首歌唱的，“记忆中最美的春天，难以再回首的昨天”。如果把生活比作一段将理想“变现”的历程，我们只是一叠面额有限的现钞，而你们是即将上市的股票。从一张白纸起步的书写，前程无远弗届，一切皆有可能。面对你们，我甚至缺少一分抒发“过来人”心得的勇气。

但我先生力劝我来，我的朋友也劝我来，他们都是84级的中文系学长。今天，他们有的仍然是一介文人，清贫淡泊；有的已经主政一方，功成名就；有的发了财做了“富二代”的爹，也有的离了婚、生活并不如意，但在网上交流时，听说有今天这样一个机会，他们都无一例外地让我一定要来，代表他们，代表那一代人，向自己的弟弟妹妹说点什么。

是的，跟你们一样，我们曾在中文系就读，甚至读过同一门课程，青涩的背影都曾被燕园的阳光，定格在五院青藤缠满的绿墙上。但那是上个世纪的事了，我们之间横亘着20多年的时光。那个时候我们称为理想的，今天或许你们笑称其为空想；那时的我们流行书生论政，今天的你们要面对诫勉谈话；那时的我们熟悉的热词是民主自由，今天的你们记住的是“拼爹”、“躲猫猫”、“打酱油”；那个时候的我们喜欢在三角地游荡，而今天的你们习惯隐形于伟大的互联网。我们那时的中国依然贫穷却豪情万丈，而今天这个世界第二大经济体，还在苦苦寻找迷失的幸福，无数和你们一样的青年喜欢用“囧”形容自己的处境。

20多年时光，中国到底走了多远？存放我们青春记忆的“三角地”早已荡然无存，见证你们少年心绪的“一塔湖图”正在创造新的历史。你们这一代人，有着远比我们当年更优越的条件，更广博的见识，更成熟的内心，站在更高的起点。

我们想说的是，站在这样高的起点，由北大中文系出发，你们不缺前辈大师的庇荫，更不少历史文化的熏染。诗经楚辞的世界，老庄孔孟的思想，李白杜甫的词章，构成了你们生命中最为激荡的青春时光。我不需要提醒你们，未来将如何以具体琐碎，消磨这份浪漫与绚烂；也不需要提醒你们，人生将以怎样的平庸世故，消解你们的万丈雄心；更不需要提醒你们，走入社会，要如何变得务实与现实，因为你们终将以一生浸淫其中。我唯一的害怕，是你们已经不相信了——不相信规则能战胜潜规则，不相信学场有别于官场，不相信学术不等于权术，不相信风骨远胜于媚骨。你们或许不相信了，因为追求级别的越来越多，追求真理的越来越少；讲待遇的越来越多，讲理想的越来越少；大官越来越多，大师越来越少。因此，在你们走向社会之际，我想说的只是，请看护好你曾经的激情和理想。在这个怀疑的时代，我们依然需要信仰。

也许有同学会笑话，大师姐写报社论写多了吧，这么高的调子。可如果我告诉各位，这是我的那些中文系同学，那些不管今天处于怎样的职位，遭遇过怎样的人生的同学共同的想法，你们是否会稍微有些重视？是否会多想一下为什么二十多年过去他们依然如此？

我知道，与我们这一代相比，你们这一代人的社会化远在你们踏上社会之前就已经开始了，...

第二篇：北大学姐·建议

首要建议一：充分利用假期学习计算机常用技术，21世纪信息时代，计算机一窍不通是绝对不行的。学学怎么合并音频、剪辑视频，学着做一个flash、学着用photoshop把相片进行特技处理（不要用美图秀秀，那只能降低你的智商！），学点ppt里面比较复杂的操作和动画效果。（学习资料和软件下载请看后面的补充）

建议二：充分利用假期时间补足自己在大学一年生活中觉得自己不足的地方，包括你的演讲，才艺，交际能力，常规技术与常识等等。比如，你在竞选学生会等学生组织的时候是不是看到别人都是才艺满满、一展歌喉，是不是曾经羡慕他们的多才多艺啊，其实呢，多才多艺都是慢慢培养出来的，利用假期时间，学唱几首歌、模仿一个单口相声、练习三分钟即兴演讲等等，培养自己勇敢、活泼、自信的美好品质。

