第一篇:中西方时间观念差异 英文
The concept of time(时间观念)
①In china,words and phrases about time are very general.For example,if you date with someone, most of Chinese used to answer: in the afternoon /at night/after a while and so on.But in western, people have a very strong concept of time.If you date with a foreigner, they will ask you the Specific time, such as: what time should we meet?
②In Chinese dating, people would like to come in advance and they think its represent respect and politeness.Westerners like come to the dating place on time or a few minutes late, which can give each other fully time to prepare and the enough private space.They think that arriving on time shows people have good education.Otherwise he will be regarded as unreliable or is not responsible for the other people.
第二篇:中西方婚礼差异_英文1
A: Good morning everyone, This class we are going to discuss about the difference Between Chinese and western wedding.First, who can tell me something about Chinese wedding.B: I think I know something about Chinese wedding.China is different from the wedding on the West, the entire wedding's main colours are red, this is also the representative of the traditional Chinese festivity colours.In the traditional wedding, the bride wearing red Luoyi general, wearing Fengguan, still above a red scarf.While the groom wearing red long gown mandarin jacket, wearing a red cap along.bride rode in the red, the groom on horseback in front, with Yingqing teams to the groom's house in Baitang.After baiting , The bride and groom will enter the bridal chamber.This is all I know about Chinese wedding.A: Good job, next let me tell you something about western wedding.Western wedding is a romantic type, the whole wedding from start to finish to the full of romantic.The bride's dress is generally white, the groom is black dress so that the whole wedding was the solemn seriousness.Marriage to the church to the whole wedding ceremony is the most important link.First, as the wedding march rhythm, the bride pull her father's hands go before the groom by her father she personally delivered the hands of the groom.pastor will ask the bride and groom on the other side to make a lifetime commitment, this is the climax of the whole wedding.then they will be priests and the blessing of everyone, exchanged marriage rings and kiss each other.The bride spent the hands of the ball were not ordinary furnishings.At the end of the wedding, the bride would throw the female guests arrived at the scene, who received curd, who is a married person, which makes the entire ceremony be heard laughing in the end..we know something about Chinese and western
Wedding,.Who can tell me the difference between Chinese and western wedding? B: I think the difference between Chinese and western wedding is Western wedding is pure romantic, and China is happy wedding;Western wedding is feeling valued, and China values the ceremony.In the West because of their different customs, have also formed their own characteristics wedding customs.Though, have different customs, but no matter where the wedding was all full of blessings
第三篇:中西方婚礼差异_英文
Western wedding is a romantic type, the whole wedding from start to finish to the full of romantic.The bride's dress is generally white, the groom is black dress so that the whole wedding was the solemn seriousness.Marriage to the church to the whole wedding ceremony is the most important link.First, as the wedding march rhythm, the bride pull her father's hands go before the groom by her father she personally delivered the hands of the groom.pastor will ask the bride and groom on the other side to make a lifetime commitment, this is the climax of the whole wedding.then they will be priests and the blessing of everyone, exchanged marriage rings and kiss each other.The bride spent the hands of the ball were not ordinary furnishings.At the end of the wedding, the bride would throw the female guests arrived at the scene, who received curd, who is a married person, which makes the entire ceremony be heard laughing in the end.China is different from the wedding on the West, the entire wedding's main colours are red, this is also the representative of the traditional Chinese festivity colours.This change will enable the wedding jubilation.In the traditional wedding, the bride wearing red Luoyi general, wearing Fengguan, still above a red scarf.While the groom wearing red long gown mandarin jacket, wearing a red cap along.Palanquin bride rode in the red, the groom on horseback in front, with matchmaking and Yingqing teams to the groom's house in Baiting.Parents sitting on the two sides appear, and appear next married bride and groom.Entire wedding presided over by the master of ceremonies, in his command , a bride and groom Bastinade, Xiabai GAO Tang, and then a