父母溺爱孩子现象英语

第一篇：父母溺爱孩子现象英语

To love or to spoil

There is no denying that the parents are loving their children, but the way to express the love is different from person to person.From two pictures, the parents provide what the child wants to have at the first time.I think that is not a true love.For many years, the “one couple, one child” policy has been carried out in China and it has proved to be an effective way to control the rapid

growth of the population in our country.The only child becomes the center of the family.Many parents spoil their children and ignore the education which is truly benefit for their children„s growing.when the spoiled children grow up, many of them greatly disappoint their parents.Some of them even commit crimes.Who should be blamed? I think parents should teach their children to bear hardships and tell them the correct way to communicate with others.Only by correct education, can the children be useful in the future.as is shown/indicated/illustrated by the figure/percentage in the _____ has been on rise/ decrease(goesup/increases/drops/decreases),significantly/dramatically/steadily rising/decreasing from______ in _______ to ______ in _____.From the sharp/marked decline/ rise in the chart, it goes withoutThere are at least two good reasons accounting for ______.On the one hand, ________.On the other hand, _______ is due to the fact that ________.In addition, ________ is responsible for _______.Maybe there are some other reasons to

show ________.But it is generally believed that the above mentioned reasons are commonly convincing.As far as I am concerned,I hold the point of view that _______.I am sure my opinion is both sound and well-grounded.

第二篇：英语作文素材：有关父母溺爱孩子

有关父母溺爱孩子的话题

Parents love their children by nature, where Chinese mothers and fathers are no exceptions.Chinese parents tend to dote on their children because each family is allowed to have only one kid due to birth control.They place too much hope on the treasured child that if he wants the star, they might even climb to pick it.For self-centered, the spoiled children depend on their parents for everything.As a result, once confronted with harsh reality, they are more likely to yield to hardships and difficulties in life.

第三篇：英语四级作文父母对孩子溺爱

Nowadays many parents have a common sense that their children are so precious to them so they always try their best to give their children a happy and meaningful life.Therefore, an increasing number of parents spoil their children and do everything for them, even control their life.For example, many children have to obey their parent' s idea about which school they should go into after they graduating;some children must go to art class like dancing, piano and paint even though they have no interest in them;what' s more, some strict parents even involve children' s freedom about what friends they should make.On one hand, these parents care and protect their children, however, on the other hand they may do harm to their children.As far as I am concerned, in is necessary that parents should give their children more space and freedom so that their children may become more independent.For instance, children could do something they like, so they may be much more active and responsible.What' s more, it is also a good way to let their children study in a boarding school for children must face something by their own, such as, their relationship with friends and student, their study and busy life and so on.A good case in point, parents may encourage their children to take part-time jobs during summer or winter holiday.By doing this, I believe, these children may become more independent, brave and responsible.In summary, spoiling children is no right.Parents should know better that an independent, responsible and brave person is able to adapt society better.

第四篇：爷爷奶奶溺爱孩子咋办

爷爷奶奶溺爱孩子咋办？

在我们家中，由于我和孩子爸爸都是上班族，时间、精力不够，孩子平时就由我的父母帮着照顾着。爷爷、奶奶和父母是两代人，除了在年龄上有较大的差异外，思想、爱好、生活习惯等，都存在很大差距。再加上年轻的父母由于现在社会竞争激烈，生存压力增大，总会不自觉地把紧张气氛带入家庭，希望孩子也能早早地适应社会、适应竞争。而相对于退休在家，拥有相对平和的心态的爷爷奶奶们，他们则更多的希望孩子能拥有轻松快乐的童年。爷爷奶奶爱孩子是无可厚非的，但爱要有个度，过分的宠爱就成了溺爱。所以，在理解和肯定对方的基础上，我觉得父母和爷爷奶奶还应在以下几点保持一致。

1.不偏袒孩子，不娇惯孩子 在孩子做错事情时，全家的态度必须保持一致，不能偏袒孩子，娇惯孩子。孩子是很会察言观色，当他看到家庭成员之间出现分歧时，他就会聪明地钻空子。这不仅对改善他的行为毫无益处，反而会导致他的问题越来越严重，甚至带来更多别的问题。

2.孩子能做的事，绝不代劳

事事都为孩子代劳，久而久之，会打消孩子做事的积极性。孩子做些力所能及的事，会让他感觉自己被承认。一些最基本的生活自理能力在今后的生活中是无人能替他代劳一辈子的，所以在日常生活中，培养孩子自我服务能力和劳动习惯是非常重要的。

3.不能无条件满足孩子的每一个要求

我们应学会拒绝孩子的无理要求。当他知道撒娇和无礼取闹没意义时，就不会再这么做了，不要让孩子养成无理取闹和撒娇的习惯。如果孩子想得到某件玩具，并且要求不是很过分时，可让孩子付出一定的努力再满足他，比如，让他打扫卫生“挣”钱。如果他长期轻而易举地就能得到自己想要的，他将不会懂得珍惜和来之不易。

孩子任性也好，有某些不良行为也好，虽然与老人的溺爱、娇惯有关，但父母首先看到的应是自己未尽教子责任的一面，世间没有任何人能替代父母对孩子的教育。所以，父母应尽最大努力和老人沟通，说服老人在育儿中和自己保持一致，只要大人之间态度一致，孩子一定会往好的方向发展。

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第五篇：父母越溺爱孩子越叛逆 12种溺爱表现你有几种

父母越溺爱孩子越叛逆 12种溺爱表现你有几

种？

对于多数独生子女家庭来说，培养孩子的独立人格实属不易。以下表现不是每个家庭全部都有，但是一般家庭在各种溺爱中会占有几种，或各种都有轻度表现也是值得警惕的，我们要以科学的爱来保护孩子的健康成长。

“孩子还小，等他(她)长大了再„„”这是很多爸爸妈妈或爷爷奶奶爱说的话，这就是溺爱的常见表现之一——放任自由。湖北儿童心理专家石淑华指出，溺爱行为表现为有求必应(孩子想要什么就给什么)、害怕哭闹(孩子一哭就满足他的要求)、越俎代庖(成人包办所有事，无论孩子自己能不能做)、心领神会(大人猜测小孩的心思)、过分关注(大人围着小孩子转)、小题大做(小疼痛大人当是大事紧张得不得了)、不让劳动(将劳动当成惩罚或不让孩子劳动)、赏识过度(表扬过度)、当面袒护、惩罚不当、剥夺独立(总觉得不放心，觉得孩子必须得到陪护)。

“这12种溺爱的表现，若存在超过8种，就要警惕了，说明家长存在溺爱，对孩子将来的发展不利。”石淑华称，放任自由会养成孩子不好的习惯，长大了再改很难；有求必应势必导致孩子将来自私任性，得到再多也觉得理所当然；家长害怕孩子哭闹，孩子就会以哭作为达到目的的工具而屡试不爽；越俎代庖下，孩子随着年龄增长的能力就会被扼杀；家长爱心领神会，孩子平时不用表达自己想法，智力发展就会滞后；过分关注孩子，一旦失去关注，孩子就容易沮丧、心理不平衡；小题大做让孩子认为小事都是不得了的大事；不让劳动让孩子变成懒人，小时候不勤快，别指望长大了会变勤快；赏识过度会让孩子非奖赏不作为；当面袒护让孩子是非不分；剥夺独立，该放手时不放手，孩子就会有依赖性，扼杀了孩子的潜力。