建议三：充分享受假期的生活条件和网络资源，看几场有意义的电影。

推荐阅读： 部好看的校园喜剧片（可练习英文）+美国校园青春励志电影

建议四：不能中断英语听力的练习，如果时间不够或者假期没打算复习英语，单词可以不背，卷纸可以不做，但是听力必须每天都练，哪怕每天1分钟也好，你今天练10个小时，明天没练，那也相当于十天白练，英语听力和练钢琴一样，一日不练十日白练一点也不夸张，学着让自己适应听力的环境，让耳朵经常在这个氛围里工作，日久天长定能看到效果。

建议五：加强运动。运动项目会了多少体现你的能力和涵养，篮球、足球、乒乓球、羽毛球、排球、网球、游泳，总得会1-2样并且能把它当做乐趣，假期如果没有什么特殊情况，要天天去体育馆锻炼才行。

建议六：将没有达到二绩点的科目进行复习和整理，为开学后的重考做好准备。建议七：读1-2本有意义的课外书或者10-50篇文字优美的抒情散文，这会陶冶你的情操，提高你的个人品味和修养。

建议八：尝试一件没有尝试过的事情，超越你自己，可以是做一顿饭、打一次工、做一次家教、学跳一段舞、背诵一篇英文演讲稿、和老外做一次英文交流、给你的英语老师用英文写一封新年贺信、和爸爸谈一次工作方面的体会，各种形式均可，目的就是挑战自己的勇气，体现超越自己的快乐。

建议九：尝试向杂志社投稿一篇文章或者学做一篇小说，如果这个要求以你现在的能力来说太难，那就尝试写一篇日志存放在空间里，可以总结一下大一第一学期的感触、可以发表对一件事情的独到看法，也可以用饱含真情的文字感谢几个生命中最重要的人。锻炼文笔、记录成长。

第三篇：北大演讲

克林顿在北京大学的英文演讲稿

PRESIDENT CLINTON:

Thank you.Thank you, President Chen, Chairmen Ren, Vice President Chi, Vice Minister Wei.We are delighted to be here today with a very large American delegation, including the First Lady and our daughter, who is a student at Stanford, one of the schools with which Beijing University has a relationship.We have six members of the United States Congress;the Secretary of State;Secretary of Commerce;the Secretary of Agriculture;the Chairman of our Council of Economic Advisors;Senator Sasser, our Ambassador;the National Security Advisor and my Chief of Staff, among others.I say that to illustrate the importance that the United States places on our relationship with China.I would like to begin by congratulating all of you, the students, the faculty, the administrators, on celebrating the centennial year of your university.Gongxi, Beida.(Applause.)As I'm sure all of you know, this campus was once home to Yenching University which was founded by American missionaries.Many of its wonderful buildings were designed by an American architect.Thousands of Americans students and professors have come here to study and teach.We feel a special kinship with you.I am, however, grateful that this day is different in one important respect from another important occasion 79 years ago.In June of 1919, the first president of Yenching University, John Leighton Stuart, was set to deliver the very first commencement address on these very grounds.At the appointed hour, he appeared, but no students appeared.They were all out leading the May 4th Movement for China's political and cultural renewal.When I read this, I hoped that when I walked into the auditorium today, someone would be sitting here.And I thank you for being here, very much.(Applause.)Over the last 100 years, this university has grown to more than 20,000 students.Your graduates are spread throughout China and around the world.You have built the largest university library in all of Asia.Last year, 20 percent of your graduates went abroad to study, including half of your math and science majors.And in this anniversary year, more than a million people in China, Asia, and beyond have logged on to your web site.At the dawn of a new century, this university is leading China into the future.I come here today to talk to you, the next generation of China's leaders, about the critical importance to your future of building a strong partnership between China and the United States.The American people deeply admire China for its thousands of years of contributions to culture and religion, to philosophy and the arts, to science and technology.We remember well our strong partnership in World War II.Now we see China at a moment in history when your glorious past is matched by your present sweeping transformation and the even greater promise of your future.Just three decades ago, China was virtually shut off from the world.Now, China is a member of more than 1,000 international organizations--enterprises that affect everything from air travel to agricultural development.You have opened your nation to trade and investment on a large scale.Today, 40,000 young Chinese study in the United States, with hundreds of thousands more learning in Asia, Africa, Europe, and Latin America.Your social and economic transformation has been even more remarkable, moving from a closed command economic system to a driving, increasingly market-based and driven economy, generating two decades of unprecedented growth, giving people greater freedom to travel within and outside China, to vote in village elections, to own a home, choose a job, attend a better school.As a result you have lifted literally hundreds of millions of people from poverty.Per capita income has more than doubled in the last decade.Most Chinese people are leading lives they could not have imagined just 20 years ago.Of course, these changes have also brought disruptions in settled patterns of life and work, and have imposed enormous strains on your environment.Once every urban Chinese was guaranteed employment in a state enterprise.Now you must compete in a job market.Once a Chinese worker had only to meet the demands of a central planner in Beijing.Now the global economy means all must match the quality and creativity of the rest of the world.For those who lack the right training and skills and support, this new world can be daunting.In the short-term, good, hardworking people--some, at least will find themselves unemployed.And, as all of you can see, there have been enormous environmental and economic and health care costs to the development pattern and the energy use pattern of the last 20 years--from air pollution to deforestation to acid rain and water shortage.In the face of these challenges new systems of training and social security will have to be devised, and new environmental policies and technologies will have to be introduced with the goal of growing your economy while improving the environment.Everything I know about the intelligence, the ingenuity, the enterprise of the Chinese people and everything I have heard these last few days in my discussions with President Jiang, Prime Minister Zhu and others give me confidence that you will succeed.As you build a new China, America wants to build a new relationship with you.We want China to be successful, secure and open, working with us for a more peaceful and prosperous world.I know there are those in China and the United States who question whether closer relations between our countries is a good thing.But everything all of us know about the way the world is changing and the challenges your generation will face tell us that our two nations will be far better off working together than apart.The late Deng Xiaoping counseled us to seek truth from facts.At the dawn of the new century, the facts are clear.The distance between our two nations, indeed, between any nations, is shrinking.Where once an American clipper ship took months to cross from China to the United States.Today, technology has made us all virtual neighbors.From laptops to lasers, from microchips to megabytes, an information revolution is lighting the landscape of human knowledge, bringing us all closer together.Ideas, information, and money cross the planet at the stroke of a computer key, bringing with them extraordinary opportunities to create wealth, to prevent and conquer disease, to foster greater understanding among peoples of different histories and different cultures.But we also know that this greater openness and faster change mean that problems which start beyond one nations borders can quickly move inside them--the spread of weapons of mass destruction, the threats of organized crime and drug trafficking, of environmental degradation, and severe economic dislocation.No nation can isolate itself from these problems, and no nation can solve them alone.We, especially the younger generations of China and the United States, must make common cause of our common challenges, so that we can, together, shape a new century of brilliant possibilities.In the 21st century--your century--China and the United States will face the challenge of security in Asia.On the Korean Peninsula, where once we were adversaries, today we are working together for a permanent peace and a future free of nuclear weapons.On the Indian subcontinent, just as most of the rest of the world is moving away from nuclear danger, India and Pakistan risk sparking a new arms race.We are now pursuing a common strategy to move India and Pakistan away from further testing and toward a dialogue to resolve their differences.In the 21st century, your generation must face the challenge of stopping the spread of deadlier nuclear,chemical, and biological weapons.In the wrong hands or the wrong places, these weapons can threaten the peace of nations large and small.Increasingly, China and the United States agree on the importance of stopping proliferation.That is why we are beginning to act in concert to control the worlds most dangerous weapons.In the 21st century, your generation will have to reverse the international tide of crime and drugs.Around the world, organized crime robs people of billions of dollars every year and undermines trust in government.America knows all about the devastation and despair that drugs can bring to schools and neighborhoods.With borders on more than a dozen countries, China has become a crossroad for smugglers of all kinds.Last year, President Jiang and I asked senior Chinese and American law enforcement officials to step up our cooperation against these predators, to stop money from being laundered, to stop aliens from being cruelly smuggled, to stop currencies from being undermined by counterfeiting.Just this month, our drug enforcement agency opened an office in Beijing, and soon Chinese counternarcotics experts will be working out of Washington.In the 21st century, your generation must make it your mission to ensure that today's progress does not come at tomorrow's expense.China's remarkable growth in the last two decades has come with a toxic cost, pollutants that foul the water you drink and the air you breathe--the cost is not only environmental, it is also serious in terms of the health consequences of your people and in terms of the drag on economic growth.Environmental problems are also increasingly global as well as national.For example, in the near future, if present energy use patterns persist, China will overtake the United States as the world's largest emitter of greenhouse gases, the gases which are the principal cause of global warming.If the nations of the world do not reduce the gases which are causing global warming, sometime in the next century there is a serious risk of dramatic changes in climate which will change the way we live and the way we work, which could literally bury some island nations under mountains of water and undermine the economic and social fabric of nations.We must work together.We Americans know from our own experience that it is possible to grow an economy while improving the environment.We must do that together for ourselves and for the world.Building on the work that our Vice President, Al Gore, has done previously with the Chinese government, President Jiang and I are working together on ways to bring American clean energy technology to help improve air quality and grow the Chinese economy at the same time.But I will say this again--this is not on my remarks--your generation must do more about this.This is a huge challenge for you, for the American people and for the future of the world.And it must be addressed at the university level, because political leaders will never be willing to adopt environmental measures if they believe it will lead to large-scale unemployment or more poverty.The evidence is clear that does not have to happen.You will actually have more rapid economic growth and better paying jobs, leading to higher levels of education and technology if we do this in the proper way.But you and the university, communities in China, the United States and throughout the world will have to lead the way.(Applause.)In the 21st century your generation must also lead the challenge of an international financial system that has no respect for national borders.When stock markets fall in Hong Kong or Jakarta, the effects are no longer local;they are global.The vibrant growth of your own economy is tied closely, therefore, to the restoration of stability and growth in the Asia Pacific region.China has steadfastly shouldered its responsibilities to the region and the world in this latest financial crisis--helping to prevent another cycle of dangerous devaluations.We must continue to work together to counter this threat to the global financial system and to the growth and prosperity which should be embracing all of this region.In the 21st century, your generation will have a remarkable opportunity to bring together the talents of our scientists, doctors, engineers into a shared quest for progress.Already the breakthroughs we have achieved in our areas of joint cooperation--in challenges from dealing with spina bifida to dealing with extreme weather conditions and earthquakes--have proved what we can do together to change the lives of millions of people in China and the United States and around the world.Expanding our cooperation in science and technology can be one of our greatest gifts to the future.In each of these vital areas that I have mentioned, we can clearly accomplish so much more by walking together rather than standing apart.That is why we should work to see that the productive relationship we now enjoy blossoms into a fuller partnership in the new century.If that is to happen, it is very important that we understand each other better, that we understand both our common interest and our shared aspirations and our honest differences.I believe the kind of open, direct exchange that President Jiang and I had on Saturday at our press conference--which I know many of you watched on television--can both clarify and narrow our differences, and, more important, by allowing people to understand and debate and discuss these things can give a greater sense of confidence to our people that we can make a better future.From the windows of the White House, where I live in Washington, D.C., the monument to our first President, George Washington, dominates the skyline.It is a very tall obelisk.But very near this large monument there is a small stone which contains these words: The United States neither established titles of nobility and royalty, nor created a hereditary system.State affairs are put to the vote of public opinion.This created a new political situation, unprecedented from ancient times to the present.How wonderful it is.Those words were not written by an American.They were written by XuJiyu, governor of Fujian Province, inscribed as a gift from the government of China to our nation in 1853.I am very grateful for that gift from China.It goes to the heart of who we are as a people--the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, the freedom to debate, to dissent, to associate, to worship without interference from the state.These are the ideals that were at the core of our founding over 220 years ago.These are the ideas that led us across our continent and onto the world stage.These are the ideals that Americans cherish today.As I said in my press conference with President Jiang, we have an ongoing quest ourselves to live up to those ideals.The people who framed our Constitution understood that we would never achieve perfection.They said that the mission of America would always be “to form a more perfect union”--in other words, that we would never be perfect, but we had to keep trying to do better.The darkest moments in our history have come when we abandoned the effort to do better, when we denied freedom to our people because of their race or their religion, because there were new immigrants or because they held unpopular opinions.The best moments in our history have come when we protected the freedom of people who held unpopular opinion, or extended rights enjoyed by the many to the few who had previously been denied them, making, therefore, the promises of our Declaration of Independence and Constitution more than faded words on old parchment.Today we do not seek to impose our vision on others, but we are convinced that certain rights are universal--not American rights or European rights or rights for developed nations, but the birthrights of people everywhere, now enshrined in the United Nations Declaration on Human Rights--the right to be treated with dignity;the right to express one's opinions, to choose one's own leaders, to associate freely with others, and to worship, or not, freely, however one chooses.In the last letter of his life, the author of our Declaration of Independence and our third President, Thomas Jefferson, said then that “all eyes are opening to the rights of man.” I believe that in this time, at long last, 172 years after Jefferson wrote those words, all eyes are opening to the rights of men and women everywhere.Over the past two decades, a rising tide of freedom has lifted the lives of millions around the world, sweeping away failed dictatorial systems in the Former Soviet Union, throughout Central Europe;ending a vicious cycle of military coups and civil wars in Latin America;giving more people in Africa the chance to make the most of their hard-won independence.And from the Philippines to South Korea, from Thailand to Mongolia, freedom has reached Asia's shores, powering a surge of growth and productivity.Economic security also can be an essential element of freedom.It is recognized in the United Nations Covenant on Economic, Social, and Cultural Rights.In China, you have made extraordinary strides in nurturing that liberty, and spreading freedom from want, to be a source of strength to your people.Incomes are up, poverty is down;people do have more choices of jobs, and the ability to travel--the ability to make a better life.But true freedom includes more than economic freedom.In America, we believe it is a concept which is indivisible.Over the past four days, I have seen freedom in many manifestations in China.I have seen the fresh shoots of democracy growing in the villages of your heartland.I have visited a village that chose its own leaders in free elections.I have also seen the cell phones, the video players, the fax machines carrying ideas, information and images from all over the world.I've heard people speak their minds and I have joined people in prayer in the faith of my own choosing.In all these ways I felt a steady breeze of freedom.The question is, where do we go from here? How do we work together to be on the right side of history together? More than 50 years ago, Hu Shi, one of your great political thinkers and a teacher at this university, said these words: “Now some people say to me you must sacrifice your individual freedom so that the nation may be free.But I reply, the struggle for individual freedom is the struggle for the nation's freedom.The struggle for your own character is the struggle for the nation's character.”