husband and wife Baidoa, into the bridal chamber.Noisy wedding is the climax of wedding, the bride and groom first to wait for the wedding, the groom and guests on the outstanding hospitality, Jiujufanbao, in a lot of the groom greeted came to the wedding.everybody started Noisy wedding, the bride and groom all stirred up trouble in the next game…… do all this in a whole wedding laughter ended.By studying the differences between Chinese and Western wedding, I understand their characteristics: Western wedding is pure romantic, and China is happy wedding;Western wedding is feeling valued, and China values the ceremony.In the West because of their different customs, have also formed their own characteristics wedding customs.Though, have different customs, but no matter where the wedding was all full of blessings and laughter.Difference between Chinese and western weeding Foreign Wedding Customs Wedding Location and Wear
Wedding process The wedding ceremony hold in a church or outdoor in a western country The bride will wearing a white wedding gown and holding a bouquet of flowers in her right hand.The wedding process of westerns To the church wedding ceremony is the most important aspects of the wedding.First of all, with the rhythm of the wedding march, the bride of her father's harness hands before the groom came from her father that she personally handed the hands of the bridegroom.pastor will ask the bride and groom to make a lifetime commitment to each other, and this is the climax of the wedding.and then they will be priests and to the people's blessing, exchange of marriage rings and kiss each other.到教堂去举行结婚仪式是整个婚礼最重要的环节.首先,随着婚礼进行曲的节奏,新娘挽她的父亲的手走到新郎面前,由她的父亲将她亲手交到新郎手中.牧师会要求新郎新娘对对方作出一辈子的承诺,这也是整个婚礼的高潮.然后他们会在牧师和众人的祝福下,交换结婚戒指并亲吻对方。Bride appearance
The bride is seen walking down the aisle, leaning on her father’s elbow.All eyes turn to her as she slowly moves forward to take her place beside the bridegroom in front of the clergyman.A promise to each other From this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, will you love her, comfort her, honors and protect her, forsaking all others, be faithful to her, as long as you both shall live? The exchange of rings Through the bouquet Large party
The introduction of Chinese weddings
Wedding Location: Spacious courtyards or restaurant Wedding Dress: the dominant tone is red Bride: a chaplet and official robes(凤冠霞帔)Bridegroom: Kama brown take(状元服)The wedding process of Chinese
After riding in the red bridal bride, the groom rode in front, with the matchmaker, and the Bridal teams to groom the family weddings.Both parents sit on the court, while the bride and groom were married the next hall.The whole wedding presided over by the master of ceremonies, under the command of his , a bride and groom preparing for the wedding, and worshiped Diocese, then husband and wife worship, into the bridal chamber.新娘乘着大红花轿在后,新郎骑着马在前,随着红娘和迎亲队伍到新郎家中拜堂.双方家长坐在堂上,而新郎新娘在堂下成婚.整个婚礼由司仪主持,在他的指挥下,新郎新娘一拜天地,二拜高堂,然后夫妻对拜,送入洞房.fetch the bride(迎亲)花轿bride's sedan Wedding process music and firecrackers(鞭炮、爆竹).Wedding Ceremony 一拜天地
bow to the heaven and earth.二拜高堂
bow to their parents 夫妻对拜
bow to each other Offer a cup of tea Give red envelopes Lucky money 食酒婚桌wedding banquet Lucky candy
Wine drunk at a wedding feast 入洞房Go to the bridal chamber 鬧洞房: To tease the new couple Play some tricks
第四篇:中西方餐桌礼仪差异分析 英文
There are many difference in Chinese and western table manner , but which tings lead to these difference, There may be three aspects.Different cultural connotations,different ways of thinking ,different values.Now I will explain how the values make the culture different.The value is the deepest level in the culture , is used to evaluate the behavior things by members in society, and select the most suitable principle in a few possible targets, that is the theme of culture.Therefore every country and society use the same value which is recognized.The table manners behaved by the people is a microcosm of their value.Such as China , a country which emphasize “filial” “loyalty” reflect the value of collectivism.When we eat dinner ,we can find that Chinese people emphasize that caring the young, respecting the old.So the arrangement of the seat is regularly.In western countries , the values of individualism plays an important role.People use their own values.Embodies their personal energy This is because in Western philosophy, people tend to focus on individualism, personality development and self-expression.They believe that if one can not achieve the goal , that is not destiny ,but their laziness and lack of struggle spirit..It can be seen through the dining system, each of them eat t food on their own plate and choose their favourite food.and the scene that eating the food that hosts provide will not appear.