We Americans believe Hu Shi was right.We believe and our experience demonstrates that freedom strengthens stability and helps nations to change.One of our founding fathers, Benjamin Franklin, once said, “Our critics are our friends, for they show us our faults.” Now, if that is true, there are many days in the United States when the President has more friends than anyone else in America.(Laughter.)But it is so.In the world we live in, this global information age, constant improvement and change is necessary to economic opportunity and to national strength.Therefore, the freest possible flow of information, ideas, and opinions, and a greater respect for divergent political and religious convictions will actually breed strength and stability going forward.It is, therefore, profoundly in your interest, and the world's, that young Chinese minds be free to reach the fullness of their potential.That is the message of our time and the mandate of the new century and the new millennium.I hope China will more fully embrace this mandate.For all the grandeur of your history, I believe your greatest days are still ahead.Against great odds in the 20th century China has not only survived, it is moving forward dramatically.Other ancient cultures failed because they failed to change.China has constantly proven the capacity to change and grow.Now, you must re-imagine China again for a new century, and your generation must be at the heart of China's regeneration.The new century is upon us.All our sights are turned toward the future.Now your country has known more millennia than the United States has known centuries.Today, however, China is as young as any nation on Earth.This new century can be the dawn of a new China, proud of your ancient greatness, proud of what you are doing, prouder still of the tomorrows to come.It can be a time when the world again looks to China for the vigor of its culture, the freshness of its thinking, the elevation of human dignity that is apparent in its works.It can be a time when the oldest of nations helps to make a new world.The United States wants to work with you to make that time a reality.Thank you very much.(Applause.)

第四篇：北大学姐学习心得之错题本

北大学姐学习心得之错题本

大家好！昨天的贴里提到了【错题本】，就有家长问这块，本来是想跟大家再次“畅谈”的，可我心血来潮，在百度上进行了这样的搜索“北京 状元错题本”，具体请大家看下图：

我想这张图就已经把我想讲的一大块说明白了，所以我就不废话了。

而我想讲的下一块本是“如何建立错题本”之类的方面，不经意我点击了几个链接，于是……

感谢学而思教师团队，咱们很早以前就有这方面的资料了。

文有了，图也有了，世界圆满了。

等等！

好像貌似可能缺点什么吧？

……标题是“北大学姐学习心得分享之错题本”来着……

咳咳，大道理就不讲了，我来补充一下个人观点：

1.错题本绝对不能代劳，不能是父母帮助抄录题目，不推荐电子版打印稿，要孩子自己手抄！

抄录题目是一个非常重要的审题过程，在抄的时候，孩子能一个字一个字地再把题干过一遍，想一想，当时怎么就做错了呢！

退一万步讲，抄题，很辛苦是吧，那以后就少做错一点！这也是内在动力有木有！学习本来就是个人事情，如果这块要代劳那块要辅助，跟从妈妈嘴里接咀嚼过的食物有什么区别？

另外，逐渐造成的依赖该怎么解决？如果父母不在身边，没人帮忙抄题，那就不做错题本了？！

电子版打印稿问题，统一“宋体，五号”字会比手写字给人的印象更深刻？ 我估计“加粗、下划线、波浪线、文字底纹”等齐上阵也不会有黑、蓝、红三色签字笔带来的视觉冲击大。