第五篇:中西方文化在婚姻观念上的差异
中西方文化在婚姻爱情观念上的差异
中西方有着不同的文化传承,这影响到社会的方方面面。直到二十一世纪的今天,现代社会仍然与传统文化有着千丝万缕无法割断的联系。婚姻爱情观也是文化的一部分,中西方的婚姻爱情观有着极大的不同,可比性极强。
一、中西方爱情观不同的表现 1.追求爱情的自由度
在中国封建社会,婚恋的顾虑和干涉颇多,特别注意门当户对,女子是否有德有貌,男子是否有才有功名。这样一来男女双方的爱情就绝非单纯的爱情了,其中掺和了许多门第功名等与封建社会政治制度相关的因素。
西方人表现在爱情观上就是“探究”心态。特征是爱独立自由,喜欢探究新奇,乐于冒险进取。男女在择偶上不管年龄大小、相貌美丑,不管是否已婚,只要能达到探究上的满足,一切都无所顾忌。而且西方人觉得恋爱是自己的事,不应受过多约束。2.爱情的表达方式
中国男女表达爱情的方式都是含蓄、拘谨、谨慎的。文学作品中的男女经常用日用物品如绢帕、团扇、玉簪等求爱,或者用谐音寓意的东西,如莲子(怜子)、青丝(思)、红豆等表达心意,在伦理道德监管下中国人无法明确地用言语当面求爱。而只得求助于有爱情隐含意义的物品或者其他暗示行为。
西方人表达爱情的方式就显得直露、开放。有时甚至是异常狂热、不顾一切的。人们可以公开谈论自己的感情,社会舆论对此也予以容忍和支持。人们在个人生活中对自己倾心的对象往往公开表露爱意。而没有太多道德上的顾忌。
二、中西方婚姻观不同的表现
(一)结婚目的的差异
所谓婚姻目的,即男女双方想经由建立婚姻关系的方式而达到某种预期的结果。
中国传统的婚姻目的是为家庭而非爱情。一方面是通过联姻合两大家族之优势,扩大亲属同盟,即“结缘”;另一方面是为了男性家庭继承家庭的血统,传宗接代,即“继统”。当然,在现今的中国社会中,这种传统的婚姻目的受到了极大的冲击。男女青年往往选择“爱情至上”的婚姻。但是在中国这样一个极富传统的社会,要使爱情变为婚姻的主要目的,仍然不是一件简单的事情。
西方人的婚姻目的:其一是坠入爱河的恋人希望恋情有个完满的结果;其二,寻找长久的异性生活伴侣,从而使自己在生理上心理上的需要得到满足。在个人主义极为流行的西方社会中,结婚只是两个个体的结合。而结婚的基础是爱情和两性相悦。在他们看来:没有爱情的婚姻是不道德的婚姻,低质量的婚姻。由此可见,追求真爱乃是绝大多数西方人最重要的婚姻目的。因此,我们说西方人的结婚,是个人的权利;中国人的结婚,更像是对家庭的一种义务。
(二)择偶标准的差异
由于婚姻目的的不同致使中西方文化在择偶的标准上也存在显著的差异。从中国传统的择偶标准来看,最要紧的是身家清白和门当户对。身家清白,往往是男方对女方要求的条件。父母替儿子选媳妇,首先调查清楚女方是否属于本分人家,因为他们认定只有这样人家出身的姑娘将来才可恪守妇道,孝敬公婆,使家庭和睦。至于门当户对,则更是中国传统社会的家长替子女择偶特别讲究的条件。在中国古典的爱情小说中,穷秀才和富家小姐的相爱总会遭到最强烈的阻挠;而贫家女想嫁入豪门只能给人做侧室或偏房。现今中国青年男女的择偶标准,虽然不一定严格恪守身家清白和门当户对的原则,但是仍然受到这一原则的影响。
西方人的择偶标准和我们实在有很大的差异。西方人的择偶标准,最主要是两个人的互相契合,其余的条件像家庭背景、教育程度等因素则可以不在考虑之列。因此,一位出身富贵之家的少女在寻觅如意郎君的过程中,很有可能会选择与自己阶级背景相差悬殊的小伙子,其原因可能仅仅是因为被小伙子的幽默感吸引。西方童话中王子与灰姑娘的浪漫爱情故事在西方现实生活中也时有发生。英国的查尔斯王子之所以最终选择出身、相貌普通的不能再普通的卡米拉作为自己的爱人,正是因为两人有着契合的性格和共同的爱好。
(三)婚姻中的夫妻关系
传统的中国婚姻中,丈夫往往在婚姻中处于主导地位,而妻子则是处于从属地位。这种婚姻结构是由于传统的文化分工造成的,即“男主外、女主内”的文化分工。丈夫是一家之主,是全家的顶梁柱,承担着家庭生活的主要经济责任;而妻子的任务是管理家务,侍奉公婆,相夫教子。现代的中国社会,男女在婚姻中的地位差距不似以前那么悬殊。如今,女性走出了家庭的圈子,参与社会工作,保持在经济上的相对独立。但即便如此,大部分的妻子仍需要或愿意在不同程度上依附于自己的丈夫。改革开放以后,人们的经济条件较以往有很大的提高,不少妻子回到家中做全职主妇,完全由丈夫供养。对于这些全职太太们,人们总是投以羡慕的目光,称赞她们有福气;但对于社会中出现的极为个别的全职丈夫的情况,大家总是投以鄙视的目光,认为男人围着锅台转是很没骨气的。