而且，自己亲手一字一字写出来的，都是血泪的经验教训，珍贵的不能再珍贵了！

2.错题本得是自己总结的！

很多人热衷于收集状元笔记本、错题本，之后呢？把那些高端大气的本都背下来吗？再后呢？

打个比方，不是你自己的小孩，你会对他有特殊感情吗？一般人都不会。那拿着别人总结的错题本，除了敬佩和瞻仰，你还能得到什么……

当然，我鼓励观摩经典错题本，学学成绩好的同学是怎样有效记录错题本的，但是，只有自己错的题，自己从头到尾重新想一遍，再写一遍之后才能让你明白：这道题为什么就错了！

3.不要想着周末找个整块的时间一起总结！

这句话的最后结果就是：周末到了，啊呀，这么多题？！要抄到什么时候啊，算了，挑几道写上去得了……

作业、卷子再发下来就先自己琢磨，订正错题，自己总结哪里错了，记下来！不会的题，等老师讲的时候认真听！听完后跟之前的题一样，全都记下来！

（不认真听，下次还错，不仅得再记，还得听老师父母唠叨“这题你怎么又错了*&#￥*@%**”）

下了课，抄一道题，才要多久！但这就够了，整理错题本原本就是个琐碎的活儿，剩下的就是坚持！

化大任务为小任务，各个击破！如果写5道题需要20分钟，写50道题肯定不会是200分钟

（要喝水、要休息、要活动一下……自己给自己找理由，那借口海了去了）

4.推荐用不同颜色的笔标注错题

我们的大脑对颜色等有对比的事物记忆效果更好，题干一个颜色，陈述错误一个颜色，真正错误一个颜色——刚好黑、蓝、红，整理好了，除了便于复习与记忆，错题本还能赏心悦目呢

（告诉你们个小秘密，我高中时就老捧着自己的错题本，不是要看题，而是欣赏我那整洁美丽的错题本……）

5.个人秘籍：两本合一

准备错题本，孩子说话啦“有5门课，每门肯定都要一个笔记本，现在还要一个错题本，那我每天岂不都得背着10个本出门？！”

我个人其实把错题集当做笔记本的补充和拓展，正常，我们做的题都是为了实践学习到的知识点，而知识点就是记在笔记本上的内容，两者放在一起，互相补充，方便加深孩子对学习内容的理解啊。

当然，不能混杂记在一起，笔记还是笔记，错题录还是错题录，我的笔记本，正面从右向左打开，记得是课堂笔记、知识点等；背面，同样从右往左打开，就是错题录啦。

两本合一，不仅减轻书包负担（再一次说明，世界是由懒人推动的……），还能有针对地复习知识点（正面记得点，背面就有题），一箭双雕！

6.做作业前、考试前翻翻错题本，回顾下当时做题、订正题时的感受

作业、考试前翻错题本是为了什么，和笔记一个道理，大家都知道。而回顾当时感受，绝对是个直接冲击！

很多时候你会觉得“我当时脑子怎么就抽筋了，连这样的题都错！”

另一些时候你会有这样的想法“这道题比较难，这下我会做了，下面的考试，呵呵呵~”

总结错题，形成错题本，最终目的只有一个：掌握知识点！

还是那句话，成功没有捷径！每一朵花开背后都有辛勤汗水的浇灌。勤奋！坚持！细节！踏实走好每一步，你绝对不会后悔当初走得慢却稳！

关于我不经意点到的连接，请大家不要大意，猛戳这里：

【错题本—状元学生的特质，与您共同分享】

【看孙校空运回来的绝密高考状元错题本】。

乐加乐英语宋明君

第五篇：一位北大学姐写给学妹的话

一位北大学姐写给学妹的话

一、如果能够不谈恋爱，最好不要谈，不要相信别人说的什么“不恋爱的大学生活是不完整的”之类的鬼话，更不要因为寂寞而去喜欢一个人，去找一个人来陪，其最后的结果100%是由一个人的寂寞变成两个人的寂寞。如果你是大一刚进校的女生，真的很向往青葱小说里的大学恋情，那么我劝你最好忍一忍，等大二的时候再做出要不要谈恋爱，值不值得谈恋爱的决定，先给自己大学4年做一个很详细的规划和定位才是最现实，最有帮助的。

二、如果已经拥有甜蜜恋情的MM，在甜蜜的同时还要多为自己想想，不要他在的时候陪他，他不在的时候想他，不要将全部的时间都用在他身上。校园恋情的确很纯美，但是正因为这样，更要好好的把握自己。感情经验很稀薄的我们，比起走入社会或已经走入围城的大姐姐们更需要认清自己，把握好自己，更需要懂得感情不是人生的全部，它只是我们人生的一个重要组成部分。所以千万不要让它占据了你为自己能力增值的时间。一定要理智，理智，再理智。

三、一定不要相信那些所谓的都市颓废一族或某某小资写的那些什么“我把你的名字写在烟上，吸进肺里，放在离心最近的地方”，也不要相信“深夜买醉的女人与黑夜纠缠”之类的鬼话，从小到大都没闻过烟味或抽过烟的女生，可以尝试一次，但一定不要抽，更不要上瘾，女生抽烟除了自己觉得很颓废很小资，别人完全没感觉，特别是男生会很反感，哪怕是女士烟也不要。至于喝酒，一定不要一个人买醉，特别不要为了某某某就心痛到烂醉，喝酒应该是在和朋友家人一起很开心的时候，而不是伤心的时候，何况女人喝醉酒的样子，十个有八个是很难看的，更不要装醉装疯，借酒大哭大笑发泄。也许你现在觉得的确短时间内可以抒发你内心的感受，但等你再过十年回忆起，你一定会觉得自己很傻。不过个人觉得女生还是要隐藏性的有一定酒量比较好，不一定要表现出来，但对你以后的工作和生活绝对有好处。

四、千万不要做出以伤害自己健康为代价的事。女生一个人在外面读书，家里人都很不放心我们，我们也很懂事，是爸爸妈妈的贴心小棉袄，我们知道生病了不要给家人说，受委屈了一个人承担，我们一直对家里人“报喜不报忧”。那么，我们为什么要为了那个眼前所谓的深爱或最爱就要去吃避孕药，甚至做人流、堕胎呢？爱情不是靠你牺牲了健康就可以换来幸福的，如果你所谓的“真爱”是真的爱你，真的疼惜你，就不会不关注你的健康。不要因为爱他就给他，无论任何事，做之前都应该想想后果如何，自己是否能够承担，如果不能承担或是以伤害自己为代价，那么最好三思而行。也许热恋中的你会提心吊胆的算安全期，这样有必

要吗？也许你会因为自己使用了所谓的新一代无副作用的避孕药而倍感放心，是药就有三分毒，避孕药里面的雌性不规则激素会破坏我们身体自身的生理周期，让荷尔蒙产生紊乱，从而因起月经不调，体重增加等等一系列的反应。同时更不要相信报纸上说的什么“安全无痛式人流”，那对于年轻的我们来说，简直就是太不爱惜自己的表现。曾听朋友开玩笑说做人流特别减肥。对，的确是很减肥，我所知道的周围做过人流的女生都瘦了好多，但同时也感觉老了好多，皮肤变得很差，暗淡无光。并且我们更应该知道，人流之类的就是俗称的“小产”，做过之后是很需要好好调养身体的，要有充足的休息时间和很好的营养上的搭配补充，和做月子没什么两样。那么，做为学生的我们，在校读书期间有这样的条件和精力吗？我知道的很多女生都是作完之后坚持上课，也许现在你还年轻觉得没什么，但真正到了中年或身体免役能力开始下降的时候再来惋惜就晚了。所以，一定要考虑清楚，如果你的他真的值得你付出，那么一定要做好措施。

五、一定不要攀比。爱美之心人皆有之，女大更是十八变，需要精致的化妆品和美丽的衣服来装扮自己。一直很喜欢一句话：没有丑女人，只有懒女人。何况我们目前最好的装饰就是我们的青春，只要你将你的青春风采和自信微笑都展示在脸上，你就一定会成为万众注目的焦点。一定不要为了让同学羡慕，为了满足自己那点小小的虚荣心，就让自己的青春成为一个商品，任由自己挥霍出卖。陪聊、吧丽、公主、商务伴游。看了太多的关于这方面的有关女大学生的新闻，也听闻自己认识的某某同学去怎样怎样，而且这些女生往往家庭条件不是最困难的，只是喜欢玩，喜欢攀比，更虚荣一点。真正生活困难的女生其实都很朴实。我有2个很要好的同学，来自很偏僻的农村，一个月的生活费就200元，穿的也实在是普通，但学习成绩却是很优秀，课余时间参加了学校的勤工检学部，去给别人发一下传单，做一做家教同样很快乐。