西方人则认为婚姻中的男女应是一种平等的关系。西方工业革命以来,工业社会对劳动力需求的增长促使妇女进入劳动力市场。妇女投身到家庭以外越来越多的领域参加工作、参与交往,由于重新获得为家庭做出经济贡献的机会,妇女们自然要求自身地位的相应提高。因此,轰轰烈烈的妇女解放运动在西方社会遍布起来。这些女权运动提出了“男女平等,妇女解放”的纲领,要求妇女在社会中与家庭里取得与男子同等的地位,使妇女从传统的习惯、观念和价值观中解脱出来,实现真正的平等。在西方,妻子和丈夫均可在外谋职,共同承担家庭的经济责任。家中的大小事情均由夫妻二人共同商定。对于纷繁的家务琐事,夫妻也共同承担。对于照顾孩子的责任,双方也要共同分担。妻子无需为照顾孩子而放弃自己的职业角色,丈夫也需承担抚养教育孩子的责任,夫妇同时承担双亲身份,不再有父、母在与子女关系中角色的分担和隔离。
三、原因分析 1.民族文化
中华民族是以自给自足的农业文化为基础的。其基本特征是向内调适。由于生产力低下,人们在严峻的自然面前只能千方百计地调整自己来顺应它,由此形成了一种“天人合一”向内调试的心态。这种心态向社会其他领域渗透的结果,则必然产生竭力缓解、调和各种社会矛盾冲突的倾向。西方文化则是以古希腊的商业文化为基础的。其具有以个人或民族为中心的向外扩张性的特征,它要求人们要勇敢地迎接冲突或主动挑起冲突,在冲突中争取闪光诱人的未来。
这种不同民族的文化积淀反映在追求爱情的自由度上,特别是当爱情受外界阻挠的时候,中西方男女有不同的行为反应。中国的男女恋人如梁山伯与祝英台为自己的命运而抗争所采取的行动往往是被动的、极其可怜的,甚或采取“忍”、“让”的态度以缓和矛盾。而最终换来的却是自身爱情的悲剧;与之相反,西方男女如罗密欧与朱丽叶为追求自己的爱情自由、婚姻美满所采取的行动往往是主动、坚决、剧烈而又毫不妥协的。2.社会开放程度与女子地位
中国古代社会开放程度不高,不鼓励男女自由见面、交往和恋爱,且女子地位低下。比男子更不自由,因此男女在追求恋爱的时候顾虑多、压力大,自由恋爱成功的可能性很小。婚姻只能听从家族或父母的安排。自己没有自由挑选的权利和条件。而西方男女交往相对自由得多,社会尊重自由恋爱,家庭干涉少。
中国受儒家的影响,男尊女卑是天经地义的,而且女子被看成与“小人”一样“难养”。儒家文化压制妇女,在婚姻恋爱的问题上,妇女没有选择的自由,封建正统派强调 “三从四德”,“男女授受不亲”等,妇女被套上沉重的精神枷锁。而西方受骑士之风的影响,认为尊敬女子是荣耀的事,妇女在家庭社会中的地位相对较高,作为爱情生活的主角,妇女享有较大的自由。3.民族性格
中西方有不同的民族性格,这是与各自的政治、经济、思想意识结构紧密相联的。
20世纪前的中国具有产生依附人格、奴化人格的文化背景。政治上强调的是个体对国家的单纯义务和无条件绝对服从,政治不平等;经济上小农经济造成中华民族普遍依赖自然力、屈从自然力的心态;思想上由于儒家的那套完整严密的伦理道德体系,形成了极端僵化与一统化的思想意识结构,造就了成批的顺民、忠臣、孝子、节妇。
西方人拥有热情、奔放、坚决、毫不妥协的独立人格,原因在于:政治上古希腊民主政治的传统及资本主义制度的确立,达到了政治上的相对平等;经济上立足于个人之上的古希腊商业经济和近代西方大规模的资本主义经济,达到了经济上的自主;思想上思想家依据各自独立的价值判断能力进行自由选择和发现,形成了思想创造的自由化、多元化。
四、结论和启示
通过对中西方婚姻爱情观的比较可以看出,中西方婚姻爱情观相差甚远:西方人重视恋爱。中国人重视婚姻而轻视恋爱。其背后有深刻的原因,如民族文化、民族性格、社会开放程度等的迥然不同。
中国传统文化中的婚姻爱情观在经历了两千多年的发展之后已经逐渐落伍僵化,难以适应现代社会中人们对婚恋自由的要求。它已很难使两性之间在平等和相互尊重的基础上发展真挚的感情。爱情是一个民族充分发挥潜能的保证和体现,中国文化需要一种健康向上、积极有为的婚姻爱情观。需要一种能够保证两性共同感情基础的婚姻爱情观。这是西方文明给我们带来的冲击和反思,我们可以借鉴西方婚姻爱情观中的积极成分,如重视恋爱,重视恋人间的言语沟通,男女都主动追求幸福的爱情生活,同时结合中国婚姻爱情观中的重视婚姻家庭的稳定性、和谐性,体贴照顾配偶及家庭等观念,最后形成一套适合当代中国自身的新型婚姻爱情观。