六、读书期间一定珍惜时间，因为你以后出去工作了就不会再有这样大把的时间用在读书上了。不喜欢的课你可以放一放，只要不挂课就行，但知识面一定要广，一定要在自己专业以外选修2到3门其他专业的课。学校里经常有开专家教授的讲座，不是本专业的一样可以去听，一定要把握好机会。最好能在读书期间结识一两个名师，因为人们常说：“读万卷书不如行万里路，行万里路不如阅人无数，阅人无数不如名师点悟”就是这个道理。读书的方式很多，可以在网上下载，可以在图书馆。个人认为图书馆是大学里最值得去的地方，每个月给自己拟订一个读书的计划，要读什么书，读多少本，并且一定要做读书笔记，而且一定要是亲手写的，边看边记，边看边写，把自己有感觉的都记下来，有空的时候翻一翻，对自己很有帮助。

七、读书的时候一定要有3到4个关系很好的死党。虽然大家都来自不同的地方，也知道在一起的时间就那么短短的4年，我们也深深的懂得人一生中的朋友是具有阶段性的，但是作为女生，如果在大学里能够有几个可以交心的好朋友，那将会是你一生的财富。就我自己来说，我觉得我上大学最大的收获就是认识了3个一辈子都不会忘的好朋友，我们4个来自不同的地方，四川、重庆、广东、河北，但经过两年的相处，彼此都有一种很亲的感觉。而且每天的朝夕相处，你可以从每个人的身上学到很多东西。每个人都有自己的闪光点，你都可以在别人身上学到东西。并且在你受委屈的时候有人陪你。男人常说女人的天性就是嫉妒，女人之间是没有真正友谊的。其实，如果你是女生，如果你在大学期间有那么几个密友，你就会从心里反对这种说法。

八、一定要生活得精彩一点。你不喜欢课堂，那可以去参加学校的活动，去学生会，去社团；你不喜欢校园生活，那可以多参加一些社会实践，多打工，多锻炼一下自己。千万不要认为别人说你文静是在夸你，说白了就是说你这人很闷，很无趣，也许你男朋友会很喜欢你的恬静，但社会不会认同你，你只有充分的将自己最美最有活力的一面展现出来，才是最好的。也不要太过于的张扬，你可以因为年轻而活泼，但你没有资本嚣张，过于张扬与跋扈，只会显得太肤浅。20岁的女生不要有40岁女人的老沉，就算你想装，你也没资本可装，因为你那苍白的阅历让你的眼睛里面没内容；同样20岁的女生也不要还沉浸在12岁的时候一样，你已经过了幼稚时期，不要故意装可爱，一定要懂得对自己说过的话付责任。

九、一定要培养两种自己真正感兴趣的爱好。也许你中学时是只懂得埋头学习的乖乖女，或者你喜欢跳舞，妈妈却偏要你弹钢琴。现在好了，有的时间自己支配，一定要好好的利用，一个星期抽2、3个晚上，好好的学一下自己想学的东西，兴趣是最好的老师，我相信只要你喜欢，一定可以学得很快，画画、拉丁、舍宾、健美操、芭雷、游泳、网球甚至跆拳道、空手道、搏击操、武术都可以，只要你喜欢就好，最好有机会的话一定都要接触一下。

十、一定要听家里人的话。这个世界上，永远都对你好，不会背叛你的，就是和你有血缘关系的父母和你的孩子。父母永远是站在你的立场为你考虑事情，并且他们有丰富的人生经验，知道什么是该做的，什么是不该做的。不要嫌他们老土，不要嫌他们什么都不懂。他们才是最爱你的人，才是最关心你的人。不要在受伤害了，心痛了，没地方可去了才想起回家，才习惯性的想到他们。永远要记住，在你难受的同时，他们的心有可能正在滴血。特别因为你是女生，他们更不放心你。他们最怕的就是自己的女儿在外面受到伤害，最怕的就是女儿不

开心，不快乐。他们也许不在乎你有多大多大的成就，他们只在乎你的健康，只在乎从小被骄宠的你，有没有好好照顾自己，有没有因为起晚了而忘记吃早饭，有没有因为减肥而不好好补充营养，有没有......总之，在拥有青春美丽、神采飞扬的同时一定要在心里不断的提醒自己：学会放弃，拒绝诱惑。

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